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Do you feel insecure because your *** size? I do.

Submitted by Tallandbrown Location: All India (All India, India)

I am mostly a lurker here and all these sexual adventures are fun to read yet I can never have the courage to indulge in something like this because I am so conscious of my *** size. I am 6’ tall and slim and have people have told me that I am quite good looking(lol, I don’t think so but whatever) but I can never dare to meet someone or download grindr to hook up because everyone is obsessed with big *** and I feel so unworthy and unlucky. I am 27 and have met only 3 guys, all of them had *** bigger and thicker than mine. I am like 5” in length and 4” around, which is below average scientifically and that makes me very sad. I can never dare to go to gay cruising spots like Rajeshwari in Bangalore or to a gay nudist group because I am so ashamed of my size. Even the three guys that I met, I couldn’t finish *** with them because I was so depressed looking at the size difference and felt somewhat inferior. I lack serious self confidence because of this which makes me think that I am missing out on a lot of gay adventures. I wish I could be an extrovert but I just can’t. Even if I like a guy and want to talk with him, I immediately think of my *** size and how disappointing it could be to him and i never take it forward. Even though gay *** is legalised in India now, I can never express myself whole-heartedly.

Does anyone share this feeling or am I the only one?

P.S. I know my post maybe unrealated as it is not a cruising spot post but I felt like sharing my thoughts as most people seem to be nice here and of course I can’t talk about this with my friends or family, that would be embarrassing.

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Posted On Jan 7, 2019 - 09:46 AM

Wow! This blew up and I am quite overwhelmed by the responses.

I will quickly address a few points

1. My small *** problem has got nothing to do with my position as a top or bottom. I don’t have a small *** kink where I enjoy being humiliated by bigger guys. It’s more of a personal problem.

2. I don’t feel like a woman so the whole concept of being sissy and acting submissive because I have a small *** is invalid in my case.

3. Most of you are mentioning that average is 5-7, well that’s a range. If I was 7, I wouldn’t be posting here. My measurements are way below average(5x4) and that’s what bugs me. I would be fine if I was at least average.

4. I agree that performance and stamina are important but *** can be altogether different and in most cases better with a bigger ***. I am no just saying this but I have read this on a lot of gay and women sexual health blogs. That’s *** depresses me that I can’t be good enough for my partner.

5. I also want to thank everybody who assured me to not worry. I appreciate your kind words. I am going to have a hard time getting over this problem which doesn’t seem to be going away anytime soon.

6. The talk of big *** is so prominent. Media praises big *** like superior(big *** energy etc) and labels guys with small *** as loser/evil or someone who is compensating for his small *** by buying lavish cars or being loud(Trump). I am so sick of it.

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Posted On Jan 7, 2019 - 09:50 AM

If u stop seeing *** films u never be found insecure from yr **** size.

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Posted On Jan 7, 2019 - 02:27 PM

Hi @Tallandbrown...
Firstly, when a doctor insets a 2.5-3 inch long finger in a male patient's rectum, he can easily touch the prostate which is the male g spot. So 5 inch is big enough to give a gay man *** pleasure.
But as you're adamant about considering your size as a shortcoming, then let's face the fact that we all have shortcomings. None of us are perfect. Just like you're worried about your *** size, I kinda feel down because I'm chubby. There are men who are depressed because of their height, baldness, complexion and the list goes on. All of these make us think that we're inferior because the media has already built up a stereotypical handsome male image in our mind. But believe me, most of us are imperfect. And those little imperfections make us ourselves. Now you may argue that most of the guys, we see online, are handsome. But it's actually because we, the imperfect guys, generally don't feel confident enough to share our photos. That's why you don't see us...
I don't know you even a little bit. I don't know whether you're married or not, whether you're planning to end up with a man of a woman, but whatever you want to do, you'll find people with different choices. There are people who'll give more priority to finding a better person than finding someone with big ***. And even if it come to the point where *** size is the only choosing criteria, there are people (like me) who will go for someone like you than someone with a huge one because it'll give the same pleasure with less pain... 😜
And if I can end with a suggestion, then I'll urge you to please stop assuming and face your fear. I'm saying this with my own experience. It's still scary like hell when I make a plan to meet someone. But it is what has given me confidence... All the best to you... 👍🏻👍🏻

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Posted On Jan 7, 2019 - 06:57 PM

@coolbisu91, well said. Initially n still I have crush on Tall men, say above 6 ft. Since I'm 177 cm tall I preferred men who are taller than me and had an imagination that taller men have bigger d**ks. But after reading the posts here it is very clear that size doesn't matter. What I feel is the comfortability and the mutual liking matter more that can overshadow the perfections...

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Posted On Jan 8, 2019 - 12:53 PM

Dont feel insecure. Its like a great car like a Audi. It is obviously good to have one. People will like someone to have a nice car. But it doesn't mean it isnt ok if you dont have one.

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Posted On Jan 13, 2019 - 07:35 PM

i have worked with smaller and bigger size and as bottom i just want my partner to have fun. size matters if you are doing it just like robot. i personally dont think its that big of deal as am not not asking guys there size before going down on my knees

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Posted On Jan 15, 2019 - 10:19 AM

Dear mate, size does not matter when it comes to enjoyment.
You need to have desire to enjoy and proper ***. Based on your post, I could say that mine is still smaller than you (as per dimensions you have given) . I enjoyed with both male and female. Both vaginal *** and *** ***. So don't worry about size.

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Posted On Jan 19, 2019 - 04:25 PM

Don't worry bro. I have a one inch ***. It's the tiniest on earth. I have become a sissy. Start wearing a panty. You will love it. Because our *** is small. We have to accept the reality and become a sissy. Try it

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