30+ age, Bottom, Pressure to get married
Am cd bottom 30 yr old, parents force me to getting married, I don't know what to do, I can't explain my identity to parents or I don't want to hurt any girls,, am very confused whether getting married or not.., please mature top or bottom need suggestions from your side,,, thank you Reply/Post a comment
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Smarty890 * | Posted On Jul 17, 2024
Ya bhaut achi soch hai kiski ladki life na barbad Ho apna vajse aap mana kar do mujhe shaadi nahi karni hai |
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panpipe69@gmail | Posted On Jul 17, 2024
Just be honest to your inclination (orientation). I'm 51 now and have had to also face this challenge. My standard response has been "I'm not the marrying type. " |
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Aseem Javed | Posted On Jul 17, 2024
Honest advice buddy.... if u dont wish to, don't get married. Ur condition is similar to many others who are under family or societal pressure. U don't need to explain anything to anyone. Jus be formidable enough to stand up yo anyone. If u can do dat, u live ur life the way u want wit full freedom. |
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panpipe69@gmail | Posted On Jul 17, 2024
Well said, Aseem đź‘Ť |
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Cruiser2021 | Posted On Jul 17, 2024
i know logical way is to not marry and be firm on it. but sometime the family and societal pressures are so much that it is usually not about choice but compulsion. we are a long way to go for it being accepted as normal |
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Akshay99 | Posted On Jul 18, 2024
Dont succumb to pressure, you will invite humiliation during separation and divorce when your wife accuses you of being gay and impotent…. Suffer now rather than later. Plus you will not ruin an innocent girls life too.. |
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Pratikku | Posted On Jul 20, 2024
I 100% agree with @Akshay99 |
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Huffle_puffle_1 | Posted On Jul 21, 2024
@Akshay99... why do u say gay with impotent?..what's the connection btwn the two |
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Samthom | Posted On Jul 21, 2024
In today's world we r strangled with parent 0ressure and also pressure to raise a family.
This us a very sensitive topic and we need to get psychiatric help.
It will really help to take one step at a time..
Courage to say whts on ypu mind will be initially painful but it will be easing the burden on everyone
Log kya kahenge.. is a thing if the past.. just make sure that your statement n your lifestyle don't destroy lives when u build relationships of new..
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Yummy24 | Posted On Jul 21, 2024
Open up, i would suggest, just like i did. I come from a orthodox family, but one true step will save everyone from alot of Drama which happens after being forcefully married to someone else. A lot of things to worry if you get married and emotionally challenging is the worst nightmare.
Take a stand, I understand that it is difficult but being true will have the pain initially for some months or years but it would indeed be fruitful in the future and that would definitely show maturity of yours
This is my experience, could be different for you.. hence earn good money first and become stable and have good savings, if you are thrown out after reveling your identity, you can survive. So all the best to you mate |
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Rajmalie | Posted On Jul 21, 2024
Get married |
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NSA_BDSM | Posted On Jul 24, 2024
Tough spot. Would suggest you to take a professional counselling and make a wise informative call. Because, every human have different understanding, emotional quotient also keeps on fluctuating. Most importantly, your equation with your family and their level of understanding will also play a crucial role. A professional may help and guide you to take those baby steps, eventually, the decision shall solely be yours. |
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