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Being Feminine


Submitted by decentbottom Location: Bangalore (Karnataka, India)

Most of the bottom boys are feminine by nature.

Being Feminine, we face criticism throughout the life.

I have come across many guys who admire feminism in men. At the same time, I have heard too many bad comments that hurt a lot.

What does people have to do about my feminine traits.

Am happy about who I am today. People see me as a man. But I consider myself a lady.

Why do we get obsessed with thoughts? Therz nothing wrong putting on makeup. It's never a crime to be expressive. Decency matters, and nothing else.

My feminism will no way cause any discomfort to anyone. So why is the world so bothered about my *** and orientation?

Have you ever faced such an issue in your life?

You know what? I lost my childhood. I never fancied playing with guys. But parents forced me to remain a boy. I stopped stepping out if house and was happy in my own fairy land.

Friends at school and college teased me every single day. Took it light for some time. I couldn't take more. Started being an introvert. Have very few friends to talk my heart out.

Siblings see me as disgrace even though I have no role to play in their life.

Now am a professional, I do get hurt when colleagues pass on *** circastic comments.

Today if I turn around pages of my life, I hardly get one or two humans who have accepted me for whatever I am.

Why don't people understand? It's not my mistake.. Am a human just like you. Am not a transgender. Am a woman trapped in a man's body.

Accept and respect me as I am and for what I am. And I promise I never cause you harm.

There are many just like me out here. Make earth a better place to live for a disgrace like me.

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Kumi_banglore
Posted On May 16, 2019 - 07:40 PM

Don’t bother about others enjoy the being you

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wingedcupid
Posted On May 16, 2019 - 09:32 PM

Nice thread. I have accepted my fluidity just as i am without being hard on myself. At times i feel masculine and many times feminine.
I enjoy using feminine pronouns about many when talking to my like minded friends. Luckily most of my childhood friends are turned out to be gay sisters and i can talk to them whats in my mind without being cautious. We even have a mother superior in our gang ;-)
Few School friends & College friends or even office collegues were hurtful but i made my worth felt through my studies and my hard work. So many dared not to criticise me.
Few Relatives were hurtful. I feel sorry for their petty mindedness now.

I always enjoy the view the world in my perspective.

Eg ek ladki ko dekha to aisa laga ..i always sing it in ek ladka ko dekha to aisa laga....
And then in yahoo chat rooms when ppl desperately look for girls...eg to the multicast "any unsatisfied wives/unties message me" i compete with my flash message "any unsatisfied husbands ping me..wife not giving bj ping me"




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LongKok
Posted On May 17, 2019 - 10:14 AM

I think you need to come to terms with what society considers to be normal, after all, normal is conditioning.

As our indian heritage, feminine has been expressed by men thousand of years back.

in the past the rulers and kings needed concubines and hence monogamy became law.

but if men sought men, then the rulers also lost power, as women might seek other women too.

I would be wise to put an act, and stay within the norm at work or unfamiliar places. Be yourself with people you can trust.

Otherwise change your profession, get into art or theater where people understand this.

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stranger1
Posted On May 17, 2019 - 11:32 AM

There is nothing wrong about being feminine. I personally like people who are feminine. We don't have any rights to criticise anybody. It's their wish and it's their character. We need to respect them for what they are. People will always criticise others but I suggest you guys to be bold and do what you love to do.

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Pundairegan
Posted On May 17, 2019 - 08:26 PM

Boldness is reduced in feminists

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outdoor
Posted On May 18, 2019 - 01:00 PM

Yes dear...
Am also saw so many situations ..
Our own ppl parents insult me as feminine,
But i know the pain of my parents.
Am very glad that they educated me and gave a life for me.
If our parenrts are calm , the society will not remain calm, they always criticize family becoz of us.
Becoz of me my parents siblings ashamed of me.
Am not a murder , am not a robber, am not a rapist, not a drinker, not gambler.
I never asked money for my parents. For my luxuary habbits.
But they feel ashamed becoz of my feminity. Which are so problem for society. With out any harm.
They always looking out in others family issues.
But at the end of the day i knw my family loves me. Thats why am alive. Other wise i wld hav died when i was 10years old.

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outdoor
Posted On May 18, 2019 - 01:09 PM

When i am 10 years old my father beaten me like dog.
When ever he saw me playing with girls. (Thr boys also with me but ny father notice only girls)
I remember those days, even my mom also criticize me becoz of my facial feminine expressions.

My father always saying to my mom and my brother &sister that I NEED SOME PSYCHOTHERAPY ,PSYCHRIARTIST COUNSILING,.
THAT day i never forget my life how i cried in bathroom and alone .
If my dad saw that am crying then also i got punishment.
Even my mom also.
Then in school so many class mates, even teachers are teased me in wrong way.
Then only i dicided and left home twice. But i cant make it any more.
Ready to die. But i remembered my parents and my brother. I asked my self and god also
Am i born for thia cause , to die .
So then i decided that i want to live and i have to do something for my parents. And for my family.
Yes i am gay, am feminine but i have to live for my family.
My dad is right, i need counsiling that i have to decide my self whom i am.
One day i will meet to psychriartist, may be that will help me for my life to lead normal life.
Hope for best.


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wingedcupid
Posted On May 18, 2019 - 04:51 PM

Hey outdoor...psychotherapy is needed but not for you ..its for your parents.. I feel the pain in your words but its not worth. Pls love and adore your femininity.. World is too big to worry about whether you sway your hips or limp your wrists !!

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decentbottom
Posted On May 22, 2019 - 06:12 PM

Teachers shape future of kids... but there were and still are few teachers who like to play around with feminine boys.

Many teachers even today teasd and criticize students who are girlish..

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Santhosh_997
Posted On May 27, 2019 - 12:37 PM

Hi, Are you really comfortable being feminineness? If you say yes, why do you worry about how people think about you. It means, you never get it out of your mind.

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fregie
Posted On Jun 5, 2019 - 07:56 PM

Well said. I go feminine outdoor many times. Response is mixed. I never care about others. I just want to be as Iam. I can't change my feminine for others. I could see nowadays many people accept beyond physical structures.

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BjCockslut
Posted On Jun 18, 2019 - 07:08 AM

I totally love being feminine and submissive when I am with a top and in other times I love just being a boy, I don't know much about it but I dont care about others at all, I love to be a *** so I'll be a sissy *** whore

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Amesha
Posted On Aug 16, 2019 - 08:46 AM

I love being feminine only with my boy friends.
There are are two instances where I shown guts to go public like a girl.
First one is, once I went all dressed up like a girl and spent full show time that is at 10.30 show.
Second one is, normally I dress up like a girl with all make up when I am alone at home. One of those days I happened to order food in Zomato when delivered boy came home I opened the door dressed up all like a girl with all makeup, address, show, bangle, ear ring....delivery boy was really shocked to see me like that and I did not gave a *** about what he thinks and spoke to him comfortably, collected food, gave tips and said Bye. That was a real daring act by Me. I JUST LOVED IT.

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pavanmb
Posted On Oct 28, 2019 - 12:49 PM

I'm also girly. I luv being in woman dress always. in boys dress I'm very uncomfortable. I like someone to stay with me in sharing basis nd treat me as their wife.

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whiteblore
Posted On Nov 14, 2019 - 03:43 AM

I wear panty bra / dresses at home when m alone I wore g-string to office 1 day. Wanted to wear bra too but bra lines were visible so could not wear..