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Submitted by DManJerkOffs * Location: All India (All India, India)

Hey everyone! ?? Let’s dive into a topic that can often feel a little taboo—how long do you last when you’re in the heat of the moment? First things first: there’s no shame in any number, whether it's 30 seconds or 30 minutes! The idea here is to embrace what works for you and create a space where we can all share honestly without feeling embarrassed. After all, it’s about the fun, the connection, and the pleasure we all get.

Research shows that the average Indian guy lasts around 5-7 minutes, but honestly, who’s counting? Whether you last a minute or more, it’s all part of the experience. If you’re someone who tends to finish quicker, don’t stress—it’s not a bad thing at all. In fact, some of the most intense moments can happen in a short amount of time. Let’s get rid of the embarrassment and celebrate every part of the journey.For those who last a bit longer, feel free to share your tips and tricks—how do you pace yourself? Do you slow down, change positions, or use other techniques to last longer? Every story counts, and we can all learn from each other!

Remember, this is a no-judgment zone—whether you're quick or slow, every moment is valuable. Let’s keep it fun, lighthearted, and supportive, and make this a space where we can all be comfortable talking about our experiences. Looking forward to hearing how long you last and what you do to keep the fun going! ????

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No Picture Sigmund *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I'm a Bi married! When it's fun with my spouse the session goes for about min 45 minutes from the foreplay till we get out of the bed for wash! When I go to msg center it lasts for 15-20 minutes. With a guy depending on the mood and how he's in the bed.

No Picture Ruhanruhan	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Last time when I had * with a grandpa...I finished just in 2 4 minutes but second and 3rd session went more than one and half hour each....We both drank a good whisky and enjoyed different of positions kissing cuddling and many more....I was surprised that how long I can *...But the daddy was experienced...He was talking and using me in his own accord...I enjoyed a lot long sessions ....

No Picture naughtymanushya	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 For me, the first round of penetration typically goes for about 15-20 minutes..but it depends on the intensity and speed. ;) But then in 2nd round, the longest I've fcked was for about an hour! It was crazy! 😄 While getting blown, I can go really long without cuming. ;) I remember a guy blew me continuously for almost 45 minutes. Hehe!

No Picture pravin39	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 almost all my session minimum 30Mnts to 1.00Hrs with good hard and hot top, when comes with females including romance till climax it will take minimum 1.5 hrs, hot and hard sexy tops like get * from me for long, because i am good * sucker,

No Picture no_place *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I am bisexual. Any tips to last long? No medicines please. Has anyone successfully increased their timing? Please share your experience. It will be helpful

No Picture DManJerkOffs *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Here’s an elaborated response you can post in the thread: I’ll be brutally honest—my first round usually lasts about 3-4 minutes. There’s something about the initial heat and excitement that just takes over. But once I’m past that, the second round easily stretches to about 15 minutes, and the third round? Well, that can take its sweet time, depending on how much energy I have left. 😅 Now, let’s talk about what really gets me going (or, in some cases, finishes me off even quicker): if someone grabs my butt, teases my hole, and licks my balls, it’s game over—I can’t hold back! Those sensations are my ultimate weakness, and they make everything so much more intense. To slow things down in the first round, I sometimes try to distract myself by thinking of something unsexy, like work deadlines or boring chores. Does it work? Hmm, not always. 😜 The heat of the moment often wins, and I’m not complaining! At the end of the day, it’s all about mutual pleasure and enjoying every second, no matter how long (or short) it lasts. What about you guys? How do you pace yourself or embrace the flow?

No Picture MiBussy *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 @no_place go for yoga or other forms of exercises for that.

No Picture GAPEWHORE *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 being a bisexual sissy more into bottoming i hardly last more than 5 minutes..... but the fact that im multi orgasmic makes it more enjoyable.... after i * i recharge like in 2 minutes and back to action again so dont know if it counts as more time but i can repeat for like 10 to 20 times in a row (something that most people dont believe but the fact is that i * multiple times... not sure if its a medical condition or something) it creates the happiness of having multiple orgasms and i have even fainted in bed and slept after like 15 to 20 back to back orgasms

No Picture MiBussy *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Foreplay is one key to last longer, instead of the usual wham, bam, Thank you man.

No Picture DManJerkOffs *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 @Gapewhore - I think 10 to 20 times is impressive

No Picture scotch	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 having a very tine * of 1.5" with no * whatsoever and leaking at the slightest excitement of even a hot chat-

No Picture HellBoy1991 *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I can * for an hour, just the * part. Many times came early as well. Once only, I don't know what happened that day, * almost after a month for around 1.5hrs. Just the * part. For ***, I have a record of 1 hour, love sloppy bj.

No Picture naninaku	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 that depends, When i * * First Round takes 5min Second Round takes 15min Third round 45 min Fourth round after a gap of 6 hours(This is the best i tried in a day) takes again 45min to 1 hour When i * * First round takes 10 min Second takes 25 min Third takes an hour I feel the difference between * and * is * has natural lubrication that makes * faster.

No Picture kannadude1987	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I see lot of unreal numbers here . Avg Indian men last long 10-12 min . How 1hr and 2hrs possible ?

No Picture DManJerkOffs *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 As a reminder, let's keep it honest and realistic—it doesn’t matter how long you last as long as you make those moments count. For me, the first round is quick, usually about 3-4 minutes, especially when the excitement is at its peak. But the second round typically goes for 15-20 minutes, and by the third, it’s more about the energy levels and pacing. At the end of the day, it’s all about enjoying the connection and the pleasure, regardless of the clock. Curious to hear how others pace themselves or embrace the moment! 😊

No Picture roving_hound	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 60 plus now. Even now I last for around 8 to 10 mins and I am happy without any embarrassment. If the foreplay is enjoyable the pleasure begins to last longer !

No Picture J6.5inch *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Guys its not important how long you last but it is more important that how you and your partner are satisfied in that session.... As far as lasting time is concerned it depends on many things like mood, partner, place, time from last *** etc...

No Picture Luk4Spa	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 The answer would not be a constant everytime. It varies with mental situation, partner , place & the method of * itself. I have personally experienced a spontaneous * just when the partner just laid on me and did a naked humping. Also, 30 mins of * never made me . Sometime hours of handjob never gave the feeling to . But, at times when a strong hands hold n gives a kind of sexy shake its immediate So , how long we last just depends on the excited state of mind & the physical curiosity for the urge to . Also, for few men its like after its done for the day or few days. But for few ,they get ready for another...this goes with age & physical stamina. We must not do * when exhausted. *** itself burns lot of calories,meaning need energy 😔 Pls let me know your inputs on my thoughts on this.

No Picture naninaku	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 guys, just dont judge based on some avg timing and unreal numbers etc, its depends on every individual. Each Individual is different. The time depends on how fit you are? how healthy you are and the phycial intimacy between partners (male/female) and yes there are people whom i know have * more than an hour. So these are realistic. Just not that one cannot * more it doesnt mean that avg is 6-8 min

No Picture Vish81 *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 From my vast experience as a bottom, I can tell about tops that 80% tend to * within 3 minutes of inserting in *. 2nd shot is slightly longer... Usually upto 6-10 minutes. There are only very few who can do for 20-30 minutes.

No Picture Young_Vs_Old	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Nobody can make me discharge by * and fore play, only thing that make me * is *.... While * new guys continues stroke till 10min is enough+ body play etc etc = 2hrs. ( Because I do lot of fore play) If I had * with the guys before, * time will b 45 min to 1hrs in different positions

No Picture mini44u	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I take long time during * and * for 10-15 minutes. And all that depends on your mood and partner

No Picture Azhar32	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Earlier was enjoying a good sexual life after 2 kids now i couldnt stay more than 4 to 5 strokes .this was very big problem my wife always complaining for good and better *** in bed even i have a good size , so after discussing with her we sometimes enjoy threesome with strangers when v go for picnic nearby mumbai now we both enjoy a good sexual life .

No Picture Sunpat *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 As a bottom I have different experiences. One person discharged while fireplay is on. Some people can do once and for 5-10 min I have enjoyed with a person who * me more than 45 min and when came was ready within 10 min *

No Picture Aman213	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I * minimum of 30 40 mins that is constant not less than that and it goes up-to 1 hour or so while getting * I can get * 45 60 mins without cumming, only very less people 2 3 in count who * me very well and I came

No Picture Zoyan_ali	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I can go whole night for the right sexy uncle Even when I'm discharge I can continue doing it without removing nd 2nd round would be around 2 hrs

No Picture Amazingguy002	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Before when I was in 7,8th std I used to last more than 20min my warden used to hj me I never used to *** recently I got hj from a stranger in public toilet I lasted 2,3min don't know how & why

No Picture sumi24	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 I am bi married guy with wife 25-30 with forplay, stroking 12-18 min break rhythm,with guy bj takes time during a** fu*k 7-8 depending on how arouse I am

No Picture twocentzzz	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Honest response: I'm a virgin so I don't know how long I'll last with a guy. But when I jerk off online on cam I keep edging and go on. The longest this has happened is from 9 pm to 5 am, which was about 8 hours.. I was so surprised that day.. and tired too of course :D.. but the explosion after edging was too good!!

No Picture Sahaisab	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 My experience with one of my partners was, when ever we do any sexual activity being oral or *** he lasts for 4-5 minutes but he takes at least 20-25 minutes if we are at safe room.

No Picture Ariyathe	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 2 min

No Picture DManJerkOffs *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Does attraction and connection play a role in how long you last? I feel like when I'm attracted I don't last longer. And let’s talk about the type of play—oral, hands, or ***—does one make you last longer than the others? I’ve heard some people swear by certain moves , while others say it’s all about the right connection. How do you all control it? Do you have tricks to slow down when you’re about to blow, or do you just go with the flow? And for the bottoms—what do you think makes a top finish quicker? Is there something that sends them over the edge faster, or is it all about the vibe? Let’s hear it—this is all about sharing, learning, and having fun!

No Picture GAPEWHORE *	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 those who *** early are best since they experience best pleasure in short time

No Picture kannadude1987	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 No realistic numbers . Few of them saying 1 hour or 2 hours. * or * can’t bare that long to ***

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Jan 6, 2025 Any particular intake to have to *** late?? Ayurvedic or other?

No Picture anand84	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 It's depends upon partners trick of arousal....

No Picture Hunnybun	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 Any imported tablet to increase Timing

No Picture Ayaangoa	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 I have a very good experience in this line now, it's been 5 years, I can * bottom full day but not non stop. * for 15 min and take rest for sometimes again start.

No Picture Ayaangoa	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 Any bottoms wanna meet? I am in calangute, Goa.

No Picture Dirtyboy123	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 I can't rest for 1 min also

No Picture hotlund	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 Lol.....I thought initially when I read the description I thought thank God I will get to read something that will make me feel better knowing people do * fast....now after having gone through it I am more gloomy now......people are lasting for hours....and here I am who cums in seconds if someone even lies on top of me just rubbing my * with their body weight......hahaha.....Lord save me.🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

No Picture Cruising4lyf10	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 I am bottom I usually get *, so at that time I hardly , but if someone touches my during that I * in 15-20 sec

No Picture MiBussy *	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 "It's not the destination that matters but the journey." So as long as you enjoy, no matter the duration, that's important. I've enjoyed being pounded anywhere between 10 mins to 2 hours single session, because almost all my tops including my ex enjoyed foreplay and making out. For both parties, mutual satisfaction was important and both wanted to make it last as long as possible.. whether it's 10 mins or 2 hours. So that including foreplay and making out helped with the sexual tension, chemistry and attraction, and it helped continue the session to as long as possible. My tops ensured that I'm enjoying as well as they are, and it worked for both. It's possible to go for 2 hours. There was a lot of making out between sessions. Almost all my tops are hunks or former hunks.. meaning working out, including sports for which regular diet is important.

No Picture MiBussy *	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 This is a long post. So, sorry in advance, and thank you for being patient and reading till the end, if you do. I'm in Healthcare, and a trained professional. Some of you are asking about tablets including Ayurvedic etc. 1. Tablets or medications are not needed. Proper diet and working out whatever you do is important. Tablets and medications would help you temporarily but have a risk of creating new side effects or worsening known side effects - known and unknown. They also have a risk of making one dependent on it. That is for short term gains, where you had a great experience once, you want to continue having it regularly, which in effect is * abuse. You don't know whether that * or medicine suits your body but because someone recommended it because it worked for them, or because it worked for you once, you take it too.. once or twice is understandable but not regular use. 2. It's all in the mind. Remember that grass is always greener on the other side. People think that lasting longer is the epitome of being a man or something along those lines and if you're not lasting long, there's probably something wrong. Probably because of social conditioning or *. There's nothing specific about the duration. It's good if one can go on for hours, and there's nothing wrong about going on for a few minutes. The point is, if you and your partner are enjoying and are satisfying each other whether it be 5 mins or 10 mins or more that's more than enough. It's not about the destination but the journey. Some tops go on for hours leaving the bots in pain or bleeding or agony, leaving them traumatized. Some bots want their tops to go on for hours leaving tops in pain or bleeding or agony, leaving them traumatized. So, as long as you and your partner are satisfied and enjoying each other, regardless of the duration (minutes or hours or days or months or years or centuries 😀) that's more than enough. 3. For a lot of people, * means 'Wham, bam, thank you man' or ,'Wham, bam, thank you ma'am'. That's not how it's supposed to be. * is an art. In it's purest form, * is about giving and not about taking or receiving. Which involves respecting yourself and your partner. If you don't respect yourself, you won't enjoy or be satisfied. If you don't respect your partner, they won't enjoy or be satisfied. This also involves open and clear communication about preferences, likes and dislikes. Respecting yourself also means improving or working on your physique through any physical activity such as gym workouts or sports or yoga or dancing or anything, eating healthy, setting clear boundaries, having clear communication, reducing being dependent on medicines unless necessary, or other things. Our bodies are wonderful machines... we just need to optimize it for it to function to its prime through a healthy lifestyle, irrespective of the age. There are a lot of materials, books and paintings on this subject both ancient Indian (Kamasutra is one book) as well as modern science. * is ok as long as we learn the good parts from it. As a side note, many crave having * with people in the military or police, etc., because of their physique and stamina etc. How do they achieve such physique? Look at their diet and training. It's the same thing we eat. Normal roti, veg, rice, and weekly non veg. The military or government doesn't give them nor they have medicines or drugs or powders or anything like that. People in IPS are trained to survive in the jungles by eating whatever they find.. things we wouldn't even consider. So, anyway.. I hope you get the point.

No Picture DManJerkOffs *	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 @MiBussy Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a thoughtful and well-articulated post. Your perspective on health, respect, and open communication in relationships is truly enlightening. I completely agree with your emphasis on maintaining a healthy lifestyle, respecting oneself and one’s partner, and focusing on the journey rather than the destination. Your insights about how long we last during intimate moments are particularly reassuring. It’s so important to move away from the societal pressures and myths around duration and instead focus on mutual satisfaction and enjoyment. As you rightly said, it’s about the quality of the experience and the connection, not a stopwatch. It’s refreshing to see someone advocate for a holistic approach to physical and emotional well-being while highlighting the importance of respect and balance in relationships. Your wisdom is a reminder that true pleasure lies in mutual respect, understanding, and the ability to appreciate the present moment. Thank you for sharing this—it’s a great reminder to prioritize health, connection, and genuine enjoyment over fleeting fixes.

No Picture Anni_bott	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 Waise mera last mere bf se hua tha...... Ya my bf 1 jan 2025 Manali mai....... 5 jan ko mai wapas ghar aaya 4 day unke sath bahut enjoy mila mujhe... Unka timing fore play k sath 20,25 mint rhta tha........

No Picture apostrophe_	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 To be honest, when someone sucks me or when I * I * in 1-2 mins max. I tried diverting my mind, still due to excitement I do release in short time. Might sound less time/ premature ejaculation, but that's what it is 🙂

No Picture kingofdesire56	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 I sometimes get too depressed that I don't last a minute. I never knew what to do about it.

No Picture jackscs2005 *	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 Spinning my head Seeing all these number. I can last for max 30 secs max with my micro clitty :) just gentle touch does the job for me :) What else can be expected from a sissy bot like me? right?

No Picture AlexHunter007	Posted On Jan 7, 2025 Now I don't know whether to consider this a problem or not - I'm so used to edging that my * is kinda densesitized and I can only * when I * pretty hard with my hand. Nothing else can make me . Maybe I need to start using lube while jerking off / take a break from it, for me to gain the sensation back. Just to clarify, I do pre-** a lot, but orgasm for me is difficult without hard jerking. So is it a boon or a bane?

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