many of us can only make temporary friends in the gay world with other people and forget afterwards most of the times.
I have many regular, and office friends but none of them come close to heart. they are just known people only. I love many and want to give my fullest of the heart but no one seems right person.
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Ggn_123 | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
Yea my best friend from college, he's straight he and his wife know about me. It's a genuinely warm friendship |
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harendra | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
I have a good friend my bestie. he is like my dream guy, he knows me into guys he is ok with it, he is straight |
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Jeanebad | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
Trust me when I say I found a gay friend without any sexual feelings. I found him in Hyderabad, he is a chubby short muslim Bengali sweetheart. He just wanted a male friend with whom he can spend time, hangout, chat etc. It's been 4 years since I found him on blued. We have nice chat, speak on phone, and meet few times in a year. When we meet, it's always outing like movie, escape rooms, bowling, boating, trekking etc. Physically we have only smooched and nothing else. Also just loves running his hand over my crotch sometimes. We love to travel, and have visited Koyna, Ellora, Goa, so far |
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DecentBott36 | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
It's hard to find lifelong friends. Everyone looks for benefits. After some time they vanish.
I always try to keep in touch but other party don't want. This is very unfortunate.
I don't have any friends that I can count on. |
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J6.5inch | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
I have few friends over here but we don't have any feelings between us and we had never been involved sexually. Generally we meet to room in city and discuss on many things which we can't discuss with straight friends. Outstation guys generally speaks on phone. Yes, few guys are temporary because they only keep friendship till they are interested in ***. |
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sricbeguy | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
Yes I have platonic friendship with three guys , all of us married though and family friends too now, term us bisexual or whatever . We frequently connect and speak of lot of subjects and also share amongst us whom we met and exchange our recent outings , a nice friendship where we know of each other and can speak on gay or bisexual subjects without any inhibition. Happy that our friendship is strong in all 20 years from having met .
As posted by Blrfun2017 we have a small group in what's app for guys from coimbatore whom we all know past 7 years or more . |
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fifty | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
friendships happen over time. For me a friend is someone with whom I dont have to pretend anything , can bear my soul and eve s/he should be able to do the same.
In that sense my cousin sister has become my true friend in last 2-3 years. I had 2 female colleagues who could share there thoughts and feelings with me . Even I shared my feelings and thougts with them, but did not come out to them. At the time I hadnt even thought about coming out to anyone . So that didnt make a difference. I had a close college friend - male , or so I thought. Had lost touch with him but found him again after almost two decades. We had started talking over phone about our lives. I had an urge to pour my heart out once and was chatting with him, and realised he was responding like a counsellor and not a friend. I stopped. We started talking again, but for its not the same.
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Luk4Spa | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
Its a heavy thought which is very natural & always haunts those who are mostly bisexuals ..We do have friends since childhood, as we grow we experience many things..still we are upto ourselves. It is very rare or luck that someone gets to express their deepest of the desires or feelings with each other without having to feel guilty or fear of being judged or losing people.
The upcoming generation of youth would be lil fwd in thinking , accepting & with the change ..the 80s & 90s people are stuck , hide their feelings for their other priorities...Even if we have sexual /lust feelings on our friends not many can or will open up ..But on an average in real life we all pretend most of the times.
Multiple personality behavior is very common these days. |
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Slavebot | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
Actually it depends on ourself. I have good friendship with
Many of them I meet for ***. Few of them become my family friends also . In other hand there are many who just want to meet only for *** and don't want to keep any friendship.
So it doesn't like that gay hookups doesn't turn in the best friends. |
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Chubb_Bloke | Posted On Nov 26, 2024
Well, here is the story, there was this one guy who was a ladies man, but also a man's man, he was a good friend, I liked him and never was able to tell him that. He eventually got married and was a bad marriage, I had met him many times but this one time I met my gut was telling kiss him on the cheek so he knows you like him irrespective of all the things that happened in our lives. It was on the road and lot of passersby. I didn't that was the last I saw him before COVID took him.
I heard this quote in a movie, Is it better to talk than to die with everything within, Atleast if you tell them and they still prefer to be friends, I'd respect than being unable to speak nor swallow your feelings for them. If they backout of the friendship atleast you know they were not meant to be friends at all.
Is there anyone out there who wants to be friends with out benefits. I think I'm ready to make a few. Very interesting topic thank you for bringing this up.
I hear you, there's so much love to give but no one to receive. I think this happens to most of us, but they wouldn't want to accept. Just my thoughts ❤️ |
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Hotd4uin | Posted On Nov 27, 2024
For me such relationship started with *** and later turned into very good friendship and we no longer hv ***.
Met this guy back in 20¹2 while working In hyd. He was a senior manager at a MNC and I was a team lead in another MNC. Once he got married he wanted to give up his gay life n be a loyal husband so our *** stopped a week before his marriage.
For some unknown reason we kept in touch n our bonding grew as well. We share things with each other n we kept meeting over lunch or dinner or drinks.
So yeah such platonic relationships are possible. |
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Cruiser77 | Posted On Nov 27, 2024
yes i met a guy from grindr and we meet every weekend for movies, cruising spots, cafes, shopping etc. but we never even touched each other in sexual way and it has been 1.5 years |
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Shriram | Posted On Nov 27, 2024
No. No one is true to friendships. Gone are those days! |
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vasanth009 | Posted On Nov 27, 2024
I think nowadays it is very rare! I am here from quite long time approaching either for relationship or for the friendship , however, none of the reply I have received in my box pertaining to my profile message! I think friendship and relationship in M2M has no values nowadays I guess! Only lust, look, size etc matters here....... |
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vinodjaanu | Posted On Nov 27, 2024
Best friend means with romance or sx |
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biguy_007 | Posted On Nov 28, 2024
Yes I have lot of gay friends whom I’ve met both for gr as well as ohmojo whom I have know for quiet some years now. We have never had *** or even kissed but chat regularly n even when time permits enjoy each others company over coffee dates, movie dates or even travel we enjoy that a lot. I know it’s difficult to find such guys but such ppl do exist n such friendships last longer |
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Its me da | Posted On Nov 29, 2024
Before 20 years back I had fun with my best friend and we enjoyed for some one month, after that he ignored me and it took me upto suicide attempt, but no use i didn't get him. Still we both work together but daily from 20 years iam in same pain in my heart, but I can't share this with anyone to reduce my pain, still he is in my heart, but he ignore me to be as his friend also, but he is 100 parcent straight guy |
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Lucknow_Bottom_ | Posted On Nov 29, 2024
Yes.. I had crush and feeling for my college classmates friend but when I confessed it to him. Be became unfriend and started trying to ignore me. 😭😭😭 |
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Verstop_Bi | Posted On Nov 29, 2024
Yes. I met a guy casually through a dating site about 17 years back. He had a crush on me but I didn't get any feeling as I was already seeing someone. We remained friends and he later found his love (they are still together since 16 yrs). We 3 have been good friends and never had *** till date. We used to meet every weekend until they both moved overseas. We are still in touch over phone and meet whenever they come to India.
One of my best friends who have been a great support during my hardest times of my life. Lucky to have them both. |
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Silverkok | Posted On Dec 1, 2024
For a year almost I had been in *** relationship with a young man of 26. Soon jell get married in the new year. He promised that he won't leave me even after marriage. I hope he will but .not sure if he'll still be interested in me sexually after his marriage In bachelorhood guys have no alternatives than to have *** with boys/men. But after marriage they I don't think guys will still need a BF for *** |
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needMature | Posted On Dec 5, 2024
mere kai acche dost bane hai m2m me jinse aaj tak mulakat nahi ho paayi due to distance but we have good understanding withe ach other, ye nahi ki mil nahi sakte to ignore ya avoid kar rahe hai ek dusre ko, hopefully kabhi mile to wo sab bhi hoga |
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Ruhanruhan | Posted On Dec 11, 2024
I had a regular friend but I have lost him....Mentioned about him in my profile.....
Now I am searching for a regular bottom friend for everyday *** secrately but full of love .... |
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