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Coming out


Submitted by Shiningarmour Location: All India (All India, India)

First of all , thanks to all the contributors here for making this forum not just about the sexual aspect of homosexuality. One thing I have noticed to be missing is that there isn't a discussion on coming out.

Coming out to my parents has been an idea I have been toying around with for sometime now but I also know that this would not welcome in my family. It would be really helpful if people can share their experiences or even any advice

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Valentine84
Posted On Nov 15, 2018 - 06:57 PM

@dirtypig

First of all the intention to question you in open forum was not pin-pointing you. A discussion thrown on an open forum could help other people of similar dilemma to relate to the issue or even come up with better ideas.

Dude if your love for him is pure with no lust better to have that love to yourself. You don't have to verbally express 'I love you' to make him realise your love. Cos love is not spelled rather felt.
You may be happy calling him as your boy friend but does your friend find it happy to address you as his friend or boy friend ?

This may sound cliched but if you really love a person you put their preference before yours. Hope you know what I mean.

To express your love to him you needn't open up about your sexuality or propose him up front. There are many ways to make him realise you love him but it's a time consuming process and works out only when the feelings are mutual. So GOOD LUCK dude..

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dirtypig788
Posted On Nov 15, 2018 - 10:27 PM

@Valentine84... Thanks dude.. point taken..I can keep to myself rather loosing him..definitely I can’t manage it if I am loosing it

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