Heartbreaks/ break-ups.

Let's use this thread to share our break up experiences. What happened, how it happened and what you did to cope up with it....

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No Picture disle23 *	Posted On Jan 19, 2025 In 2009, I worked in Mumbai, living in a flat given by the company. Many other guys and girls were staying in that building. During the orientation, I met this handsome sexy guy who was also from Delhi. I could feel some spark between us just based on the way we would stare at each other and smile. He was in a different department and in a different flat but we became very good friends, like very fast. We would eat our meals together in the cafeteria, go out for movies/dinner, swim together etc etc. After a few months, we started hanging out at each other’s apartment and would even have sleepovers. A few months down the line, came a day when my roommate had gone to his hometown for a few days and the other bed was empty. So I decided to join both the single beds together. I invited my friend over for drinks and decided to sleep in my room. Lights were closed and we got on the bed and for some weird reason, got under one sheet only. I kept my left arm on his waist and so did he. Our bodies were so close that even air couldn’t pass through us. We could feel each other’s boner. We slept the whole night like this but nothing happened. This continued until my roommate came back. A few months passed, and nothing happened, but we still kept meeting. Then one fine day, my roommate said, he was moving out, he got a new job. I was really excited to join the beds again but at the same time was scared what if a new roommate was asked to move in. But luckily, no one came. Me and my crush started spending more time together. We would sit in our window (15th floor) and drink together. We liked massaging each other’s bodies a lot (just back, shoulder, and head), resting our heads on each other’s shoulders or stomachs while we chatted late at night. We kept on sleeping together, giving massages but nothing more happened. I don’t know why, but nothing happened when we both were so much into each other. But we really enjoyed hugging so tight and sleeping together with boners. Neither of us was ever able to initiate. Drinks, cool breezes, late late-night talks didn’t help either. Then the time came and I had to move back to Delhi. We stayed in touch. Met 4-6 times in the last 13 years but early last year, I got an invite from him which was for his wedding. It broke my heart. I just didn’t know how to react and felt so low for the entire month. He invited me to attend all the functions but I just couldn’t. finally decided to attend his wedding. I reached quite early; he was sitting with his family members. He saw me, I saw him, we smiled and he came running to me. We hugged for at least 5 Mississippi. When the hug was over, my eyes were wet and I could feel his were too. But we just smiled and he went back to his family. The start of 2024 was so so bad that it took me almost a month to get over it. I would play the video invite at least 10 times a day wishing it was for us. I loved him so much, that even after moving from Mumbai, for almost 2 years, when I woke up, the first thought/image in my mind was his face or his name. He was my 2nd crush. Then came February and got invited to another wedding, my 3rd crush with whom I even hooked up a few times. Will share the story some other time…..
Jaytop	Posted On Jan 19, 2025 @disle23 really great story and bit sad that you didn't get to confess your love.
No Picture Sardartop33	Posted On Jan 21, 2025 I was in a relationship for 6 months with a journalist while I was doing my graduation I thought we were serious bt unfortunately he got a job in the US and left Was terribly heartbroken.. never been in a serious relationship since then
No Picture disle23 *	Posted On Jan 21, 2025 Jaytop ❤️ I guess heartbreaks are part of life. I am watching heartstopper series on Netflix the third time in last 1 week and it is making me crave more n more. Keeps reminding me what my life could have been if only, i had expressed. Feeling the same low i felt the last year.