Doesn’t it sound intriguing to be working under a gay boss or knowing that your subordinate is also a gay. Have anyone of you come across this situation? How was your experience working with a gay boss or a gay subordinate
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|Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 06:46 AM|
Can anyone suggest me that is it ok if I share my sexualities with my colleague? I am sure he will keep it secret for me. But I am confused to share or not.
|Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 08:12 AM|
I have few Gay colleagues but we don't work in the same team. Had *** with 2 of them. There is on more, but he has not opened with me. I got to see him in Grindr by chance. His appearance and body language is Gay.
My suggestion is it's better not to have *** with colleagues of same team. If in case something goes wrong , there will be no hit.
But it's fun to have Gay friends around with whom you can meet n talk anytime during break.
|Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 08:56 AM|
Better not to have sexual relationship with anybody at work. It may cost your job.
|Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 11:02 AM|
Have seen gay and lesbian bosses at client side. At project it is good to have a bottom friend so we can talk about hot guys in the floor...having *** in same project may take away fun...i m happy to drink with eyes the hotties than *** in real
|Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 05:40 PM|
My super senior boss is a gay, I know he is a gay but he doesn't know about me.
|Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 07:10 PM|
There is a saying "NEVER MIX BUSINESS AND PLEASURE". It would be a recipe for disaster for both. It's better to follow the "ASK NOT TELL NOT" policy mostly adapted in many corporates when it comes to sexual orientation.
Though I had accidentally discovered two of my bosses though I wasn't a direct reportee to them. In one case I found a manager in PR who had pinged but I just ignored him and always avoided any eye contact with him. In another case, the guy who was my senior at work and also a friend. This was the most embarrassing situation. The day I discovered he was a gay I started to even doubt the reasons for our friendship. For almost 6 months until that project was over I never told him what I had found out but I became wary of his casual touches or comments while at work. Later one fine day when I moved to a different project I invited him for a coffee and told everything. Since he was my senior at work, I had a regard for him as more of an elder brother and so I told I never had any gay feelings for him and let this never spoil our friendship.
Working under a gay boss could be both an advantage or a biggest advantage. But the outcome in both cases in long term will always be disadvantageous.
-> If the feelings are mutual it's advantageous to have a gay boss but in long term when others find you both it would be disadvantage
-> If the feelings are not mutual it is worst disadvantage. Cos when you discourage the sexual advances of ur gay boss who is aware that you are also gay becomes a case of sexual harassment.
So better work while you work and play while you play. Never mix both
|Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 03:51 AM|
well said Valentine84...
yes, it can work in either way. sometimes its good to have colleagues of same interest. but when it comes to boss, it can go in any direction. As long as understanding is smooth between two are good, its good, otherwise we never know.. it depends on matured mind of people involved...
but I did have few colleagues.. though not from same project, but from same company.. and its good to sit together and comment on guys around during coffee/tea break. Once in a while we meet casually for a coffee break too..
|Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 05:13 AM|
For me, it is same if you have
1. Gay Boss, Gay Colleague
2. Gay Friend, Gay guy in friend circle
3. Gay guy in my housing society
4. Gay worker at my shop, my friends shop, my house help...
I find the things risky, if the gay guy has any linkage to me, other than sexual.
Now a days Very few people are there who have good in heart, who think that let us not mix *** and work... Specially when they are in position where they can gain something from other gay guy.
What I mean, if that guy is in office, he may start asking for favors on professional front. If he is relative or worker or house help or low standard guy, he may start asking u for financial favors, and the riskiest thing is, he may ask for sexual favors, even if u don't like him anymore. If he is BI or STR8 (We all try STR8s too, don't we), he will ask for *** with females of your house.
May be I have exasarated it a bit, this is my opinion. I try to follow this as much as possible.
It is not like I have done with colleagues, neighbours, relatives, house helps, etc... But I have made sure that they don't get the feel that I have crush on them and I will do favors to them or they are in upper hand situation to blackmail me somehow.
So far, I have been safe.
|Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 08:03 AM|
I met one guy on facebook before 5-6years. He is officer in fire brigade. We are had many times. Before few days he ask me to join his business. I'm getting confuse what should I do. I know everything about him means his family home n all still not understand what should I do!!!!
|Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 08:10 AM|
I don't know if there is a PRIVATE FIRE BRIGADE service in India. May be talking about his other business.
Coming to rest of the things from your post.
If he has been found genuine so far, he must be good and harmless only.
If he is asking you to join his business as an employee, it is fine.
If he is asking you to join his business as partner, by investing money, I would suggest not to do so.
Money has power to spoil every relation, whichever exists on this earth.
|Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 11:04 AM|
He is fire brigade officer I saw many times he is on that fire brigade vehicle and he have his own other business he wants to I join his company as employee
He told me many times he never had *** with any other guy except me. He always trust me
I told him to search job for me so he told u work at my company n don't worry about salary n all this thing
|Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 11:23 AM|
My 1st boss was a bisexual guy!
I was a struggler wen I just passed out my engg!
I had a kind hearted friend who offered me this job, I had met him tro planet Romeo!
N believe it or not he turned out to be a CEO of this company!
*** was just 1st time wen we met. He became a mentor for me so much so that 6 yrs after I quit the company still a guide n a well wisher!
We often indulge in phone *** these days:)
|Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 11:31 AM|
@Manish2322 and @WeWake
It is really great to hear. Very few persons are there like your boss (would be) and your exboss, respectively.
I must say that we should also respect such people and should never think of taking advantage of such people in the life.
Such people are gems and having true gems in a person's life is like gift of god.
Betraying them means one is really selfish to the highest extent.
God bless them.
|Posted On Oct 8, 2018 - 08:42 AM|
never had immediate boss but i think having gay colleagues is good... u can talk enjoy and discuss other hotties in office....
|Posted On Oct 8, 2018 - 11:42 AM|
one shouldnt mix up things...
|Posted On Oct 9, 2018 - 06:04 AM|
i think its personal choice of individual... I personally love to have someone in office..... boss.. colleague....
|Posted On Oct 10, 2018 - 07:07 PM|
nice topic. I will share my exp here. I worked in bpo in the year 2011. chennai. one day me and my manager who is a mallu went for coffee. while coming the lift was pack and i use to stand in front of him, facing back. I felt his *** erected and touching my ***. I just kept my hand and to check and its bulged so hard. hmmm i was very happy, coz i had crush on him. Wen we came out of the lift he said one girl is so good and he was ***. felt very upset. but i feel he lied, coz i didnt find any sexy girl in that lift.
he is still in countact with me, but i am feared to express my feeling, not to spoil the relation. I saw him nude when we all went for outing. marina beach
|Posted On Oct 10, 2018 - 07:48 PM|
I was working for a small tech firm in saki naka andheri. My boss was in his 50's, well built, hairy like a bear.
He used to walk upto me evertime when i was alone and used to touch his *** to my *** creek or my hand. He had a big bulge always . I used to always enjoy his touch. On seeing him, i uaed to get a hard on. We tried a lot to get to a secular place, but wasnt able to. Nothing worked with us . He relocated to USA and im left with his fantasies.
|Posted On Oct 10, 2018 - 08:21 PM|
I had a bi techie working at my law firm.
Really smart and handsome. Every time I had any issue at all with my laptop or network I would ping me.
And i used to work late in the evening so it would be just me and him.
He would always stand up-close and 'many' times gently rub his throbbing *** on my arm.
That went on for a while until one fine day in the conference room I mustered up the courage to grab his ***.
He sat right next to me and returned the favor.
After a little bit of fondling each other he went down on me under the table, I had to literally stop myself from moaning out loud, he was that good !
|Posted On Oct 11, 2018 - 04:48 AM|
Now with the #metoo movement, all this boss-employee thing will come to almost a halt or not completely.
|Posted On Oct 11, 2018 - 05:04 AM|
Metoo doesn't matter for us gay people. Though there may be many cases of exploitation.
|Posted On Oct 11, 2018 - 07:27 AM|
After completing BE I joined an MNC firm in Mumbai. A fair and decent looking Delhi guy was working there as BD Manager. He was not my boss but i often need to interact with him regarding project related work. As he was very straight acting guy so didn't try flirting too. I used to have talk with him only work related part. But once I was logging in over PR through mobile and suddenly he got there. Immediately I hide screen of mobile and started conversations with him. As our discussion was going on suddenly very straight forwardly mentioned that " Koi Mila PR pe" I got shocked and speechless. He observed my affraid condition and in next moment he showed me his PR profile over his mobile. We had much discussion regarding our likes, preference, fantasy fun etc. Next day I was in company gym post office hours, he got there, smiled and starrted his work out. I got that he had some naughty intesion in his mind. That time we just four guys there only in gym. Once we done with our exercise we moved to shower stall. He mentioned there one surprise there and just in few moments other two guys who was there at gym floor got there at shower stall. Just in few minutes they three started kissing and *** there. Again I got shocked as I was watching live *** first time in my life. Well later I also joined them I experienced first BJ of life from him. Was very havenly experience. He already had 2-3 PR friends there in office and he used to do such activities there in office campus. Later also I found him having fun in mini conference room. His favorite part is under table ***. He was always up *** and getting *** under table. He was very lusty hunk. I also enjoyed whole night nude fun once in company guest house.
|Posted On Oct 20, 2018 - 07:24 PM|
Guys this happened to me few years back. A student of mine somehow got the suspicion I am gay. Slowly he started giving signals like rubbing his *** against my hand etc. I gave him a stern stare and with that he stopped. He was in his early 20's from a rural background and of my type. But right from beginning as valentine pointed out I decided not to mix profession and fun together. Just before he completed his course I realized he had a girl friend. Then he had a difference of opinion with me and started bad mouthing about me. Since I have always been a strict disciplinarian at work everybody supported me. Just imagine if I would have fallen for his seduction my career would have been screwed. Most top persons who are being named in #metoo would have fallen for deduction or consensual *** but are being victimized by their subordinates at a latter time point. So be very careful.