Guys Online in United States Search Profiles Gay Cruising Spots in United States

When my sxual advances backfired

Submitted by HeadsTailsAndHo Location: All India (All India, India)

We all, sometime or other, get so lost under influence of our list and horniness that we forget the possible consequences of our sexual advances to strangers / friends / relatives who either were straight or pretended to be straight.

Sometimes such sexual advances are returned with pleasant moments and sometimes are returned with leaving us embarrassed, in awkward situations, denting our image for long time.

Would love to share experiences of those moments here.

Reply/Post a comment

Displaying 1 to 49 of 49 comments.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 16, 2019 - 09:27 AM

I once tried with my uncle and I regret it now cause he is alcoholic and we have arguments with his family so I'm afraid if he open uo about what happened between us

No Picture

Posted On Jan 16, 2019 - 11:51 AM

Happened to me couple of times

* One cold winter night, my roomie was sleeping next to me and I was woken up to the speed of his jerking. I just lent a helping hand and ***, for him to ***. From the next day, he stopped talking to me, for couple of weeks and then it became normal between us. But I didn't dare to try again. I didn't want to spoil our friendship

* Another time, a junior at work, who used to hug me for no reason, visited my place and after playing tickle-tickle, my hands graced his hard *** and I held it tightly couple of times. He didn't object/react. But when I tried to open his zipper, he reverted saying "I don't want to proceed further" and left my home without saying another word. After that, every day in office, it was a torture, not to have eye contact or regular chats with him. Even other colleagues noticed our distance. But thank God, they didn't probe further

No Picture

Posted On Jan 16, 2019 - 02:38 PM

I often try strangers, specially the ones who I think will part after a while... Mostly copassengers in local bus, local train, long distance trains, overnight buses etc.
Often I get success but few times it backfired too.

One of those was when I was traveling in a bis for 6hr journey or so in the night.
It was a 3x2 seating bus and on the seat for 3, we were 2 only. Once the bus left the city, the lights were switched off. The guy next to me was of age of 22 23, from some small town or a village.
Slowly I moved towards him leaving almost No space between us. Then pretending under sleep, I moved my hand to his thighs then near his crotch.
2 3 times he ignored it and removed my hand. Next time he almost shouted at me, which meant, he would tell conductor about all that if I do it again.

Thankfully he was not loud enough and others were asleep, so there was no scene created.
I got up from that seat and went to other seat and slept.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 17, 2019 - 10:26 AM

I had this experience twice.but I won't call it back fired as no bad feelings are there. First with one of my junior friend. He came to my place and we had wine. After drinking I tried to kiss his lips. He did not cooperate but did not say anything. Next day I told him that I have feelings for him and I like him. He said that he appreciates my feelings but can't do anything like this. We are still friends.
Next was with another colleague. We used to chat on WhatsApp as he was away on site and I was in office. Many times we chatted when he was on bed in hotel on site. we talked about ***. I sent him my nude picture of top body only.I told him that I want to *** his. He said I m joking. I said I am serious. we are still friends and chat but he did not discuss this topic again.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 17, 2019 - 10:58 AM

I have not got back fired but I had seen one getting backfired.
I was getting back from work and was in 2×2 local compartment and There was one gay guy trying to toch a straight guy d**k and that straight guy got so hypered that he started shouting so loud that each and every ppl in that compartment can here what he was saying.
He didn't stopped at just bad words and shouting he also slaped him 4 times very badly that the gay guy was above to fall down of running train as they were near door.
Then as the station came he draged him down and took out of the train, then don't know where he took him.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 17, 2019 - 06:08 PM

Most guys in early 40s and late 30's would have had atleast one or two bad experiences. This is because when we were in our peak of activity (say mid 20's) there was no internet, grindr-trindr, whatsapp etc. So people had to be predatory to get their prey to quench their hunger to survive and in this whole process of hunting sometimes the hunter himself will get hurt-unavoidable. As you can read about some of my experiences in crowded buses and trains in other treads, those were the easy spots for quick fun. But once it back fired. I tried touching the *** of a young guy in the train. He waited patiently till i touched his *** and then started blasting me. Luckily before others could realize what was happening, the train reached the station and i got down. Had to wait and take the next train. After that I stopped approaching guys in public.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 18, 2019 - 06:53 AM

My backfires are a little different. I don't really have the courage to start touching n feeling a stranger unless he does it first with me. I have a few incidents that i could say turned out to be quite the opposite of what I had thought.

1. Back in mid 2006 I was in a Mumbai local train early evening. Was standing against the metal seats partition. Was busy lost in my thoughts n I suddenly felt a hand on my back side. I'd experienced it many times before n i enjoy it, so i let him continue. The groping turned aggressive really fast, he started pulling out my undies lol giving me a wedgie. I got curious to see who it is. It was a mad man, literally. Dishevelled hair, shabby clothes, no footwear. I now wanted to avoid him. But he put my hand on his crotch. And when I felt the big meat it was stone hard. No kidding. I'd never felt one this hard. So I changed my mind again n continued to let him do what he wants. But his temperament is what turned out very embarrassing. Over the next 30 minutes he did the boldest things such as opening his zipper, pulling out his meat n getting me to hand job him, then he switches to behind me and dry humps me all the while mumbling dirty bedroom talk. He honestly wasn't concerned about being seen by others. Now, just a little description of my appearance back in those days, to set up the final embarrassment - so i used to have long hair n i couldn't grow any beard (I still can't grow a full one). So by now the commuters had seen the mad man with his *** out, and i appeared to be avoiding it. So few of them took an objection saying - ye sala ladies ke saath batameezi kar raha hai (they thought I was a woman). I got even more worried now because if they speak to me, they'd know I'm not a girl and the tales might turn on me. So before they could get all righteous and confront the mad man, I decided to get down at the next station. The mad man was still pulling my jeans n dragging me in, i just hit his hands off n got off hurriedly... Whew

2. My other ones aren't an advance exactly again. But like my profile mentions, I'm very interested in *** sizes. I got a WhatsApp from one guy on xvideos. Told me he has a huge one. He was really charming and was turning me on big time during our chat. Made me indulge in *** chat which I almost never enjoy doing. I did it for him though. So for a few days the heat between us was on. He called me to meet him one day. I went excitedly. Met on the street first n I already started thinking oh no, this guy can't have a huge *** (I kind of can guesstimate with decent accuracy when I look at a person). But since I'm not always right, i decided to see it through. Next he took me to some random office toilet n asked me to do all the things I'd described during our *** chat. When the zipper opened, I confirmed I was correct. His thing was really tiny. I *** him but my heart wasn't in it. Then I told him the loo is a terrible place, I'm feeling sick n blurted out random excuses that I hardly even remember. N i pushed off....never chatted with him again. But he taught me a valuable lesson to not take what people say at face value. I make sure to ask for *** pics (but at times I still make the same mistake though)

No Picture

Posted On Jan 21, 2019 - 07:08 PM

I've mentioned this story of mine in another thread too but looks like this is more accurate here..

I experienced such kind of incident in Goa at a massage center.

The masseur was a mallu and was very very good looking. The massage was for 1k.

He did a very sensual massage and I tried all possible ways to touch him but no luck. Finally after 45 mins of massage he helped me get up from the massage table and took me towards the steam.. I was standing right next to him.. I was so hard and couldn’t control, I just put ma hand on his ***..

He just slapped me SO HARD ( I got RED ) I was so so so guilty. He was just abusing me.. I didn’t even take the steam. I immediately changed ma clothes and walked out with full oil on ma body, face and head… till I got out of that place, I kept on chanting sorry more than 20-30 times because I was *** scared that he might call any local guys to trap me..

Thank god I was saved. I just rushed to my hotel room.. No sooner I reached the hotel, all my straight friends were abusing me for not taking shower at the spa and for dirtying the room.. But I know what I have gone thru : (

View Gay Profile Picture
Posted On Jan 21, 2019 - 07:40 PM

ashish7890.....u deserve it dude...well i feel most gay guys think everyone is available for hook-up, if you act smart then be ready to face the music as well

No Picture

Posted On Jan 21, 2019 - 09:05 PM

ashish7890 guys like you are result of homophobia.
You make our community sick.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 02:49 AM

Come on guys, you don't have to shame him for it here. He already knows it was a bad move that's why he's put it here. Not like he's bragging about it.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 07:31 AM

It happened with me twice:

First it happened around 8-9 years ago. I come from a small city called Jorhat in Assam and theres a stadium over there with a gallery which used to be the cruising spot at that time. I used to go there in the evening in the hope of getting someone. Once there was this guy with specs whom I had seen earlier also. I stood next to him and I was so confident about him being interested in me that I tried touching his crotch. He didnt reacted so moved further and started almost rubbing it. Suddenly he moved back and gave a tight slap to me. I got shocked. He then started abusing me. I had to literally run and remember him shouting from the back. Got back home and wept for an hour. I did stopped going there.

Secong it happened with me in a park. Similiar incident but this guy knew where I did stayed. He tried blackmailing me couple of times but it failed. I told him that he can go to anybody and tell it, I will simply deny. Later on I found out that he also was a Gay guy. I can understand he may have not liked me but hitting was not acceptable. I still see him and he knows that now about him too. He simply avoids me.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 12:17 PM

People are blaming others for their own mistake. If you gonna approach a guy who is not interested , he would slap you irrespective of he is gay or not,... Don't you guys know that its kinda abuse? ... How dare you all can approach a guy thinking in your own head that other will respond,...

I have a top friend who slapped a guy in a local train in Chennai ..

Introspect and act wisely ,,, don't lose your dignity over fun...

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 12:56 PM

@deepsucker, you should read the name of the thread and the posts. These guys aren't blaming anyone for getting slapped. It's purely a lapse of their judgement they are narrating. Loosen up a bit, buddy

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 02:10 PM

And *** your THAT TOP FRIEND.
If being a gay, he slapped other gay, then he is worst guy in the community, worse than a homophobic str8 guy.
He could simply say, NOT INTERESTED.

I seriously wish that one day that TOP FRIEND of yours is beaten up black and blue, for similar thing.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 02:15 PM

I agree with headstails... Your friend is kind of a jerk, Deepsucker. Not that I encourage guys forcing themselves onto others. But public humiliation is uncalled for,especially if he's gay himself.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 04:05 PM

He won't be beaten up. He behaves himself on public platform

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 06:38 PM

@ashish @starbtm - Kudos to the both of you for putting out your stories in public. It’s definitely not easy to share stories of embarrassment in public. Most people flip around and tell misleading stories to make it sound interesting.
Moment of weakness is common gay or st8 ; I have seen so many decent looking st8 men being slapped by women in public. If things go bad it can lead to a police case and public outrage also. Thankfully the gay world is slightly less complicated. Slapping is an extreme reaction but I sometimes feel people who do that are not comfortable with their own sexuality. The pent up guilt inside them comes out as anger but I think they are basically angry at themselves. Most of them are probably gay guys who think something is wrong with them. st8 men who are comfortable with their sexuality will never put out a big drama or slap, they would either move away or say they are not interested. In fact star btm later discovered that the guy who slapped him was gay. I also feel the mallu massuer would have indulged in it few times but must be feeling extremely guilty about it. A lot of it has to do with Upbringing and religious beliefs while growing up. I personally believe very few people in the population will be pure straight a major chunk of the population probably swing but in varying degrees. That’s why so much of homosexuality happens in jail and defence services. The sexual tension causes them to indulge in homosexuality as se x is a basic human need.
It’s nice you both have shared your real life experiences but don’t hold that one off case in your heart for too long. Am sure you have seen more victories than backfiring 👍

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 06:46 PM

I actually find it surprising that some of the people in this thread are supporting the people who slapped. Violence is clearly unacceptable. Nothing makes it right !!

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 09:31 PM

Neither am I an expert in cruising nor I intend to become one.. But I have handled guys who have approached me in a better way instead of slapping or overreacting.. Cos I am always a straight on streets and gay only within the sheets. The best way I had retaliated to an inappropriate touch is holding the other persons hand with harder grip so that he realises I am not interested ..

If your advances are backfired ? - Except, for any public humiliation incidents like mentioned by others, why bother if you are advances are backfired. Just move on rather than worrying.

"THINK WITH YOUR HEAD RATHER THAN OVERRULED BY YOUR ***" - This applies before making an advance and also if it backfires. Remember a moment of weakness shouldn't make us regret a whole life time.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 22, 2019 - 09:52 PM

@exotic1234 - it's not supporting the act of violence (slapping) but it's re-iterating the fact that if you make an inappropriate move in public be prepared for the risk involved as well. Of course slapping was a bit overreacting but we don't know how the guy approached him. Like they say in Tamil (idam-porul-yeval arindhu seyalpada Vendum) which roughly translates to "Keep in mind about place(situation), subject and motto or drive before doing anything

@raheev241 - I second your point.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 23, 2019 - 04:58 PM

If violence is unacceptable then *** is acceptable?

No Picture

Posted On Jan 23, 2019 - 05:14 PM

Lol if you call that ***, you're being delusional @btmguy.

I know some guys are pretty adamant and persistent, and I've encountered a few myself who try and keep pestering you to touch them or they keep touching me even when I'm not interested. But I don't call them out in public or create a scene. It's not like he's going to give me hiv or something. Slapping is a bit over the top and dramatic, maybe it's a thing some of the gay guys like Deepsucker's friends do to fit into the hetro crowd out of feeling of being too self conscious about their public image.

I can at times understand when a straight guy slaps because he's not used to it and maybe even homophobic.

The only time I got physical was when I figured the guy pestering was a cop informer or mole. He probably scented I was gay n went out of his way to make me touch him n trap me, was publically forcing my hand on his crotch and demanding 50 rupees. so i kind of pushed him down a small flight of stairs n kicked him when he was in the ground for good measure lol. But besides the malicious intent guys, I just firmly but quietly push hands away from me if im not interested.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 23, 2019 - 06:20 PM

There is nothing like over-reacting or dramatic or over the top if someone feels uncomfortable due to an unwelcome physical touch .. and decides to give it back by being physical :)
Not all can keep calm when their body is being used without their consent.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 23, 2019 - 10:25 PM

Oh yea that's big time overreacting. More often than not, a firm but silent warning works. It doesn't have to go all extreme n pretentious with a fist or a slap. Many things happen in life without consent but you only choose to beat up or threaten people you know for sure that do not have an upper hand on you in that situation.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 25, 2019 - 08:11 PM

Hey ppl slapping is unnecessary.. I have recorded this in some other thread
It happened when I was in some village in UK. I was drunk and it was raining light. A scally lad with a twinky look walked by me and he was exactly the lad of my dreams. Fuelled by the spirit i asked him if i can blow his ***. He was taken aback by a stranger asking for his *** in a quiet town of england and he said sorry mate. I wasnt willing to take his no and insisted i pay him for that. He said no still but i kept increasing his price. When he got pissed off too much he called police, complained about a random asian stranger asking men for *** and he went about his way. Police came in less than 5 mts and asked me Sir i have received a complaint from a member of public with features similar to u. Are there any rows? I said no we had some arguments but parted amicably. Nothing more and told them all is well. They said its fine and left. After few mts i met him in street and he asked are you the one who asked me for ***. I said yes i am but i tried talking to him more candidly. I said i feel sorry if he doesnt want but i found him really attractive. He was fuming inside and warned me to go away. I didnt but kept ranting on thinking my compliments would fetch his ***. The patrol police came now and asked whats going on.
I said i was just apologizing to the man after asking his *** and he is not ready to accept my apology. The lady police said get off to me. Get off instantly to ur home she shouted. The guy was telling police how can u let a guy walk away and was creating a big drama. The police said they can drop me at my house in their car as i was under the threat of a homophobic attack. The guy was shouting at police its unfair and they restrained him until i left home. Thinking about this incident i feel very grateful for not touching him in anyway and how helpful UK is...i felt sorry for approching someone who is not interested in me and how inappropriate it is bit now i feel i can't help..sigh

No Picture

Posted On Jan 25, 2019 - 08:59 PM

Lips4hugepoles If no action is taken at initial stage then *** may take place. Without permission if someone touches someone private parts, then he has a guts to *** too.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 25, 2019 - 09:28 PM

@btmguy, there are multiple ways to handle than slapping. You can show disinterest. Move away or turn to different direction. Politely tell him you are not interested or its public. You can even smile and take his hand out.... Slapping is not accepted at any cause. What if the person is stronger than you or he is with a group of people? Do you think slapping works that time?

No Picture

Posted On Jan 26, 2019 - 03:35 AM

I think in some of those cases, slapping was an instant reaction. Specially if the guy is straight, he will feel disgusted at someone grabbing his ***. When you are approaching a stranger, you need to take care not to offend him. We need to learn to respect other people's private space. We cannot assume that every guy we find attractive, is gay and even if he is, he is willing to be fondled by anybody. Remember eve teasing also has stringent punishments now. If the rules are made same for eve and adam teasing, it will attract same punishment.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 26, 2019 - 05:12 AM

I slightly disagree with you. Please read the word SLIGHTLY.

As per my experience in seducing strangers or friends or knowns, with both positive and negative responses, I have noticed that str8 guys don't respond this way (slapping or creating scene). Only Homophobic gaya do.

Now you may ask how did I come to know that the strangers were homophobic gays, not str8 guys.
Initially all (who finally responded negative) enjoyed the touch and flirting.... Later at final stage, they chickened out.
While there were guys, who stopped me at first stage only, without showing any grudges or so.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 26, 2019 - 05:28 AM

@BtmGuy I think you are big time hallucinating. Wake up guy. Male *** in India is all bout having *** with underage. That is unpardonable and deserves severe punishment. But male *** of grown up adults- common!!!
guys who are is early 40's are older will understand the situation which existed in 90's. No internet, no whats app,no cell, nothing. Then how on hell will you identify a gay and ask for consensual ***? So most of the time you start of with "inappropriate" touch. If it clicks you enjoy; if you see resent you withdraw. We should understand that gmen are very different from straight guys. They are mostly docile and look in for consensual ***. 98% of them will immediately with draw if they dont see consent (leave alone resent). Only the remaining 2% go ahead with persistent perusing. Even among them most are harmless. They know very well that they are dealing with another guy who is as powerful or more powerful than them. That being said there is no question of ***. Slapping or fisting absolutely unacceptable. Just a gentle smile with a firm grip of the hand is more than enough.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 26, 2019 - 06:36 AM

@btmguy you n @chembur are being hysterical and a bit pretentious. I don't think you're incapable of physically defending yourselves. Secondly nobody is going to *** a man in public.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 26, 2019 - 07:01 AM

A straight guy inappropriately touching a stranger woman without her consent would get slapped too. Its the same thing , its abuse , nothing wrong in slapping the abuser at all. Its a public place , straight *** is frowned upon too just like gay *** . just the fact that you have a different sexual orientation doesnt mean a little "inappropriate" touch is harmless.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 26, 2019 - 05:39 PM

My comments are not about me and my physical ability to deal with a difficult situation... The comments are also not about the incident which was described by one member here earlier. It is a general statement that not everyone is capable of handling inappropriate touches in a composed manner....so why should we judge a reaction as inappropriate and not focus on the action that triggered such reaction.

Secondly, I don't know how has this *** thing into discussion.

Also, if someone wants to avoid being in an embarrassing situation in a public place ...... should he wait for the actual act to get completed and then react or should he immediately stop the advances made to him...?

Yes, I m hysterical and pretentious :)

No Picture

Posted On Jan 26, 2019 - 06:10 PM

Time to get back to the topic. Have two incidents to share-one was because of my wrong calculation and another because of another guys mistake. First incident: this guy was my bench-mate during school days. Not very attractive. Normal height, dark scarce hair and normal looks. But he was an athlete. Once during class he went for foot ball training and suddenly came to class. Was wearing a very short sports shorts (it was literally like an underwear), completely revealing his sexy muscled legs. That was a trigger factor and instantly he became my crush. Since I knew his house one Saturday I went to his house for "combined" studies. It was in the first floor. As we were just chatting, i slowly kept my hand on this thighs. No response. Got little more courage and kept it on his ***. But i made sure I was constantly talking to him and kept his attention away from his ***. Since again there was no response i got little more courage and with two fingers opened his jib little bit and inserted my fingers. The moment my fingers touched his *** he got a major jerk and immediately ran downstairs. I waited for around 15 min called him several times but no response. Since his grandfather was downstairs didn't had the guts to go down. So after another 15 min i left without informing him. From next day onward he started avoiding him and i also avoided him. I thought it was all over. But slowly at the back this guy started spreading stories about my my orientation and slowly i could see other guys avoiding me. It was typical gay bullying which i had to witness. Luckily since it was my final year in school bid goodbye to one and all.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 27, 2019 - 03:53 AM

"Just because someone does something, doesn't make it correct."
We need to understand that such sexual advances themselves are not correct.
Someone mentioned about pre-internet days and cruising. I am 50 and I know all of it. The only place where I could do it was in local train. I realised it when someone else did it to me. You have to be discrete , subtle to give a signal to a gay guy but not to offend a straight guy, or for that matter a gay guy who might not want it then or with you. Brushing your hand or body part against another guys body part, to make it appear as unintentional and grabbing someone's *** are two things which are miles apart. Reckelessness and desperation will invite such types of reactions.

Only once did a guy became vocal with me, asking why are you pressing against me? And i said, the crowd is so much,I cant help it. Adjusted my position and it was over.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 27, 2019 - 09:08 AM

I remembered these subtle ones. I generally never make first move. Where i made i havent much success
1. I was in share auto returning from work. An irresitably hot guy was sitting next to me. Thanks to the loads of potholes in the road,the auto was helping me to get too closer to him. At one point i let my chest brush close to his chest. He said excuse me,can you move away a bit?!
That to me felt like a slap on my face.
2. I was in a overnight bus journey in the last seat. I was damn ***. I kept moving my hands to the thights of a man sitting next to me. He kept moving it away. Though i tried 3 or 4 times, i didnt do anything other than bringing my hands close to him and let him go further if he ever wanted. He had no qualms in blocking me all times. Next day morning when i sobered up, it was embarassing to see his face.

3. It happened to one of my friend. He was looking at a young boy in the street while walking. The boy came arguing with him why my friend was staring at him. We both got intimidated but in the hindsight i laugh at my friend quoting this incident to make fun of him

No Picture

Posted On Jan 29, 2019 - 01:42 PM

Happened with me during college days. I had this friend of mine. Short and chubby. Naughty and a bad boy type personality. He had obsession with *** and had a bad habbit of touching my *** and teasing me. I never took it seriously, but was getting annoyed at first. Then I started to like it. I thought he was gay, so one day we we're dancing during college trip, where he was getting closer to me, getting his *** on mine and rubbing it. All these actions turned me on. Same day, he got little drunk, so I took the chance and kissed him. He returned with his own big wet kiss. That settled it. Usually while traveling, He used to sit between my legs, which again gave me chills. So this oneday, he was hugging me friendly, I took it wrong way and kissed him. I got a tight slap from him. He followed with few more, I asked why? He turned out to be straight. He did liked teasing me, but seems I had crossed my limit. He hasn't spoken with me, from that day.

No Picture

Posted On Jan 29, 2019 - 02:20 PM

@Jeanebad Ditto had a very similar experience during college days. Had a very good friend of mine who was short, very fair and bit cute. He was obsessed with *** and always spoke to me about having *** with multiple girls. I thought he was a easy prey. One day after watching a adult English film i tried touching his ***. He left immediately and stooped taking to me. Luckily no physical harassment. But lost a good friend.

No Picture

Posted On Feb 2, 2019 - 10:35 AM

When I travel in bus during night journey, I always expose my pink satin panties to the person sitting next to me to seek attention. But not a single time I succeeded in getting the attention I wanted.

One other most forgettable attempt was while sleeping with my roommate, who was my colleague as well.
This guy was my roommate for couple of years, as bachelors not to mention we sleep in same bed. One day this guy put his hand across me and hugged me, I was in heaven and waiting for some more signal and started pushing myself towards him. His grip became tighter and tighter, for me it sounded like a signal even I hugged him with one hand and caught his stuff in other hand. He just kicked me tightly, I was in a shock and felt shamed; recovered quickly and acted as if I did it in dream and start murmuring some girls name to make him feel that I dream of a girl and did it. Dont ask me, why would one grab between the legs of a girl. But whole night I was thinking how to face this guy. Next day I behaved as if nothing happened in the night. But next day onward this guys avoided sleeping very next to me.

No Picture

Posted On Feb 2, 2019 - 02:38 PM

Haha... funny incident.. murmering girl name... lol
Dont be too straight to others otherwise kick and punches will be there like this incidence.

No Picture

Posted On Feb 2, 2019 - 03:47 PM

When I was young travelling from college to home in evening peak from ville parle to borivali one dudh wala bhaiya started rubbing his member on my back.This is when there was no internet and such gay talks were all alien. I thought it was rush hour and ignored. But then realised he was hard on and doing it on purpose. I was in my teens and very much like a twink. This was massive huge UP hairy bear. In crowd he started licking my neck and also bit my ear lobe. I felt disgusted with his smell and was scared also. Since I did not resist he became bold and grabed me from back. Thats when I tried to push my way and got off at malad and got next train to borivali. This was my first experience in train and I kept wondering how did he know about my secret gay feelings. Next day I changed carriage and to my surprise this bhaiya again came in that carriage and same thing happened. Now he pulled out his tool from his dhoti and pushed in my hand. I had mixed reaction. I liked the touch of his bare skin but also was scared of falling into trap. I tried to push him away from me but he was too strong for me. I again got off and changed train. Third day he was again behind me pushing his tool in my hand from behind. This time I had enough and gathered courage and pinched very tightly on his hairy inner thigh. He shivered in pain but I did not let go my pinch. He could not move away from me due to crowd.Then at next station he pushed his way out. Then for atleast one week I did time pass in college and got train one hour after usual time just to avoid him. This is the case when his attempt backfired at him but I was too young and scared to accept his advances. But one thing I accept that he introduced me to local train gay world.
In trains I was always lucky, many approached me. I never did first move being over precautious.
Once when I was arround 28 to 29 years of age one guy approched me and fingered my back boldly in empty train at kandivali. He then got off with me at borivali and followed me. He demanded all cash in my wallet and threatened to take to police station. I emptied my wallet. Unfortunately I had withdrawn my half salary that day. All gone. This one backfired at me financially.

No Picture

Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 02:55 AM

It happened with me in a local private bus. The problem was I only started it and made the guy get down at a certain place to have some fun though he was not keen. He opened his zip and showed in the bus. Neither was he attractive nor his d**k. But I don't know why I did that. Later after getting down he started raising voice, attracting others attention, embarrassing me. To avoid I had to part with my wallet....almost 5k gone.

No Picture

Posted On Feb 3, 2019 - 03:58 AM

Guys many straight guys use as ATMs in these situations. Most of the straight guys give us clear signal indicating that they are not interested. Some guys are little confused. It is these guys who are very problematic. So initially they yield to temptation and latter when they find it guilty they would extort money.

No Picture

Posted On Apr 6, 2019 - 07:58 AM

Ek din mene apne office ke junior ko khane ke liye bulaya. Khana order kiya jiske aane me thoda time tha. Ussi samay apne bed room me le gay laptop dekhte dekhte uske buldge ko touch kiya... Usne mana kiya per me nahi mana or uske paint me haath daal kar uske di...K ko bahar nikal kar enjoy kiya..usne mana ye galat he lekin... kher thodi der mene enjoy kiya Phir khana khaya wo chala gaya... Uske baad usne mujhse baat nahi ki...

No Picture

Posted On Apr 7, 2019 - 04:50 AM

That's truely insane @VikramSharma..

No Picture

Posted On Apr 7, 2019 - 10:40 AM


How can you do this to a known person? Not to forget he is your colleague and a junior. You got to face him daily at work. It's clearly a ***. Never ever do this again.

No Picture

Posted On Apr 16, 2019 - 03:48 PM

Hello friends,

I wanna tell you recent incident backfire me. It is to do with Bangalore Cops. One of my ohmojo friend kemen & me where in chat since few days. One day we decided to meet for quick BJ. We decided venue is kalyan nagar park parallel to ring road time 9 PM. Time arrived we both met first time in the park. Soon our hands came in to action. We unzipped each other and we both got our toy to play. Without making any more delay i went down and started *** his nice thick ***. I *** him for 5 mins then he *** me and we continued the cycle for some time.

As we have walk ways both side (front & back). we are in middle of 2 walk ways. We are also keeping eyes if anyone is coming for either side. After some time a man appeared. I stopped playing with him immediately. I tried to adjust my trouser but it was still reasonably down. Manage to put *** inside. He stopped and called us out. Damn!! he was COP.

He started in Kannada... ( i could not understand much) "Where are u from? " i replied - kalyan nagar. "What u guys doing so late here? don't u know election time going on. causing nuisance to other etc etc" he said park closed 8.30 PM. He asked us to wait and called his boss. He said wait here till my boss come. We request him to leave us. After 10 mins of harassment he let us go.

That incident jolted both of us. We left the place immediately. I dropped kemen to a bus stop and came back home.

No Picture

Posted On Jun 8, 2019 - 01:08 PM

I had crush on my roomie few years before.. i have seen his bulge everyday whole changing cloths and many times shaked in bed next to him, but no response from him.. one fine day with lot of courage, after he slept put my hands on his tool and it got erected.. but my bad, he woke up in middle of the act, started shouting at me ... He didn't talk to me for couple of months and later we were ok.. but still our close relationship is gone.