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Submitted by youandme123 Location: All India (All India, India)

I have asked this to many married guys how do they enjoy with their partner, what all do they do but most of them feel offended. I really want to know how married life *** with wife is different from gay ***.

1. What do you enjoy the most wid her.

2. What is the difference you find in gay ***.

Please share your experiences.

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Posted On Dec 28, 2018 - 09:32 AM

i have been enoying performing orals be it men or women. I love to get my *** latched on to the *** after getting her bladder full hole my head tight in between her thighs and make her let out her golden stream into my *** making me tremble and gasp for breath. *** is at the end *** be it hetero or homo.

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Posted On Dec 28, 2018 - 10:01 AM

im divorce pure bttm i divorce for 10yrs bcause i m not man, bcause i have lots of problem in eretion, cumming i never attract to any women or girls, i always dream for males and now i m very happy that i m single and enjoy lots of *** with different males and there sizes ( ***). now i feel complete women feelings and happily leaving

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Posted On Dec 28, 2018 - 08:15 PM

I have been married for the past five years... But after a certain point *** with the same partner gets dull and boring. It becomes monotonous.

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Posted On Dec 29, 2018 - 11:22 AM

For the question 1. Definitely I like the act of *** in ***. Somewhere while *** a guy, an uneasy feeling of banging the *** is not there when you *** a woman. Also a food foreplay results in more natural lubrication from your partner. You need not reach out for a gel before you wanna act as in gay ***.

2. As for a difference, I have *** with wife because as a husband I am bound to make her happy. So at times it also becomes a responsibility but in my gay life that's not the case.

Never ever a woman's nude body attracted me but love does make magic. Learn to love ur wife and all things will fall in place. Still I prefer only men when it comes to a satisfying *** but that's my nature and I couldn't do nothing about it.

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Posted On Dec 31, 2018 - 02:04 PM

I am a bisexual. I have enjoyed *** both with women and men equally. We must not forget that at the end of the day both are human beings. The sexual acts that you perform very a little with women because they have two additional sexual organs, other than that nothing is different.

Set the mood. Play some light music if you can. Be clean, SAFE *** with Condoms inly please. I beleive the partners must be passionate about *** and love making and take the time to enjoy the company. Be respectable, be gentle and passionate. Connect with the partners and Enjoy every stroke. Let the *** last longer. I've had threesomes and groups with couples and gay tops and I've always told them to be passionate and enjoy for a ling time. Trust me the fun us amazing. The climax is super amazing.

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Posted On Dec 31, 2018 - 03:29 PM

Agree with @Valentine84. I too perform what my wife likes the most - *** nipples, cunnilingus...and lot of kissing.

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Posted On Jan 2, 2019 - 03:29 AM

Thanks guys for ur comments..
I think whn u r married , the *** act is more of soft n well mannered wid ur wife..d passion, aggression, wildness is missing in d act as u cannot sho dat Dirty Side of u in front of her..
On d oder hand ,wid guys, u r more free, willing to try anything and evrything, as ur gay partner is ready n responsive to ur evry Dirty n wild act...

Plz tell me if im Wrong..

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Posted On Jan 2, 2019 - 05:30 AM

Iam newly married just got married on 21st December last month...i am a bottom guy but no one knows about it and my parents made me marry ...i love to *** *** and drink the ***...and also used to have a nice top bf who left me as he dont like married bottom guys...i dnt know why and what made.him leave me....

And as per *** with wife ..i do daily 2 shots with her made her *** me too...but my *** isnt very big its just 5 inches..and my wife is a heavy one with big thigs and ***...some times she her self makes her *** up to take my *** in her full...

I never had *** with ladies before marriage..but now i feel i love *** and *** both so may be iam versatile now...but a big juicy *** is always what i crave haha

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Posted On Jan 2, 2019 - 05:13 PM

I actually am a bi, in the sense, i get attracted to women too ( choosy though). But in terms of inclination, it definitely is towards men.(Needless to say, being a bottom :):):)

At home, initiative would be more out of call of duty, but once into it, i pull it off well .And so far, coitus in marital life had been without qualms :):):)

But yes, it is quiet a task to play roles contradictory in nature( Top at home and bottom in M2M) . It Should be dealt with care and finesse

One should realize the fact that we are naturally this way and trying to change it isn't going to work. I agree, it is easier done when you are a Bi and put up a decent show in bed at home too.
Otherwise,it's easier said than done and i empathize.

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Posted On Jan 2, 2019 - 06:05 PM

i agree...it is quiet a task to play roles contradictory in nature( Top at home and bottom in M2M) . It Should be dealt with care and finesse

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Posted On Jan 4, 2019 - 08:15 AM

i am bi and married for last 38 years. we are enjoying our life to the fullest. i had been dirty also wit wife. Love her.
other side i am bottom and love action fully.
it is the rapport with the partner. she does not know about this life.

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Posted On Jan 5, 2019 - 05:32 PM

I am bottom. My parents were forcing me to get married but I wasn't sure if I will be bale to have *** with a woman. I tried with my best friend(girl). It was awful. I didn't like it at all.I couldn't get hard at all.She tried her best but it was useless..So I told mt parents that I wasn't ready for the marriage. They kept pressurizing so I a took a job in Europe and left my house. I call them once in 15 days and threaten to never call them and ghost on them if they bring the marriage up topic.
I am wondering how does bottom guys get a hard on to *** a woman?.. I sure have a problem so I am never gonna get married to a woman :-)

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Posted On Jan 6, 2019 - 02:31 AM

Sandeep, that is not a problem. You dont have any attraction for a female body. Thats it. You need to accept it and move on.

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Posted On Jan 6, 2019 - 08:24 AM

Like many said.. its all about love. I am married and have inclination towards men. Not attracted to all girls like i get attracted to men.. but love makes magic.. sometimes while having *** i imagine about the guy with whom i would like to have *** and it makes me ***.
In reality i dont have any connection with guys with whom i can have fun. Its the fantasy and dreams that i live with and use it while having *** at home.

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Posted On Jan 6, 2019 - 02:34 PM

answering to blueboys, you need not to do anything else. however you are a bi and convince your wife to have 3some is MMF and invite some strong versatile top who is healthy so that both of you can enjoy and mainly, your wife will not peep somewhere else and desert you in future.....it is the wisest as it is practical too

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Posted On Jan 11, 2019 - 02:50 AM

@newly married not - my advise to you is whether you liked it or, you are now married. Having other interests or checking other options now will only spoil your future. Give the family the time required. For all you know your likings may change and you will be able settled down well. Think about it and do the right thing. Don't say my wife is fat not attractive etc. She is yours and learn to love what is yours...

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Posted On Jan 11, 2019 - 07:56 AM

What sort of advise is it to convince the wife to have MMF threesome? Isn't it better to convince her for divorce and she can have a better future?

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Posted On Jan 11, 2019 - 11:14 AM

Marriage has a certain meaning and identity, and that cannot be diluted

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Posted On Jan 11, 2019 - 04:29 PM

My advice is not for 3some of for MMF whatever that means. I'm saying since he is now newly married let him concentrate on his wife. Else he will ruin his family life.

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Posted On Jan 12, 2019 - 03:53 PM

This is from my personal experience.. it really no need worry too much on *** with wife.. first of all consider your wife as your best friend.. show all the affection and love that you will show it to your best friend.. last thing your wife expect is *** ...eventually when you started showing all your love .. having *** become lot easier...

Only thing in Married life is you won’t get statsfied in *** .. but you wife with care and affection and little *** will definitely feel happy..

Sometimes I feel opposite *** is good that falling for stupid straight guy.. recently I fall for a straight guy and way he treating me makes me to lead to depression...

Really I can’t sleep peacefully because of him.. hopefully I will forget him and move on with my happy Married life..

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Posted On Jan 14, 2019 - 02:37 PM

If you are married and if you are bisexual/gay, you will never get satisfied with your wife. Keep hunting and have *** secretly.

If your wife comes to know you are gay/bisexual..either you will get divorced or you will have a life time embarrassment if she still continues to lives with you unless she is bisexual or ready for Threesome.

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Posted On Jan 17, 2019 - 03:23 PM

1. Wife is always lovable so I enjoy her innocence ,care ,smile and her shyness in bed, the way she felt shy when I touch her its amazing to watch and when she hide her face in arms holding strongly is always amazing for me.

2. Gay *** is all about feeling the hard *** inside my *** *** and smell of the *** when I pulled it out and *** it hard for my own pleasure and best but not last the delicious *** that warm fluid on my *** and prize of satisfying him.

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Posted On Jan 17, 2019 - 08:50 PM

@fifty sorry, I articulated it incorrectly. When I said I have a problem I meant I know I am not into females. I have accepted it long ago :-)
Anyway, Thanks for your advice.
I dont see myself leading a double and being happy with it. May be it works for others not for me :-)
I guess people should do whatever suits them :-)
Cheers to queers :D

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Posted On Jan 18, 2019 - 06:30 AM

Sandeep, that is a good decision.
Your first post reminded me of tge series Will and Grace.
Will tries to have *** with Grace, to test whether he can have *** with women or not.

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Posted On Jan 20, 2019 - 03:24 AM

Sir when did i say i dnt like my wife
Instead i feel proud when i go out with her as she gets many stares on the road by perverts haha and also ive i feel proud that ive married a full grown lady she is arabian horse like anushka shetty

But yeah when i compare her with me i feel smaller than her..
And yes iam enjoying my married life but as i have bottom feelings so still wanting to have a nice top boyfrnd

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Posted On Jan 20, 2019 - 04:27 AM


As u said cuckold marriages...
A man turns cuckold when he gets bored of his wife and wants to add some fun in his sexual life ..
And it will take mostly after 5 or 6 yrs of marriage and also depends on how open his wife is for the idea..

So not every man can become a cuckold and not every women will like to have *** other than her hubby..

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Posted On Jan 21, 2019 - 03:13 AM

Sandeep to each his own.
Newlymarriedbot a man turns cuckold when he gets bored of his wife is absolutely wrong.
A man becomes a cuckold when his wife gets tired of him and want to try other *** and yet remain married.

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Posted On Jan 21, 2019 - 06:18 PM

LOL hot wife!!

not all the cases are cuckold when someone either husband or wife cheats with other someone and both are aware of it. my wife loves me as a husband and as a lover in bed, she go crazy and still cant stand to my stamina. and i love her the same way.
but the thing about me is i have always been so open and free sexually since my very younger age that there are very few things that i have not tried. I'm a man of taste, i like to taste every single thing life can offer. i do not dream of having a BMW and yes i cannot afford it but yes, i have ridden it, i tasted it, experienced it. the same way I've been with with all kinds of women, old like in 60s, 50s, 40s, married, widowed, newly married, soon to married, young teens, very very young girls.. I've been with men too of all ages and places. been with white as well as black men too. i first acted as top but my thing is a bit big and it hurt while entering so i act as bottom. i like to *** nice n clean things and also i love to get ***.

so, now even if i am married for ,2 years and have great sexual relationship with my wife, i still go out to other women and men.
so i managed to make my wife get massages and have *** with other men even if i am enough for her.. it just adds a bit spice to life.

i dont like to call it cuckold, its just a enjoyment and feel a little out of a closed wall..

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Posted On Jan 21, 2019 - 06:39 PM

@kiran - you need to visit a counsellor and you look like one hell of a confused person to me. You can’t make up your mind if you like men or women( I think you basically like men but can’t come to terms with your sexuality) you cant decide if you are a top or a bottom ( basically you are a bottom but living in denial, someone who says my tool is big so I Bottom is the most stupid excuse to bottom). Finally you arrange massage services for your wife and she happily agrees to be serviced my different men although she is happy with you. Do you even think it’s a believable story. I think nothing in your entire story is true. I personally think you are a gay bottom man trapped in a straight marriage.

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Posted On Jan 21, 2019 - 07:08 PM

cheers..! way to go man... 😆
you just told my whole life story..
anyways, thanks for typing about me

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Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 02:53 AM

Sounds like a fun life, kiran888. Living it good

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Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 08:24 AM

@kiran: you have put it nicely and Don't mind comment of people like Mr. Exotic. He is being judgmental No one can feel others feeling. The feelings are not digital that you like as top or bottom. Sometime we feel like dominating to *** someone and sometime feel like *** someone. There are people like me who enjoy with boy and girl same time. Bisexuality is very common and it's not confusion rather it's a feeling which can change with time moments. Few people are happy with one partner and few want many more and change every now and then. I am bisexual and enjoy both.

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Posted On Jan 23, 2019 - 07:48 AM

hi I m married for almost 14 years I have two children.i enjoy *** with both my wife and my top friend.i have relationship with him almost 13 yrs.But I don't know when I have *** with him I feel like I m his wife and I call my wife name while doing *** with him.

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Posted On Jan 23, 2019 - 11:19 AM

thanks people for the support. appreciated!!
worst thing a married man or woman can do is cheat the other half and nowadays its fuc*king impossible to avoid that so why not embrace it n accept it and eventually enjoy it Mutually..
this is my thing. if u r doing something wrong, do it right

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Posted On Jan 23, 2019 - 06:25 PM

no, i didnt keep score n now i feel I should've had.
i must say many times i got lucky with women in my younger age as i left my home when i was 16 and since then i am almost living independently. then i came to pune when i was 19 where there are most beautiful women inthe world..in college i was very shy and had no encounters with college girls but outside like in neighbourhood or other public places, i was dude. yet i seemed harmless to women. i talked sweet yet no cheap flirting.. there are small little things which help you read other person and their behaviour towards you.

with men i dont like kissing or cuddling or body play.. NO OFFENCE but i feet good to do it only with soft body with no hair which are women. about men i like the dic*, i feel good to *** it, like the feeling of warm *** spurring in ***, i like the taste of it and there are very varieties in taste... depending on diet of person.
i love to get *** too.. acting as a top, i tried a few times, when my thing was not going in easily and hurting a little it just lost it and went limp.. tried a number of times but no luck..
once i was taking massage from a thai woman in aundh, she was giving me handjob. she was doing amazing job, she knew many tricks. while *** me, she used lot of oil and started fingering my a'hole slowly then she put whole finger in and it felt awesome... i *** so hard that time.. i loved it to get fingerd.. and thats how i went on to become a bottom.. i like to get fuc*d , not so hard, slow but deep.
i hope i am not annoying anybody with these my boring things i write..

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Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 05:26 AM

Hi am married guy last two years onwards am not interested in *** with my wife.
Am very scary now can any one suggest which doctor I want to consult in Bangalore
Need Ur value suggestion
If any can share their views please send a message to me directly
Thank you alk

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Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 01:57 PM

@ramrajan. i am in the same situation. i havent had *** for last 3 months with my wife. all the time i feel the guilt. tried pills used for erectile dysfunction (though i am not suffering from it ). it helped a little. now taking more interest in men than women. but the question remains Am I cheating her ?

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Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 02:15 PM

I too had similar issues . Didn’t have *** with wife during my initial period of marriage . But planned and got her pregnant with two kids . She has had some diversion to a certain time which allowed me to seek my choice of *** too. Now it’s only cuddling but Iam getting interested in cuckold sessions but afraid to talk to her . So best is save your marriage with expanding the family which gives you a bonding and never let go of that relationship but learn to manage your choices too.

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Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 05:48 PM

Same problem i feeling when i come back home after fun with guys.

Wether i m cheating her? " She is very loving and caring"

Why i m so,,,? Why god made me like this?

1000 of questions running in my mind though out the night and lastly i complaint to god with tears.

I feel like,,,i m wake up every morning to die every seconds.

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Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 05:56 PM

Don't listen to @sricbeguy , saving a marriage by having kids is the stupidest misconception.

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Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 06:14 PM

My feedback on the topic:
1. What works for you can never work in general for others. Our lifestyle, partner and choices differ from eachother. I would suggest peeps with such serious issues undergo counselling.
2. Marriage is an institution which works on various binaries. It is ease and comfort that one gives to their partners play an essential role. If you show your disinterest in marriage, it will reflect sooner or later in your relationship and wife of all human breed are the first one to realise it.
3. For those who r still unmarried and r under tremendous family pressure, think 1000 times before tying the knot. Because your would be wife should not suffer because of your disinterest.
4. Try to avoid external stress and give your 100% in your marriage if u really wanna save it. Or else undergo counselling and decide. Divorce must be your last step & in some cases it turns out to be the first one. Cheers!

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Posted On Feb 4, 2019 - 01:55 AM

I have told my wife about my desires. We discussed about it i told her i like to crossdress she was not sure about it she didn't knkw what it means so i explained her and she also liked it. Now we have bought a strapon and we have great ***. Every time after satisfying her she also do pegging and f*** me with strapon we have great fun ever time we have s** it is best to discuss your desires with your wife. I was scared to discuss it but after discussing it we are now having Great time and fun. She also like me in my dresses and f*** me really hard with strapon.

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Posted On Feb 4, 2019 - 04:33 AM

@Me_U_ILU, This guilty is going to kill you more than the actions. You should have thought about this before your marriage, crying now will not help. Rather face the situation and accept your orientation, thats the best you can do. If you have a understanding spouse like @boobspcmc (very rare), you can pass your guilty conscience. Ask this question to yourselves, can you stay away from your desires , if you can, then do that and be faithful to your wife else embrace what you are. It's either this way or no way. Crying and blaming isn't the cure here. God isn't going to answer your tears. Be bold and face it and hope for the best.

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Posted On Feb 4, 2019 - 07:45 PM

Married life is the best one can have guys.. love nd care , affection.. more than that the bond that is built between the couple.. we have been in a conservative society unlike the west where ppl r open to talk about their preference nd choice and get along with it.. at least now the laws have opened up ...

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Posted On Feb 8, 2019 - 02:30 PM


Married and enjoy *** with woman... Mostly i am straight but i have found i like it very much when any male sucks me... it gives a different feeling.. Recently i read about a term unused in india "Bro Job" when straight men have *** with other men... and its happening largely world wide... "bisexual" is a term used but not always true that ways...

anyways point it despite of marriage one can enjoy *** with a man...i like to get myself *** by a man... eventhough i dont get involved with many people since i like it discreet and no strings attached...

btw, great posts guys n nice topics..

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Posted On Feb 24, 2019 - 12:12 PM

Been married for 12 years and I enjoy oral and *** my wife as a top and *** *** and sometimes dressing up in a bra and ontoes and being a nice bottom to the males I meet.

One thing that happened in our marriage about 4 years back is when we both got very open about *** and indulged in threesome. Well for me it was more of watching her get *** by a stranger that was a turn on. It takes a long time to find a good hot guy but we have managed quite a few. 2 of those experiences were heavenly because the guys were also bi and after banging her and she slept off, they *** me off too. In front of her I have held the guys *** and guided into her *** while he plays with her boobs and kisses her. She has never asked anything because she probably thinks it’s in the heat of the moment.

We still love this lifestyle and continue to .

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Posted On Mar 27, 2019 - 07:37 AM

See i am not married but ask this questions to most of frds or on new dates
Answer always are very common-
1) *** hole is tight and feels good, which *** becomes loose after normal delivery or overusing it. Haha
2) indian women hardly sucks and those who do are not much good. Few r only good.

3) most funny which frds said when comes to *** they mean only intercourse not much into bodyplay, romance, wild kinky or extra ordinary.

They say" chodne ka bolo to bas gaghra uncha karke sooo jati hai"

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Posted On Apr 10, 2019 - 08:19 AM

I married since 20 years . I always enjoyed with my wife. Last year a young couple shifted to neighbor . The man is around 32 and lady around 28 having big boobs. The man is a gay and not interested with his wife. Few days back the man *** my **** and it continued for a month . One day his wife saw us but didn't tell anything. Later the lady told me I have a nice **** and she will like to be screwed by me. I accepted it. Now I am enjoying both of them in their house at same time.

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Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 03:30 AM

Hi Guys
I m married for 7yrs and bi. I enjoy with my wife but few problems are like
1. No ***.
2. Not Ready when you want. I dont like onesided. It should be mutual.
3. She enjoy but doesn't make me much.
4. Immotional dramas most of times.

Where as with my gay partner it is both side enjoyment and we *** each other.

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Posted On Mar 22, 2020 - 04:05 AM

I've been told by married guys that they get to enjoy what their wives don't allow or they can't do with their wives. So in a way a married top prefers a bottom friend to fulfill his desires and needs. It keeps him happy and lowers the stress at home.

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