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Submitted by Pandi1980 Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

Hi everyone, One uncle started this kind of activities to me.From that day, I don't know why. But I love uncles

For me uncles are kind,well experienced, genuine

I am just 22 but had few good friends above 35 to 60...

Any such experience or Ur opinions?

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pv
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

I always love.. uncles always make me happy./

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Pandi1980
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

Yes .... It's a special feel to have fun with uncles... I believe they are mutual players...Most young guys, only like hard core fun..Uncles love to cuddle and kiss us passionately... young people will say they might have affect with *** infection and all... Without a passionate kiss , *** is not completely fulfilled...Uncles don't hesitate to do anything...They love us like a baby...I am crazy about uncles

The main thing is 90% of uncles love to continue friendship but only 30 to 40% young will do the same...Uncles can understand ur situation and will call on certain time but young will not understand the situation, the thing is that they need someone in bed now

I am not saying that all young people are like this.There are good youngsters who have mature minds but their ratio with the uncles are comparatively less

Uncles are angels who know to respect and values the partner

There are some bad uncles too but they are very few in numbers when compared to youngsters

I am not here to hurt any young age guys...if u r really good, I salute u my dudes and bros...it's just my opinion about uncles

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ntquit169
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

Really uncles are good. i had nice times with uncle. Infact they are more experienced and know the technique. Then onwards i got into this. whenever we meet each other and time permits, we have a good time.

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chennaimacho6
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

I agree. Even my gay life started because of an uncle only. I'm still love uncles

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265292
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

@pandi1980: you have nailed it. Very good comments which depicts reality exactly. Its because maturity comes with age which youngsters lack

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263363
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

Hmm nice thread, yup totally agree everything u guys have said. My first initiation was with an uncle too. I think most of us were introduced to gayest by uncle's I guess. They have more sexual drive n less chances of having *** with their spouses. Hence they prey upon younger guys or even teens n children who are easy target, n care them so like babies n show love to fondle them n get them into ***.

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ntquit169
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

@gayspark : it is true. when the uncle was having it with me, i openly asked him since he is married having two kids. His spouse not interested in it anymore. He says that he could not go out as it will spoil his image and affect his family as well. Thus he got into this route for fulfilling his desire. He made me enjoyed whenever i was with him. He was caring and loving.

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Kumarkkdi
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

Like to have fun with uncle's

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Pandi1980
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

@ gayspark....It's not like that. There may be 10% of uncles - like what u mentioned. Actually, they r not forcing u to have fun... Generally uncles will be friendly even if we don't have *** with them.I knew few uncles with whom I didn't have *** but share every things like a best friend
But what u r telling is more offensive like uncles are using young for *** in name of love..I totally disagree, they really care and love... And *** can be with compulsion but it won't last forever but I am telling that uncles friendship last forever

Uncles (most of them ) are 100 times genuine in friendship when compared to youngsters (very few exceptional )

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

Of course uncles make you feel special.. Be nice .. Caring and all.. But we should understand the fact that the same uncles who have all these qualities of loving and caring have a family back home and they can never be genuine to us cos they are used to being nice with their respective families and they extend the same behaviour to us.

They act nice to their families for the society sake and nice to younger boys for their own sake. They are experienced players who know what they want and how to get it.. Don't get carried away by their congenial nature.. In most case these *** uncles don't get enuf or no *** in their family lives so they use us..

Of course younger guys are restless .., in my point of view if your looking for genuinely caring gay partner find some one within your age group not so young not so older than your current age.. Only such guys can understand both your emotional and sexual needs and a good company to you..

I have been exploited by an uncle ... But I do have some good friends too (in uncles) .. Of course there are exceptions ..

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funguy2016
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

i have alays lusted on milfs and uncles above 40.. manly men with good body, *** and appetite for kinky fun always excites me..love to blow a matured expericned man and make him moan..have had few exp

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263363
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

This comment was just based on my reflection over my experience dear friends. I'm not against uncle's. Yes I.deed they are mature in behaviour and thoughts too. I have seen couple of them helping gay teens settle in their careers. So I respect that.
To be frank I myself May be rated as an uncle too by teens or younger gays as I'm 34' so being called as an uncle is individual perspective

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Sasmathu
Posted On Mar 3, 2018

I am an uncle by all means now (41 yrs). But I was an uncle lover when i was in my teens. There used to be a tea shop run by a nair (nair tea kadai as it is popularly called) near our house. That shop owner was in mid 30's and like a typical mallu was very tall, hefty, fair and hairy with a thick mush. To my fatal attraction, he always used to wear dark coloured lungi and that to very much folded up showing his sexy hairy thighs and sometimes even tip of his bulge. Had a huge crush on him. Every day he used to cross my house in a cycle with the folded lungi. Due to his big body he used to reveal almost all of his lower body upto his bulge, while riding the cycle. Just to have a fleeting glimpse of his bulge I used to hide myself in the bathroom and keep peeping the road through the window till he crosses our house. Hmmm this tread brought back so much of old memories. Never had an oppurtunity even to talk to him.

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RGB
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

Thanks for guys sharing Ur views here, but the same way hw many have insulted uncles, for being in this, I'm one among who got insulted, it's my feel not a blame, every one has to hv one statement in mind, all will become older, u can not be young as ever u want
ALL DAYS ARE NOT SUNDAYS

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263363
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@pandi 1980 thank you very much for your compliments. I am very happy to share my thoughts without inhibitions in this site. I don't have any profiles at other dating sites. I'm glad I found this platform to express my thoughts to every one who can both criticise and appreciate

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@RGB - nobody gets anything by insulting anyone .. Agreed we are grow old one day.. But can you find any uncle profile in planetromeo or Grindr which accepts another uncles ? They would say they would look only below 30 or younger guys.. So now it's who is discriminating who ?

I have been exlpoited by uncles whom I couldn't dare to fight back at that young age.. Uncles are experienced players in this who know what they want and how to get it...

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Mani12
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

Valentine84 -. I do not know how other uncles. As far I am concerned I love all ages including elders to me. In past years, I had 60+ people also (now no more).

Presently I have three close friends of my age with whom I am enjoying whenever we get free time.


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Ragu for fun
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

I sort of agree with valentine84 with the fact that uncles do prefer younger guys....iam 35 and one might call me uncle but it’s how you feel and how you behave that determines the title....I usually prefer younger men but I do find fit and well maintained older men....so it finally comes down to how u groom itself and carry itself....most ‘uncles’ have a belly and don’t groom themselves to be attractive enough....so they tend to use feeling like care and sometimes money to get what they want....no one is a true philanthropist here

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@mani12 - see that's true, only the guys around your age only will stay with you for long.. Since uncles are bees who knows when to *** the nectar from which flower and at what time.. After getting their nectar , That is when we grow old they look out for the next available flower.. So never fall emotionally for any uncle.. Of course there are exceptions but very less..

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@Ragu.- This ain't philanthropy .. Just easy and safe *** at an affordable price... Rather than spending on commercial guys it's a safe option to buy some gifts or being nice to younger guys for the sake of ***..

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Ragu for fun
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

I was only agreeing to ur point valentine84....I meant no one is here for philanthropy but for their own selfish reason which I wouldn’t is completely wrong

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279488
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

Uncles r like our college seniors they have better understanding but i feel disgusted to hav relationship with uncles not because of their age or bodily unfitness but the feeling that I am fooling an innocent women ofcourse i'm not gonna claim anything out of him like money property etc unlike any other extra marital affairs but its about playing with someone's loyaltiness and trust however if that uncle is widow or single no probs though x is bodily matter in India it is yoked into marriage that's our culture too so once married its better to seek x only from their partner

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Exotic1234
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

Psychologically it is proven that men or women who are attracted to much older men are actually looking for father figures. Father figures provide them a sense of security and protection that they feel is lacking in their life. Something they have probably missed in their regular life on account of having a very strict autocratic father or lack of a father.
The western gay world also has a term called "Sugar Daddies" where a younger boy gets into a relationship with an older man for money/ lifestyle and trades it with ***.
Fantasing having a se xual relationship with someone much older is also a kind of fetish however it is harmless and more of a personal choice. However older man seducing and exploiting a young boy of less than 18 comes under Pedophilia and is harmful and treated as a crime under the law.
I think as people age especially men experience increased libido unlike females where the se xual desires decrease rapidly post Menopause. Considering such men have tough time finding a partner they prey on younger boys thru money or by force.

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Exotic1234
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

While I respect everyone has a right to choose their partner for a s ex. However with time I have learnt that age is just a number there are younger people who are so poorly maintained and older ones who are in such a fantastic shape. It's probably the complete package than just one attribute like age. That being said I do believe that "looks" play a very important role in the world of gays as most members in the community look for a quick hook up and are so scared and ashamed of their se xuality that they never stay long enough to foster a meaningful friendship. Most people like to compartmentalize their life into regular (where they have family and friends who have no clue about their same s ex attraction) and the hook up world where they look for men to do quickies. It's ironical that leading this dubious life is the cause of stress in our lives. The few (5%) good looking guys in the ga y world hook up with other good looking guys the average looking guys (95% of the population) are quite frustrated and unsatisfied. Guess that's the way God made the world 😂

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Sasmathu
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@RGB Through even I have undergone that insult especially in PR. Personally when i was young i also had age restrictions. When somebody was above 50 I never accepted the proposal. but never insulted them. but in the present scenario many are insulting elderly people based on age calling them oldies etc which is not right. Infact recently in this same website somebody solicited for gang bang. The first criteria was age- strictly not more than 35. I don't mean to say it is wrong but in group as might prefer people of same age or young some might also prefer older guys. I couldn't understand why somebody couldn't understand this logic.
@Valentine84 I could understand your feelings. But you should understand that most of us are here due to some kind of sexual abuse which had taken place during our younger age. And persons who indulge in these kinds of sexual abuses are not just uncles, even younger guys do it. You might prefer somebody of your age or younger. However, somebody might prefer older guys. Nothing wrong in it. It is just one's preference. Similarly some uncles might prefer younger guys but others might prefer guys of their age or even older. We are entitled to have our own preferences but cant be judgmental about others. If you feel uncles take advantage of young guys, it is also vice versa. Some young guys also take advantage of uncles. I am not sure whether you saw this beautiful gay hindi movie Alighar. That hero is an uncle who has a relationship with a rikshawalla. He would be tormented based on his sexuality, religion, caste and age. Manoj Baipay has very beautifully portrayed the nuances of being old, being gay, being well educated and being born in a "conservative" background. Finally all "young" people who are pointing their fingers towards uncles are also going to grow "old" one day. So what will they do then. Will gay come out of their gay feeling and lead a saintly life?

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Sasmathu
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

This is a true life incident which happened to me years back. I got in contact with a "young" guy who was interested in meeting me. He said he was 18. I met him at anna nagar towers. Some how i didnt find him attractive (not my taste kind off) but at the same time since he had come from a long distance wanted to be nice to him. We spoke for a while and i got my first shock. He was not 18 but was only 16 in his 11th class. Then the second shock- his father was a police. Then the third shock- he was sexually abused by his fathers senior (reporting authority) at the age of 8- cruel. His father always used to take him to his station and their his senior became very found of him. He took the responsibility of dropping him at school and picking him up from school. During that time he was sexually abused by that senior person. Initially this poor young guy didnt know what was happening but latter developed a feeling for that senior guy. He went to such an extend this poor guy literally married him virtually and started living a life like his wife. But one day the cruel monster brought one of his friends to his house and insisted that he should have *** with his friend. This poor guy who was till then think about the senior as his husband was completely shattered. He cried and screamed and left the place. The senior didnt had any true feeling for this guy and was just using him as a *** toy and literally trowed him out after playing with him. Now this guy was looking in for a older guy of that officers age and wanted to literally get married to him and lead a life as his wife. I advised him that first off all this is not the age to think of marriage and he should actually concentrate more on his studies. But the guy was so mentally upset that he was not willing to take any of my advice. Finally I dropped him in a bus stand and left with a heavy heart. After few years i accidentally saw him in the train. He also recognized me. We never spoke. He quietly got down in the next station. Even now i am praying for his welfare. God should help him come out of his wounds and lead a normal life.

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Sasmathu
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@Exotic1234 Very true. I have very good friend of mine who is in his 50's who is tall dark thin bald and least attractive. He used to say "onnu azlagu errukanum; ella vayasu errukanum" ethu rendum poie feelings mattum sagama errukurathu roomba valli. He used to say if some body is like aravindswamy he might get offers even at 50's and 60's. If somebody is like senthil he might get offers may be upto 25 atleast for the age. If somebody is like senthil and are in their 50's then their offers are absolutely nil. These guys have to get laid down only by paying. That is why gigalos are increasing in chennai. it is a very simple concept of of supply and need. BTW I used aravindswamy and senthil only for reference. Personally I feel senthil is definitively a great actor than AS. So dont hit upon me for that.

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263363
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@exotic @sasmathu
I agree with all the comments, we should all agree with one thing that age is just a number. Aren't we branding guys above certain age as uncle's and give them a specific image. Sometimes I hate the discrimination.
But as u guys said, It is usually ones own preference or choice of what or how old ones partner should be.
As u guys pointed out guys with father identity issues during childhood tend to easily feel comfortable around uncle's because of their caring nature n sense of security. So is the concept of sugar daddies.
It's an interesting thread regarding uncle's or sugar daddies to be more precise.

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 4, 2018

@Sasmathu - Aravindsamy or Senthil doesn't matter.. If they are sugar daddies even that's fine .. The daddy spends for his pleasure and the younger guy gets his piece of cake.. But there are uncles who make you a prey by emotionally supporting you and once they get you to bed their care vanishes..

In my case I was abused in my early twenties by a 52 year gentleman.. Three months of cajoling and constant messages and caring talks vanished on the very next week he laid me down in bed.. Still with no regrets he finds me recently in planetromeo and recognising me by my pictures and asks me to bed.. Now I am 30 + years of age.. How do you think I would feel ? The funniest part is his profile says guys only below 35 contact him...

@others - yes age is a mere number and life is all about individual choices but don't abuse some one emotionally for your lust.. Even after years thinking about that uncle gives me a rise in my blood pressure..

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funguy2016
Posted On Mar 5, 2018

read lot of comments here.. interesting. am bi. had lot of GAY adventures alslo... but somehow am never in good looking men. infact good lookng men never make me to look at them whtsoever.. for me i like looks of normal lookng man or those who have naughty *** looks with a dusky/dark skin with nice body and organs.... somehow i get very odd when men talk abt love/affection .. for me its pure lust and sexual satisfaction when it comes to affairs with men... yes i do respect them all. but hate when they r looking for love and all..i poliltley make them understand wht am lookin for

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263363
Posted On Mar 5, 2018

During my school days I had a huge crush on my friends dad he was a fitness trainer for cine actors that time. He stayed near my house and sometimes offered me a ride to my tuition centre in his bike. He was a built n hot looking guy. He always used to talk to me holding my hands n sometimes when sat near used to rub his bold hands over my thighs and over my shoulders hugging me. Just sitting next to him on his bike or couch use to get me so ***. Especially in bike lifts, I use to hold his waist n wow that was heaven ride.
I wish I had an encounter that time, still he is looking hot

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santVel
Posted On Mar 5, 2018

I feel gud when get crushed by uncles when I was young. uncles generally talk nice to young ones to get them. now days as I am 35+ and soft look too thier behaviours are completely different. they just lay and say I am bottom u can use me but I won't *** or ***. else I am top u can ***. they are very passive. also in the name of secure they want all details of us but not even ready to answer for single question. finally they are not much clean and groom them properly.

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Mahesh80
Posted On Mar 5, 2018

Human mind is more emotional than logical; based on our limited experience and level of perception we paint the entire clan of uncles (or majority of them) with the same color. If an uncle or two had abused me then i feel the majority of them are like that..or if an uncle had been so nice to me then i feel the majority of them are so kind & sweet; both these conclusions could be just a cognitive biase on one's part, the real truth could be far removed from both these perceptions. In psychology researchers have listed more than 50 kinds of cognitive biases that delude our logical thinking and color our day to day judgements. Most of the time we ourselves will not be aware of the blind spots in our judgements that creep in through our cognitive biases, unless we are very objective. Just like there are abusive parents, abusive youths, abusive elders etc..in the society, there are abusive uncles. Their proportion is neither greater nor lessor than in the other category of people. Portraying a majority of them in poor light is akin to many of the main stream media films stereotyping & portraying the entire LGBT community in negative light.

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twink4U
Posted On Mar 11, 2018

Reading your discussions made me ***. Btw me and my friend are two *** bottoms are uncle fans. And no, we aren't looking for gifts or anything. Just some mature discreet expert loving that mature men are good at. Please get in touch privately :-)

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Nikky_dost
Posted On Mar 12, 2018

Being Uncle.. I would like to add few things.. I always say.. joking... this uncle love phenomenon is a balancing act by the creator.
I am 47 now.. as I crossed 30..35+ I was thinking its END OF THE world as my liking is only younger guys (below 25). In the initials days. I used to hide my ages. even at 30's fearing rejections. But thank God, found a guy in dating app.. around 20 years. and when i met him I realised.. that I am first man in his life and he liked me very much..That really changed my perception.. and I found may guys on dating apps who like uncle only and some guys who are comfortable with uncles.

I would like to say one more thing.. Sensing this( uncles loving younger) some younger guys try to exploit this to by seeking money forcefully. So one has to be causious too!!

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tonedbloke
Posted On Mar 27, 2018

Very interesting topic. I myself am 45 and look much older. Have always been interested in older men. I always felt that once I get older it would be difficult to find older guys who would be interested in me. But I was wrong. I feel the creator has made someone for everyone. Some guys like younger and others like older. Some like slim guys and others like big guys.
I have had the chance to meet so many hot uncles who are interested in older men. Ofcourse, i have been rejected many times. Some youngsters have a bad attitude of making fun of older men when they cross their paths in cruising places.

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raja bot
Posted On Mar 27, 2018

Thats there. no body wants uncles. the general attitude here and eveywhere is to choose the young and virile. nobody bothers the aged and old

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Minn
Posted On Nov 11, 2018

I like black good looking uncle's if I saw them my *** gets hard on

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Rajesh902203
Posted On Dec 9, 2018

I like old uncles with muscular body hair and big ***,
They are so sexy when I see them with hairy chest

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oldmensonly
Posted On Mar 4, 2019

Till I have taken more than 15
And all of them are uncles around 60 and above
I like them very much

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RahulJey111 *
Posted On Mar 21, 2019

Hi am 26 now. I have had experience wit 5/6 guys in tat only one is below 35. All other are above 55. I love mature manly or fat uncles. I love *** uncles ***. I don know y I get attreacted to uncle. But I love it.

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Biguy007
Posted On Feb 3, 2020

My first experience started with uncles only during my school days. They were very warm, loving n caring.

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Lottalove
Posted On Feb 5, 2020

Same here.
I was exploited by uncles in my early 20's.
I remember following everything what they said in bed.
There was an uncle I got to know through Gaydia and later he introduced me to a strings of uncles who used to visit Chennai. I used to be staying with them in the hotel room for a night or day.

Uncles are also caring in a way that they think about family and the society to do anything wrong to us.

When it comes to ***, they are experienced hence they used me and they taught me ***.

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sandynaveen
Posted On Feb 5, 2020

I had with my own maternal uncle mama.
One for summer leave went to grand parents home
He use to sleep on terrace always as he returns completely drunken
Normally v cousins use to sleep together inside home
One day wen i went to sleep on terrace found him half naked.
I adjusted and tied his dhoti
He scared whom s touching and holded my hands n half sleep
I said
Mama its me. Dhoti removed. So adjused it
He said ok
But never left my hand
And asked to sleep beside him
He pulled my hands directly to his pvt parts
Rest all flowed

But v never spoke of nothing and acted as nothing happened.

Later we had only few times. But all are good session's & deep

Got more comfortness than earlier after this incident.

He always loves me and still
But no more fun after my school days
Now im 30 and he s 55+


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Andree_Smith
Posted On Jun 2, 2020

My first *** *** is from stranger grandpa in forest. I went to explore the forest from my village. And I saw a old man cutting woods. He saw me and asked un poola sapatum ma. I was scared and ran from there. Little later wit lot of courage i got back to that place and searched form him. He was there i went there and he asked me to remove my shorts. I did. He stated a gentle ***. That was my first time and i got excited and got goosebumps.. it was 15 min. I cummed and left. I went home and cleaned myself. I was like 16 at that time. Awesome and unforgettable experience which i can share only here and not to anyone.

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cindrella_c
Posted On Apr 5, 2021

I think among uncles, dark and hairy uncles are liked more. smooth and fair uncles are not in demand.

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cindrella_c
Posted On Apr 5, 2021

and bottom uncles are also not in demand.

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Sokooldesi1970
Posted On Nov 28, 2023

I am 53 .. Love young guys .. chemistry of course with older guys is also good but like young guys more .. 😊

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oldmensonly
Posted On Nov 28, 2023

Same here
I found uncles 55...60 years are more loving....

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Clinteastwood_1
Posted On Nov 28, 2023

Im 22, im really attracted to uncles in the age of 30 - 60. They’re really good at s@x.
Looking for uncles. DM me well meet and have fun

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