Why no trust?
It is not about a cruising spot, but I wish to ask you, one question, somone can answer.
WHY WE DONT HAVE A TRUST ON THE OTHER PERSON, WHOM WE ARE ATTRACTED TO.
WHY WE FEEL INSECURE TO APPROACH HIM, GEUNIENLY.…
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Dombot26 | Posted On Jun 28, 2022
If you are talking about approaching a guy in an open space then understand that if you don't know that he is bi OR straight or gay then there's a risk of it backfiring . If he is a friend OR a colleague then the impact maybe more because the society hasn't accepted the concept of gay and bisexual. If the society was more acceptable OR open then you could just ask a guy out and he could either say yes OR no and there won't be any problems.
If you are not out as a gay or a bisexual then anonymity is more important for you .
Even if the guy that you are attracted to gives you the signals or gives you the opportunity to explore ,Many are scared about meeting other guys.
This is mostly due to their past experience .It's both online and offline.
You should always be careful of the cameras in your partners place , or when you are surprised by more number of guys than what you had discussed before .
Always walk out of the door if you feel something's wrong.
Many have made it a business to lure older mature guys and loot them or blackmail them .
For example the last three guys that I met , each one has faced bullying , cheating ,blackmail and have been beaten in their past experience.
Many older guys that I meet say , they are lured by young guys with their xxl *** and bubblebutt , and they loot the older guys when they meet .
One older guy had tried to resist the young guy but he was beaten and left in some dark street corner .
Another older guy was lured by a girly sissy guy , as soon as he was naked , 2 goons got inside the room and caught him.He had to pay money to get out from that place
I rarely meet young guy but I met a young guy last month he was a very slim guy ,he had shared his past experience where he was used by a older guy who pretended like a gentleman online but when the younger guy went to meet him , he started to get abusive when the younger guy refused *** , he couldn't fight back because he was too small compared to the uncle , he was slapped and he scrached his chest while holding the collar . but he managed to get to his home.The older guy followed him back to home.Later the older guy came back to his home and started to blackmail the younger guy,and threatened to tell his neighbors that he was gay. later the younger guy had to shift his home . When he reached out to me he was so scared and not ready to trust anyone, later we met for a session and had fun,I could still see the scratch marks from his previous experience , during the aftercare part of the session he hugged me and started to cry .He couldn't believe that he had just met someone and had a genuine session That's how much hurt he was from the past session.
There are many guys out there with stories like this , and it's worse for crossdressers, they are so much misunderstood in the society and even by the gay and bisexual guys.
Everyone needs a safe place , a neutral place,where they are not judged , where they can be free.
Getting a partner who understands what you need is very rare .
If you find one then please go to a good hotel , spend some money on safety .
TRUST is a very hard,rare and difficult thing in this Indian society for LGBTQ community .
Be safe guys |
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