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Hosting 101: Creating the Perfect Vibe to Hookup?


Submitted by Ronak Shah * Location: Mumbai (Maharashtra, India)

I could use some advice on setting the right vibe when hosting for a hookup.

I've noticed that I struggle with this aspect – it often feels awkward or forced when a guy comes over. I'd appreciate it if someone could share a step-by-step guide to creating the ideal atmosphere for a great hookup experience.

Typically, I invite them in, engage in small talk for a few minutes, and then things progress to undressing.

However, I struggle with building sexual tension and ensuring that the kissing doesn't feel forced.

Any insights or tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!

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piccmeup
Posted On Mar 26, 2024

The vibe should be comfortable and safe....like you should be soft spoken, thoda considerate, have small talks....keep the curtains thoda closed so that it feels thoda safe n secure that no one is watching...then when the undressing starts, be gentle at firts....no being in a hurry......i dont know how the kissing feels forced, maybe you are not doing it the correct way...kiss gently, feel his body, passionate cuddles....i guess thats it

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top fucker
Posted On Mar 28, 2024

Just be your self
If things work out great
Better luck next time

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caediumn
Posted On Mar 31, 2024

You've pretty much got the whole drill sorted out actually. A bit of small talk to get comfortable with each other helps. Definitely offer them water and stuff out of courtesy, and let them know where the washroom is just in case.
Mid conversation you could try to move closer to them or ask them if you can get closer. Physical contact before direct kissing is also a very good way to build up sexual tension. Just sit next to each other or something, where maybe your hands or legs are touching/brushing. Even when you do lean in to kiss make sure your hands are doing something to his body. Hands don't need to necessarily go down there but maybe caress his neck/back. Or pull him closer to you etc.
Don't stress about it though hahahaha you're doing just fine. The more you stress over it greater are the chances of you doing something wierd lol

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Sagar_584
Posted On Apr 19, 2024

After meeting a guy and entering home I offer him water and sat beside him n chat normally, slowly putting my hand on his thies..
Next is a kiss n whisper let's go to the bedroom..
With my regular buddy we we immediately start kissing n beer together.. undress each other..n we start the game in the living room itself..
Enjoy guys..
Actually we all should form a group n meet openly.