Being bottom is it ok to like getting dominated?

I am a gay bottom and always like to get dominated, abused by tops, it kind of excites me. I am not sure is it fine and common.

I always meet guys who are more dominate. are all other bottoms feel same..

Do share your thoughts and experiences

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No Picture decentbottom	Posted On Feb 2, 2019 What's wrong if a bottom is fat.. or what's wrong in a fat guy being bottom?? People are so obsessed!!! I have heard from many of my frnds telling, they like bottoms with a little extra flesh over their body. Especially, men in the age group of 40-50 love chubby fat booty guys. It's all about personal choice. And we have no rights to comment or tease someone's physical appearance.. If you cannot compliment, you better don't dare to comment. How many tops are good looking tell me buddy?? I have seen many who say they look like Hrithik Roshan or John Abraham. You have to meet them to see the reality. Ofcourse yes, truth is always bitter 😉
No Picture varunim *	Posted On Feb 2, 2019 I am matured bottom.I like to be dominated by young top .I like him to use my body whatever way he likes to get full satisfaction which in return gives me pleasure. That is personal choice.
No Picture bendferyou	Posted On Feb 2, 2019 My 2 cents. I've never made out with a guy (Who's just a guy). I've made out with loads of shemales and CD s. I guess when you are making the transition from straight to bi curious, you tend to look up a feminine partner. Now, when and if I make out with a guy, I'd like him to be feminine. So if a guy is plump I'd like that. It would translate into femininity for me. I think plump is sexy. And it would add to the live making too. I would love to f**k a nice round fat bottom. Having b**bs would be an added advantage. Sleeping over such a person while making out would be so comfortable and sexy. I'm getting a hard on just typing and thinking of a nice plump bottom that I could dominate and use as in see fit. To sum up... fat is not necessarily bottom. I know a lot of muscular types who are ultra feminine and are bottoms. But they don't turn me on. Cute, chubby and feminine guys make me want to tear their clothes and grab their bottom. Ohhhh yeahhhh
No Picture jimmy56	Posted On Mar 2, 2019 it is a mark of low self-esteem to want to be dominated by your partner. Not that there is something inherently wrong with it, just stating a fact.
No Picture NaughtyNought	Posted On Sep 26, 2019 I LOVE being a bottom and I LOVE being dominated by tops. I definitely think it's okay, I love the feeling of a top cumming inside me, especially when I'm stark naked and used by him. His pleasure is my pleasure. Lovely!
No Picture Coolshanu420	Posted On Sep 27, 2019 We bottoms have a prominent feminine side in us, irrespective of whether it shows up in our behaviour or not. For ex I am a straight acting bottom but i love a man calling me babe or pampering my beauty. Its completely normal. We people exist in various varieties. Also, i like a dominant man but non violent. It never means i got low self esteem, i feel i m more confident than most of the guys i have ever met. It just means i prefer taking up and enjoy a role in *** which is analogous to female role in hetersexual ***. It comes from instincts and not by conscious choice.
No Picture Coolshanu420	Posted On Sep 27, 2019 I guess we r misinterpreting the word domination. Being dominant yet caring is as much possible as being dominant and abusive. Its not necessary that u abuse pr humiliate ur partner, that doesnt define domination. Gay bottoms often love dominant men because it has been an inherent trait od males - to take charge, to lead and to be the controller. Thats all. I like guys not letting me touch my *** bur have kicked *** of morons who dared to slap me while ***. Not that i m judging it, but to each his own. In short, domination doesnt neccesarily mean humilation or voilence
No Picture handsomedude30	Posted On Sep 27, 2019 I agree with coolshanu420. I love to be dominated by a top. But dominate doesn't mean abuse. It means to take the lead. That's how men are. I love to be passive and get pampered by a top.
No Picture Bustyslit	Posted On Sep 27, 2019 Well I guess we as bottoms have a girly side is us and it's perfectly alright for us to be dominated. For me being dominated means completely submitting myself to my too and being used the way he likes to and this side is me is the reason why I have such kinky fantasies like:- 1. I really love the slave and master roleplay and I wanna be someone's slave for a period of more than 1 days where I'll obey my master unconditionally. 2. I love being called a bitch and slapped around. I love the feel of a fog collar around my neck and used by my master as he please. 3. I fantasize the situation where my master hands me over to his friends who then use me. Because it gives me the feeling that my master is proud to have me as a slave and not ashamed of me. 4. I love that feeling of being helpless by being in some restraints and obideiently following my master. 5. I love wearing girly clothes and it's my desire to strip naked in front of 10-12 men and seduce them by my girly assests. So feel free, it's not a bad feeling if you love dominations. For a bottom nothing's better than a hard top who fucks the hell out of us and it's a matter of pride if can satisfy our tops.
No Picture AlwaysLusty09	Posted On Oct 20, 2019 I consider myself to be a versatile bottom as during the most encounters I've let my partner take the lead. I feel one of the biggest issues within our community is that people assume being dominated is getting *** hard in the *** with a top talking dirty, spanking bott's ***, maybe little neck choking. This is all bullshit and a stupid notion set by *** videos. For me dominance is about that feeling when I want to submit to the partner. It is not necessary that we'll get into anals or he'll do cliched acts to state his dominance. I feel dominated when my top holds my hands above my head and smooches me non-stop, when he goes down on me and edges me with his ***, when he occasionally comment on my *** with a spank, when he is pinching my nipples and *** my neck like crazy; this all for me is getting dominated. *** may happen or may not happen but I feel from the inside for that guy to take over me, control me both physically and emotionally.
No Picture billpotts	Posted On Oct 20, 2019 I'm a successful tall mature guy. I have many people work for me. While I enjoy being in charge I love being dominated by young slim smooth shorter guys. This is my escape from making decisions all the time. I have good self worth, some would call me arrogant I'm sure. As a bi guy I like slim smooth young people of both genders and for me guys from north east India are the most beautiful people in the world. I let cute NE Indian guys as often as possible.
No Picture KristenBi27	Posted On May 2, 2020 Hi I a a bisexual bottom. I feel having *** is enjoying each other by being gentle. Enjoying without being rough or rude. The idea is to feel loved and let all yoyr senses indulge in ***. See each other naked, smell the sweet smell of the ***, feel the roundness and bounciness of the butt or ***. Get aroused and become more hard when the top playfully spanks the bottoms butt, holds the bottoms *** and rubs it, fingers a bottoms arsehile playfully and gently while he is fondling the *** or nipples. Or when the bottom puts the top on the bed and holds his *** against his lips and then playfully licks the head. Then slowly puts the whole *** in his *** and gently sucks and tastes the tops manhood. Both ate supposed o enjoy this bliss. Then when the top puts his throbbing and ready *** into the bottoms hot arsehole gently and feels the bottoms juicy aresehole pull against the *** and enjoys that magical moment. Oh that is so magical. The idea is to slide it in and out slowly and feel the bottoms *** tissue play with the tops ***, while Tue top can fondle the bottoms *** or nipples or kiss him and make him feel sexy anf comfortable. Then slowly increase the tempo or speed, changing positions - missionary, doggy, sideways, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and enjoy how the bottoms *** tissue makes the tops *** feel, the intensity. This way both can enjoy blissful *** and make it last longer. To make things kinky, they can use thongs, sexy underwear, perfumes. Bottoms can even dress up as a girl and do a lap dance. Mmm, the orgasm after such a long intercourse is going to be beautiful. Oh I can imagine the amount of *** the top is going to ooze out. Remember if you have a sensual and long intercourse the amount of *** or semen the top ejaculates is going to be huge and that gives satisfaction to the top and bottom both. Now, having said about the fantastic time that both can have, it is equally important that we practice safe ***. I suggest that both wear condoms for protection against HIV and other STIs. If you've been having regular *** with only one partner and both trust each other, then you can do it even without them. I have so many gay couples who have just one partner. If you want to make it a bit more kinky and have a threesome or a group fun, make sure you have many cobdoms available and ensure the tops are changing condoms while changing partners, to avoid getting sti's and HIV. Flavored condoms can be used for oral ***. Tops can *** in the condom for good hygiene. Or if they want to *** outside then they can just pull out their *** just when they feel like they're orgasming and have the bottom remove the condom and rub their *** rigorously so that the top blows a good load of *** and its satisfying. Depending on their trust level the top can blow the load on the bottoms body or just on the floor. To avoid HIV or STIs, I think putting it out on the floor or inside the condom is a more hygienic way. Remember its not how hard you thrust your ***. Its how long you make it last and how long long you enjoy is what matters.
No Picture Peachypie	Posted On May 3, 2020 @AlwaysLusty09 Coolshanu420 both of you have summed up very nicely the meaning of domination. domination doesnt mean physical violence, aur any kind of mental and physical degradation and abuse. for me domination is about allowing and expecting my top partner to take control of the act, to initiate things, to take the charge. i like when he pin me againt the wall and kiss passionately on lips, neck,,during *** when its turns sloppy and it rams against the throat gently, its always about the mix of domination and care for your bottom partner. where the guy is making love to you suddenly changes a position where you finds its difficullt to accommodate him ( new positions etc), teasing during the act, not allwoing you to touch your ***, kissing and giving love bites esp on nipples etc. some bdsm act if you really get along well with your partner and trust him to take it to another level, spanking etc. some people think dirty *** like golden shower, etc shows dominance of top which is rubbish. i totally hate dirty ***.
No Picture proudqueer	Posted On May 3, 2020 I am open to any form of domination from my top partner without pain/incest things. It's an amazing act when top mixes up his care and control along with his display of masculinity. I have had best moments with it in my sexual life and I am taking this opportunity to thank all those tops who made it happen. All in all, I like domination with well defined limits.
No Picture Shu *	Posted On Sep 27, 2022 I think I have been with a caring but dominant guy and I will share our *** experience so guys will know how it should be,he makes me swallow his ***,penetrate things in me ,we had sdone various *** positions and fetishes,he likes doing hidden ***,so there were many times we were just an inch away from getting caught,but he never hitted me never abused,there were times when I upset him as I used to *** much faster than him.
No Picture Bottom55	Posted On Sep 27, 2022 Nice thread, I m bottom and like to get dominated, controlled. Restricted movement by top, pushing me on walls, asking me to do different acts to please him.
No Picture ForceFackme99	Posted On Sep 27, 2022 I guess most of the bottoms love to get dominated. Even i lile the feeling then the top pounces on me and pounds me with my legs in the air till i ***.
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Sep 27, 2022 Yes we all love when there’s a hard male jumping on us. I love getting dominated (in limits) as it gives me the feeling of being under control of a marad. Who protects me and also controls me. Who uses me and the sense of satisfaction to see in his lusty eyes is loads of fun.
Jaytop	Posted On Sep 28, 2022 Well I have met lot of bottom... It's all different with everyone but yes most like being dominated. But being dominated is not bad if it is with consent infact lt is escape from reality for both guys. Some married guys or bosses let you do anything with them and some just want respectful enjoyment.
No Picture Bottom125	Posted On Sep 28, 2022 I m bottom and i also like to get dominated i enjoyed a lot when any top got control over me
No Picture Nikky_Darling	Posted On Sep 28, 2022 I'm a bottom and also very shy, introvert and scared IRL. I crave for dominance, being controlled and toyed around. The scared me avoid being in company of so called dominant men because it can lead to scary things very easily. But the longer I avoid being in company, the more I crave for it and willing to try even more extreme and taboo stuff.
No Picture Bottom55	Posted On Sep 29, 2022 My first penetration was by a dominating Top, during discussion he told that it is going to be only ***, but the way he was acting domination and manly. I could not oppose him, it was first time ***, it was painful and his *** came out due to my moving in uneasy way. He didn’t say anything but his looks was so strong and showing unhappyness I bent immediately and he continued
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Sep 29, 2022 I think the concept of domination is quite misunderstood here. A guy forcing himself on you against you will is not domination. A guy *** a bottom like me hard is just *** in my opinion. I mean, unless a top has premature ejaculation issues, a top has to *** hard to *** even in the tightest hole. Domination(usually in a D/S relationship) is more about willing to give oneself up for a tops pleasure, in letting him expand your boundaries both physically and mentally, in making you do things willingly that you would not even dream of doing. It could be something that not even fully sexual like asking you to stand naked on your balcony. It usually takes a lot of trust to have such type of relationship. It has nothing to do with being fem either though yes, given the way us indians bottoms were raised, most bottoms do act fem in bed regardless of how they look physically (myself included).
No Picture warmfeel	Posted On Aug 6, 2024 im bottom , i like to be submissive. doesnt mean hard abuse but he making me do what he likes. treating me like a woman. feeding me his *** talking with me about dirty ***, incest etc.
No Picture katal	Posted On Sep 1, 2024 I am a bottom.l like to be dominated by Top.
No Picture katal	Posted On Sep 1, 2024 Best domination is if a top *** me and I am gets prostate orgasm and cumming without touching then you are the best dominant in top. I am relationship in more tops but apart them six Top are very dominant like My choice They are giving me prostate orgasm always .They covered the hole week .I hardly go to other tops.i kept the secret to each other.All are very caring .
No Picture Brownbiitch	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 I know my opinions may face backlash. But it's every bottom's duty to make sure the top feels satisfied after letting all his pent up anger and frustration out on the poor bottom's poor vulnerable exposed *** hole. As a bottom you are not a person during ***. As a bottom you are just a hole. Just a *** toy for the amusement of any top. The top should be tough, tough and masculine and should ravage the bottom's body. The bottom should behave like a woman on bed. Be completely feminine and sissy. I am a bottom and even tough in public I am intimidating because of my physical attributes but in a closed bedroom I am a submissive girly big booty mooby bottom. I want to be raped by a real man.
No Picture Roykhannaa *	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 Brownbiitch Yeah may be you are right!! Many of the bottoms like us do feel the same.. n need the same!!
No Picture Shash26new	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 Being a straight acting bottom my feminine side is always to have a dom aged top with me so tht i can enjoy it to fullest.. who treats me like a im a cheap female *** and uses me well... i even dont hv a type.. i like tharki type aged men who just abuse n use... it all depends on each individual how they like it.. but in general i think every bottom loves to be dominated
No Picture DebBottom22	Posted On Sep 3, 2024 Brownbitch yeah I think maybe you are right about that, i would really love someone like that very much n many of us would love the same too.
No Picture Aarav_bottom37	Posted On Sep 14, 2024 Hi I am bottom and love being bottom. I like to be dominated by Top Partner and it should be non violent. Will love to be his wife and he should have control over me to make things more enjoyable.
No Picture Jinalcd	Posted On Sep 14, 2024 So as a bottom most of us have a girly side to please our man. So yes as a bottom i can say we like dominant top. So that we can let them do whatever they want, please them obey them and in that way i make sure that i satisfy my partner to the fullest. Because he is here with me so it's my duty to please him better than any girl. So yeah dominant and submission is always there
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