Tips at cruising spots
Here are some useful info to make your meetings great 1) Get the info about crusining spot from ohmojo and be there. Pretend that you were there bychance and not intentionally( an expected move will not bring excitement) so that the other person will make his move which will be slow and methodological. 2) if you are in bus. Expose your bulge(not nude)/make contact with your device unintentionally,a gay would definitly make his move to this. 3) if its a common urinating area, pretend u came for urination and when someone approach closr ur zip and pretend the zip is defective and u r finding it difficult to close. He will offer to close and consequently a hot bj or hj. 4) if its theatre. Choose the last row. Here you have good chance for bj and act to remove his hands when he makes his move as if you are not into it. He will keep trying as he already habe touched it in first attempt. This will slowly stimulate you. Reply/Post a comment
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Rajiv42 | Posted On May 14, 2018
when you go to malls or theatres or any area, just switch on your bluetooth and name ur bluetooth as ur number along with ur preference like T B or V.
People can get connected as well like this. |
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curious_dude | Posted On Jul 7, 2018
This thread is soo underrated. Great points there. |
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Guy27bi | Posted On May 22, 2025
Avoid public places and try to avoid cruising. If you have a good gaydar, you can chat, flirt and go on dates to discuss your likes. Or try online dating, be careful about blackmail and money seekers.
If you decide to go crushing please don't carry anything valuable, or go out in the middle of the night. Most of the robbing and cheating happens when desperate guys go cruising at night. Don t bring strangers to your house. And if someone blackmails or try to cheat you, be confident , don't be scared. Go to the police ask friends for help.
Lookout for cameras, there are lots of new scams happening in cities, where someone record a you having fun with others in cruising places and they try to blackmail you. Even the guy you are having fun with , will also be involved with those guys. You will be trapped. So avoid cruising. Please keep this things in mind.
Follow safe *** always. |
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sangram_p44 | Posted On Aug 20, 2025
- always keep a good excuse why are you there
- never be the first one who makes move. In many cases I've heard and seen that usually looters gives clear signal and when you make move they flip. So never make first Move.
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*** | Posted On Aug 21, 2025
I read a good quote somewhere- "my hard *** has led me places where I would not go with a loaded gun", this summarizes cruising spots and random hook up. The biggest tip for any cruising spot or cruising in general- Use common sense.
There are cruising spots and then there are random places where you can get lucky.
Here are few tips based on personal experience.
1. Know the area before cruising, walk around, understand the lay of the land, know exit points
2. Blend in- don't wear flashy clothes, expensive shoes, rule of thumb - a black tshirt or shirt and denim works well. In Dark corners, black blends.
3. Dont carry wallet loaded with cash or cards. Leave the wallet, expensive phone, credit/ debit cards, gold, watches at home
3. carry some cash, preferrable Rs 50, Rs 100 denominations, if you need to take cab... Always carry Condom
4. Know the difference between other cruising men and hustlers. , Beware of possible trap. Be watchful
5. Everyone has smartphone, you never know who is recording you.
6. Park you car or bike away from cruising spot. It is easier to play around on bike than in Car. Agreed car is comfy and offers privacy, but it is also difficult to dodge out in "sticky situation" Also, helmets can offer anonymity.
7. With experience, a seasoned cruiser can tell who is new to spot and who is regular. learn to read people.
8. Indian men are bad at cruising, many don't understand "NO" , be firm, especially if you are bottom or have thin physique.
9. Remember at cruising spots everyone is out to get their rocks off, but will behave like they just had a dip in Ganges and walking into a temple. It is just that everyone has their guards up.
10. Keep a resting bitch face, *** is in the eyes. Cruising happens with eyes and little body language.
11. keep a time limit as how long you want to spend at a spot, dont cruising for 3-4 hours, you will get noticed for wrong reason. Some days (or nights) are just not good.
12. When you are hooking up with someone, be watchful of the surrounding. Sometimes depending on the place, others will be supportive to cover you or express to join you in your play. Decide how u want to wing it.
13. Understand that many cruising spots are not exclusive to gays, many straights use the place. Dont be stupid *** and make some grave mistake.
14. Age and crowd matters... know that most of the searches have gone on apps, at cruising spots you are going to get mostly old guys, and people looking for quick and fast random hook up. Unlike apps, don't waste your and others time, if it not a good hook up match, then move on.
Till few years ago, Cubbon Park, Bangalore, Marine Drive, Kochi, Sector 17, Chandigarh, ISBT Jalandhar, Parimal Garden, Ahmedabad, Sambhaji Park, Pune, Sangam Theatre, Bhopal, SheeshMahal, Hyderabad, Racecourse circle, Coimbatore, Training Ground, Hyderabad, Sagar Arcade, Pune, Park Plaza Ludhiana, Nehru Park Delhi, Volgas bar CP Delhi were some of the most happening cruising spots, now these are all things of past. Crowd has moved on apps.
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BodyPlayAmberna | Posted On Aug 22, 2025
Useful tips.. Biggest problem is carrying mobile, we do have payment apps which are linked to bank accounts, we can't avoid it or carry it. We need to vigilant enough |
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