First time *** - Tips?

Hi I tried *** for first time and it really hurt and I could not take it in. My partner has a 7 inch but really really thick ***. We used coconut oil but still my *** hurts. Can anyone tell me the best lube or cream to use? Are there any specific positions that help in easy penetration without pain? Please help!

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No Picture Sugar_shine	Posted On Dec 7, 2023 As a bottom first time *** is always painful and unforgettable
No Picture vforall	Posted On Dec 8, 2023 Lubricant is must to reduce the pain and smooth insertion , i really make sense , my personal experiences
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On May 26, 2024 Always use lube when it is your first time performing ***. Lubes are great for both top and bottoms. Do some research on what kind of lube to use and how to use lubes.
No Picture Tista V.	Posted On May 28, 2024 Use silicon based lube. They remain for a long time and you only need a dollop.
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On May 29, 2024 It's always better to talk with your partner before the clothes come off. Don't be shy , be confident and relax your *** and body. Engage in foreplay for relaxing , try rimming. Use lubes and if you feel uncomfortable at any stage, tell your partner to stop. It is ok if you feel uncomfortable during ***, take breaks or have *** some other day. Please use condoms always.
No Picture crash3257	Posted On May 31, 2024 clean ur ***, and avoid solid food 5-6 hrs before ***.....*** *** shouldn't be a quick one...if you want your partner to explore the depth of ur ***, u need to do a lot of foreplay and establish an emotional bonding...*** *** doesn't happen in a quickie, there needs to be some love wherein the top is eager to satisfy his bottom and be the bottom is hungry to give himself to his top babe 😘
No Picture brownd23	Posted On May 31, 2024 @crash3357 absolutely agree with you!
No Picture Roykhannaa *	Posted On May 31, 2024 @crash3257 its true.. and specify tips..!
No Picture crash3257	Posted On Jun 1, 2024 @roykhanna.... hey baby girl 💕😘 Foreplay with lots of kisses and especially tasting of each other's private parts is mandatory for *** ***...to recieve his manhood in ur hole, u need to feel submissive and submit urself to him, that'll mentally prepare u and loosen ur hole... don't hesitate to go down and eat between his legs as if ur life depends on it ❤️
No Picture Womaninmanbody	Posted On Jun 2, 2024 I think before going for *** *** for the first time the bottom should make sure that he can take atleast three fingers in his *** easily without feeling any pain or discomfort of any kind at all. Actually not just three. You should be able to take four or five fingers easily. So far I can take only one finger in my *** that too while that one finger is properly lubed up with some oil or Vaseline. Otherwise even that one finger doesn't go in my ***. I rolled up a newspaper and wrapped a plastic bag around the roll. Then lubed it with coconut oil and inserted in my ***. I felt very weird. My about muscles got hardened. I didn't feel any pleasure at all while the roll went in. I only felt somewhat tingling during the roll coming out motion and not going in motion. Maybe because a human *** texture would have felt different from a plastic bag wrapped around a newspaper roll. But the problem is I got excited and started going deeper. And soon I started bleeding. I got very scared and threw the roll in a nearby open drain by hiding it in a different bag. Luckily my bleeding stopped after three four days of medical care. But I developed piles kind of thing. Now I am scared of *** ***. Also gay and shemale pornstars fill their rectum with water, oil and flush every thing out. All the *** and excrement needs to be cleared out. Pornstars that laxatives to clear whole bowel and don't eat anything solid for hours before shoot. Even hot looking clean smooth shaven gays and sissies with onlyfans account do a lot of preparation before actually ***. Maybe they apply some perfume or edible lotion on their *** too so that the top eats it all up and doesn't feel disgusted by the bottom's ***. It needs to be well maintained because obviously at least every day once you will use the *** to *** excrement out. It sounds and feels yuck but maintenance and cleaning of *** is least talked about. And also it's not just about first time. It needs to be done every time before *** ***. It's a lot of work. I am lazy. That's why I only want handjob, blowjob and body play. No *** *** as of now.
No Picture yungay	Posted On Oct 23, 2024 I was top earlier then turned to vers and now I am a bottom. As I want to explore and try the extremes in fun. I became a bottom slave very recently n I met couple of masters. I'm enjoying alot in dirty n kinky fun with soft bdsm as a slave. But I never enjoyed getting *** with the tops. I tried to bear the pain while getting *** but I never felt the pleasure of getting ***. Tops used to give a full *** rimming and applied lube then fingered my *** before *** me. I felt nice while getting rimm my *** but not while getting ***. I read many stories here from bottoms... that getting *** is very pleasurable even its paining and experienced hands free ejaculation. I want such experience of hands free Cumming. Anyone pls guide me if I'm missing anything how can i feel the pleasure of getting ***.
NoidaSec50	Posted On Oct 23, 2024 Try KY jelly.Its surgical jelly and easily available in any pharmacy
No Picture yungay	Posted On Oct 23, 2024 Means.. is it for the pleasure while getting ***?
No Picture Samrat69	Posted On Oct 23, 2024 Try *** plug first as I did. *** plug is pleasure but could not take any *** due to fear. Still a virgin
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On Nov 12, 2024 You can try inserting your own fingers with coconut oil. Please cut your nails before you do that. Try relaxing your body and ***. You can use gloves helps to slide in Easy. Once you feel confident then increase your number of fingers.
No Picture Suyash143	Posted On Nov 28, 2024 Most probable root cause of *** pain ...fissures...due to Syphilis...take care...use condoms...healthy looking people having STDs even though!
No Picture Plabouy	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 I tried frist time *** and with oil n foreplay and what not but it was painfull af and I've never recovered from that frist time only...my *** bleeds even now at times coz of fissure prob which is been occuring in intervals...and suggestion on this.. I've got my fissures cleared from a doc n he suggested me this may occur few times so be carefull... But I wanna try bottoming again..any suggestions
No Picture Viharihyd83	Posted On Jan 9, 2025 many people here say use oil, but oil has a big disadvantage, condom will definitely break if oil is touched. be careful. instead apply ponds body lotion for smoothing, it creates a buttery smooth entry,
No Picture Josh2109	Posted On Jan 9, 2025 I am sacred to take a *** even with so many tips from Internet what should I do?
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On Jan 27, 2025 @Josh2109 it's ok, just try to practice by fingering yourself. Try relaxation techniques, use lubes , start with one finger. Be slow and patient, don't rush. Make sure your nails are cut and you can use gloves if u want. Once you are able to easily finger yourself, your confidence will build . Try a medium sized *** for your first time and make sure your partner has lots of experience. Use protection and lubes . You'll be ok. It takes time to be ready.
No Picture Sofy_verb	Posted On Jan 27, 2025 Also one can use small size brinjal using condom and body lotion it was perfect combination for beginners
No Picture Allrounder	Posted On Jan 27, 2025 Relax ur brain and get some lube handy first. Petrolium jelly vasline transperant one with blue cap white box buy one and take a medium size cucumber or carrot and try to insert first with your finger and apply vasline in side *** entrrance and massage alowly and fet off your muslcle tension at opening. They slowly insert deeper and put more vasline with finger once u feel ir finger is going easily 3 inches then apply vasline to cucumer or carrot and try inserting slowly. Better u sit on it and slowly push urelsf down to take deeper. U will sure feel bit pain but trust me its just that lfirat inches are painful once u bypass ot then ur *** is ready to take full cucumber inside. Note: put condom and hold that condom ring out of *** because u can pull back of cucumer carrot completly goes inside it happend to me with out condom but somehow it came by pushing normally woth muslcles so dont do that mistake
No Picture vinaychaa	Posted On Jan 28, 2025 Thanks for this buddy will try
No Picture botyum	Posted On Jan 28, 2025 Please be aware of syphilis, I didn't even have *** *** as we didn't have condoms and it was just dry humping with his *** touching my hole, and him licking my *** and fingering however I got syphilis and some bad *** fissure. It's been 2 years i have been treated but it still bleeds while fingering and get burning sensation because of the tears. Don't let few mins of pleasure ruin rest of your life.
No Picture Rajbond007	Posted On Feb 1, 2025 Try out candles size wise,thin, medium, thick & extra thick. Always use c..doms Then go on to long & thick
No Picture CCBomb	Posted On Feb 1, 2025 Always use a lube for *** *** whether its your 1st time or you are a seasoned pro! Dont use vaseline or vegetable oil or any kind of oil as it will lead to infection and bacterial growth if you are unable to clean it properly, especially with oils. Please dont insert sharp objects or "just because its phallic i can shove it" will get you in trouble and embarrassing situations. Avoid wooden sticks, candles, and glass bottles. If you cant afford toys then use your fingers. Its important to clean your butt with a douche for the ultimate experience. If you are full of ***, it will keep you from having a good experience and might leave your partner disgusted. Start with a finger or *** dilator kits so you dont damage the nerve endings during penetration. Its important to relax the sphincter before inserting anything or else you will have unnecessary pain and problems. Start small then go big if you must! Personally, i think 5 - 6 inches is perfect for *** ***. Anything smaller and you wont hit the spot and if its too big you only feel the friction which is not pleasurable. I have a couple of dildos varying from 6 to 8 inches but i mostly use the 6 incher for orgasms. There are many cheap options online. I will always suggest cupidbaba.com for their affordable pricing and top service.
No Picture htjos	Posted On Feb 2, 2025 @CCBomb Thanks for the info dear
No Picture romeo2912	Posted On Feb 6, 2025 I like moving my finger on my *** and slightly inserting it. Then smelling the finger, it just give me a *** kick. Does anyone else feel same?
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On Apr 2, 2025 If you are new try douching mildly and get a understanding top , slowly start fingering, rimming , relaxing do these before trying *** with lube. Get some practice before trying hardcore ***.
No Picture Roykhannaa *	Posted On Apr 2, 2025 Hi all.. i tried *** toy a dildo not thick but thin one with lots of lube. I have a big *** but super tight hole. I could insert it easily and completely in one go due to lots of lube.. but it when i started *** my hole with it.. it was not good feeling overall since it was rough feeling.. i couldnt so i masterbated as my hole was filled up with the rode n made me hard already.. i came a lot.. but later when i took it out.. i had to poop 5 to 6 times.. n my hole was in pain for sometime.. i felt like pooping for a long time.. and after 4 to 5 hours finally i became normal.. Can anyone please tell me if this normal.. or something other thing should have done.. please guide... Also is getting *** by a real *** is different or less painful? Please guide..
No Picture Rudy299	Posted On Apr 2, 2025 I am preferably a top but I have recently started using my *** for more stimulation and finger it with oil but I can’t feel it that well, I use a lot of oil and my *** stretches easily too but I need something more to enjoy it fully.
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