Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Guys, many got married due to family commitments or force or own interest etc. Just did we ask ourselves "am I happy and satisfied?" Also did ever get a response as " yes" completely? Let's share our views here. Reply/Post a comment
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| No Picture LoveU2 | Posted On Dec 29, 2023
I’m married and I try to keep everyone happy fulfilling all my responsibilities as an offspring, spouse and father. I’m happy that they are happy.
But somewhere deep down inside I’m unhappy! But I don’t regret that… it’s my responsibility. |
| No Picture BlackPanther | Posted On Dec 30, 2023
Yes, really सेक्स करते समय बस अपनी मेंटेलिटी को हायर लेवल पर लै जाओ, नॉर्मली when straight have सेक्स most of them have fantasty about dream girl or any other girl,just it work,if u afferaid from marriage just massage me I have tip and tricks 4u,if I make someone life happy, it's worth |
| Bigpeni_Versati | Posted On Dec 30, 2023
Even married people can enjoy homosex if we have desire to enjoy with men, there is nothing wrong in it. I feel it's one way better, because if we go or move with men there is no doubt on us. Life is short we have to go as per our will with safe and precautionary measures even though our society don't accept this Homosexualaty. |
| No Picture Funactive009 | Posted On Dec 30, 2023
It's all in the feeling...men don't get blowjow from their wife's so rhe are here..sone just don't mind any one |
| No Picture *** | Posted On Jan 2, 2024
I had conversations with few "happy" married men who have known to frequent cruising spots to spread themselves. They were all pretended to be all ok with wife fooling around (hypothetically) but the moment I started talking about their wives body, then all the charade about being progressive was dropped. Men especially married living on downlow will come with weirdest excuses and reasonings to justify their cheating. I dont' know how much of it is to convince others or themselves to get rid of their guilt.
The lamest excuse I have ever heard was - my wife doesnt give bj so find men to suk me off!! or that gays are philandering, so married a woman. hahahaha!!
I get it, in country like India the success of person is gauged by the marriage and kids. So the societal/ family pressure is strong. Atleast gays can get "married" and whore around, but lesbians are eternally trapped. So no judgement on gays getting married.
There was studies conducted in Gujarat about the issues of wives of gay men, surprising many women responded that they knew their husband were fuxing with other men, however they are sticking it out because- 1. The faout husband will never leave them for other man 2. There is no fear of husband leaving for other women 3. the guilt is so strong in these men that they get their way.
Wives in 30s and above will deal with their homo husband for social, financial and personal security, because their options are limited - well, so much for keeping wiver "happy".
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| No Picture Funactive009 | Posted On Jan 3, 2024
Married men just want blowjob...they should try and eat the ***...if the do so then only they will get a bloj job..or else as many fo force .or look for gays |
| No Picture kissravi2022 | Posted On Apr 10, 2024
Married men really need love and affection sometimes we won't get 24 /7 support from wives happy to connect |
| No Picture Femboymumbai | Posted On Apr 13, 2024
Married men are into this, really? If it's so then too much fun |
| No Picture cooldude202283 | Posted On Apr 22, 2024
Some just want to explore their bi / curious side. They may want a stable partner but it's thought to have NSA relationship. It's a myth and hence end up in ith hookups or escorts. |
| No Picture Rahul xv | Posted On May 5, 2024
I am happy.
Take some time and try to share all your desires to your wife. Wife is also a human being like men they also have desires ..infact much more desires than men but they doesn't open up quickly.
Initially my wife was not agreeing for blowjob but I gave her sometime to adjust and I never forced her but insisted her to try.
She like it very much when I *** her boobs and I *** them whenever she want and for past few months she started *** my *** even I don't ask her. But yes she doesn't *** ror long time ..it's like 20 to 15 mins.
I started telling my desires
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| No Picture Rahul xv | Posted On May 5, 2024
I have been telling her my desires like *** in beach, *** in theater, *** in park she is also like it and ready for it. Last time I pressed her boobs openly in Goa beach she did not mind.
Talk to her with dirty words like modda, puku, dengudu, chudai, ***, choot. She will like it for sure.
Yes but the fact is boys gives blowjob better than boys because boys know the sensual part of *** because they also have ***.
You can enjoy with your wife fully, I haven't met any boys since I married before 18 months |
| No Picture Rahul xv | Posted On May 5, 2024
But if you want to get *** you might need a boy and there is a option to ask your wife to use strap on and *** you. But real *** is real ***. |
| No Picture warmfeel | Posted On Aug 6, 2024
im bisexual. i like *** ***. many men dont get blowjobs from wifes so they look out. many like dirty incest talks, wife talks. sharing about *** with their wifes and other outside relations they have. im happy with new *** experiences. |
| No Picture warmfeel | Posted On Aug 7, 2024
i talk *** with my wife in hindi like ***, gand, ***, chudai. i compliment her body in hindi. she gets aroused. |
| No Picture Kutiya_Bottom | Posted On Aug 7, 2024
i have few married gay & bi friends, who said they are looking for *** outside because man can give pleasure to other man much better than a woman. Their wives usually don't *** their *** like we do and also dont allow much to have vaginal *** and usually never allow them for *** ***. Married men mostly get happy after intimating with me. I sometimes go with a married guy to resort for a day or night, and let him enjoy with me at fullest, we do it occasionally, He says if i was a woman he would have divorced his wife and have married me. Not only i m just great at *** but my company is amazing too. |
| No Picture Kutiya_Bottom | Posted On Aug 9, 2024
Does anyone know about Nakshatra B*gwe, He is Gay Ambass*dor of India. He Has done some short movies & running one youtube channel too. I found him very boastful about himself.
In his one of videos he mentioned he disclosed to a woman about her husband being gay. Firstly, it is highly inappropriate to tell any any women their husband are homosexual, this will break their marriage, situation will turn into worst, this will ruin the man's reputation in the society and worst part be happened she can take her husband to court for fraud. There are more than 90% of men who are closeted homosexual or bisexual. They want to lead to happy family life, they are happy enough with raising their children. There are categories of gay/bi married men, 1. who get emotional attached to their women partner, but not much physically. 2. want to satisfy their sexual needs which they dont get their in their straight married life. 3. man who are unhappily living married life, but find happiness in their closeted gay life.
The above mentioned utuber has broken the marriage / peaceful home of a closeted gay man. He should have talked to the him & settled the situation by taking his side. He has made the situation more worse for that gay man, Is he going to fix the problem for him. Many of us are happy in living this secret life, In our personal & professional life we are very different character. As Gay person to other gay people, we should live & let others live however they want.
Even if in india tmrw Gay marriage becomes legal, still there will be 99% of men will not have guts come openly to get married because still the society will be judgemental. It doesnt matter how much great u r in ur personal life how much achievements & great things u have done in ur personal life. Coming out openly has not been so good to many people. I have witnessed people have lost their prestige & relations.
I just have to say if someone being gay is willing to get married with a woman, he is confident enough he can lead a good married life by giving every way of satisfaction to his partner then he should get married, its none of our business to get bother about their personal lives. If a person doesnt wish to then he should not, after all we have personal choices to be made. A person who is a home breaker, marriage breaker can never be Gay ambassador in my eyes.
Kindly check the video link to see his video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGWfARZjcQA |
| No Picture Rahul xv | Posted On Aug 19, 2024
*** is like good, body needs it.. everyone needs it. So, your wife also, she is also a human being like you. If you married her then it's your responsibility to take care of her sexually also. Women gets irritated easily when they don't have *** for 3 to 4 days.
Talk to her slowly and tell your desires one by one but all at a time because she may get shocked or surprised. You know her so you should know how to tell her your desires.
Talk dirty , women like dirty talks. Grab and play with her pu55y , kiss her fully and grap bubs as much as possible gently , she will like it for sure. Make her comfortable, don't force her anything external if she don't want like threesome for your fantasies.
Put yourself in her place and think.
Never get involved in unsafe *** with stranger, it may affect her when do *** with her.
Watch ponr with her and make her excited. Make her happy then you will happy.
I know men can satisfy men much better than women in terms of blowjob and *** but once you get married you should change your preferences.
Try to put some weeks of gap on meeting boys or men then you will be in bit control.
Ignore this message if you this it's completely bullshit or hurts you in anyway. Sorry. Be safe, take care.
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| No Picture Curiousone466 | Posted On Oct 16, 2024
M curious if anyone here bottom or married couple who is getting rimjob or fingering from wive or gf |
| No Picture Neerav | Posted On Dec 24, 2024
There are several facets to this. Social media, soft ***, and hardcore *** is shaping up the sexuality in most of us. *** is like any other addiction. You need more and more to feel the same level of excitement. You need taboo subject in *** to feel excited. This includes gay ***. You like to watch gay *** on screen and want to do it in real life doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. It's a learned response. Who knows, one day you'll find a suitable girl and there would be circumstances where you'll like doing it with her. So the definition of *** has changed far from natural due to excessive *** availability. I feel sexuality is fluid throughout the life. If you spend some time with the person, get emotionally connected irrespective of the gender and societal norms, any two human beings, despite of their genders can have sexual intercourse. Nobody is willing these days to give that kind of time to understand and get emotionally attached before jumping into bed. Everyone just needs a quick release these days which only gay *** can offer safely without having to worry about society and worry of pregnancy etc. I found it true about myself as I had my first vaginal intercourse with a trans man when I was 30 in Europe and it didn't feel weird because I was connected emotionally with him. I had been having body play with a girl from my school like caressing her breasts, and kissing on her lips and make her wet. And I've been sleeping with guys since I was 12. So I feel emotional attachment and comfort zone is important to create a bond that leads to ***. Whereas I feel gay *** is just what men do to help each other get off, zero emotions. There could be exceptions, I respect them. Since society is so rigid about keeping girls and boys separate and creating a culture of shame around ***, the guys have no option but to resort to guys to satisfy themselves. Honestly, I've been doing gay *** but it was purely sexual for me. I could not think of a guy beyond ***, even if there was emotional bonding it lasted only until I was getting sexual pleasure. Gay culture unfortunately is all about ***, clothes, parties, orgies and all outward and shallow things. After seeing all this, I could not imagine myself living that life beyond youth years. |
| No Picture Abcdguy | Posted On Dec 25, 2024
I am not happy. Not because of *** life. Without *** with wife is still fine, but because of the emotional drama they make. I feel, instead of wife a guy is there, he would have handle better way. |
| No Picture Straight | Posted On Dec 25, 2024
Is it permissible according to shastra's to have multiple *** parter after being married as marriage is done with lot of rituals to be alone together for lifes? And Because it also said that *** is Devine act, but not sure if we can have with multiple partners? Am confused on this pls adress ur opinions about it? |
| No Picture Rajeev790 | Posted On Dec 25, 2024
Yes it's quite difficult but happy We do gay act only when I'm alone |
| Dreamybott | Posted On Dec 25, 2024
Nope, shastras are clear abt maintaining honesty with your partner which includes by mind, by body and by words. (मन वचन कर्म) (Vows are nothing if your actions contradict ur words. |
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