Techniques of Painless ***

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No Picture jaidesai69	Posted On Nov 26, 2022 PAINLESS ***: most of the important points/techniques have been mentioned in this column by other members. want to add 2 more: massage is one way to relax the body and the arsehole. another is hot/warm water during bath/shower will help you relax and then easily insert fingers/brinjal/cucumber. nothing hard. precaution for those using dildos: most dildos are for women. dildos for men are called butt plugs. butt plugs have a flared ending/stopper. this flared ending is IMPORTANT so that the dildo does not get *** into your arsehole (YES ARSEHOLES ***!) those using cucumber or brinjal/etc, hold on tight to the end of the fruit!!! TAKE CARE! ENJOY!!
No Picture Karan30vers	Posted On Nov 27, 2022 I can vouch for Lox 2% gelly.. It's a pain-relieving water-based lube that reduces the pain drastically. I have personally used it. Just apply it in and around the anus a few minutes before being penetrated. It's available in many medical stores for about ₹35. I've used it to *** and to get ***. Works really well! Go for it! Enjoy! 😉
No Picture cindrella_c	Posted On Nov 27, 2022 fingering and butt plugs and lubes can help. even then there will be a mild pain. that pain is the pleasure. i had no luxury of all these support items. it was raw and made a man to feel proud of breaking a seal. his *** was wet with blood. i was thirteen then and he was 10 years senior to me. next one week was difficult for me. i couldn't sit & *** properly. even then i went to him when he called again.
No Picture vihit2345	Posted On Nov 27, 2022 Do not use lox 2% or similar products that numb you, trust me if it is bad you want to rather be in pain so you are aware. Also this gel is NOT A LUBRICANT. Imagine getting bleeding or other severe issues and not being aware of it for hours in which it might get worse. If you are numbing yourself to not even feel it then why get *** in first place, my husband is hung and thick (it never hurts, yea don’t believe when people say it is okay if it hurts a but because that means you are rushing it or doing it wrong, you want to rather feel the pleasure) And then there is a top who wants to talk about monogamy and ***, these are the inexperienced ones who actually make it hurt but shoving things in lol.. get comfortable with the person you are having *** with and stay away from toxic people (trust me it will take half of your problems in *** *** away) About the person who bled and is trying to normalize it (stop assuming everyone is into it and it could lead to something serious believe it or not also because of the stigma associated with going to the hospital if something like this happens).
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Nov 27, 2022 Wise words from @vihit If you have to numb you *** to get ***, why dont get the full treatment and get blackout drunk or drugged or what not. And for gods sake, dont take the last line seriously. You should be fully in your senses during *** if its a hookup. Folks, *** *** is not some kind of ceremony a bottom has to perform or else. If your top cant put in the time and effort to use foreplay to relax and loosen you up, you dont have to give up your ***. Regardless of how experienced you are, if you are not loosened up, it will be uncomfortable if not downright painful for a guy to just push in even if you use lube.
No Picture abbasulli	Posted On Nov 27, 2022 Well said vihit. In india straights in the guise of tops are using bottoms just for sexual pleasure who dont care *** for the feelings emotions of bottoms...!! I think bottoms should in no case encourage any animal behavior. Anyways beware botts.. dont lose your health and self respect for a weak moment and a ruthless top !!
No Picture skilledmate *	Posted On Nov 28, 2022 Well said Vihit.. my wife uses her strap on on me often.. we use simple KY jelly.. as a btm to my wife's top, I also want to feel the pleasure. so any numbing jelly is just terrible for me.
No Picture fifty *	Posted On Nov 28, 2022 I am shocked to see that, on practo two doctor have recommended local anasthetic cream for *** intercourse. One has even mentioned a brand name. Even doctors do not have proper knowledge about these things. Some doctors still believe that homosexuality is unnatural /against nature.
No Picture SunilJosh	Posted On Nov 29, 2022 Hey Fifty, old india *** is taboo that conspept doctors not even understand they also love same ***. Natural way for enhanced *** whole by massage so it wil not effective for *** also. Clear incert and enjoyment.
No Picture Maturesoft	Posted On Mar 22, 2023 Advise need for a person want to become bottom.he never did *** .but want to try.but afraid of pain. Useful tips anybody can share please for a painless penetrations. I tried with my finger.it is also not smooth.how to be smooth insertion
No Picture Dirk_Diggler	Posted On Mar 22, 2023 Apply moisturiser one hour before ***. It will make the *** wet and moist. Apply lots of lubricants first time.
No Picture Buttboy	Posted On Mar 22, 2023 I think a bit pain also good some times.... I always feel a bit pain during get f****d .... But i enjoy d core... Use local anaesthesia.... It just useful for soft entry...
No Picture Carnage0562	Posted On Mar 22, 2023 it all depends on top! i started with lots of sensual massage on *** of my bottom and oiling his ***! gradually introduced fingers one by one! when he could take two or three i realised he was ready! and he happily took it .. onpy after *** he said “mana kiya tha na tujhe, fir bhi *** diya” we were in love after that! literally very passionate love.. until he cheated on me very soon! and he was smiling and the time of our last meet.. and i was in tears…regretting that i was his man all those months bcoz i was giving him the best time of his life; good parties; good food; great kind of alcohol. All these things ! they make u realise u r nothing just a THING for them and u forever lose ur ability to trust ANY *** ONE!
No Picture Vizzax	Posted On Mar 22, 2023 It will take time first thing is need to prepare the *** muscle area, coz naturally it's tight. To make it soft we need lots of oil /lubs.. better start with 1 fingering make yourself comfortable and then 2 fingers and slowly 3... Don't rush.. Also at bathing time you can do with soap... Give yourself a time,who want to be bottom procedure may help... Make sure clean your *** for better experience.. maintain hygiene 😎
No Picture SunilJosh	Posted On Mar 22, 2023 Before finger or any thing else , make sure first time you anecetic lub or gel so if will not hurt more. Then max oil input then full your anus by oil. Then wash by hot water again oiling then start *** ***.
No Picture Bottomgay184	Posted On Mar 23, 2023 Me as a bottom i tried a lot of times to get *** but it didn't happened, but daily i used to use my fingers loosen up my hole and then i started to insert small brinjals in my *** using coconut oil and i went on increasing size of brinjals finally one fine day i got my *** hole drilled by a hot ladyboy she used some gel i dont know which one it is but my hole took that medium size di*k full inside again after one year i got my second encounter that is also nedium sized d**k but after that i tried many d**ks but not happened take that all i dont know whats the problem but it didnt happened and after so many days i got *** with nice ladyboy and it was my memorable encounter and again within two months i got one more encounter this time it was a big *** and i finally find the reason to take that big one its nothing but thrust or crave for *** if u like it conpletely u can bare any pain otherwise u cant bare little pain also so ur thrust is important u have to crave for *** thats my suggestions and finally one more thing is u should feel comfortable at the time of *** and try not to eat anything before *** that makes you feel even more comfortable
No Picture Guy27bi *	Posted On Mar 23, 2023 It just depends on relaxation and mind . You need to be completely relaxed so your *** relaxes and easy to slide in.It helps if you are comfortable with your partner and be in a comfortable place. Use lots of lubes and take it slow, try to get a understanding guy for ur first time, and keep in mind you are not letting your partner if you aren't ready yet. Take your time
No Picture Bicuriousfirstt	Posted On Mar 23, 2023 To be frank that pain is not actually pain. It's a pleasure which supposed to be there your doing that.. Moaning for the reason.. Otherwise if it easily go in and out then it won't feel u and your partner
No Picture twinky_cd92	Posted On Mar 23, 2023 If you can, buy a butt plug. It is the best toy for making *** pleasurable and easy. You can get one from Kaamastra for about 1500. Lube it up, fit it in, keep it for 30 min-1 hour, remove it and you're ready for ***.
No Picture Hunk007	Posted On Mar 23, 2023 Nvr use anesthetic lubes or creams, you would not come to know if incase ur anus is injured and there is bleeding.
No Picture asitasit14	Posted On Mar 24, 2023 As per my opinion, spit works best 😜 Also top needs to be experienced and make bottom comfortable first. Bottom needs to take good position as per his past experiences to get it inside smoothly.
No Picture sambhog	Posted On Mar 24, 2023 Of course, a lot has been written already. I just want to add my two cents. It is important for us to understand that *** muscles relax in everyone. We all poop and the sphincter muscles (the ring which lets you discharge poop) relax to let the biggest of poop to slide out more or less easily. Sphincters ensure that we do not accidentally poop at other times by keeping themselves tightly sealed. However the sphincters are used to let things out and not take things in. We need to train our bodies to do the opposite. 1. Most people with healthy bowel movements will have no poop remains in the rectum after going to the toilet. It is natural for the body to keep the sphincter tight if there is any poop inside. So always ensure that you clean your *** well for *** by either passing motion before *** or by using a douche (cleansing the insides with water). Shower after you are done cleaning your ***. 2. Trust and communication can't be emphasised enough. Your partner needs to listen to you. Foreplay, especially, massage relaxes your body very well. Sexual arousal also relaxes all muscles in your body. I encourage my bottom partners to breathe rhythmically with me which immensely relaxes the *** muscles. Rimming is an option too as long as you are aware of the risks. 3. Water based lubricant (KY, Durex etc.) if you are using a condom and unscented oil if you want to go bareback (not recommended). Anesthetic gels like lignocaine are not recommended. Start slow, breathe in as he enters you, ask him to stop for a few seconds and continue once comfortable. The first time, it may take a few minutes for you to let him penetrate you fully. Be patient and let your body guide you. A slight discomfort is common but pain is not okay. If you keep your body tight you are likely to hurt yourself more. Assume a comfortable position (sideways missionary or missionary or even bottom on top work well). 4. Accidents can and do happen. Be kind to yourself and to your partner. I always place a towel on the bed to avoid any messy situation. It is not sightly but it is not the end of the game either. If you spot blood then it is better to stop and let it heal before you try again. Sexually transmitted and gut infections easily pass through *** ***. Play safe.
No Picture jackscs2005	Posted On Mar 24, 2023 2 cents from me being experience BOT 1. Use lubrication 2. Use toys to stretch your muscles. Start with small toy and gradually increase the size (thickness). 3. Practice regularly, keep toy inside for longer time. Increase time gradually from 1min to 5 mins etc. 4. Try stroking with the toys as you are going to be banged be prepared.
No Picture Hemant11	Posted On Mar 27, 2023 सबसे पहले एनिमा से रेक्टम एरिया साफ करो, इसके लिए टॉयलेट का जेट वाटर स्प्रे प्रयोग कर सकते हो। दो तीन बार पानी अंदर डाल कर क्लीन करो। आप जिलेट सेंसिटिव सेविंग जेल इस्तेमाल करो सबसे अच्छा है न बर्निंग सेंसेशन है और न ही कोई डिसकंफर्ट उंगली पर जेल लेकर गांड के छेद में डाल लो। थोड़ी देर फिंगर करो या कोई ऑब्जेक्ट जैसे बैंगन डालकर आगे पीछे करो करीब 15 मिनिट तक, अब आपकी गांड चुदने के लिए तैयार है। अब आप इसमें बड़े से बड़ा लंड डलवा सकते हो और मजा कर सकते हो। क्या कोई अफ्रीकन बॉय मुंबई में मिलेगा क्या? जिसका 9 से 10 इंच हो
No Picture Rahul_20	Posted On Jun 10, 2023 Hello guys...! 2 days back i had a *** *** with a guy and he just gave one stroke i got much pain so we stopped and we used vasiline also while doing. but since that time I'm getting much pain in my anus today i while going to pop i got little bit bleeding also and the pain was too high... I'm unable to do pop properly Can any one explain me how to cure it please...
Suraj_Top	Posted On Jun 10, 2023 Using plenty of lubricant Using water or a gentle soap to clean the anus before *** *** Starting slowly Relaxing the *** muscles before penetration Breathing slowly and deeply Communicating with a partner during ***
No Picture SerLoras	Posted On Jun 10, 2023 @rahul_20... Use Osil ointment, 2-3 times in a day. increase fiber intake or use laxative for 2-3 days so that you don't have to stress while pooping. You may apply lox 2 gel , before pooping so there would be less pain. Let it heal , if the pain persist after 2 days visit gastroenterologist.. it may be case of chronic fissure which you must be ignoring.
No Picture Ra_kesh	Posted On Jun 10, 2023 i used to finger my *** first then started inserting 3 fingers eventually started inserting a small bottle(not fully inside hole a small part was out) and sat like that daily for an hour. now my hole is ready to get *** whenever partner says to have ***
No Picture Neeta *	Posted On Jun 10, 2023 Using a good quality lube is a MUST for painless ***. Most people in India tend to ignore that. Of you want to enjoy, buy Durex Intense (available at most medocal stores for less than 500Rs). Use your fingers to apply the lube in the hole and enjoy getting fcked.
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Jun 10, 2023 @rahul_20 You made a few big mistakes 1) Vaseline isnt a proper *** lube. Also, you shouldnt be using vaseline on a latex condom. 2) Sounds like there was no foreplay. Even the most experienced bottom requires some way(foreplay, fingers, toy) to relax the hole. 3) A top who didnt know or didnt care about the bottom. The first stroke should be slow push to slowly enter giving the bottom the chance to adjust to the ***. Find a top who is experienced and not a total idiot like the guy you met. Sounds like he tore your *** lining. Hopefully it will heal by itself. If not, you may need to seek medical help.
No Picture Vizzax	Posted On Jun 10, 2023 @rahul_20 avoid spicy for consume more liquids. If you can clean your *** apply antiseptic cream... As a beginner don't direct try *** with anyone... After you got cured ... Use general coconut oil and start self fingering first work one finger and then 2 and 3 .. Don't force or rush it's took time.. You need to relax your *** muscles.. once you are able to insert 3 fingers directly... Try any round thing like a 10rs coconut oil bottle small... It's perfectly shaped.. Try insert that.... Me and my vers friend we did the same ... With each other ... Now i can able to take thick ducks ... You can see my pics 😅😅 in my bio
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Jun 11, 2023 There is absolutely no reason to use poppers (lol at poopers. not sure if it was intentional but nice pun). Poppers cause lots of issues (read the article linked above). And no one needs to use it to get ***. Even if you are *** a *** star or getting fisted, you can take it without such type of chemicals. Also, dont drop poppers on your skin (or your partners). You will get a nice chemical burn. If you use it, make sure you dont take stuff like ED medication. If you take blood pressure medication avoid it. Else you may head up in a hospital. Or avoid it in general. Chemical dependence isnt a good thing anyway.
No Picture Jeetbot1991	Posted On Jun 12, 2023 A question on once we do get comfertable with the act! When the top is going deep you get a sesation of wanted to pee, can this be controled? From my exp, lots of lube helps, always start with fingering and foreplay to relax tell the top to start slow and once the flow is set and the bottom gets used to the feeling then there is no pleasure like a proper *** session.
No Picture Sushantdg21	Posted On Jun 12, 2023 Nice thread ....I get into *** when have enough time to play and no one around...though i use toys but never had real *** inside me 🙂..Also I keep myself shaved n use breath. Initial 15 to 30 min it will be very slow, soft and just a rub on my *** area, groin, fingering to *** or any similar objects with oil dipped to start inserting....This opens up both my mind, muscles arnd ***. I use rinse water to wash n keep clean for next steps.. Once I am comfortable, will go with little bigger toys for next 30 min to 1 hour... with or without condom...few times i try to take inside and slide out completely helping *** to stretch.. I just go long on depending on mood n video i watch...Hope this helps. All the best.
No Picture Hotty_Botty	Posted On Jun 12, 2023 Being a bottom let me share my experience to get painless *** pleasure. Preperation before *** 1) I clean my *** with fingers and hot water to make sure no poop will be inside. Using hot water relex the muscles inside anus. 2) After cleaning I put lube inside my asa with fingers. During *** 1) Do a lot of for play with my partners, kissing, ***, body play etc. It will make me excited to take *** inside my ***. 2) After that I will lay my partner down and put condom and put lubricant on it and inside my ***. 3) I try taking his *** inside my *** by my self sitting on his *** slowly. This will have little pain initially but once *** get inside just sit on that position for 1-2 minutes. 4) Once I feel comfortable, I start taking ride on his ***. This will open my *** hole and make me ready for painless pleasure. 5) After that I will let my partner to take control of my body and *** and let him *** me how he want and how long he want. Post *** 1) Clean your *** hole with hot water, it will relex your muscles. 2) Apply coconut oil or any antiseptic cream. Generally I used Durex Lubricant and Plain Thin Condom so that it will not cause any kind of irritations. Don't use dotted condom for *** It generates heat which will cause irritations later.
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Jun 12, 2023 @jeetbot1991 To your question of When the top is going deep you get a sesation of wanted to pee, can this be controled? That's from a *** hitting your prostate(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate). Maybe your top is ramming it directly. It can be controlled by the angle at which the guy is *** you or the position in which he is *** you. However, for *** ***, prostate stimulation is what gives the greatest pleasure. So not sure if avoiding the sensation completely is wise.
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Jun 12, 2023 No one can answer that but yourself. No way is anything ever going into your *** in a way you cant feel it. And yes, there is always a little bit of discomfort as your body gets used to something going inside. If you cant deal with that, *** *** isnt for you. *** orgasm is much harder to achieve. So not having one, specially if you are using a vegetable in a short time isnt going to work. Same with ***. Getting *** doesnt require the bottom to have an ***. For a lot of guys, the pressure on the prostate deflates the ***. Doesnt mean those people dont enjoy. I personally am fully erect maybe 5% of the time I have been ***. Other times I am semi erect or totally limp. And i love to be *** like nothing else. But if you didnt get any pleasure from it, maybe *** *** is not for you. But that doesnt make you a top by default. Maybe you are an oral bottom or a side.
No Picture Mona4u	Posted On Jun 14, 2023 I was curious about *** *** as i liked to play with my *** as much as my ***. So decided to go for it, contacted a guy on social media, his *** was small and got *** by him at his place, it lasted only 5 minutes still i was satisfied but pain was immense. Then I avoided *** for a long time due to fear of pain despite the urges. Finally decided to give it a go with a childhood friend, hoping for painless ***. Once i talked him into it , when we undressed i saw his *** was very thin, so i was pleased and thought there won't be any pain. Sensation was exciting but there wasn't any pain and also i wasn't satisfied as the guy lasted only for short time. Then again i avoided *** for long time. Finally I decided that I will try with a thick and long *** one last time and give up *** altogether. So I started training my *** with carrot and cucumber, and after two days i was nowhere near to taking a *** without pain. Surprisingly I found a guy with 8.3 inch long thick *** on grindr app, i told him that just waned the experience and i don't like to ***, he agreed so i invited him over, he was 20 minutes away, i washed my *** and *** cansl with a faucet, kept a lube handy and opened the door in my undies when he came. I took him to my bedroom, locked the door and started undoing his pants and zipper. I took out his ***. As soon as his *** was out I was breathless with admiration, i had never seen such a beautiful *** not even on Internet, i was instantly in love with it, and despite me never liking to *** even to my surprise I took his *** in my *** and started ***, i wanted to take it in as much as i can. He asked me to lick his huge balls and I even did that with pleasure, finally i took his huge load in my ***. Then i went to washroom cleaned my *** and gargled. I cam back he was sitting on bed nacked, I went to him, he started kissing my body and nipples, then he started caressing my *** and ***. I was very excited. Then he asked me to erect his *** by *** on it, so i did it again with pleasure. Once his *** was erect time had come for *** penetration. So he asked me to get into doggy position. But i was terrified, i told him about my fear that his *** might tear my *** and can cause me a lot of pain. He assured me that there won't be any pain very gently. So then i got into doggy position. He took some lube smeared it on my *** and started fingering me with one finger. Finger *** helped me to relax. Then he inserted another finger and then another. Once my *** was relaxed enough he tried to push in with ***, but i was still afraid so i told him to lie down and tried to ride him so i could control the pain and penetration but i couldn't, then he assured me again, so got into doggy again, he started slowly mounting me with gentle strokes and little penetration, slowly his *** was sliding deeper with each stroke without any pain and i too started enjoying with him. Once he was completely inside me i put a pillow under my stomach and he was also increasing speed and force with each stroke now. I was enjoying so much that i was moving my waist so as he could get deeper in as much as possible. He *** me very hard for next twenty minutes, i felt the heavenly pleasure of a girl being ponded by her man. I completely felt like a girl and i forgot that i was a man or i evfn had a ***. I cummed hard and five minutes later he cummed. He laid there on me for five minutes with his *** still inside my ***. Then when he was pulling his *** out it was such a heavenly pleasure and i didn't want him to pull out, i wanted him to get erect again while he was still inside and *** me hard again. But we didn't had much time as my flatmates could come any minute so we couldn't continue. After that day we couldn't meet due to unavailability of place and later on he moved to another city. I still worship his ***. We are in contact with each other so i am still hoping to *** with him and this time i will make sure we have place and time at least for a week. For a painless and pleasurable *** *** a skilled and compassionate top is a must along with good lube.
No Picture hitandgo	Posted On Jun 17, 2023 After reading so many posts I felt like posting here. The *** hole is not meant for ***. But as a m2m *** that's the penetrative option. Let's understand the ***, which is designed for penetrative ***. It gets lubricated when the gal is turned on. It is elastic and gets dilated when it's ready for ***. and wants the *** to enter. Neither is true about your *** hole be it female or male hole. I would recommend you use a lot of lube designed for ***. use condoms. and see the person entering you has this *** to start with. Also refrain from having regular ***, which could result in a loose hole. Remember if you have piles just keep off.
No Picture Cute_Rowdy	Posted On Jun 17, 2023 @hitandgo A 2010 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that of the 31 percent of women surveyed who’d engaged in *** *** during their most recent sexual encounter, 94 percent had an orgasm. And *** orgasms can be intense, that’s because the anus is packed with loads of sensitive nerve endings, some of which are connected to the genitals. And that’s not all! In cisgender men and people assigned male at birth, *** *** can stimulate the prostate and lead to an orgasm. Prostate orgasms are intense enough to send waves of orgasmic pleasure from head to toe. This is from a reputed science journal and a peer reviewed article!! The things you are saying, anus is not meant for penetrative *** and it becomes loose with frequent penetration is all a myth which is part of anti LGBT propaganda by the catholic church and other religious bodies. It's not hard to guess thier agend :) I have had penetrative *** with plenty of bi guys who had said the feeling of unsealing the spincter while *** the tight anus which is smooth inside beats the pleasure they get from vaginal *** and they anyday prefer *** over vaginal ***. So, please do some research before posting and spreading misinformation! :)
No Picture Daniel100	Posted On Jun 17, 2023 @hitandgo.... True.... *** is not meant for ***.... But *** has pleasure nerves irrespective to a woman or a men.... For *** ***, you need to start with fingering... find the spot inside and stimulate... *** will get lubricated naturally just like ***... Then there won't be any pain to a top or bottom... no matter whether bottom is a virgin or not Also, *** *** is pretty normal.... similar behavior can also be seen in animals.... let it be any... They are also living beings Rest is upto one's personal choice... If they prefer they would have... If they don't prefer they won't have I personally don't prefer *** *** but would love to try with the right guy.... after medical check ups!!! I feel it's not right to dictate to anyone on their likings... but only suggestions can be given :)
No Picture hitandgo	Posted On Jun 17, 2023 I think my post was totally misunderstood. I was strictly referring to the pain and how *** is different from Vagiana. and the trouble is that it's not designed for the *** to enter. rest its personal choice.
No Picture hitandgo	Posted On Jun 17, 2023 @ Cute Rowdy "Also refrain from having regular ***, which could result in a loose hole" I said this after knowing a guy and a gal who had been complaining. the gal is facing a much higher problem than the guy. I was not aware of any propaganda.
No Picture ray_gay_6	Posted On Jun 17, 2023 The trick is to relax yourself as much as possible. Ensure you're cleaned up well before the action so that you're not gonna have an embarrassment seeing your poop on your partner's ***. And finally like many here pointed out correctly be responsible to yourself and your partner while having *** ***, always insist and use a condom and always ensure you have the right kind of lubes. Any sort of creams like face creams, moisturizing creams, soap and so on are never lubes and they are never made to go inside your body. Don't believe me? Turn around the bottle and read the contents and the chemicals. And finally, ensure you find a top partner who gets you in the mood and who is patient and considerate. That is very important because most tops want to stick their meat inside you, jiggle the plumbing, dump their *** and move on. Massaging and fingering before *** *** does wonders.
No Picture Cute_Rowdy	Posted On Jun 18, 2023 @hitandgo When done right, *** is never painful. Like i have said in the previous post, it can be super pleasurable and orgasmic. Ever heard of vaginal bleeding? First times are generally painful be it vaginal or *** ***. That doesn't make any of it less or more natural. You must be aware how women are shamed that vaginas become loose if they are promiscuous or after child birth. Neither of which have truth in them just like *** becoming loose myth. The natural ability restoration that our bodies have is nothing short of a wonder! What is the primary purpose of your hands? Help you eat, pray, write, move things? You can also use it for hand job, fight, fisting, choking! What is primary purpose and what is not is entirely subjective and speculative just like what is natural and what is not!
No Picture Slimboys	Posted On Jun 18, 2023 In this thread I am getting vibes of bottom shaming. bottoms try to pleasure their top. They want them inside. The fault it on tops, not all top the newbie top or the just *** seekers. The did not put more effort to relex bottom. In my recent hookup in Delhi, I find good top mature one(30- 50). I have place they come. They even not like to chat 1 or 2 min. Even not discussed liking before head(this happens in grinder hook but for mojo one there is lot of discussion on liking) They try to put their *** in *** like we are just machine. One hookup did not even put *** freshers/toothbrush in his ***. It so smelly 😞. I send him right away. I had an awesome realation ship during my college with professor. I was new, we hit it up and for months their is only kissing n body play. And finally the time come for ***. Then when he try to enter it my hole automatically in defence mode. Then we did foreplay and at last my whole it shelf expanded. It was tight, when he come inside me I feel his *** inside me hitting me with pressure. Oh God I love this feeling *** hitting my inside. I know what I explained above it not possible for hookup n all. But my point is every time it not bottom fault. It top who make bottom relex and to desire him. In India we lack proper bottoming knowledge.
No Picture Dreamy	Posted On Jun 21, 2023 For me painless *** is only like a dream after so many horrible experiences i just lost hope for it but strangely enough even after bad experiences my body craves for it... I don't know what it is.. maybe it's just the feeling of being dominated cus apart from that I've never really felt pleasure from it... But i do remember this one time I met this cute guy i went to his place we did stuff and then he asked for *** i said no but after sometime i said okay let's try his thing wasn't crazy huge it was a bit thick though so he made me lay down on my stomach started putting Vaseline on my hole and started inserting fingers slowly (it started hurting) but then he tried with his thing... I was in agony watching me react like this he asked me to change positions so basically we tried doggy, missionary and even riding but nothing worked... I looked at his face as i was lying facing the wall, naked on his bed, he seemed sad or maybe disappointed he removed his condom and sat beside me .. i shifted and put my head on his lap and started *** him as he became hard again i changed my position again facing the wall hoping that he would snuggle and he did... And when he snuggled me , his hard thing started touching my hole.. and all i did was arched my back a bit (pushing my *** towards him) and guided his thing to my hole with my hand and thrusted myself towards him and soon his thing was inside and it was not hurting a bit.. he grabbed me tightly and started doing me raw like that in such speed and force i loved every second of that experience and soon enough he came inside me... So point is maybe we tried so much or maybe i was too *** or maybe doing it sideways was the thing which made my pain go away , whatever it was i would love to feel it again someday
No Picture Maturesoft	Posted On Jul 1, 2023 Need inputs from bottoms how you managed in the beginning for making your hole flexible and big.Any methods of using any tool,gel or exercise you followed please share with me. I am eager to become as bottom but hole is small
No Picture Btm_no_place	Posted On Jul 1, 2023 It totally depends on your partner.. I have a man.. who is 7-8 inch long and thick as a cucumber.. but never have been painful.. as he waits for me to get comfortable every time.. and never goes rough in first session..
No Picture Abhimaanbull	Posted On Jul 2, 2023 Being a top I can admit that love making is an art and in the mean time you should have emotions and passion for it Well Apply KY Jelly is one way or May be apply lot of Vaseline at least 1 hour b4 the session will certainly smoother the hole and then slowest one should be going as making the partner feel good gives more pleasure and less pain I believe and have experienced
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