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Confusion on Sexual Orientation


Submitted by RobS Location: All India (All India, India)

I am a little confused here....I have a partner with whom I have body *** on a regular basis....no penetration so far....but since the past few months he also has a girlfriend with whom he has had ***....and currently also he meets me and has his bit of fun with me also.....is he bi? He loves to feel my body and ***.....has any1 had such experiences... please share....

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Aryan07
Posted On Apr 25, 2018

Being BI-Curious is totally fine. This orientation means a person loves both men and woman. They are equally happy with both.
They prefer to meet anytype of men (Gay or Bi)

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Aryan07
Posted On Apr 25, 2018

I am a Bi-Curious male and have relations with both gender. I am married too. That does not affect my *** life at all. I have had with lots of females and have met men at the same time. I have also been into MMF Fun and MFF fun a well.

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premdadar
Posted On Apr 25, 2018

my problem is different. i used to enjoy *** with guys till now and my role used to be bottom. now a days i still get attracted to guys when i see them and imagine how they will look without clothes but when it comes to making out i dont enjoy it like before.I try to find woman in man's body.I try to eat his nipples,rim and *** his ***.Does it make me a top now? But even if I get urge to *** them I dont get hard on like top guys.I do feel like having *** with women (i never did *** with female before) but I dont get attracted to them the way other men stare at them.

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letsfuck
Posted On Apr 25, 2018

Sexual orientation is the most complicated part of the human psychology. There is no black and white when it comes to gender and ***. Every human being may or may not sway in any direction at any point in time . So dont waste your brains over it. Follow your urges and choose to satisfy it or not. Life is anyways too short.

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rajron
Posted On Apr 27, 2018

Fully agree @letsfuck. I have *** cpl of my straight frnds. I could feel it is der first tym. Later on was told it was in heat of the moment dat they wanted to try. And just dey wanted to explore other side at that time. So all in all, dont talk much here as it is just unpredictable. My two cents

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screwkumar
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

I strongly recommend you to read the book SHIKHANDI and other tales they don't tell you by DEVDUTT PATTANAIK. All your answers are available in Indian mythology with examples from lives of the characters. You will be at peace with your sexuality! PLEASE READ.

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Darkstarchild
Posted On May 17, 2018

I've being gay or rather was forced to believe i was gay... But considering my vast experience with interaction with the male and female gender. I have started to be more inclined to free-flowing experiences but with both sexes.. Ive been in threesome with my ex girlfriends as a cuck but have also enjoyed playing with women in the foreplay.. its nothing I would label..

In fact..I've started to, on some levels believe.. maybe I'm just a free agent and if you know your limits and have fun with consent.. labels are just for people to help understand you in their head.. and to organize what box to put you in.. humans love subconsciously labelling everything. So i don't bother about bisexual or gay. as far as I'm concerned., it's more for others to judge or make their opinions to act on.. so just have safe fun and dont stress about the labels.. sometimes it makes things uncomfortable once you try to strictly define. .. leave the labels for the less evolved minds. no offense... I just believe that it takes curiosity to cross borders and explore. and curios minds that play fair often break stigmas.

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Coolbisu91
Posted On May 17, 2018

@Darkstarchild, I completely agree with what you told. People are too much into these labels and do's and don'ts. I even came across a friend (female) who normally preferres girls, felt attraction towards a boy and she was like "am I too despo? Why is this happening? This is so not me" and kinda staff. I tried to make her understand the same thing you wrote, but I failed.
I have a certain feeling that most of the people are basically bisexual, may be the liking is not 50-50 towards both sides. But they are too afraid, or ignorant, or sometimes disgusted to accept the other self.

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Rahul0123
Posted On Jun 11, 2018

Guys, this sexual orientation problem is mostly in india and in those part of the world where people believe in religion too much and where masculinity is supreme.. i would like to tell you guys in india a girl can be bi or can be lesbian bcoz she is female but a man cannot be gay as per society concern because they believe as per their nourishment that men is supreme in society and he cant get *** bcoz he is a tough guy how a man can *** a *** or how a man can get ***.. it can be seen in your minds also if you are gay or bi and you are top you will feel i am top i dont get *** and i am man and he believes a boy who gets *** he is proper gay because he is getting *** so he is gay but i am *** him so it does not makes me gay because i am using my *** not my ***, using *** for pleasure in our society makes a man a women .. wtf. If you are *** a guy then you are also into gay activity so stop being macho man in Your mind and be logical it dont bother you are satisfying your sexual fantasy it can be in any way why to put a stamp on each and every person he is gay or she is lesbian as per their sexual interest?

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Vedkulkarni
Posted On Aug 14, 2020

Can someone please help me I am confused about my sexuality :I am a 22 year proper Indian Hindu guy doing my degree in architecture from a reputed college in Mumbai. I do dream and fantasist about having sexual intercourse with men around me but just *** and then I do dream of having romantic sexual stuff with only girls as in i do not include romance in my dreams while thinking of *** in men to men manner, what does this mean am i bi-sexual or gay or a bi-curious for that matter i am very confused can someone please help me or at least suggest something over it as at times it saddens me that i don't even know myself properly !
Dm me your opinion

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TamaRai
Posted On Aug 14, 2020

@Vedkulkarni - We all go through this battle at some point. Being bi-curious is fine but the answer to your confusion is within yourself. I was interested in women once, but while with a girl I realized I love being a woman for a man more than being with a woman myself. So ask yourself.

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letsfuck
Posted On Aug 14, 2020

It is very normal to go through what ur going through ... I will say that the best thing to do is to relax and allow yourself to be whoever you are... You could be anything and it is fine..There is nothing in wrong in being gay, bi or straight or even asexual.. Be kind to yourself..Just shill and stop putting pressure in yourself. Sexual orientation is only ONE part of you. There are many aspects to your personality. *** and sexuality is NOT everything,

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Dombot26
Posted On Mar 6, 2022

It's a big problem out there , many go into depression just trying to decide where they belong.feel so sorry for those guys, it shouldn't be so cruel .have watched guys question their orientation once the endorphins and adrenaline washes out of the body after *** , and many just this that they did something wrong .
There isn't a right decision here, have seen straight GUYS be bi for a moment , bi guys try to be straight .
No body has the right to question your orientation,so y worry about that. If it's difficult to associate with a term then just be independent, y the branding .
Guys it doesn't matter what ur orientation is ,but what matters is doing what makes you happy.
Hope this helps someone.

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Sundarmduguy
Posted On Mar 9, 2022

There is also one more thing
Sexuality and romance two different things in my opinion
You could be bisexual but homo romantic like you get feelings with one *** only but you can have *** with both sexes.

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Sundarmduguy
Posted On Mar 9, 2022

Even in that you don’t have to be same always. I am pan in most cases. My sexuality is fluid. I don’t need to strictly say this what I am. Sometimes I even feel asexual

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Coming Ahmedaba
Posted On Jun 28, 2022

Yea *** and romance are two different things. I can't do romance with men, while with female I prefer and love to do more romance and foreplay

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adicooliyo
Posted On Jun 29, 2022

this is strange to see how gay men label themselves as Bi just out of shame or self pity or societal pressure and above all not accepting the fact that they are GAY and like same gender... in my opinion marrying a girl because of all the above reasons... doesn't make you Bi.. even if you are Bi you have to be out an open.. its an irony in our society that being straight is considered an orientation by default so no one has to come out loud saying they are straight.. whereas Bi and Gay have to say it and come out.. Most of the men here who call themselves Bi are lying to only themselves.. tell me how many of you so called Bi guys have been with girl/woman other then your wife (physically) out of your interest and pleasure

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kingofdesire56
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

It's so sad to see that even straight men, absolutely straight men, who have no inclination in being gay, but just because of the sole purpose that they are super ***, super brainless will claim themselves to be "Bisexual". Just for the sole purpose that they can get laid.

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Sissybitch
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

It feels so annoying to receive messages from so called "pure tops", who want to talk dirty about your family 's women. These self entitled straight men disguise themselves as "pure tops" or "tops" just to get some validation. As soon as I told him that I want a top who is interested in talking dirty about me and only me, he said that the two of us can't match. Why do these men exist? The fact that these men are having to come to us bottoms for validation and want us to pimp our family's women virtually to them without even their consent shows how miserable, pathetic and cowardly these supposedly alpha top makes are. If they are so much of a "pure top" , then why are they having to come to us and beg for our women? The audacity is so disgusting. These pure tops should easily get women if the want. Then why do they come to us and ask us to talk dirty about our family's women? Tops and pure tops in India are generally frustrated straight males who don't have the balls to get a real woman in real life. So just to satisfy their desire they try to *** us bottoms and then treat us like ***. Most Indian tops and pure tops don't even consider themselves gay. Which is very funny.

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biman4u_2020
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

i am also bi.. never ever romantcially involved with men. hate it.. but jus sexually i like to enjoy mutual nude shags with them/ sucks while seeing pics of hot woman or *** in mfm 3sum..it can be such source of pleasure

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biman4u_2020
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

@Sissybitch *
" pure tops in India are generally frustrated straight males who don't have the balls to get a real woman in real life. "

you may be right.. but some also like to *** our mouths by talking /degradng our ladies. its a kick for both involved..so if one is not interetsd , then shdnot respond thats all

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biman4u_2020
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

i alwys seek company of lke minded bi man..to dicuss on wives etc.. it can give such a kick.. i feel fully straight people miss the pleasure of both world

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kingofdesire56
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

@biman4u,

No offense. Just to sate my curiosity, how do you label yourself as a bisexual if you're not romantically interested in guys ? Bisexual technically means you're interested, sexually and romantically and physically and emotionally to two different genders. It doesn't have to be men and women. They can be trans, NB, shemale, etc. But here let's take men and women. But you just clearly said that yours not interested in men romantically. And you "Hate it". So how do you identify as bisexual.

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biman4u_2020
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

@kingofdesire56
hey np askng :) when i say "hate" its not hatred towards men.. i respect everyone.. its just that hate the idea of men who come to me with romantic ideas or lines.. i am only into phsyical relationship.

with men. ( with woman allso mostly if i get chance :). so hence bi sexual coz i get attrated sexually to both ( more into woman only)..

hope its clear

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kingofdesire56
Posted On Jun 30, 2022

Hmm. I see. Yeah. Thanks for clearing it. It's good you know to clear misunderstandings. Because using a strong word like "Hate" might create unnecessary confusion and misunderstandings

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Needfriend45
Posted On Jul 1, 2022

At least nowadays internet is there. When i was young i was so confused y i wanted to be girl . So much humilation in school by few boys. In god all i managed . Never had good understanding with any one at home . Many times tried to kill myself. Life went . Once i started to earn relationship better with family started to understand others. Any how whole life being alone sometime being lonely