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Big tall bottoms, is finding a match easy?

Submitted by Lips4hugepoles Location: All India (All India, India)

This question is for all the bottoms who are really tall and big. Is it as easy for you guys to find tops as others? I hope I'm not sounding rude. But the reason I ask is because recently I was standing next to one really massive man in the train (2x2 compartment in Mumbai locals). He must have been 6'3 tall at least and well built, but he was trying to grab mine n other people's crotches. I'm a bottom so I obviously didn't like being touched there, but there were a couple of tops next to me, who were too not looking interested in him. And I know they were tops because they were feeling my *** from quite some time. Not that he was a bad looking chap, in fact he was pretty decent. That's when I felt maybe it's a little unfortunate to be a bottom with such a towering personality. I'm wondering if there are any such guys here to share how cruising is when you're a large bottom

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Posted On Sep 25, 2019 - 05:37 AM

Okay so the story is same like mine i am also chubby bottom tall and with a personality very masculine people always mistake me as a straight or top whenever i give a hint which is quite unfortunate

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Posted On Sep 25, 2019 - 06:59 AM

That's the problem with us.. I'm tall atleast 5.10 and chubby with beard.. and I am a bottom but people are not Interested in me i guess😩😩😩. it is difficult.. i am very bad in giving signals but i never got any signals from top.

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Posted On Sep 25, 2019 - 11:19 AM

if you are tall and slim it might be problem. if you are tall with sufficient breasts and butt then it might be nice for the top.
For a bottom to be short, fat, hairless and soft is a good quality, it naturally dosent take much for me to arouse a top, moment my nipples poke out of my shirt, my breast starts jiggling, my pants become tight because of fat, it arouses a top. and and as soon as cloths fall off my chubby body, thats it, a top dosent waste time to milk my juicy breasts and grab my ***. it feels like he had not had *** for ages.

Tops feel very nice when you are submissive, he likes it when you are manageable, small and fluffy.

personally as a bottom i like hard tops, tall,dark, bald and manly, i like it when they dominate. i love to feel their hard muscles. around their arms, chest hair, and mush and beard rubbing my soft skin. i also like the tickle when a top is suckling my soft big breasts.

what a waste it is we bottoms were born men, we should have been very beautiful sexy women, by now someone would have married me and made children out of me.

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Posted On Sep 25, 2019 - 02:15 PM

I am tall 6.1 .. Good boobs.. And plum pounding ***.. Chubby guy.. 28 y.. Getting good top guys of my age is really tough

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Posted On Sep 25, 2019 - 03:56 PM

You are just generalizing it, I know many machoete tops who prefer decent height bottoms. Also, let us not bring the fact that only "midgets" look cute or suffice to be bottom.

A height between 5.6- 6.1 ft would rather be sexy, unless you wanted to be treated as girl, there are bottoms who are proud to be guys. So it all depends on your psyche.

For all those towering bottoms, there are baboon tops who want to pound their last drop in those mounted *** tunnels.

Going by your premise, most bottoms would disregard any top who has less height, as he would not qualify for typical Top characteristics.

To each, his own.

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Posted On Sep 25, 2019 - 05:58 PM

@cbeboot244: well I like tall slim bottom guys..!!

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Posted On Sep 25, 2019 - 06:22 PM

I'm slim, 5'9 bottom and I crossdress sometimes for fun. I actually like being treated as a girl by tops. I hope it won't be a problem because guys find tall girls hot and model like.

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 04:44 AM

Sorry to defer from few comments that tall CD bottom find difficult to find or get tops, muscular tops or handsome tops
I am 6'2" tall, I haven't faced such problem and still guys shorter than me find me attractive and ready to dominate me

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 04:48 AM

Actually I'm lean bottom 23 white colour,most tops are hungry for well built bottoms

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 05:07 AM

It depends on person to person.
I am a 26m fit active bottom who can be a masculine stud power bottom as well as a submissive shy girly bottom, both quite conveniently and my tops love that.
I have always been approached by tall and short tops alike, so i never felt this issue myself.
However though i dont bother much for face and muscles
i love tops taller and heavier than me, i love to feel my man to be able to cover me up. Giant men r instant turn ons for me.
Just a personal preference

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 05:17 AM

All r giving there own assumption, m 6'6" tall masculine top, with average looks, all bottom who r taller have their own attitude,

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 06:21 AM

i love tops taller and heavier than me, i love to feel my man to be able to cover me up. Giant men r instant turn ons for me.

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 06:25 AM

I have dominated plenty of Tall boys... But the norm is that they prefer taller men... Everyone has choices... If you don't try and don't ask we will all miss out... 😜

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 06:49 AM

I love all types of tops, I don't mind short, tall, fair, dark and lean but not fat(not too fat and chubby)

I prefer huge *** to pound me that is more important for me as a bottom.
Would like to try some African *** or Indian guys with that size.

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 12:53 PM

I like tops who r taller and heavier than me. A giant person is an instant turn on irrespective of his face.
I can open my legs anytime for big bodied men :D

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 03:40 PM

I'm 5.5 n i met a bot guy who is 6.3.. He is most amazing bot i hv met so far..

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Posted On Sep 26, 2019 - 05:55 PM

@david love this body type and I would love to spend time with you drilling your arse

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Posted On Sep 27, 2019 - 04:36 AM

I like tall muscular big manly bottoms...
In fact I prefer that type only

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Posted On Sep 27, 2019 - 08:50 AM

All I know is that if you crossdress wear something' girly no matter what I will fall for it..and yeah bottoms meant to be smooth .shaved and. Girly πŸ‘— up and no top could resist loading his baby batter in her..you're a she so be like one.

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Posted On Sep 27, 2019 - 06:30 PM

You are no less a she yourself, than any bottom, if you look at things from a straight persons point of view. So stop bringing your narrow minded thinking and primitive views that have nothing to contribute to the discussion, other than being a very GOOD example of the EVIL factor.

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Posted On Sep 27, 2019 - 07:03 PM

The point is, bottoms shouldnt be stereotyped. Do we expect all tops to be a perfect example of what is traditionally defined as a HE? Big, muscular, heavy voice, hairy chest, mustaches n beards, big tool, high libido, and infinite stamina? Nahi na? We accept them for what they are. And in the same way, tops should be more accommodating in their approach, and come out of the shell of their own making. Accept bottoms for what they are, rather than expecting every single bottom to be a chikni chameli.

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Posted On Sep 27, 2019 - 07:18 PM

I don't know long people would be hardwired about these roles as tops or bottoms. Some how I feel a gay guy in his true sense is always a versatile. He prefers a particular role which gives me more comfort and happiness.

I don't the appearance got to do anything with the role in bed. In my view point the so called pure tops are merely desperate straights who aren't smart enough to seduce women and so instead use gay men for their vent outs.

A true gay is always a versatile. He is gay nevermind whatever his appearance or built is.

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Posted On Sep 28, 2019 - 04:27 AM

seriously?? my *** dances on seeing huge fleshy bottom babes... who'd say no to such sexy angels?? would love to eat their body and drill thei *** all night long

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Posted On Sep 28, 2019 - 06:12 AM

Bull's Eye Valentine84. I agree with you 100%.

I have effeminate friends who are top and straight acting macho men who take in *** like pros.

So *** the labels and think of pleasure.

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Posted On Sep 28, 2019 - 10:00 AM

Well that depends on the mentality of people particularly tops and bottoms. I am not generalising people here but the bitter truth is that almost 80% of tops want girly bottoms who are submissive to their needs, have a bit of extra flesh near their boobs and buttocks and personally this is what I have experienced.

Yes there are many tops who love slim and fit tall men but it's only because they can try a variety of *** positions with them provided their flexibility and it's a general trait.

But most of the tops usually prefer chubby bottoms. Because they can squeeze those boobs and spank that ***. And as far as being shaved is considered every top wants a smooth bottom no matter how hairy they are.

They want a smooth bottom because this is what we are meant to be as per their mentality. I have always met a top who has always asked me this one question are you smooth or not and they are themselves very hairy.

Tops like to dominate their bottoms and want a girly feel from them. Yes there are many tops who love their bottoms and we too love them. But when we talk of tops in general Majority speaks for itself and a majority of tops out there would love to drill a chubby little bottom much more than a very well built hulks.

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Posted On Sep 28, 2019 - 01:11 PM

It's not like that, asli murdana top Ko chodne ka Maja hi kuchh aur hai, aur jab asli murdana top bottom jesi seva kerva ne ka majja mind blowing...

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Posted On Sep 28, 2019 - 02:12 PM

Oh man i really love to have a bottom who is tall hunk.

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Posted On Sep 28, 2019 - 08:22 PM

I would say it's very tough , am 6ft dark and hairy
It's almost like they consider me top everytime

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Posted On Sep 29, 2019 - 12:50 PM

i feel being bottom l like that my man should taller n strong.strong man is dream of a bottom.so there might be bit of problem for such a taller bottoms

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Posted On Sep 29, 2019 - 02:54 PM

Thats the point. The point should be to make progress, make things better. Agreed that things are bad, but we need to change it. Just like article 377 was repelled last year to stop discrimination, within gay world too, we need to dismiss old n outdated norms and stereotypes.

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Posted On Sep 29, 2019 - 05:13 PM

I consider myself to be bi curious, I've tried being with guys but I don't find men as such attractive but I do like crossdressers and transgenders especially if they are very feminine looking, they're one of my kinks. I know it might confuse a lot of you buy I'm attracted to *** but not men, I've tried making out with a guy too but I didn't enjoy it anywhere as much as I enjoyed it with girls. So when I do decide to have *** with a guy I prefer to have *** with someone that looks and feels like a woman. I know.this might sound offensive to some of you, I honestly don't mean to offend anyone. If this does hurt someone I am honestly very sorry I mean no disrespect at all, but a lot of guys on ohmojo are like me, although they're more open minded about having *** with men they still want them to have the physical attributes of a woman, i.e short, slightly chubby and effiminate. I think this is the reason why a lot of bottoms who are big and tall find it s bit difficult to find a top. It's because a lot of tops aren't necessarily gay, they're just a mix of straight and bisexual who are too *** to care about gender.

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Posted On Sep 29, 2019 - 05:53 PM

More than tops the botts have generalized many things here which is not true. I am top, average height, average body dark and bit hairy. I love botts who are tall (taller than me), well built, dark and hairy. I just can't stand TG, CD and effeminate guys. Even when i mastrubate i always think of *** well endowed guys like sathyaraj, vijayakanth, rithik roshan etc. Man boobs is a very big turn off far me. Many people looking at my petite phenotype think i am a bot and try to shrew me- when i resist then it is a big disappointment for them. So generalization whatsoever between looks and roles please.....

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Posted On Sep 30, 2019 - 01:17 PM

Seriously i dont get u. U describe urself as a pure top?. So why the *** would any bot try to screw u? Unless ofcourse, one or both of you lied about ur preferences and likings during the interaction phase. Which brings us to one more shamefull reality of the gay world, particularly in India. People lie about their preference. And i find many bots describing themselves as ver or ver top or even pure top. As much as they are at fault, i think its the outlook of the crowd that is to blame. Being a bottom is looked down upon by some. I dont know which sick bastard came up with that idea, but its makes things bad n messy. Even if you consider a bottom to be a SHE, like some sick bastards do, why is it to be considered any inferior to a HE. I find a great deal of deeply rooted sexism in that. Lets plz grow up!!

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Posted On Sep 30, 2019 - 01:43 PM

.@KunalT: I'm totally with you, but it doesn't happen only on india. I came across several guys who professed to be pure tops and they weren't (aren't).
I had countless opportunities to say that for me there is basically no top or bottom, only pleasure exists and must he mutual (or plural, depending on the situations).
I read on another thread about buttons being those who only want to be penetrated and tops only to who penetrate. Then I'm neither. I don't get ***, but I'm not crazy about penetration. I find it extremely unhygienic.
All the rest, more THAN WELCOME.
The fact that there are so many girlish guys doesn't mean anything. I know for sure that the majority of trannies in Brazil is very top...with *** they want to keep and use!
However, don't get mad at it. India is still pretty new to all this, you had one of the most liberal protecting law the world has ever seen, I envy you for this.

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Posted On Sep 30, 2019 - 03:14 PM

I m unaware of which law you are talking about.

Its ok to not want penetrative ***. Nd equally ok to want it. Just that you should be clear and upfront about what you expect from the other side. To save time n effort in todays busy world. Good for both parties. If you are a top-chauvinistic-pig, which u may hve the right to be in some ppls viewpoint, u still got to say it aloud, for the other person to know what they are getting into. I hope u get my point skytop.

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Posted On Sep 30, 2019 - 03:20 PM

Law 377 if I'm not mistaken

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Posted On Sep 30, 2019 - 03:54 PM

lets do a test. I am 6'2'' and slim built. Lets see how many matches I would get and I will post the results tommorow night. Common Tops make a move.

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Posted On Oct 3, 2019 - 12:13 PM

This is post is sooo meant for me...I am tall 5.10 or 11 ft ...bearded looking rugged risky and cute guy...with lean toned body....manly behaviour in public but on bed m totally submissive bottom

I had tough time to make first impression on guys that I am bottom... infact I have attracted lot of bottoms ...and I am tired correcting them about me being a submissive bottom...

My choice are local and rough looking rawdy guys ...I always have tough time to find such for me...but hey, I am proud about how I carry msyelf though people like it or not πŸ•ΊπŸ•ΊπŸ•ΊπŸ•ΊπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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Posted On Oct 6, 2019 - 03:29 AM

@Bottom_randi1 true I agree with you, even i have a beared and I'm chubby and tall.. I find it difficult too, people dont show any interest πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

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Posted On Oct 9, 2019 - 02:28 AM

@davidcrasto9 same here. I'm tall, big, quite similar to that pic of yours. I get assumed for pure top many times. But I love playing with ***, being squeezed everywhere and stuff, which is quite bottomy, I guess. Pickings are so slim. I've lost interest in th tags by now. I do however love big tall guys like ourselves. For me, the warm cuddles are lovely, whether I'm giving one or receiving πŸ₯°

I can understand what people are saying here. I can only say, to each his own. Everyone has their own preferences.

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Posted On Oct 10, 2019 - 04:55 PM

True Ajay.boy91.. I too like tops to be tall and hunky.. that doesn't mean I dislike others.. some people like chubby guys and many don't and top of it if you have beared then it is very difficult to find top as many prefer a smooth bottom....I like to keep beared and so most of them rejected me for that.. it feels weird that a man wants to have *** with other man and wants a body smooth like women.
Well you rightly said to Each on his own.. we can't change people's preferences.. 🀘🀘

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Posted On Oct 10, 2019 - 06:14 PM

I had been in Sweden for 2 year and *** many men more than 6 feet hieght.. some were from middle east and mostly from Europe. Even I *** one black African. They are like tall, handsome, pink/dark..like a dream boy and *** them is like dream comes true..
Here mostly ppl mistaken abt black ppl from south america or africa bcoz most of them are top, rarely you will find a black bottom but I did ;)

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Posted On Oct 12, 2019 - 09:20 AM

Well first let's discuss something that's very obvious.

All pure bottoms have a feminine side to them. All of us definitely want some aggressive tops who have good tools and can rough *** us including me. I too fantasize the same.

I always want a top master who can make me his slave. This is my fantasy to be his slave for every weekend and do whatever he wants me to. That's how we are.

Not disrespecting tall and hunk bottoms, but mostly tall guys are supposed to be tops.

And deny it as much as you want, every top out there wants a submissive bottom who is having extra fats around his chest and buttocks and is smooth

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Posted On Oct 13, 2019 - 11:19 PM

I’m a tall dark medium athletic (not chubby) bottom .. i would say 5’11.

I have a fetish for short tops. Short slim tops. They normally are well endowed.

They also feel they have to make up for the absence of height by a more powerful thrust

My ex was 5 foot 5. What a guy. We were perfect for a few months at least.

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Posted On Oct 17, 2019 - 02:28 AM

The psychology of a top is generally to dominate unless he got seduced by a power bottom. Majority of the tops always look for guys who are I'm, petite and not too big as they can dominate them easily physically if not mentally.

If the top is a dominant and looking for a sub then only they prefer taller bottoms, the reason being, dominating a taller and physically a stronger personality than them boost their dominant ego.
*Almost all my dominants has been lanky and shorter in height than me.

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Posted On Oct 17, 2019 - 07:20 AM

Need not be true always that top needs to be big, tall and dominating. I am medium size chubby bottom CD and i have been master with many tops and they love to follow me. Its very mutual between two who wanna play what role. If u enjoy either of the role then done. Lets not generalize that bottom is always slave and small etc etc. Enjoy buddys!!!

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Posted On Oct 19, 2019 - 06:40 AM

I m 5.10 in patna Bihar and i look big in appearance but i am a submissive bottom and want my guy to treat me with love and care. Ppl don't expect me to be so by my looks. It's a fact, i find it difficult to get guys.

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Posted On Oct 19, 2019 - 09:44 AM

@WillingBottom, there are many hefty, well built manly guys who are bottom in bed, so nothing wrong in your bottom nature not matching with your looks. I myself know who are 6.3 and above, well built muscular guys who have bottom and feminine mindset in bed. Dont worry you will find your guy soon!

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Posted On Oct 22, 2019 - 06:53 AM

I am 6'5" tall more bottom guy. trust me it is very difficult to find tops. Most people get intimidated by my size

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Posted On Oct 24, 2019 - 07:41 AM

I am bottom and kind of tall about 5'10". I am also heavy with a big *** and some boobs. Small *** and very little body hair . However most tops seemed turned off by me. I actually prefer bigger guys whose *** I prefer to ***. Never been successful with ***. But the bigger tops seem to prefer smaller bottoms

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