Childhood trauma due to molestation
There must be a time in every one's childhood when they have faced any kind of bad touch or molestation or even worse, which leds to a child trauma and at times even doubt among ourselves. I have just made this group to share such experiences and how they cope up with that. Reply/Post a comment
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Bennnnnnnnnnnnn | Posted On Dec 1, 2024
I would like to share that I been sexually abused by multiple times in my childhood, out of which I'm sharing one of the incident.
So, I was around 5-6 yrs old and my dad had a gov. job and was transferred to a new city and we all ( me, my mom, elder brother and eldest sister)were living on rent to a new city.
And, we had a landlord uncle, who owns multiple shops and works there, the landlord had a joint family and there were young kids too around my age, with whom I used to play. I used to play with his youngest son (Kabir- hypothetical name), everyday after school or during evening. One day when I can back from school and after having my lunch, I went to Kabir's house to play and everyone was sleeping the landlord's wife was in the shop and the landlord was laying on bed and he said " Yahi khel bahar bhot dhoop hai" so we both were playing with the toys on the same bed where he was lying.....After sometime he flipped over and asked us to give massage my walking on top of him, we were kids so we did exactly the same, after that Kabir's dad (landlord) asked Kabir to have his lunch, his dad asked to eat on the table so he went away, and I was alone with him, and that landlord said not to make any noise as everyone was sleeping so I was quietly playing, then he started touching my lips and my ***. I honestly didn't know how and what to react, I was very normal, then he asked me to check his pants pocket, I did what he asked and I felt his *** which was hard, and I asked him what's inside then he slightly removed his *** from his pants and asked me to touch it and simultaneously he was rubbing my *** too. I had 0 idea of what was happening, he was asking me to jerk it and wanted to remove my pants too, but I did do it and left from the room to see Kabir...and this happened couple of times too with the landlord, sometime in his shop or whenever there's a power cut or in the terrace, I never spoke about it because back then I didn't even knew wheather it is good or bad. |
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Carlmax | Posted On Dec 3, 2024
Ohhh Ben
I can't even feel how u must be feeling.
Sending you loads of hug and love babes |
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Bennnnnnnnnnnnn | Posted On Dec 4, 2024
Carlmax 🥹💕 |
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SwitchVers | Posted On Dec 7, 2024
Childhood molestation made me gay |
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Bennnnnnnnnnnnn | Posted On Dec 7, 2024
@SwitchVers I think most of the gays are born that way, it's just that these sort of incidents make them inclined more towards men |
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Carlmax | Posted On Dec 7, 2024
Nothing makes u gay baba, u r born like it. Just due to these things, u get a mental push.
And ofcourse I am against the child molestation . |
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Bennnnnnnnnnnnn | Posted On Dec 8, 2024
Yes that's what I said |
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barely_seven_in | Posted On Jan 31, 2025
As a kid(6-10yo) back when used to sleep in between mom and dad, dad always caressed my butt-cheeks, by putting his hand in my underwear all the time. Idk his hands used to travel all over my body and sometimes he used to brush my anus with his fingers, and sometimes tried to finger my anus, and that disgusted me, this went on for a couple of years, until one day I told mom about that and she took it quite seriously frowning upon him and told me in front of me to pull their shorts down to shame him for his deed next time when he does it. And next couple of times when he tried such things I did what she said and that thing stopped immediately and so was my relation with my dad. Idk I feel weird thinking and honestly don't know if he was getting *** caressing me(his own blood) or was it just affection. Moreover, as a kid, I hated kisses especially the wet kisses that smeared the other person's saliva all over my face, and my grandpa and my dad used to kiss on my lips, with all their saliva, even when I resisted at least dad used to forcefully kiss me. Even when I requested them for just a peck on the cheek they initially agreed but later on used to kiss on my lips. This disgusted me all my childhood, and honestly speaking that's the very reason I don't like kisses even now, they just remind me of the things of the past. I get it I might be overreacting to the kissing part, but imagine being forced a kiss on your lips holding your hands almost everyday for years. And when I think about it and add it to the *** caressing thing, all I feel is disgust for my dad. |
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Fab1 | Posted On Feb 3, 2025
It's important to teach children early on about good touch & bad touch... Back in my childhood, we were clueless and i too got abused multiple times. While I am Bi and a side now, but I have resolved never ever to engage with any guy less than 21 .... BTW engaging with under 18 is illegal even if it was consensual... Those of us who were abused in childhood, adolescence must resolve not do themselves and prevent it from happening as much as we can.
I was abused by older cousins & uncles since I was 9/10 yrs old and also by a teacher in class 9th...While into my youth I had some encounters by choice but I also turned down my boss as I was not interested & would not *** for benefits or money... His attitude thereby changed & eventually I left the job.
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