Techniques of Painless ***

Please share the techniques of giving Painless *** fun. Do 's and Don'ts

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No Picture 275389 *	Posted On Mar 29, 2018 A good quality condom, zylocen gel tube (it is used for child delivery), lot of patience, relaxed mood, a proper comfortable position, an urge to get ***, pleasant and romantic place......
No Picture billpotts	Posted On Mar 29, 2018 I agree with the use of some sort of lubricant, this is essential. Also I find I feel discomfort while being *** in missionary position if I’ve eaten a full meal too close to being impaled. With bigger *** if the angle in missionary is wrong I have had pain so in those cases I’ve had to only be *** like a doggie to be comfortable.
Androgynous17	Posted On Mar 29, 2018 If you can get your hands on a dildo or a butt plug and stretch yourself before getting *** then it helps a lot. Of course, use lots and lots of lubricant. Also, don't eat before ***.
No Picture bouncingonrods	Posted On Mar 30, 2018 If your top has a big ***, ask him not to directly thrust it in you. Let him lube you with 2-3 fingers first (depending on the girth of his ***). Take a 5 min finger *** from him and then let him penetrate u gently. After a few gentle strokes, if he gets wilder later, its not as painful. Also I noticed it is least painful when I am sitting on the top in reverse cowgirl position.
No Picture Kharbottom	Posted On Mar 30, 2018 I use cucumber to loosen up my *** hole before any top visits me..it helps in smooth entry into my ***.... purchasing dildo soon
No Picture Botforrun	Posted On Mar 30, 2018 Use ice cubes to *** before getting *** by big ***. I was *** once by one of my top. Because of ice cube rimming ur *** hole gets numb ayou can enjoy then
No Picture shika	Posted On Mar 30, 2018 Thanx guys 😘 shall try this as i am now more keen of getting into *** hope this will help love u all muaahh
No Picture 275389	Posted On Mar 31, 2018 Forgot to tell one thing. Keep your bowel empty, otherwise you will dump all shitload as soon as your partner's *** is out.
No Picture hotspotamar1	Posted On Apr 1, 2018 I fell lube position and all that is fine. Basically you need to have a urge to get ***. The more desparate to get *** the more painless
No Picture anil_bot	Posted On Apr 3, 2018 Friends lube is nessesary for ***. I use Patanjali's alovera gel. It comes in ₹45. Easy to carry in pocket. Apply on *** and on top of ***. It is good for skin and inner skin. Do not demage condom. If *** is tight put some on Condom. It is water base and very smoothly goes inside. No pain only fun pls try.
No Picture anil_bot	Posted On Apr 5, 2018 For Karan Mehra: If you are doing first time then either practice long brinjal our kakdi to insert. Don't try thick *** you will get pain or damage annas. If medium size half inch diameter *** it is ok use lot of salvia or oil then insert.
No Picture vishuluv69	Posted On May 25, 2018 Whenever I have urge of *** ***, I purchase different sizes of cucumbrrs fairly longer, little thick, I use lot of coconut oil and insert it slowly ,I never thrust it all. Allow the muscles to ease and accomodate the girth, and then give it deeper push , its a lovely pain while pushing deeper and removing all and again puahing deeper, try this
Varunx	Posted On Jul 5, 2018 First thing before your *** date. Have a shower before your *** date and make sure you have cleared your entrails. Soap and finder your butt hole while shower. You can grease it with some coconut oil to keep it lubricated. Use jelly to lubricate and sensitise your butt hole just before the act. But personally prefer lubricating with saliva.
No Picture rocking 45	Posted On Feb 6, 2020 I am TOP and want to try being BOTTOM but am a little sceptical as trying with BIG D will not help even with enough JELLY/CONDOMS. So how should 1 go about it. With a thin small *** with jelly and condom. Any suggestions.
No Picture Apb	Posted On Feb 6, 2020 Do *** hole massage, then fingering by your self, and get prepared,, use jelly,, use 2 fingers,, then try 3 fingers.. Now you are ready to get *** by medium thick ***,,
No Picture Biguy007	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 I try inserting fingers one, two three n nicely massaging the *** n adding some anesthetic cream is more than enough to drill the load in. It's awesome n pleasurable experience for almost an hour of pleasure
No Picture skilledmate	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 i have tried a few times but pain is a bit difficult to bear.. i like 2 fingers in my hole especially at end of a hot massage.. but *** inside is so far not pleasurable. may be i need to find someone with a smaller *** to start with..
No Picture Tamakivar	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 I use cucumber with coconut oil into may ***. It gives much pleasure while taking in and out.
No Picture Omkar Pune	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 I have tried 3 to 4 times with 4.5 *** but every time i have pain Any oil or cream name? Or technic ?
No Picture Andykv1983	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 proper foreplay.. (rim job ) before main action.. ll do wonders
No Picture letsfuck	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 Tops should be able to rim if they want to *** ... MAke the bottom comfortable and think of his pleasure too..Have some concern for the bottom. Just shoving your *** and *** is barbaric.
No Picture skilledmate	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 @letsfuck, i agree. my experience (without sounding ethnocentric) is Indian tops r usually not cognizant of this. They want to hump n *** without caring for the btm's pleasure.
No Picture Versbot83 *	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 I apply Vaseline every night while sleeping so it keeps skin near hole soft which will reduce pain while *** ***. Always use lubricant in good amount to enjoy ***
No Picture Charming50	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 Thanks everyone for sharing your opinion on important topic. It is good to teach and help other. I too scared by pain thus never attempt though I wish it. I also tried the things whichany of you have mentioned but it only hurt. Actually, some one also have given view that one must be willing but cure and care it utmost important. Oil, gel all the secondary, get yourself cleaned nicely, and you must be free in safe room, in happy mood. You can slowly put sliva on hole and start rimming it yourself, put maximum saliva, you will feel opening and easing of area, if you regular do it then one day you will feel your finger is easily going. Another thing while bathing, push soap water like anima it will work fine. I bought some handle type and tried at home, I try to bear pain and insert little length, after few minutes, there was no pain, so if you want to enjoy little pain is there because no pain no gain.
No Picture Dollbottom	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 Lubing foreplay loosening all helps but one only matters. The mind of a bottom we as pure bottoms should think our *** as a *** and embrace our top as the man who owns our ***. This thinking will allow you to take any big *** with pleasure.
No Picture Curiousboy92	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 Using some kind of gel/ lubricant initially while hving *** will help to loosen the hole... After somedays one hole got losen there will not be any pain 😁
No Picture proudqueer	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 Use of lots of lube, tell your partner to go gently before going for a hard strokes, relax the sphincter muscle as much as you can and soothing your mood helps here. When your *** canal expands in its size by 2X you will feel the sensory touch of each and every strokes. It's not just mine everyone who had the best *** must have gone through this experience.
No Picture matureboy5555	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 Always use KY Jelly or Xylocaine gel and you can enjoy better
No Picture bubblycd143	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 For first timers is lox 2% useful ??
No Picture Sharma3189	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 Local anesthetics works good in case of quickies. But the best is to lub finger often and increase the size. Also the rim jobs and fingering from tops is the best way before the big game as it increases the desire of the bottom to get pocked. The more you desire the less pain u feel.
No Picture Lottalove	Posted On Feb 7, 2020 I wanna share my *** story. 😂... This happened in Chennai. I was in early 20's around 2015. I was staying in a room with my roommate who goes home every weekend. I was from South TN. I had a great *** in weekends as nobody at room. A few good-looking tops used to reject me for not interested in ***. I wanted to break my seal and explore more hence I was looking for a perfect one. A Bengali guy rimmed me hours to penetrate me but failed and painful. I came across a guy in PR who posted even a video about *** and he can open up and loves to do that. I chatted with him. This guy had lots of pics in PR. Fixed the timing and he invited me to his house. He told me to go for potty and clean my *** with veet and I did. I met him in a station. He was wearing helmet asked me to get on the bike. He drove and we reached his house. He was in 40's and looked better than the pics he shared. Terrified story. He has ducked many guys and showed all the videos. He was in shower and asked me to explore his laptop. Shocked to see videos and pics. He told me that he used to organize lots of orgies and gang bang. He is married and had kids. He told me that his wife has seen all these and living with him for the sake of kids. She went to Coimbatore with the kids that's where she is from. Another terrifying fact, his building people also aware of that as many guys used to come and go when his wife wasn't there. I was *** scared and wanted to run. But I decided to stay. He asked me about my interests and things I have done. He complimented my looks and physique. He said if was into *** guys will be in line for me blah blah.. He told me that there is a difference between discomfort and pain. He *** my nipples and caressed my body like no-one. He was player I can say that. He told me to like facing down. He didn't rim but fingered enough. Now he told me to face up and spread my legs and he lifted and he inserted slowly. Dead slow. Then he trusted into me. A few minutes it hurts like hell. Then slowly he did and he released. We had a chat after that. He said I need to get ducked regularly to loosen up my hole. I jokingly asked can he set up with a guy right now. He said yes.. He called two guys who can meet now and we were supposed to meet an hour later. I left from his place with so many thoughts. I reached the main road. Those guys came in bike.. Handsome guys. They sounded dominant and also asked me that in local Tamil about what exactly happened with the previous guy. I know there is no harm in trying. But didn't feel comfortable what if they ducked me like hell. That two guys at a time.. Hard time watching those group videos. Commenting in Tamil and behaving like rats breeding. I didn't say anything to them I asked for the address, it was a few miles away. I said I will catch an auto and come. They were saying I can't sit an auto after the session.. I was pretty scared with that statement. They left and I switched off the mobile.. I did catch a local train and reached my room. It's been 5 years I still think about this incident quite often. If ended being up being friends with that first guy I would have been a guy in one of the videos he showed me a bot guy not even 22 got ducked mercilessly by a few tops in a row as he was well used by many people and did not even enjoy but smiling on the video. He was also telling me that he made him bitch he came to him just exploring sexuality but later he was up everything. One good thing about this guy is that he is very much into safe *** alone. Good old times.
No Picture iloveindians	Posted On Feb 9, 2020 Just curious, is putting saliva, jell, oil, lotion, soapy water, and cream safe and healthy for anus and inside area? If it is not washed thorougly and stays inside, any bad effect to health?
No Picture Akshay99	Posted On Feb 9, 2020 @iloveindians Any bodily liquids which includes saliva, precum and sperm or blood if is infected and left in the anus is extremely risky and unsafe as the rectum absorbs all into the body. Hiv, Std etc
No Picture Cutewhitey	Posted On Feb 9, 2020 clean you *** drink some water stay hydrated train ur hole to take things- start with finger and gradually increase the size to butt plug or dildo use lube- coco oil, aleo gel, use as natural as possible, mineral oils and chemicals will irritate the skin and insides start slow and then pick the pace, don't clench and relax ur hole be ur top's bitch and make sweet sweet love to him
No Picture iloveindians	Posted On Feb 10, 2020 Dirtyboli isn't it good to have a tight hole so can increase the sensation and orgasam?
No Picture HeadsTailsAndHo	Posted On Feb 10, 2020 @DirtyBoii Rather being jealous, work on your hole specially before going to such events. Water it well, remove hair, lubricate it well with water/silicon based gel (10min before the fun), keep a butt plug well shoved in ur hole so that ur hole is open already. If you don't have a butt plug, then use long thin brinjal or thin cucumber wrapped with well lubed condom. It's about training the muscles to remain open and to be ready to accept the things in. 7 times or 7000 times, *** muscles contract back after sometime. And every time those need to be worked on again, for the action. Human anatomy is not so easy.
No Picture Aadibott2	Posted On Feb 10, 2020 @dirtyboii same here I also have tight *** n I have been *** before... But Everytime it's a struggle for my top ... I never take huge *** I ho for avrage *** Some bottoms are so lucky they get *** easily by huge *** without any tension ... I wish I could do that .. I can never have unplanned *** it takes me minimum 2 hours to get ready for *** as I'm too conscious about hygiene n sometime I starve my self so that I stay clean for the act 🤦🏾‍♂️ I wanna change this habbit
No Picture kingofdesire56	Posted On Feb 10, 2020 There's also a big point that the top also is considerate for a painless ***. Communicate. Dont be rough at the start itself and thrust it in without any consideration. It really does hurt. Take it slow. And do it smoothly. Then itself half of the pain is reduced.
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Feb 11, 2020 Dirtyboi and aadibott : same here I have a super tight hole it’s very tender I have also been fcked a few times but every time it turns back to being very tight as if m a virgin It pains a lot But an good experienced top can start patiently n then go nice hard. But yet painful as m so tight. Wat my experience is: me on top sitting over him it’s better as a Good start. Then missionary or doggy goes little less painful
AviTop28	Posted On Feb 11, 2020 Well here goes my tips from my several experiences with virgin and experienced bottoms: 1. Douche/enema before (or not depending on how kinky your partner is) 2. Lube (Water Based Lube) lots of it. I personally prefer rimming my partners *** if he is an *** veteran. If he is a newbie then lube is MUST. 3. Lube -> Relax your *** -> Push -> Your partner slides in a finger -> Finger stays in for a while -> Stay still, let your *** get used to the foreign object -> Pull out -> Repeat 4. If you have access to a butt plug then nothing like it...Helps a LOT in stretching your *** pre-*** 5. Repeat Step 3 with more than one finger along with some foreplay 6. Repeat Step 3 with your partners ***. Just the tip at first followed by some gentle strokes Note: 1. The spit and shove you might see in *** only really works in *** (or for *** veterans who’ve been taking it for years). Use water-based lube as anything oily can cause a condom to break. 2. If you’re new to getting ***, you might want to try riding your partner, so you’re in control of how much *** you’re taking at any one time. 3. Yes It does pain a bit. To start with anyway. That’s kind of just how it is. But with practice, it gets better, and then it’s *** awesome. Like any set of muscles, the ones in your *** need training. 4. Communicate !! Of course things might get a bit messy. It's an *** after all. Don't be ashamed if you need to take a break to use the washroom, it's absolutely natural and NOT dirty. PM me on hangouts (id in profile) to talk more.
No Picture BH@2225	Posted On Nov 10, 2020 On the advice of someone ...as a bottom I tried aloe Vera gel....it was awesome....smoothly sliding in and out ...with erotic *** sounds...Aloe Vera gel is a good scented gel...it feels good....
No Picture love4u515	Posted On Sep 12, 2021 I ofently lubes my *** hole with oil every third day n insert 1 finger then 2 fingers to rim my ***.some time I use brinjals n candlesin my *** hole n enjoy 5/7 mnt rimmig ads.it gives me little enjoy.
No Picture chikna52	Posted On Nov 20, 2022 KY Jelly is good but using a Local anaesthetic ointment will help u n u can take vodka to loosen your *** muscles
No Picture vihit2345	Posted On Nov 20, 2022 So i see a lot of emphasis on Lube (which indeed is super important to find the one you like, yes different lube options work differently for everyone and some of them should not be used with condoms at the risk of causing a tear) But most important is BREATHING! It changes the scene (also do not let someone tell you it hurts and you get over it lol), take your time and with experience you know what position works best for you - most often if you start on top it is better because you have full control of it. Drinks lots of water in general, eat fiber, clean up well and then dont rush.. Also if you are comparing it to *** and want to be ready to take it do use the advice above about fingering, plugs and most importantly get those lube injectors which can ensure you are lubed up well inside😬
No Picture Blackbeauty38	Posted On Nov 21, 2022 Foreplay is must. Don't just jump to ***. As we speak *** of enjoy the feminine in you and hug and kiss the top this makes u relax. I always start sit on top position it will make my *** loosen naturally. Once it's loosen the top can try any positions.
No Picture lovemybootty	Posted On Nov 21, 2022 Everything already said, to add: - Fingers irritate me and I also suspect can cause you prone to have infection unless you are sure he is cleaned - First riding then let him rid is comfortable - lube is important not only it makes things easy but it will prevent you getting fissure.
No Picture Sahaisab	Posted On Nov 22, 2022 Absolutely bottom on top to start *** penetration is the perfect position to have controlled painless *** ***. Doesn't matter how long and thick the tool you are taking in. This position makes every thing pleasurable afterwords.
No Picture Akki_026	Posted On Nov 22, 2022 It will be always painful at first time. Apart from that try to finger with lub. After sometime it get loose later try to use some dildo and cucumber etc. No need to take thick one use medium girth do little bit longer it get loose. Once you get loose so no need to worry while having ***.
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Nov 25, 2022 There is a difference in pain and discomfort. It may be uncomfortable the first time but if its truly painful, then something is not right. Its like when you start running, its uncomfortable to breathe but you power through it. But if your chest hurts, better stop. Regarding using anesthetic ointment, please dont. You will lose sensation of all the good and possible the bad (you cant even feel that there is a tear which is serious). Lube and foreplay as has been covered is important. But most important is being relaxed. If your *** tenses up, penetration will never go smooth. Also, very important for both the top and bottom to be clean. No one wants a shitty situation, nor long dirty fingernails to scratch or tear something inside. Any experienced top knows that you cant just ram in your ***. Start slow always. Just push in a bit at a time. Yes, being on top riding does give control to the bottom but its not absolutely necessary. And most importantly, *** *** isnt for everyone. If you dont like it, dont do it. There is plenty to enjoy without ***.
No Picture minnathon *	Posted On Nov 26, 2022 I am a 53 year old pure top hence very experienced with only pure bottom crossdress or very feminine bottoms . My experience has taught me comfort with each other is the key. To be relaxed with each other is the only way to enjoy painless ***. *** may not happen on the first date. Will need a few to get familiar with each other...so dont hurry have patience and enjoy.
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