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Indian's unhealthy obsession of white skin.


Submitted by Ytutuk Location: All India (All India, India)

Indian tops are so sick and lust for gori chamri. Almost all Indian men hate dark skinned bottoms. Nobody loves a dark skinned man or a bottom. Why do Indian tops love to *** only white skinned or fairer toned bottoms? Many people have insulted me on my face about my dark skin tone. It's so humiliating. Why can't Indian tops love dark skinned bottoms?

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Voyeur_exhib *
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

I am 40+ now. Every time someone expresses they are not into me, I tell myself I am enough and I am worthy. Deep inside, I believe I look good enough, my skin tone is good enough, my beauty is good enough. Hence I still get guys who are into me and who can meet my sexual needs. I do not tie my sense of self worth or happiness to another person's approval or rejection of me. Of course it took years for me to grasp this idea. But I got it.

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afzal_khan1986
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

You are absolutely wrong.. black skin bottoms with smooth texture are heaven.. especially fit, teen n young bottoms... I eat them as of they are chocolates 😋

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Silverkok
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

I was a type who was too pessimistic towards gay ***. Was in misconception that I'm old enough so guys no more will have interest in me. But it's Ohmojo, I'm so much thankful to, I could meet my young 26 yrs handsome BF in Ohmojo. And he literally loves me. He's crazy into my lips, OMG too much. And he doesn't give any bad note to my big beard, that had been a stop sign for many guys earlier. He placed in me a lot lot of confidence. I'm no pessimistic anymore.

Secondly I'm a verse but I've never prioritize bottom guys with white skin. In fact I see dark skin with black big lips and wide dark nipples soo sexy.

If you are datk, keep yourself clean, look the other guys clean. if you have beard, keep it well maintained. Keep your underarms shaved. And so on. At least I don't think all tops demand fair toned skin.

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MiBussy *
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

Correction to Ops original post: Indians, irrespective of gender or role in bed lust for gori chamri. Continue reading in this vein.

We as a population crave for all this white.. tops or bots, men or women.

At least someone highlighted this.

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WhiteDesiBull
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

But in the end race BBC wins anyway..!

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Crossyanamika22
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

As a bottom i have seen that tops love white skin pretty much like they always say i like smooth chikna dhudh jesa bottom lol but as a btm i never have been discriminated anyone based on facial features or skin color tho i am a virgin and haven’t got my perfect partner yet but yeah proud of myself for not discriminating!

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TurinTop
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

As a white Caucasian man, I can say that no races are totally happy with what nature has provided. Whites are ruining their skin with tanning to appear darker. African blacks are using toxic whitening creams. Straight hair will use perm to get curly, curly hair will use irons to straighten it.
I personally like dark bottoms, white bottoms, Asian bottoms, side, top. Whatever. No discrimination, no racism, just pleasure. We should all think this way.

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Sammie26
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

For me>> no race, color or religion. It's matter for my how well you maintain, hygiene and present to yourself.

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Lanthanum94
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

Here in the west (UK and Europe), people prefer darker and brown skin. White people go to the tanning salons to get a tan as it's sexy.

Honestly, being a fair Punjabi myself, I find dark skin sexy. I mean who can deny those dark sexy Mallu men or black men?
But of course personal preference is very personal and based on ones belief system and experiences. That said, its just the content of Melanin cells under the skin which is good for sun rays protection. Dark skin is healthier too, medically speaking.
It's sad that its even a thing some people discriminate against. Well, they're just missing out!

As Indians(North India at least), we're all victims of brainwashing through media, films, society and our colonial past, sadly we grew up seeing such discriminatory instances around us all the time. And somehow it gets into our subconscious and gets tied to ones self-worth eventually. But one can change that over time by challenging the thoughts(neuroplasticity) as its nothing but BS. Let's just not pass it down to the new generation.

Always remember, "it's not you it's them and their pitiable belief system."

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Sam22_Top
Posted On Dec 21, 2024

Color doesn't matter, I love every bottoms , feel their feelings. I love them.

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Eddiey *
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

The best *** I *** was a black one. . It was huge. . and so pretty. . And yummy. .

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Sur123
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

Well I am a white skinned bottom and I can confirm that most of the men I've met are quite lustful over my milky white skin. Honestly, I feel that it's all about an individual's choice and nothing to do with racism. For me I personally prefer getting *** by black men over any other because I think it's mainly because opposites attract..

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MiBussy *
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

Not meaning to call out anyone, but sometimes an individual's choice can also be shaped due to systemic racism as a part of the environment the individual is a part of, and the individual may or may not be aware of it.

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WhiteUncle
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

We are all pressured to spend money to look different. Fashion, makeup, skin treatments are all about change bringing money to someone. Even though I know this i still am a white bottom who feels inferior and subservient to dark skinned guys, especially Indian guys

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DecentBott36
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

Sad but true

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Soham_hi
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

I like brown/ black/ dark skin top

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Only_Matured
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

Everything is dark on switching off the lights.
So difference does that make.

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Only_Matured
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

So what difference does that make.....

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Pinkpanther2024
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

Its their choice u cant call them sick at all dnt use such words

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Ytutuk
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

@Pinkpanther2024 it's deeply rooted in racism. You can call it personal preference all day but deep down you know you are sick.

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Sandeephard
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

I think the correct term to use here is colorism, not rascism. Rascism is a separate issue. South Asian idiots tend to prefer lighter skin within the same racial demographic, so it can't really be called rascism, imo. Latent internalized rascism from pre independence times also may have some effects but mostly it is this phenomena is colorism.

I have to confess something, I grew up like one of those idiots thinking one skin color or way of speaking or knowledge of a language makes people inferior/superior. I don't believe in such idiocy anymore. We are a country of people with beautiful dark luscious skin and India has the most diverse and beautiful looking population in the world in my opinion. Dark skin is hot.

I blame these stupid Bollywoodiyas and hindi tv the most, they have a fetish for gori chamdi. They never include people from the east parts of the country as well.

I see ads on TV everday where if a man/woman has to play a labourer or kaamwaali they either make their skin dark or hire an actor with dark skin. It makes me so so angry. Its so twisted to tie skin color to particular jobs or economic status.

I REPEAT WE ARE A COUNTRY OF DARK PEOPLE AND WE ARE BEAUTIFUL :)

Also I saw a trailer for a documentary on how Indian pop culture, movies, tv, etc ignores people with dark skin. Forgot it's name and therefore can't find it. If anybody knows, please let me know where to find it.

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MiBussy *
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

I agree but what's the root of colorism? How did colorism originate?

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MiBussy *
Posted On Dec 22, 2024

I also agree that the movie industry is part of the problem and responsible for propagating this myth.

Imagine a handful of people, with the help of make up artists or light or camera angles or photoshop, holding such influence over a huge swathe of the population across age and gender... affecting their psyche and self esteem.. it's impressive and really, not a joke.

Some actors take part in ads for products like fair n lovely, fair n handsome, and other similar ones - these ads are also shot by people from the industry, that then plays its part.

It's a good thing that people are beginning to call them out for it. Sometime in the past Priyanka Chopra when she was single was called out for her association with some of these products and another one where her photoshopped pic was chosen for something.

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Rahul_mike
Posted On Dec 23, 2024

I guess everyone has a type , but everyone loves bbc

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Ruhanruhan
Posted On Dec 23, 2024

This is not right...My only condition is man should be over 50....Honest with high understanding level...
I don't care colour...
I love all bottom daddies and grandpas

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Mcs_579810 *
Posted On Dec 23, 2024

We are educated enough to use sites like ohmojo and grindr.

No body will risk their health for temperory pleasures

So it is important to make sure that partner should not have STD

That is all enough to enjoy romance or relationship here.

Unfortunately some people mind looks colour physique size and body odour

Looks and colour can not be changed physique and size may be depends on many other factors and body odour will be based on his profession and habits and habitation

I really don't know how all these matters in relationship.

Kudos to the people who are enjoying the relationship without bothering any physical aspects

Sorry for the people who are rejecting in name of all these.

Even though I am facing rejections based on all this and still searching for someone with a day of hope

I really don't even care because I have self realisation and self acceptance and definitely this aspect is just a part of life. We have more important things to do and more nice things to enjoy and be thankful for

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raju21
Posted On Dec 23, 2024

As a top i prefer white skined smoth bottom having girlish look.they are more like girls in bed,and good in ***.
Black or rather iindian skin color can bear for alonger time the penitration and as such gives complete satisfaction
Every bottom has its own charm

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raju21
Posted On Dec 23, 2024

As a top i prefer white skined smoth bottom having girlish look.they are more like girls in bed,and good in ***.
Black or rather iindian skin color can bear for alonger time the penitration and as such gives complete satisfaction
Every bottom has its own charm

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pravin39
Posted On Dec 23, 2024

nothing like that dear, some tops may like only fair skin bottoms but almost all like any color,
i am totally black but clean shaved even no mush and no beard, but young tops like me, some young hot tops who *** me already are called me at there place *** me again and again , hot boys need sexual pleasure,


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Pinkpanther2024
Posted On Dec 23, 2024

@ytutuk in deep down ur discarded and may be depressed nd ur sick iam not sick why ru even blaming me upfront what i said to u tell me??

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RRRNOW
Posted On Dec 23, 2024


@Pinkpanther2024 if someone insults me simply because of my skin colour then I have the right to call them sick. I called you sick because you took their side and raised voice against me. So it means you are like them. I saw your profile bio. I understand why you feel exposed. You have same mentality. Had they simply rejected me then it would have been ok. But they insulted me and mocked me. And you took their side. So you and then are same things.

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Ytutuk
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

@Pinkpanther2024 if someone insults me simply because of my skin colour then I have the right to call them sick. I called you sick because you took their side and raised voice against me. So it means you are like them. I saw your profile bio. I understand why you feel exposed. You have same mentality. Had they simply rejected me then it would have been ok. But they insulted me and mocked me. And you took their side. So you and them are same things.

How did @RRRNOW get this comment as his own? I was the one who had commented this. How did my name get removed and like wtf?

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Sanm6
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

Color disant matter only satisfacton is important.

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raju21
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

prawin39 sahi ho. there are always blackbeauty which gaives full enjoyment to top.

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raju21
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

prawin39 and Sanm6 sahi ho. there are always blackbeauty which gaives full enjoyment to top.

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Neetacd
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

It doesn't mean i have any discrimination but black *** gave me more satisfaction and turn on to be more and more horney

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rargo
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

I don't discriminate though but , it comes down to how sexy body you have

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Ohboy_2200
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

As a top, I've had some notions that fairer guys would be prettier to f*ck. But once I've had a dark skinned, teenager bottom with fit physique. And i had a breakthrough that day. It was an absolutely delicious meal. I still remember quite clearly in my head, his arching back in doggy, his chest, his toned body, his perfect shaped butt. It was delicious. On the other hand there have been dull fair guys too. So *** appeal of a person(as top or bottom) could be tipping at any end of the scale regardless of skin colors.

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Mutual_Handjob
Posted On Dec 24, 2024

I am a southie brown with skinny body. I'm very attracted towards uniform mens. I feel *** when I look at lungi mens with dark complexion and hairy body.

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BottomBoyBngl *
Posted On Dec 25, 2024

I think tops like white skin n bottoms lime dark. Am fair skinned bottom but I like Dark stocky mature men

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Anirudhbottom
Posted On Dec 25, 2024

so everybody will try to pretend non racist on this website but on reality they know what they want

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Anirudhbottom
Posted On Dec 25, 2024

thank gosh someone raised it i mean yr had hoti hain on tinder grindrr they want supermodel kinda whitish bottoms

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WohGayLadka *
Posted On Dec 26, 2024

I would prefer a dark top or better if it’s BBC
I don’t have a preference when it comes to a bottom

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eswar0
Posted On Dec 26, 2024

I don’t care if the person is dark or fair skin but I feel sexy if the guy manly tall with beard :-) found that most of Mallu guys have thick beard and manly looks

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Orgylover
Posted On Dec 26, 2024

As I have been to USA, colour doesn't matter. Hygiene and nice smell should matter. Body shape and all manageable.

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Anirudhbottom
Posted On Dec 26, 2024

I remember getting ghosted mostly in foreign on Grindr commonly indians are at Bottom of many guy's preference

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Chubbynave
Posted On Dec 27, 2024

This issue actually growing too much now.. recently happened to me twice.. wen they asked to share my pics I did.. after seeing, he said my face is not white as body and said no.. the second incident, I didn't share my face pic. He said to come to his place. I drove for 18 kms and wen I reached his place he didn't even allow me inside. He said Im all sweaty and dark with beard and told me to go.. I was sooo humiliated and frustrated.. from that incident I never share any pics.

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Chubbynave
Posted On Dec 27, 2024

They alld ont want girly bottoms.. they want bottoms to be girls.. fair chubby girls.. that's all..

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Sanjay41
Posted On Dec 27, 2024

Who told that. ... I like wheatiesh brown colour and black guys.... Frankly speaking I love too that rossy skin inside the *** .... black body roosy skin inside *** is my Turnon.... White dont that... Their skin is light with that I cant see the rossy skin inside ***. ... So I like and love wheatiesh brown and black guys a lot...

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Akshat_Bottom
Posted On Dec 27, 2024

You're not entirely wrong, but I've noticed that some tops do prefer dark-skinned bottoms, although it's quite rare. In general, most tops tend to be more attracted to white or fair-skinned bottoms. As a bottom myself, I personally prefer dark or tan-skinned tops, though skin color is not a deal breaker for me.

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