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Submitted by Pandi1980 Location: All India (All India, India)

Actual most of us have profile name which is not same as our original name

If u wish share the reason (story/incident/sentiment) how did u choose that name

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 08:34 AM

I have chosen cherry blossom because it is sweet and loving name. It also means I am sweet and loving by nature like to give love and company to fellow people. This name is very apt for me. Hope you will agree

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 08:48 AM

Mine is hellosweetshere ... Its very random nothing behind it. Fyi im a sweet guy ...

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 12:35 PM

@cherryblossom & hellosweetshere - u will both will be surrounded by a(u)nts since u both are sweet...LOL

My profile name is just a similar incident as Kamal name himself as "avvai shanmugi" in that movie.I was supposed to create one mail for doing these kind of chats.I opened a new Gmail account while I was travelling in bus.In that page it asked me to fill a name.Suddenly, I looked a hotel named "Madurai Pandian" through window.So I entered my name as Pandi.It showed me already exists.then I added name ganesh (by the time I was crossing lord Ganesha temple).It also didn't exist.Finally I added numbers by seeing some two wheeler number plate as 1980.They accepted

My mail id : pandiganesh1980@gmail.com

It was too lengthy.I shortened it as Pandi1980 (I used this name from mail as it was my first mail for this purpose so it is always special to me😉😊)

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 01:47 PM

Guru is secret and not known name of mine. So I'm not being fake. Just like the less known part of myself, my less known name compliments it. @Pandi - you've killed it.

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 01:59 PM

some how I like people with name starting with S. long back in g4m I started using name Sandeep while I was in blore. but people started thinking of me as Northi and so choose Santosh now. short form of it is San :-).

in fact I came across a str8 guy in blore who used to say S is always yes for him as they are sweet, sexxy etc., people used to make fun of him s is also sparrow, sad etc.,

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 02:10 PM

Valentine84 - my original name starts with a similar sound. 84 is the year I was born. I am deep down romantic and so I always liked the name Valentine.

My planetromeo profile has a deeper sentiment. Blue_bliss - blue is his(my bestie) favourite colour and bliss is the feeling I experience when I spend time with him..

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 02:53 PM

@guru - ha ha 😉 from today, people will directly call u as guru and don't need to spend one msg to ask your name 😂😂 (Saving a message)... Thanks for Ur comment

@valentine - Thanks dude.very meaningful name..Blue _ bliss reason was awesome

@santvel - Thanks for Ur comment. even I like people whose name starts with S since my straight bestie name starts with same S

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 03:46 PM

@Pandi again some telephathy. So here goes my another funny story. Long (long ago nobody knows how long ago!!!) when i was in US, i felt extremely lonely and home sick. It was during my early 20's and i was still struggling to come to terms with my sexuality. Was trying to find out where to start and how to start. That was the time chatting was coming up in a midway. I desperately wanted to have chat friends to kill my free time. Like a novice, I created a profile with my original name and logged into yahoo and would type regular messages like "are there any indians" "are there any tamilians" etc. My roommate who was several years elder to me and had been in US for quite sometime then, used to sped hours together in chat and i always wondered how the hell he got so many chat friends. Then i realized that he was actually chatting in a girl's id and all the desperate singles there where flocking onto his id. He was straight and did it purely for fun. I decided to create a girl's id and started chatting. As usual the whole screen was filled up with msgs and video invites the moment i logged in into yahoo chat. I was attracted to a good looking guy who looked decent and started my chatting. Soon I realized he was medical student from Madurai doing his studies in Russia. Soon i got hooked to his chat and we became good friends. Exactly on the forth day since we started chatting he proposed to me, without even asking for my pic (more like kadhal kottai movie). I was carried away by his innocence and since i thought it was just for fun i accepted his proposal. Soon I realized he got addicted and was developing a deep feeling for me without realizing that I am also a man. It came to a stage where he started saying he cant live without me and he would end his life if i dont marry him etc. I felt odd, awkward and more importantly guilty for cheating an innocent guy. So at the next chat, I told him all the truth. But he was not willing to believe a single word of what i said (pat my back for my acting skills!!!) and thought i was lying to him just to avoid him. Left with no options, i deleted my id and that was the end of my first virtual love story!!! His name was saravanan and at that time my fake id was madhumitha and hence sasmathu. By this time (may be an year latter) I was more confident with internet and started exploring (rather hunting) my g fantasies. So the next profile which i created was sasmathu and i use it for most of my g activities. BTW sorry for the long story.

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 03:47 PM

Hi all, actually spark is my pen name. I started using it when I thought of writing a book on gay n bisexual experiences. My Book is " I am by Sexual" it's work in progress.
A spark is a such a small thing but when in right conditions it can kindle a great fire, I want to be that tiny little spark that can evoke a great positive change through even minute contribution.
Spark is a tiny little energy of fire, filled with so much of potential and enthusiasm, when used properly it could become a torch if not it could end up into a raging fire strong enough to destroy anything in its path.
I thought this would best describe the energy in me which I intend to utilise in a positive way.
Hence here I am.
Yours Lovingly

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 04:07 PM

@Sasmathu - Thanks for comment.This was more beautiful when u said to me in phone call few months ago 😉

@Gayspark - Thanks.Here this spark enlights many ideas in guys.Hope your book will be published soon. Congrats buddy 😊

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 05:26 PM

@Gaysprak Writing a book is just brilliant dude. Infact many times, just by reading some of member's comments, I wondered why is it these things are not documented in the form of a book. I wrote so much of my experience in the orkut community.Many appreciated it. But now it has become obsolete. Most of us write here right from our heart but without proper archiving this will evaporate with no matter of time. We need good gay books from India to document our emotions, pain, path, coming out etc. I am sure your book would be a path breaker and blockbuster in the boxoffice. I wish you all the very best for your endeavour. But I have a doubt. Is it possible to publish a book being anonymous? Wont you have to "come out" to get your book released?

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 07:11 PM

@sasmathu@gayspark --- writing a book is a superb idea..am sure it will be a big hit. There are few online platforms as well where it can be published as an e-book, without revealing the identity of the author.
When i see the writing skills of some of the members of this site, i often wonder, "what is this guy doing here?"..some of our guys could as well have become successful writers, columnists or journalists..this platform could well be a stepping stone for then towards that end.

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 07:18 PM

@Gayspark - A spark could instigate a fire. No wonder you are always on fire and eventually hot ;)...

Dude .. That book idea is brilliant . Are you writing this is as an autobiographical style or fictionalising it weaving a story line?

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 08:35 PM

@pandi1980 very interesting post !

intro_vert - I chose this because I'm anniversary time introvert as the name suggests. It also helps me identify fellow introverts.

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 09:46 PM

I meant to say that I'm a big time introvert.

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Posted On Apr 19, 2018 - 11:02 PM

Neel is Blue! Shortened form of Indraneel which means sapphire! I used to change my names on pr but everything had some connection with blue. No longer active on PR.
Sachet means lively and animated. Full of energy! Sachet Indraneel is my nom de plume

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Ragu for fun
Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 01:19 AM

Well Ragu is my close friend’s name....I can b myself with him and even though we don’t talk often, my comfort with him has not reduced...so I took his name in this forum...and the fun part of my ID stands for everything that can make life pleasant

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Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 01:29 AM

I picked divergent. Not jus here, in most of the places where username is needed. I pick divergent. The reason is that I have inspired a lot from the divergent series book by Veronica. Especially the nature of dauntless people. As the name describes, I am actually a divergent. I always look from a different dimension of the things and unique in many lifestyles.

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Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 03:05 AM

@introvert,neelsachet,ragu, divergent - Thank u all.Each one of u has some interesting reason behind ur name

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Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 05:21 AM

Nandhan came from Nandanar, as an exemplar to prove that social superiority originates not from birth, but the qualities and deeds of people and also impressed by Bharatiyar songs Nandhalala.

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Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 05:26 AM

@gayspark, all the best. I'm a published author. Reach out if you need help.

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Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 10:36 AM

I wanted to use some common name which both the gender can use... so used sathya..

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Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 11:23 AM

Rahul is a popular fake chat id used by many in 2000s. My first boyfriends fake id is Rahul. I fell in love with him while he was chatting with that name. Sam is sound alike of my name. My college friends call me with this name

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Posted On Apr 20, 2018 - 12:06 PM

@pandi1980, i thought 1980 was ur birth year.

there is not much meaning of my id. i chose it mostly to remain discreet and unidentifiable. also i am a new guy in this forum. love to read everyone's stories and share mine too.

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Posted On Apr 21, 2018 - 07:03 AM

Ajju - ajith is my lose friend, my crush/colleague , a straight guy whom I love a lot .
Vijju - actor vijay, the man I love from my childhood, from my 5th class till now,...Around 23 years now.. Kinda addicted to him...
I love calling them as ajju and vijju.. together ajjuvijju.. :)

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Posted On Apr 21, 2018 - 07:04 AM

Grr Typo... Close friend. Not lose friend.

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Posted On Apr 21, 2018 - 02:07 PM

The reason for my name - I love to travel and visit EXOTIC locations from around the world. Someday, I would love to go on a backpack tour across the world and meet new people.

I actively review on food and travel on Zomato and Tripadvisor. But someday I would like a write a travelogue on gay travel destinations - you can see that I made a small start with this very site 😊 when I think I am ready I will probably publish it as a separate blog.

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Posted On Apr 22, 2018 - 04:43 AM

Thanks Guru. Are you comfortable sharing the name of the book you published

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Posted On Apr 22, 2018 - 10:51 AM

JoMaddy- Jo is the start of my real name and Maddy is favorite actor of my bestiee

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Posted On Dec 6, 2018 - 01:14 PM

I have chosen pundairegan my relative who abused me when I was 11

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Posted On Dec 6, 2018 - 02:04 PM

I have chosen because I'm a bottom and I like to be treated like a Randi/whore during *** in bed by my top. That's it.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2018 - 02:50 PM

My name comes from my email id! I created it when the following video was released.

I was already gaga over GaGa, the Lady GaGa. And Ghani Bawri ho gayi was one of my earworms then! Such an energetic dance number! Hats off to the creator, who did a perfect blend of two different things. I really find both GaGa and Kangana to be bold, courageous and the whistleblower types!

Eventually, gagagonebawri became my name😂

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Posted On Dec 6, 2018 - 08:56 PM

Mine is very simple... It says what all I am looking for
Heads - Looking for Heads, ie someone to blow me
Tails - Looking for ***
Holes - Looking for Holes to ***

I have same ID on PR too, but when I tried to create an ID on this profile, it cut it due to size limitations.
So it ended on HO


My other IDs are also either meaning ful (like ILoveTallGuys), or showing my character (Like Kanhaiya, who was loved by so many gopies and used to calles filenderer), or like IStayAloneTV80(well explanatory, 80 born Vers top guy with place).

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Posted On Dec 6, 2018 - 09:13 PM

My name comes from my interests basically.it means I want to kneel down and suk as many *** as possible at any place

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Ashok Kumar Blr
Posted On Dec 7, 2018 - 01:39 AM

This forum really brings the memory dusted off the initial or the start days of my adolescence.
I am new to hunt men because all my encounters till that day was like in the bus and on the go touching ***, fondling it and so.
I think I don’t remember exactly through yahoo chat or there is a website called 1 man where I have hunted for guys initially.
I found a guy in my native place. I started to talk with him and he invited me for a casual meet and he gave me his details like what type of dress and what was his vehicle and vehicle no. I came to the place in vehicle and noticed him. He is actually 10 to 14 years elder to me. Somehow as it’s my first guy to meet that too on my hometown itself.
So I hesitated and called him back and said I am returning back as I am feeling scared. Luckily he convinced me and took me to his home. He gave me the best time and then we met occasionally whenever he has place.

Ok ok. I got everyone’s thought. I am coming to the point.

Later when I have become pro(as I had the first encounter and I myself thought so). I decided to play myself as a slutty playboy. I was in yahoo chat and was chatting with a guy. He is a mallu and he work in ship. So he can’t visit anyone so frequently. So when he asked my name I was thinking whether to give my real name or not. By then there was a movie was playing in my TV. Movie is called PachaiKilli Muthucharam(tamil movie directed by Goutham Vasudev Menon and the cast is Sharath, Andrea and Jo). In that Jp is the villain and she uses the wife name of her victims as her next name to hunt innocent guys for money.
So I decided to use the same logic and to use the name of my first encounter which is AshokKumar. I gave my pseudo name to the mallu guy in ychat as AshokKumar. The mallu guy name is Rahul. He came to my hometown nearly he travelled 400-500 kms for meeting me, booked the biggest hotel in my town and invited me for a dinner. I met him and had him as a dinner and maximum I spent with him was 1-2hours only. But he waited nearly 1.5 days and he travelled a long distance to meet me. I was so pleased by him. So I started to use his name as my next pseudo name. However I didn’t follow my logic of myself naming again. So I kind of stopped using rahul name and went back to Ashok as he is my first and the best encounter.

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Posted On Dec 7, 2018 - 02:47 AM

I asked one of my friend abt the cruising area when I came first to Bangalore. He told me this site. To name my id, I used ilangumaran bcuz my pet name is kumaran. That time I was reading one novel called manipallavam by naa.parthasarathy.
Hero name is ilangumaran, very interesting character so I made my id as same.

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Posted On Dec 7, 2018 - 04:46 AM

This is a new id because my first id was blocked here 🙂

My first id was bukkake_me
That was back in 2008. I had a bukkake fantasy and made my pr id to be that. Pretty much every dating site, including xvideos had the same id (xvideos id is still the same). More for ease of remembering.

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madras man
Posted On Dec 7, 2018 - 07:54 AM

Madras Man --> madras - the city where i was born ; man - i am

this is the one and only id i am using for the past 12 plus years. the same id in PR too.

@Pandi - great idea to start a thread on this topic.

I loved reading to all your messages and the reasons behind it :-)

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Posted On Dec 7, 2018 - 09:29 AM

Adamsin- just imagined Adam the first human on earth as a gay man...lol

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Posted On Dec 8, 2018 - 04:33 AM

My id - Male_fantasy was actually from a book I read in my teens. I wasnt quite sure of my sexuality till my twenties. It was way back in early 2000's when, as @sasmathu pointed, YM was very famous and all teens were hooked to it. I was curious and didnt have a outlet to discuss what was going on with me but I was sure that boys attracted me as much as girls. I created a handle 'malefantasy' and would log into those chas rooms ( Oh those were the wonderful days!!, I really really miss them!!) bi or gay rooms but could not find any indians there much, and used to chat with lots of guys from US (mostly). First Questions - ASL? Cam? - since I did not have a computer at home, i used visit netcafes and use office training rooms. I really got bored and then I thought of assuming a girls name to attract the boys ;). So LISA_RAY21 came to life and just like sasmathu experience, a young doc named Saravanan from Bangalore got connected with me and it really went to such a extent that he proposed me and wanted to marry me. i never thought that it would lead to this though I would have married if he was like me. I then told him that my parents wouldnt agree and said good bye to him. But that fella still pursued me in emails and sent me watches and shades as gifts to my office address. I returned those back to him and told him that he was very good friend and wished him good luck. WOW! it was such a beautiful experience ( though I was wrong to cheat him, but come on what else could I do to express my thoughts and feeling, I never even knew that there was article 377 then!)

Nevertheless I stayed out of this for a year and occasionally if I log into YM, his messages would be still there, poor soul, hope he has good life now, but he was my first straight love!! Siggghhhhhh! :¬(

I went into hibernation thereafter concentrating on my work and career for the next few years trying to keep my mind busy. but still I had malefantasy as my id in Gmail , in skype , walla.com - it was standard usage across all platforms. Sometime during this period i came across a yahoo group called GARAMJISM - hot spot for all nudes and erotics. It was closed group then, i waited almost a month before I was allowed then. Innumerous pics and gifs were splashed on emails, remember this was still the dialup era internet. So I then adopted garamjism as well as my other alternate Id( incase someone has taken malefantasy) and has been active in PR Grindr since the last 10 years or so. So thats how malefantasy and garamjism came into my life and it still continues to be....

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Posted On Dec 8, 2018 - 08:17 AM

I was also member of GARAMJISM.
Used to post my *** stories (my real expenses with good tadka) there and My photography work.
Sad that GARAMJISM group is no more.