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Submitted by youandme123 Location: All India (All India, India)

I have asked this to many married guys how do they enjoy with their partner, what all do they do but most of them feel offended. I really want to know how married life *** with wife is different from gay ***.

1. What do you enjoy the most wid her.

2. What is the difference you find in gay ***.

Please share your experiences.

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Apb
Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 04:43 AM

@ Edward75
Yes,,true and also married men once their family is out of station, or he is traveling to out station, just think of Batchelor life,, and with his old or new friends trys batchelor party , and does all naughty things in bed and out of bed,,, and i heard my friend saying, ," Hey I am again Batchelor,, for 48 hours with place, come and bring your friends👭👬👫 "" That was memorable moments still I recalling.

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AvinasK
Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 05:46 AM

I am 28 stright boy from Ahmedabad, Gujarat. Married from last 4 years but my wife never *** my *** and she never ready for ***. So i am ready for make some relation with Gay Bottom boy, they easily *** *** nicely compare with girls and everytime ready for ***....

And *** is very tight and fit compare of ***

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Baadshah Bhai
Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 07:23 AM

Married guy is much more experienced about the Position and they also know very well that how to treat and how to do it ..

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vj2448
Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 07:24 AM

i am 40, its been 12 years i have married. doesnt mean i dont enjoy with my wife however, i have started enjoying this side. It started with massage .... now i am almost addicted to taking sensous massage

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Peachypie
Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 08:32 AM

@badshahbhai... i completely agree with you that married guy is more experienced about the position. they know the art of lovemaking and the older the better. because they dont rush for anything and knows how make love.
@vj2448 yes you are right. once you get inloved in it you will enjoy it and it will give you more pleasure as its something different from which you are used to since lst 12 years.

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Peachypie
Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 08:33 AM

@badshahbhai... i completely agree with you that married guy is more experienced about the position. they know the art of lovemaking and the older the better. because they dont rush for anything and knows how make love.
@vj2448 yes you are right. once you get inloved in it you will enjoy it and it will give you more pleasure as its something different from which you are used to since lst 12 years.

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Kss285
Posted On Mar 23, 2020 - 02:37 PM

Mostly married guys now a days have extra martial affairs in india and now it is not taboo topic as before...
And men is always hungry for *** *** *** and specially married guys,,, but in our society women mostly married after marriage the not careful any her self as before marriage, dressing make up or etc and going out, offended the live as house slave or servent to hubby n in laws,,, in between all this her desire for *** will die slowly...

In now a days guys want her wife also as best *** partner and do him bj,hj, roleplay,*** etc as complete *** partner... Here comes the conflict that our society women don't want to do all this ( ofcourse some liberal and open heart do it ) so mostly guys will search in extra martial affair for there *** desire and satisfaction...
Some with gays or some with girls or auntie.....

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Psychonomad
Posted On Mar 24, 2020 - 05:48 PM

I think gay guys who are married are looking for wicked perverse *** the idea of getting what they want from a bottom is more likely to happen than with prostitutes. Bottoms are way more fun and erotic than a cheap ***

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skilledmate
Posted On Mar 25, 2020 - 07:10 AM

@PureDomTop, pls dont ahead with marriage if u r contemplating.. *** is one of the most important things in a married relationship and if u r so un-satisfied, it will negatively impact every other aspect of ur married life.

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krishnan2020
Posted On Mar 25, 2020 - 07:30 AM

#skilledmate Well said

as a married man im saying if u not full fill with ur partner u face all sensational issues from her

she get more angry on u even for a small issues

But if u can satisfy her often she don't bother about ur hidden financial issues or somewhat

of course i would like to x with guys than girls but what to do as bi we can have fun with many guys but that will not work for wife's

we are (husband) only resource for them to break them stress by X

Thanakku pin thaan thanamum Dharmamum so try to satisfy ur partner at first even though u r not interested then go about fantasy

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Peachypie
Posted On Apr 8, 2020 - 06:38 PM

@psychononad. You are totally correct. Bots are way more interesting than cheap ***. Most of the tops have a bad behavioural attitude towards bots. Sees them as a waste. But let me
tell me great them with lil respect , pay attention to their likes and dislike and you will have best time of your life. Plus with a bot you can drink/ smoke as much as you can and want. Which you wouldbt be able to do with girls

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Edward75
Posted On Apr 9, 2020 - 11:04 PM

True there @apb, @pshcyonomad a straight guy can fulfil almost every fantasy with a submissive bottom that he can't with his wife or girlfriend or even a prostitute. And the best part is the bottom comes for free. You don't even have to pretend you like him or try to woo him 😍

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Guyforrelax
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 04:49 AM

Having a *** before or after marriage, both are cheating your spouse. So live your life as u like. It's better being in homosexual relationships with a married guy as they will care, love, treat well.

@Nayiim, now you also a cheater if u gonna marry, even u cheating your parents at your point of view

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therapist4all
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 07:02 AM

In my opinion and based on my experience as therapist whenever a married man is into extra marital affairs , straight, gay or bisexual, or even case of such woman, in most cases , may be around 70% or more his or her spouse is not satisfied and looking for similar relations. I always suggest my clients to call me for massage in presence of or within knowledge of his or her spouse...In many cases this has resulted into both becoming my clients. A cheating husband as well as cheating wife both are normally mentally prepared to accept extra affairs of their spouse if it remain private/secret with limited known partner. In my opinion therefore relations with married man or woman are safe for every one if dislosed to the extent possible. In few cases wives of my men clients at least know that I give him full body massage although other things not known or may be assumed. If not possible to disclose, then such relations need be totally hidden, private and less repetitive but never such that causes break up in their married life.

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Nayiim
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 08:33 AM

@guyforrelax What logic?! Marriage is an understanding between two individuals and when you sleep with others breaking the sanctity of marriage be it a guy or girl it's called Adultery or cheating. After you have taken the responsibility of commitment to your partner (wife) in front of society and God , you want to justify your acts ? Who cares if you are gay bi or whatever. You are violating your partner and cheating if you have *** outside marriage. Accept your fate after marriage and be faithful or tell your spouse you're an adulterer and divorce and sleep around .

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Marriedbi
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 10:35 AM

Omg guys, what are u thinking about marriage.

Please don't use words like adultery, cheaters etc

A married man has *** outside is his own personal interest and it is legal now be it a women or men as long as both the parties involved are in mutual constant. While this is the scenario who are you guys to comment oh him.

Moreover marriage is a commitment , yes we agree ..but can u point out any men who are only committed to partner and dont fantasizes about another girl or guy irrespective of their sexuality. However much he is committed to his wife, a straight men or bi will definitely enjoy when he gets a person and place without getting caught.
Managing both his personal desires n family his is capability and if he achieves both successfully simultaneously who are u to ask him questions . Have been going through this thread and thought if writing it for all people who has misconceptions about married men. Hope all married men would agree to my point


Finally a last question people are say that u wont get married and looking for a longterm partner, are u 100% confident that u wont lookfor fun outside after engaging or what is the assurance of confidence level that ur partner wont do it without u being aware.

Stop judging or commenting about people and just state ur point.

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Nayiim
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 10:38 AM

What's legal ? Adultery?

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Nayiim
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 10:41 AM

So if it's not cheating or adultery, do men here tell their spouses that they're going to sleep around and come back to her later ?
Or do you just hide it from your wife's and keep cheating her sexually ? If that's not adultery or cheating what is it called ?

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mayank_blr
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 03:55 PM

I think we should not be judgemental about all this. If you like it do it, or just say no.

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fifty
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 05:31 PM

Married bi, *** outside marriage was a crime under ipc only in case of a man who has *** with a married woman. Because the woman was supposed to be her husband's property.
The woman would not attract a punishment.
The court found this unequal and also that it was a civil matter and not criminal.

*** by a married person outside marriage is a valid ground for divorce. It is not legal like we say marriage is legal.

Again, to all those justifying *** outside marriage for a man; will you apply the same standards for a married woman? What is your stand on a married woman having *** outside marriage?

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Marriedbi
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 05:35 PM

What do u intent to say nayiim that u r not going to married and be with a single man is it. R u sure that ur partner will be 100% true to u or will u agree if he has fun with others. Dont be judgemental about others and dont be so blunt in expressing your views.if u dont like to have fun with married men then don't but u dont have to comment on there life.

Well said mayank. If u like do it or dont.

That's the point

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Marriedbi
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 05:42 PM

Fifty, you have given the answer for ur question in the first point itself, if married woman doesn't have *** outside then y ipc had made it civil. It is quite common.

Guys, the topic is diverting and it's an never ending contradiction as the opinion may vary person to person. What I like may look atrocity to u.

My point dont emphasize on adultery or cheating partner. It's the person choice and their way of living life. If u dont like , reserve ur comments and be away if u wish .

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Edward75
Posted On Apr 10, 2020 - 05:55 PM

Why such a big hullabaloo. If a man has needs he can't get from a female what do you want him to do. He will need an outlet. Now don't say go ***, really no. He Can satisfy his wife and get his satisfaction elsewhere why the hell not. Why are we labelling things here.

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fifty
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 01:21 AM

married bi, what was a criminal offence earlier - a man having *** with a married woman without her husband's consent. Who was the criminal - the man having *** with the married woman. Was the married woman a criminal - no. The law dictated that the woman could not be punished as an abettor. Instead, the man was considered to be a seducer. who could complain? - the married woman's husband.
Situation 2 - a married man has *** outside marriage. Unless it is with another married woman , no criminal offence. The wife does not have a recourse.

What did the judges say ? the law was archaic, arbitrary and unconstitutional. "Husband is not the master of wife. Women should be treated with equality along with men," "ancient notions of man being perpetrator and woman being victim no longer hold good". the law "perpetuates subordinate status of women, denies dignity, sexual autonomy, is based on gender stereotypes". the law sought to "control sexuality of woman (and) hits the autonomy and dignity of woman".

As I said, it may no longer be a criminal offence (for married men it was never), it is still a ground for divorce.
Narriage is vow to be loyal to your partner. If you want to have fun outside, it should be with consent of your spouse. Also you should be able to grant the same freedom to your spouse. Are you ready for that?

Some of you claimed that men having extra marital affair is common. If so whom are they having it with? Only unmarried , widowed or divorced women? No. So many of them will be having it with married women.


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Bemonami2
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 08:02 AM

I usually travel 6/7 days per month for work purpose. At home I satisfy my wife regularly and when touring I try to get indulge in gay activities regularly. I don’t feel bad either way.

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kunalver
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 08:10 AM

Don't be feel bad married guys.. life gives u one chance to live so enjoy both Life happy.. and guys who feel bad about this why u here go wid ur wife or partner

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Guyforrelax
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 08:51 AM

Then no men will be gay after his 30 years.
@nayiim, are you going to get married?
Then only you will think about your logics

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Shahidnaina *
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 09:36 AM

How will my wife provide me a d**k to *** and the full load of *** to have it in my *** and swallow it.. If someone who's calling this a crime and cheater for going for it please provide me the solution I will follow it. Thanks. . Regards a married bi bottom husband.. :)

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Adamguru
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 09:42 AM

See Mr.shahidnaina... Ji first u love and show ur care normal time also... Once u strong u slowly share ur thought to ur wife

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Shahidnaina *
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 09:44 AM

Yes @adamguru I did and will do in future as well.. And what if she doesn't understand it.. Should I stop what I am doing...

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vishaldev1
Posted On Apr 11, 2020 - 12:59 PM

To each one their own.

But if you're in a marriage or a committed relationship then it's important that you're open to your partner about what you're doing. While both sexuality and gender are fluid, and one may experience a change anytime. I believe that it's important that you're open about it in your relationship. Personally, if my partner isn't okay with it, I'd keep it on hold and not engage in it till my partner gives me a go ahead and vice versa.

It's not an easy solution, but if you aren't telling your partner or continuing to do it despite a no-go from your partner then I think that constitutes infidelity.

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exploreme
Posted On Apr 12, 2020 - 02:25 AM

guys, married guys are just sharing the restrictions. it does not mean that married guys are frustrated to the core in marriage. few posts are like as if those are trying to shower sympathy on married guys.


*** is just lust. marriage is more than that. don’t try to create a environment that marriage is jail.

thnx

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Adamguru
Posted On Apr 12, 2020 - 04:48 AM

Mmm Mr.shahidnaina I think some thing is better then nothing

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Lovelyraj2002
Posted On Apr 12, 2020 - 05:44 PM

Things have changed now married women wants to have affair and get sexually satisfied by other men.. for men they don't get women easily so they go for same ***

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Lovelyraj2002
Posted On Apr 12, 2020 - 05:49 PM

It's true in my case she likes other even I disclosed my desire and she did not mind

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JonasIndie
Posted On Apr 13, 2020 - 01:13 PM

Marriage is the best thing can happen to gay guys.

Single life is frustrating and gay marriages r utopian dream. I dont think gay ppl can marry n stay like a str8 ppl

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Nayiim
Posted On Apr 13, 2020 - 07:40 PM

Give a hundred excuses for yourself and sugarcoatings with lies for self consoling, the truth will not change . Marriage is a bond between two individuals , of which includes being faithful to each other sexually. And when of the partner breaks this bond without the other partner's knowledge it's called "cheating your partner" or "Adultery". I'm not even stating marriage here is between a man & woman , it could be marriage between man & man , woman & woman , whatever it is , marriage is a contract between two individuals to remain faithful to each other. And in the terms of marriage if either of the partner sleeps with another 'without knowledge' it's cheating or adultery. Heck even a wife could be sleeping around with another man or a woman without your knowledge and it's still called cheating or adultery. Plain and simple.
As for gay men who married straight women , they have violated her life by entering into marriage itself. If you have so much desire for sexual pleasure why did you MARRY an opposite *** ? Don't give me your loser excuses like society pressures and religion etc when you don't have the guts to face it, it doesn't give you the authority to violate your partner's entire life. It's not a joke !
If you have bowed to societal pressure to marry , keep bowing to it's pressures and continue your marriage. But that doesn't give you the authority to cheat your wife with another man, c'mon what's the whole point of bowing to society's pressure??!! Lol


As for those who are so concerned about my marriage? I am not going to marry a person who I cannot be faithful with , especially I would never ever think of marriage to the opposite *** as I'm homosexual. The whole farce of marrying an innocent female who I have no intention to sleep with ridicules my morale. And in now way shall I bend to any excuses which contradict my morals or violates another person's life.


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therapist4all
Posted On Apr 14, 2020 - 05:46 AM

True and fair that once married, spouse should remain faithful to each other. But situation doesn't remain same through out life and one or both parts commit breach of whats expected.Suppse one of the two or both change their sexual orientation becomeing gay, lesbov or bisexual, one loosing interest in *** after certain age, one becoming unable to perform physical task etc. I m of the opinion that adultery does come to knowledge of other partner sooner or later...I always suggest my clients to have my services, even only massage too, with knowledge of their spouse or I avoid serving clients not doing so. Allow spouse, or even facilitate them to have relations they can enjoy if you are on different path and try to find way out not resulting I devorce or stressful life. Relations enjoyed without any fear only can give best pleasure of life

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letsfuck
Posted On Apr 14, 2020 - 07:29 AM

Well Said Nayiim ! I second you 100%. Someone finally belled the cat.

All the excuses given by married men to sleep around are fabricated reasons to be selfish.

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Padma
Posted On Apr 14, 2020 - 10:02 AM

I am married man but when any *** mi I am able to *** with my wife

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CluelessHubby
Posted On Apr 14, 2020 - 05:23 PM

As a single man, I held married rainbow folks in horrible judgement.

Then, Life put me in their shoes.

I now feel tempted to hold name-callers in horrible judgement, but I remember where I came from.

No two lives, no two snowflakes are the same.
But if I had the liberty of speaking from my gallery, an informed choice and sexual liberation is better than forcing oneself on a partner who will stonewall.

As long as no one is *** another, as long as no one is forcing another one, as long as one acknowledges this gap, but stands sincerely in all other duties of a spouse, everyone is entitled to their share of happiness, peace, not at someone's expense.

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Lovelyraj2002
Posted On Apr 14, 2020 - 05:37 PM

I agree with you everyone should have fun

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fifty
Posted On Apr 15, 2020 - 01:31 AM

cluelessHubby, does that everyone include the women folk? Or in their case, it is the men who will decide where their happiness and satisfaction lies and how much they need to know? Will the married man who wants freedom to enjoy his *** the way he likes it, grant the same freedom to his wife? (This question was asked by the character played by Shabana Azmi to her husband in the film Arth.)

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gautam008
Posted On Apr 15, 2020 - 05:06 AM

Everyone has their own definition of life, happiness and ***.
So be it.
No one is here to prove or justify anything to another.
Make sure u live this life .. at least u r happy at the end of the day.

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CluelessHubby
Posted On Apr 15, 2020 - 08:45 AM

A human body- of a man or a woman- is entirely theirs, and not the property of any other person. As long as no one is forcing anything upon anyone, as long as noone is bringing back any clinical consequences- I don't believe anyone's playing with Karma here.
What's right for a man is right for a woman. What's wrong for a man is wrong for a woman too.
The definitions of right and wrong have changed over thousands of years.
What the world accepts as right today, will be challenged 1000 years later.
What is considered wrong today, was the norm 1000 years ago.

Sahir Ludhianwi has said

Yeh paap hai kya, yeh punya hai kya?
Reeti par dharm ki mohren hain,
Har yug mein badalte dharmon ko,
Kaise aadarsh banaoge?

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fifty
Posted On Apr 16, 2020 - 05:24 AM

Marriage is not a relationship between just two bodies. Though that is the major part , it is much more than that. Imagine how will you feel, if you come to know that your partner has been having *** outside marriage.
If we want to become more progressive, open minded and individualistic, the way ahead is to talk about issues openly. Not do things behind one another's back. So the right path is to talk to your spouse before and after marriage about your needs and understand partners' needs too.

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VirginTop
Posted On Apr 17, 2020 - 11:34 PM

The right path is to stop getting into a marriage based on lies about your sexuality. Tell your parents that you are gay and don't ruin an innocent woman's life because you cannot say no to your parents.

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therapist4all
Posted On Apr 18, 2020 - 12:16 PM

True, before marriage if you know you are a gay, not interested in girls, you shouldn't marry..but many people become bisexual at later age of their married life....Normally gays get engaged with such married men. Its also not so easy to find out pure gay by another gay of his choice..age, look, education etc. Hence in relations with married guys only requirements of both parts are satisfied. I feel married one should first take care of his or her spouse by maintaining relations and/or giving space for and accepting similar relations in case of spouse..

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VirginTop
Posted On Apr 19, 2020 - 08:58 AM

No one "becomes" bisexual or gay. Also, if you realize that you are gay or bisexual after marriage, then be a man about it and tell your wife and parents and family. Get a divorce so that your wife is not miserable and humiliated. You can't have everything and you cannot torture your wife because you are ashamed to tell your family.

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Psychonomad
Posted On Apr 19, 2020 - 07:44 PM

Being bisexual is different its easy to say best of both worlds but the truth is you are more accepting whether you are in a marriage or in a relationship feeding your emotions and being truthful or loyal is ones choice you do what makes you feel alive...

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