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Submitted by [deleted] Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

Hi. I want to try ***. I never tried. Im 26. Done a lot of blow jobs but always stayed away from *** .. Because of pain and a hole might be tearing.., so many... Guys. Pls help me to do *** with less pain or no pain... Appreciate it guys.

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cindrella_c
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

Taking in *** is the best sexual pleasure. apply lot of oil first. ask ur man to use one finger first. then two. then three. manage the pain first time. after that full pleasure only. I had first *** at the age of 12. you can manage well.

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tonguetwist
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

First try with vegetables using cream or oil and when ever possible use fingers, above all when u first try ***, ckose a slim *** for initial one or two times, then u can try varieties of ***

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Guide4all
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

Hi can any bottom come home and train me to become bottom? I want to get *** but I feel pain.. I read ur post about inserting vegetables but I don't know how to do it myself. Can someone help

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Guru005
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

I'm sure vegetables is a bad idea. Please think through what if it breaks in to half and gets stuck there. Please don't embarrass yourself to the emergency room at the hospital.

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raja bot
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

the best way to experience *** *** is buying a good lubricant. use a tooth brush first to loosen up your muscles.
then try with an experienced top

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285405
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

Yes, Guru005 is right. Please do not use vegetables, bottles, etc. Also, please do not give wrong/risky suggestions.

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263363
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

As Guru said don't even think of using vegetables and stuff like that. It's really a bad idea. I have seen it happen to my friends in UK , lesbian couple used a long carrot during the fun into her *** n it broke with almost half of carrot retained in her ***. It was a huge embarrassment at the emergency for both of them. Can't imagine any of you guys entering an emergency room with a vegetable up their ***.

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Rajcoolerbi
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

Sorry to say guys plz don't ever think of putting vegetables into ur anus.. if it goes in then sorry only u end up in surgery with a lot of embarrassment in the Operation theatre , hospital emergency room etc etc.. I have seen people landing with a big cut in the abdomen to take out a brinjal from the intestines.. for want of pleasure u will end up in state where u can't eat or defecate

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Valentine84
Posted On Apr 24, 2018

I have been mostly a top but bottomed for my bestie.. A lot of foreplay can actually make you 'feel at ease' .. Also if you really love your partner you will open up naturally (atleast that's what I felt when I bottomed for my bestie) . I used a local anaesthetic (Lignocaine hydrochloride gel) when I first bottomed since I was very much worried and so took the advice of my doc friend.

A good quality water based gel can ease the insertion. Also it depends on your top. When I top mostly I start slowly and then increase the momentum gradually making my bottom feeling relaxed and asking for more. Also do it passionately with occassionally kisses and love bites naturally your bottom will open up in a more relaxed way. Fingering is another way to make ur partner relax. Don't risk any insertion of foreign objects as you may end up in an emergency room in an emabarassing situation too as mentioned by others.

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Outdoormeet
Posted On Apr 25, 2018

Experienced top here helped more than 20+ virgin bottoms to break open their virginity. Safety is important on top of that patience and guts to bear the initial pain too... Reach me if u really need to be opened up...cheers..

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Outdoormeet
Posted On Apr 25, 2018

Experienced top here helped more than 20+ virgin bottoms to break open their virginity. Safety is important on top of that patience and guts to bear the initial pain too... Reach me if u really need to be opened up...cheers..

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Robinson cruzoe
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

Guys just buy KY GEL online and apply plenty and lubricate before inserting. It will be easy. I have done with few tight ones and Virgin ones it was easy and cool

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Hot-Life
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

If you want to use babana as it is soft in nature wear a condom on it to avoid breaking inside yr ***.

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Nisthul
Posted On May 9, 2018

I tried *** but failed... When ever I tried.. I got a feeling that I am going to *** ...why is it so .? I am ready to bear the pain .......can you people help me out

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tonedbloke
Posted On May 9, 2018

It is very important to go to the toilet before the act and clean yourself well.
I do have *** *** occasionally with my boyfriend. I am quite tight and he is quite large. So the way we manage is that we do a lot of foreplay- kissing, oral, 69 etc and once we are ready, I make him sleep on his back, put a lot of KY jelly on his *** and then I sit on top of him and gradually guide him in. I take control and let it enter me little by little. He helps by playing with my *** so that my mind is diverted from the pain. There is a point when the sphincter which is contracted relaxes and opens up on gradual pressure. That is when I let him enter me fully. We enjoy this position for some time and once we are into it, we change position to either the missionary position or me on my stomach and he entering from behind. Once both of us are ready, he will increase his speed while playing with mine and then we climax almost together. We are both tested and safe and so we do not use a condom and I can feel him *** inside and it does'nt take me too long after that. Because the prostate is massaged during the act, my orgasm is generally mindblowing. For guys trying it with new partners, please..please ...use a condom. Better to be safe than sorry.

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twink4U
Posted On May 11, 2018

I enjoyed my encounters with guys and the heavenly feel of a warm body holding me while a hard *** pumps in and out. Start by fingering yourself and when you can fit 3 you are ready. A preparation for an encounter should always involve cleaning your channel and making sure you're stretched. Long foreplay helps.

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newguybangalore
Posted On Apr 23, 2019

I was not enjoyed *** *** much. Felt it was always painful. Also more of top all these years. But recently started using enima kit and started getting ***. Slowly started enjoying. Now I feel that is so much pleasure than anything else. Such an enjoyment. But please note. Don't take full enima. That will take long time. Take small quantity of water. Repeat if required

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Rajver59
Posted On May 15, 2019

I had my first experience with my friend at the age of 35.
I applied some oil in my *** hole with my fingers. But it was heavy pain when my friend *** me. So I didn't allowed to *** anybody.
At the age of 40, I got a friend from PR who came from Mumbai. He stayed in a hotel at Chennai. So he picked me there and we both started foreplay like hug,kiss, lick whole body with our tongues and lips ,*** each other *** in 69 position. Finally he wanted to *** me. But I refused to do it. Anyhow he convinced me. He lick my *** hole.i was very ***. He applied Vaseline in my *** hole and asked
me to clean my *** hole with my fingures I tried with pain.
.However I cleaned my hole. After that he applied again vaseline in my *** hole and his condom also. He *** me slowly and steady. I was so *** and felt less pain. That was very nice experience.
After that I met 2 foreigners from PR ( one Russian and one Australian) and they *** me smoothly. They knew how to ***. Now I proud to be bottom.

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Rajver59
Posted On May 15, 2019

Hi
@ guide4all
Use Vaseline, r gel to clean your *** hole with one fingure. First u feel heavy pain but if you practice this you can insert 3 fingures also.
Main thing is before ***, you should clean your *** hole and you loose your *** hole.
If you have doubt I will
Come

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Myharddic
Posted On May 15, 2019

guide4all and others who wanna try bottoming.

Very first thing that matters is PASSION to become bottom. Guy who sucks deep throat with no teeth intervention and enjoys each sec when he was handed with deserved *** said to be a man with passion to *** well and yes, he must not be limited only with *** but extends his move with balls too (refer some perfect bottom vids who is very great at ***)! It's just same as that.

Just like bottom should have passion to properly use the perfect ***; A perfect top always have great passion to make use of the *** (for me nice tight and bulge one turns my hard and thick *** on and on to encounter even twice at the same session but it depends on how partner make use of one's ***) whether a brand new tight one or the well used one.

Very important thing: You will get pain for sure at the beginning but the same pain will be turned to pleasure by the right top; again you should know the diff between the pain and the pleasure!

My Exp:I have encountered many new bees (not all who approaches me but the right deserved one if all clicks). They do have fear of pain like you guys have. But when exposed and handled well, at the end of the same session they used to comment me with compliment saying that they wish to get fk frequently from me. Simple as that who handles you matters!

Some guys do coin themselves as bottom and limited to *** a ***. Note, a perfect bottom is someone who knows how to *** and pleasured by getting nice fk. Feel the real pleasure of fk but be SAFE. Bareback is good and that gives very diff pleasure but move only with the trusted one not to the strange and open to all for the time being pleasure.

Trial: If you wanna know pleasure of tool stroking in your *** before the real ***. Try this...

When taking bath, once you applied soap or bathing lotion all over body, sit like you sit on the indian toilet. Apply your one finger inside your ***. And yes, It will be obviously tight but as your finger and body fully covered with foam, you may feel the difference and for sure your finger will move in. once entered, dont go for deep, just stroke with one finger.

Soon the skin will slightly open and it is now ready for two fingers. what's stopping? Move on with two fingers and stroke well and feel the IMMEDIATE PLEASURE. Later, 3 fingers. But 2 fingers is more sufficient for the first attempt to check the nice feel.
All should be done on the same position applied with soap all over body especially the finger part.

Dont use oil or especially the vegetables and fruits (come on, the purpose is to eat those stuff, don't make it gross as many haven't get a change to eat).

Foremost thing, clean your *** well when care to get ***. It's very basic! Final note once again that It all depends on who handles you at the first encounter.

Enjoy and cheers. Tune your *** well for the world of top with nice *** :)

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Myharddic
Posted On May 16, 2019

Hola Amigos,

Within a very short period post my post, inbox loaded with interesting text messages. Excuse me if I could not reply all due to lack of time. But, feel free to share if you have any concerns out here so other may get an idea about it.

Forgot to say some important note.

There are 2 sort of partners (either fresh bee or experienced) one Top may experience (I don't consider the people presenting themselves as Bottom but limited to *** like "I only ***/ I will be idle and you can do anything as you wish/ Only smooch/ etc,. no offence!) |3rd is exception: Here no Top or Bottom but Master and Slave.

1. Soft and Romantic:
Bottom (B) needs love, caring, gentle and romantic moves and Top (T) obv knows how to handle those stuffs. Strictly no girly stuff involved after all this is M2M.

A perfect B is someone who never limit himself if he's blessed with manly top (here, manly top doesn't mean only physically fit but the one who has manly look and have great stamina to make use of the bottom partners). Before the nudity, top (in my case) love to check out with perfect attire (man with formals/ denims/ shots that portrays the nice bulge makes me craze to check out and yes, care to rub with my manhood or at least my hands strikes those two buns gentle by crossing and making it as accidential move). Back to topic: When on perfect attire, Nice hug with close enough face making eye contact and gentle kiss on those alluring eyes, cute little nose, cheeks, and yes, those pinky lips (All gentle), makes it more romantic. In addition, one hand on hair and the other, for sure the spot must be on one of those two nice and bulge *** giving gentle crush.
After, making the B partner turned such a way we hug him from back so our manhood rubs the crack(with dress), now the T hands got the front part to hold: the two nice chest to crush and press. All these stuffs are T's initial romantic moves.
B may take charge from there.... T&B carry forward the complete session involving all romantic stuffs with huge pleasure of Sk(B), fk(T) and all other like licking, caressing, cuddling, etc,.

PLEASURE AND ROMANTIC is a term!

2. Hard and Wild:

All the above stuffs involved but in hard and wild way. I used to coin as nice encounter session ;) which I have exp a lot!

3. Master and Slave:

Here, The Bottom otherwise Slave Bottom B!tch, all they need is pain where they can feel the real pleasure!

They feel that they born to serve the Top world and some may title them as Slave and love to serve and greet their Master for entire life with their Genuine, obedient, loyal qualities.

Here, everything rocks and bang bang! Some may limit but many may have no limits. In addition to ***, ***, they lick all over the body, wish to get golden shower, wish to get abused by words say in Tamil (Im not into that as I didnt grow up in such a way), lick shoes, do household nude service to the master and some may wish to treat as dog even at the public place, some may pay for the master to serve them, lot of other some gross stuffs too involved.

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Serenade
Posted On Apr 17, 2020

Having been a experienced Top I would like to shared experience
Lots of quality lube and a Condom is the predominant thing to start with. *** needs to be lubed up plus ensure hole is soft and lubed to get in if your a hardcore hygienic hardcore *** rimmer like me finish your rimming before lubing... once I insert my 8 inch ***, I usually ensure boys are ok with the *** being in, then slowly continue my momentum and speed mind you I love to ram the *** and maximise my beautiful time with the potential men provided they are enjoying it to every bits, there is no point if someone isn’t comfy and being forcefully *** ....
Once I know my Boi is adjusting to the rhythm I start pounding him in various positions finally while I’m about to climax I ensure I faces me and I *** him off while I’m Cumming, hence both of us had *** at the same time.

I’m very picky with ***, but once I start pounding a butt, *** ya babe it’s non stop 🛑 till I reach the orgasm...

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Biguy007
Posted On Apr 17, 2020

@serenade, true knowing your partner's rythm n pace keeps you motivated during fun n improvises your moves, positions and speed. I luv to play with my guys to check their patience coz most of them wanna get over with quickly to release their stuff soon. I prefer longer duration fun n luv being a bottom for a selected few lucky guys. I keep myself clean n well hydrated. Always a good lube n cost of local anesthetic jelly keeps me going for hours. Luv to sweat over getting drilled by real men. Change positions admiring his style, rhythm and helps me enjoy the moments. Love to hear their comments while getting drilled luv the bad dirty talk during that times. Slapping of my soft butt against their thighs n spanks get me crazy.