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Hey, I wanted to discuss the level of decency one ought to maintain in a relationship. I mean, many of us have hooked up surely but what after that? How do we know when we’ve crossed the line in a relationship?

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Sude
Posted On Jul 6, 2018 - 06:49 PM

Blocking a person after a nice chat without any reason also shows hw decent a person is .

Which may be rude to the other person.

No harm in openly saying im not interested as no one is forced in this open world.
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Valentine84
Posted On Jul 6, 2018 - 07:40 PM

COURTESY.. COURTESY .. COURTESY..... upto to N times... COURTESY...

You like or dislike a person, be it a good or bad person, a one night stand or a ur life's love, treat a person with COURTESY..

A basic human courtesy is the best way to show your decency.. Unfortunately many Indians lack this virtue.. Needless to say about the Indian gay men (90%) of them don't even know basic virtues let alone courtesy.. Now don't barge on me with comments before reading this article on gay Indian men

www.dnaindia.com/lifestyle/report-the-bad-***-award-goes-to-gay-indian-men-1749720

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rogertoni22
Posted On Jul 7, 2018 - 05:28 PM

@ Sude : I dont think anyone would block a person arbitrarily.. that too after a nice chat..
Probably the chat would have gone the bitter way, in which case it is always better for one to block and getaway instead of spewing abuses..

However, if one blocks without any reason... then yes, it hurts.. ..
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Sasmathu
Posted On Jul 8, 2018 - 06:03 AM

I agree with valentine. Basic courtesy is a must in any relationship. Further being upfront in ones expectation is a must. Once I met a guy through chat. Very decent and good looking but pure top. He was not even ready for mutual ***. He suggested threesome for which i was not ready. We chatted for a while and left-not to be seen again. But still it is ok. Asking a guy to come to a place, seeing him from a distant place and leaving without even informing him is the worst behavior one can expect. Asking for a pic with a false promise of reciprocating with his pic and blocking him after seeing his pic is another very indecent gesture.
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Pandi1980
Posted On Jul 10, 2018 - 07:04 AM

@valentine84 - Thanks dude for your right mentioning of the word courtesy

As Valentine said basic courtesy implies to the decency..I might be NSA..we knew that we are not going to meet anymore in life..Then what would be wrong in saying bye once everything got over

Valentine mentioned a word "dark secret" in one of his comments..Some will make people to feel like the same..They would be sweet before going to bed and the moment they come out then they will remember that someone in his family is coming within 5 mins (ha ha..WTF)

Then coming to point..The most important behaviour of not crossing line is not to ask about our other G friends and their looks and talking about the third person who is known to us and unknown to them..We shouldn't poke our nose into others business..

I used to share about my other G friends and their incidents without mentioning their name to whomever I meet.I personally feel that sharing some good and bad experiences will create some impact in person who is hearing that. I will be annoyed if they ask more about the person's Identity which I usually refuse to reveal

My personal connect and opinion in this forum- Gayspark,mahesh80,valentine are really decent