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Can one be bisexual after living gay life..??

Submitted by Ruhanruhan Location: All India (All India, India)

I think it's very hard to live a bisexual life after living as a gay...Is there any example here of becoming a bisexual or strait...???

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No Picture Akhilll	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 Ofc u can live..just be normal with the girls aur unke sath maze karo jaise ladko k sath karte the 🌚👍🏻

No Picture desimurga *	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 Yes why not

No Picture Tanha dil *	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 I dunno bout others, but I am happily married with a wife and children, and just last Sunday night I had gay *** with a friend. So it all depends on chances I think.

No Picture Youngguy123	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 It depends on how you are designed. Are you attracted to girls, no matter how little, and get aroused after seeing their hot pics? Then whether you have sx with them or not, you are already bisexual. However if you have no whatsoever interest in girls and you are 100% interested in boys then you are homosexual. This is something that cannot be changed. As for "becoming" straight, it's downright impossible unless you are designed to be gender fluid which form rather tiny percent of population. In any case, biology will decide it. I myself tried to be straight over span of 3 years, from 17-19 when i was so depressed knowing that I have major interest in boys and minor interest in girls. I exclusively watched straight p0rn, deleted all gay apps (i wasn't meeting guys at that age anyways, just timepass sx chat etc) and focused solely on girls. No change happened and I found that my best interest is in accepting myself in the way I am. It's scientifically accepted fact that sexuality can't be changed as per one's own will, and sooner you accept it, better for you. Do note that very few bisexual guys have equal 50-50 interest in both genders. Most will have some (biologically defined) preference for one over another, and they are still bisexual. I am convinced that for me it's 70% men and 30% girls

No Picture Pinkpanther2025 *	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 Its ur choice if u want to be just gay then enjoy that only

No Picture Rahulkumarmumba	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 @Youngguy123 has said it well. All the so called pure tops call themselves bisexuals. But most of them are not Gays at all. They are here for free *. If some is a Top, then he is a gay but likes to be a top for , opposite of bottom. There are miniscule number of really bisexuals. Once u have got the taste of gay , it's very difficult to go back. Many Gays who got married because of famiand social pressure manage to have * with their wife because at that age you will have *. But their interest in * with wife fades away quickly.

No Picture Anshul_vers	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 Being bisexual or being homosexual can or cammot be a choice If you see the dsm 5 (a guidebook by the american association of psychology APA if you're a researcher the format u use to cite is by them ) they classify homosexuality as a Gender disorientation disorder and a perversion ! So why sexual orientation matters 1)Personal choice 2)Societal norms Coming back to your question can one be bisexual after being gay Yes! You can be Came across many ppl who are gay and yet leading a happy married life with children .(may or may not their and his wife's sexual need is completed )but yes they are happy . The question of sexual attraction is a matter of doubt where no science can be certain ! But yes with sheer will and all the many factors you can be a bisexual and lead a happy life based upon your choices and priorities that bind you to choose what's the most optimal one . Being gay or not, Being bisexual or not ,Being Straight or not is a katyer of choice and few factors but at last all of the above will have a regret of not doing the other overcoming it and accepting your will is a good thing to do As humans act according to their situations Happy life is within !

No Picture CCBomb *	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 Of course you can! Its a matter of choice and accepting yourself! At a very young age, i realized that i was bisexual. Like any teen in the late 90's & early 2000's i used to watch ftv (lingerie & swimwear shows), bikini babes, zoom tv, etc. for the "late night feel good sessions" whenever I had the chance. Sometimes I would flirt with the girls around me and if i was smooth enough i would make out with them. Feel their boobs or get a HJ or BJ but no *. Never felt sexual attraction to boys my age at that time. But after watching my first * clip, i realized that not only was i attracted to the women in that * video but i was salivating at the sight of that glorious * pounding that pornstars juicy * and the way she was worshiping it with her ! At that time i was thinking that may be i was too but after reading books on * education and the different types of sexuality that people have, i realized that i was bisexual. Did i feel sad or ashamed? * no! I was happy that i get the best of both the world! As i grew older, started dating women i realized that there was a difference in the attraction i felt towards men and women. For women its romantic but for men it was purely lust. * lust to be exact. So keeping that in mind i pursued my interests. I found it easy to get girls but being a guy it's easier to read whats in another guys mind so in spite of having opportunities with men i steered clear because they weren't worth the trouble. But i did find a few like minded and compatible guys who took me to heaven and brought me back. Most important thing for me is not to hurt anyone emotionally as it can really damage people so i make my intentions clear in the beginning to avoid unnecessary problems later on. Rest its up to you! You always have the power to make the kind of choices you want in life. Its your life! You are in control!

No Picture Allrounder	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 I really cant see my self in the gay templete but i love * bigger . I dont get eriction looking at manly guys and i cant romance even bottom who have facial hair so i dont wanna catagorize me in any thing like top vers or bottom. I just love thick big bananas and thats it and if i get chance to enjoy smooth girly btm then its turn on for me. Basically i like who act so femme than usual which trans and cds do which is not same with girls they have diff kinda behaviour than cds and trans. I like direct * actions than drama and i get exited if cd or btm is close to girl or women. Why am gay? Bcoz i love * bigger bananas ? Coz i enjoy romance with cds ? Am happyly married straight guy and have multiple girls and milfs as * partners actively and have healthy *** life with wife too who share my fantasy and respect my sexual urges which am fortunate to have such wife. Am enjoying and exploring all kinda sexual desires and dont wanna give name to my orientation.

No Picture LeoD	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 @allrounder Exactly how I am. I love mutual hand jobs, getting * and * *. But apart from that, I don't get turned on by manliness. Even during * *, I dont get turned on, I just love * them. From my experience I only get *** and hard with girls, mature women, and very girlish men with very feminine features.

No Picture Young_Vs_Old	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 95% gays in india r bisexual, even pure bot slave can *** their wives nicely and they had kids too

No Picture Deepakkamble *	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 We can like both genders at same time, once I was kissing my ex gf, n at the same time thinking about my cousin who was in college 12th standard

No Picture Goodkid2024	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 Let me share my experiences I can't tell the age i was young since that time I had tons of experiences with uncles and everyone male but even after that I don't have any interest in guys I just like to show my *** to them that's it I don't have any emotions feelings it's just for fun you're talking about bisexual I'm straight af even after all those incidents that happened with me you can be straight or bisexual doesn't matter what your past is you just need to figure out where you stand and what you like now that's it.

No Picture Silverkok *	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 I'm the best example I suppose. When I was 5 years my cousin who then was 15 years introduced me to gay * by letting me play with his . Then when I was some 10 years had attempted with a girl asked her to , but dhe didn't. Later my classmates in 5th class again made me think about gay . They forced me to touch his **. From that day until the age of 22 years I was gay only. Having wet dreams with men. I've never dreamt of girls, always boys even until today. When my parents knew about my gayness the got me married to a girl. It took one full month for me to change mindset from gay to bi I suppose. Yes, sice I was sharing bed continuously for a month with a girl, a day arrived when I felt good on touching her. And I had the first intercourse. For about 3 months we lived happily and I was busy with her as well as whenever got chances with men too. There after I'd been living like a bisexual. But after some 30 years of my marriage, I went back to gay life. No more like women in bed. So conclusion is a gay can change his mindset to a bi very well

No Picture Adhan	Posted On Feb 7, 2025 Actually it gets me bit frustrating at times and it comes from craving man * now and then. I had several boy-boy encounters long before I had my first time with a girl and have always liked both sexes. For some reason, the older I get the more I crave man . My wife knows I’m Bi and that I fantasize about ** with guys, but I don’t think she would approve of me actually following through with it

No Picture Young_Vs_Old	Posted On Feb 8, 2025 Lots of people here pretend to b straight.... If u r in this site , definitely u r bi or gay... Nothing wrong to accept the things no-one is going to judge u, because here everything happened in secret.... Still u think u r a straight then why the *** u r here...

No Picture YumPhallus *	Posted On Feb 8, 2025 Sexuality isn’t something you switch like changing a shirt. You don’t "turn" bi while being gay it’s about understanding yourself fully over time. You are who you are. If you feel attraction to both men and women in varying degrees, that means you're bisexual. As someone else pointed out, the spectrum differs for each person, but if you genuinely enjoy being with men, you won’t suddenly develop an attraction to women—you’ll know deep down what feels right for you. India, being a traditionally conservative country, has long been unaccepting of sexualities outside of heterosexuality. Decades of conditioning have led many to believe that being straight is the only "normal," while everything else is either fabricated, unnatural, or taboo. However, people are slowly beginning to recognize, respect, and make an effort to understand the diverse spectrum of human sexuality. That said, a significant number of men on dating sites, perhaps around 40% aren’t actually gay. Many are bi-curious at best, using these platforms purely to satisfy their sexual desires. Unfortunately, this often leads to them viewing bottoms or other gay men with a transactional mindset, treating them as mere objects for their pleasure. This is evident in the behavior of those who identify as "tops" yet refuse to engage in intimacy beyond the physical act. They won’t kiss, hug, or show genuine affection, they strictly seek oral or * *, reducing the experience to nothing more than gratification.

No Picture Uncletopforchat	Posted On Feb 9, 2025 Some people say, during fking session with women, some women rub and *** the male boobs , and some do fingering on males, both intended to get quick errection. Many persons say during chats elsewhere. So this may also one of the reasons..

No Picture Lixon	Posted On Feb 9, 2025 I used to think I'm gay, cause I always got aroused thinking about being with a man sexually, but I'm not into most of them romantically, So it made me confused of my sexual orientation So I shared my situation with some of my friends but I didn't get any answer from them then I met a psychiatric doctor for advice His response wasn't satisfactory After many years of searching the Internet of studies and research about sexuality and sexuality orientation I found the answer that I'm Not gay or straight and I also understood that no one can change their orientation Each and every second of our life is a lesson we are studying without realising what we are acquiring If we wanted to acquiring knowledge about something we just have to browse the Internet but we still go to school the reason for that is schools just not teach you about what's in the books but also makes a better person that teach you manners and life lessons and also character formation just like that everything happens in our childhood has a big impact on how we are going to be in the future All our childhood experiences are the results of who we are and what we are and we can't change it What I am trying to say is that no one can change your sexual orientation ,you can pretend that you are bi or straight but if you are gay you will not find yourself comfortable with your life style So be yourself

No Picture Rxd	Posted On Feb 9, 2025 Its depend what role u play with the guys.. If u r top then yes.. U can enjoy with the both.. But if u r bottom like me. Then slowly slowly u will lost interest of girl.. And more likely u will wants to be a girl like me.. I m enjoying as a bottom from last 25 years and I proudly say..I am gay..and I enjoyed having *** with guys more then women or girl..

No Picture Ruhanruhan	Posted On Feb 10, 2025 Rxd your reply is best....

No Picture Youngguy123	Posted On Feb 12, 2025 I wonder how many people here actually know about sexuality! Those who think it's a choice, I challenge them to choose 100% straight life and "choose" To avoid getting turned on by men. Just because someone is married and forcefully managing to have sx with wife doesn't mean he's bisexual. He's bisexual only if he gets genuinely turned on by his wife, develop loving bond with her and can do it without feeling pressured. Sexuality is about software, and not hardware, so having kids prove nothing. Nowadays there are women who give birth without by using sperm banks lol, it says nothing about sexuality of women, nor about man whose sperm was received, because there was no * between them

No Picture Ganesh000	Posted On Feb 12, 2025 Tomorrow I have place in nugmabkam morning 12 clock t o 3 clco k any cd interested for meet I love cds

No Picture archupuj	Posted On Feb 18, 2025 normally gay who are bottom are feeling of incst, cuckolding and even they enjoy bi sexual male and have sometime enjoyed female also but now inclined more as bottom. all is fun as long as u enjoyed

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Can one be bisexual after living gay life..??