Intimidated by Straight Guys

Whether be it school, college, workplace, public place...I have been approached by guys who are apparently straight. I want to know if some straight guys have the instinct to identify if someone is gay or bisexual...i have been intimidated or caressed as well as winked by straight guys.

*In an incident while I was returning home from college two guys on bike suddenly stopped in front of me and one of them started caressing my face with his hands to which I angrily reacted. They simply said they found my face cute (they were straight no doubt)

*In my internship once, there was this one macho hunk. While playing truth and dare game, he suddenly held me up on his hands enacting a romantic scene and even gave me a soft kiss on my cheek. I knew he was a straight guy from people around

*Many a times in my workplace before, some guys from senior managers to young executives would simply grab by lap, touch my ab, or give those gestures like flying kiss. But why me; why not other guys there were so many hot guys cuter than me

*travelling in Delhi metro is like an everyday encounter of being stalked and stared. Atleast two guys had asked me for my number. In college, I have seen some professors staring at my *** bulge especially when I wear tight fit trousers. I have seen some guys giving me hand kiss instead of handshake and loads more

I have had these strange experiences from time to time, sometimes it's good to be approached by others and receiving nice compliments but many a times it leaves a confusing doubt on my mind especially if the guys are either having gf or already married. Many a times I also felt why should I allow straight guys to objectify my physique or way of conduct or whatever just for their timely lust even if their action is descent or meant no harm or insult. Do we gay or bisexual guys have something in us from the way we talk or behave that other straight guys get to notice and get aroused or fascinated (PS: my dressings and behavior are not at all effeminate).

I would also love to hear such similar kinds of experiences from anyone, if any

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