Our Gay Future-Single guys, will you stay single?
Are there any single gays in mid 30s like me and worried about your future but would rather stay single than ruining a girls life? Reply/Post a comment
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Shahlovedeepak | Posted On Oct 6, 2024
Me-too worried |
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Shahlovedeepak | Posted On Oct 6, 2024
Being a bottom finding a relationship is very difficult, I need a guy. Anyone interested dm me, any age is fine n no care about looks. Need hygienic n decent partner |
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Surya30 | Posted On Oct 6, 2024
Yeah thats a big fear among our community people, I am afraid of the same and I am just in my 20's.
Actually I feel more than a partner, the basic need is to have someone to take care of us, so if we get besties and if we adjust with them, living under one roof, maybe not as partners but somewhere in between that may help.
Gays should think about this, and the general mindset nowadays is not to resolve a conflict but to find a new partner, thats the sad part i guess. |
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love_gan | Posted On Oct 6, 2024
This always haunts. Finding a good person is difficult and sometimes I find myself worried about future. Coming out to family and friends, finding partner. If not finding partner then how will be the situation. Highly scared sometimes. |
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sreepillai_alpy | Posted On Oct 6, 2024
I am also in my mid-30s. I am bisexual but with zero experience with women, I dont want to try now and ruin someone's life. I am trying my damn to stay out of marriage, I go for meeting the girl once in a while but bribe the astrologer saying the horoscope does not match, sometimes it gets cancelled at the initial meeting itself. But I am worried about my future , will I stay and die single and I don't know any site where you can find a nice partner other than for quick fun. |
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Rum Bun | Posted On Oct 7, 2024
single is better |
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mr_lonely_soul | Posted On Oct 7, 2024
I went through and still going through a lot of issues. Until some age, people ask "are you married?" now people directly ask "how many kids do you have?"
My mother touched my feet and begged me to marry. My family emotionally tried everything possible to get me married to a girl. But somewhere in my mind and heart, I feel like I live a cursed life either due to sins from my past lives or present life. The best I can do is not to add more sins intentionally.
@Surya30, I used to think that. I had a bestie for 14 years. Yes, we did fight a lot but he was my one true friend and we knew each other so well than our own families did. We never slept together. He was a brother, a friend, sometimes a caring family member. But he stopped talking to me because he has gone to the gym and got much better looking and he is now surrounded by fake people. I tried my best to keep the friendship alive so many times. After many tries, I thought "why should I be a friendship beggar? If he really likes me as a person and think of me as his bff and family, then he will give me the same level of importance and priority that I give him" and I let it go a little bit. It's been almost 6 months since we talked to each other.
He knows my mental and physical health issues. He knows that he is the only friend I had. My phone call history usually has 4-5 repeated callers. Nobody calls me and talks to me now. I am getting used to this because there is no other choice. We used to talk for hours almost every day and say things like we will buy/rent a house together when we are older and be there for each other. Now, I am a nobody to him. We didn't even have any major fights to cause this separation.
In this world, money goes first, then looks, then fame. If you have two or all 3, you are the winner. Everyone else will be treated like losers. People change.
Pls don't try to advice me or tell me things to make me feel better. There is a void in me that will never be filled. I have come to terms with that. I just hope to die peacefully after my parents leave this world. I don't want to depend on anyone or be a bother to anyone. A small rented house, books, movies, maybe a dog or cat, plants, songs, some good health by God's grace is what I wish for these days.
For some people, even the normal and basic things that happen casually and naturally to most people is a dream. God bless you all! Stay strong! |
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Surya30 | Posted On Oct 10, 2024
I feel void atvtimes, want to explore the world. No one is upto my vibez. And honestly no one wanna be with me. A lot times, i just wanna leave the world. But only people like me are getting longer life |
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Sasha_Laura | Posted On Oct 10, 2024
Decided to live single forever as a CD and devote my life to CDlovers. but no relationships |
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Arjunnreddyy | Posted On Oct 10, 2024
@sasha really a wonderful choice. You're literally making many men happy like me many are cd lovers and admirers |
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