Reason Behind fantasy

In this thread I want a discussion from you guys about the reason behind the fantasy.

Like someone has a fantasy of some sort

Is it just because we get to know about things via Internet or experiences of other or its just reading the things on ohmojo and thinking let's do it ourselves

Or from my understanding ( take an example of submissive bottom ) he mentally kept in such conditions for so long that he loves to be treated like that. And this urge of being used is the one makes it towards the police / army / uniform guys as most of them are supposed to be dominated in nature and this mentality of the bottoms also corelates with the masters and slave nature and also the truck driver one

What are your views

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No Picture Armaan1 *	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 Reason behind fantasy 😛 I have been watching *** from years and while watching i always wants to know how ir feels to have a *** in *** Since today I am still wondering to know how it feels but unfortunately i haven't taste one 😔
Dreamybott	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 DESIRES!! The world and the people both are driven by desires. In this age of internet where everything is accessible just with 1 click its not surprising how much sexual fantasies, stories, escapades etc are known to ppl at instant.
No Picture JPking	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 Do we need to compromise on our choices if we don’t find what we want?
No Picture JPking	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 I think the utmost desire is good respectful ***
No Picture MiBussy	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 Replicating in real life what one has seen happening in a simulated environment (***) or real environment is what creates fantasy. Simulated environment - movies or shows or *** or erotic audio shows/podcasts etc. In movies/shows we see what happens between characters and we like it and want to replicate it. We see *** and different roleplays or acts or positions. It stimulates us. Makes us curious. We see them enjoying (which mostly is an act as they're paid to perform). Basically we as audiences/consumers are seduced/tiltilated, and the performers/suppliers maintain the demand. It's all an act with very less touch of reality, and because we are influenced, we crave that as well, and that leads to fantasy and desires. When it comes to real environment, we might have heard someone talking about it (possibly bragging) or read about it (erotica/erotic novels) etc. Today, it's uncommon for people to experience things out of natural curiosity. I agree with @JPking, because at the core of it all, *** is beautiful and it deserves respect, contrary to what it is reduced to.
No Picture Makeoffun	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 Fantasy always related with no chance happened things.. So we are try to fullfill.. For me i am good fucker and average modern 30+ But my mind need to become a good bottom session with romantic hard fucker
No Picture MiBussy	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 To add to the op, fantasy is also the result of the environment that we have been part of, including sexual abuse/assault/*** from a young age at the hands of people who were authority figures, could be (one or both) parents, uncles, aunts, siblings, relatives, teachers, or neighbours, or friends (including their parents, relatives, and list goes on.). Fantasies can also can stem from unhealthy upbringing and/or repressed emotions, especially if they are repressed for far too long.. Fantasy can also be the result of traumas either because of sexual abuse/assault/traumas or from childhood/teenage bullying, and the resulting mental or emotional conditioning. There's a lot to be discussed and understood on this.
No Picture FunFreeVers	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 In my case, I was totally straight, you will not believe that I was actually not aware that Gay *** really exist. I thought that these terms only exist in language to abuse someone only. I came to know from my cousin brother when I was in eight standard that male and female has to *** to get a sibling. After that I discovered that pumping the *** for some time a white milky liquid comes out and we feel good. Then I learnt in school studies that my father has *** my mother to get pregnant and give me birth. As you said by some sexual abuse or encounter, at the age of 15 I went out with my father's best friend, he was like a real uncle for me. We stayed at his home, he was unmarried and we were alone. He told me to lay on his bed and take some rest due to hot summer afternoon outside. I layed on his bed, he slept near me, took me in his arms, huged tightly and kissed on my cheeks. I was grown enough to understand that he unmarried so he is hugging me. I had no gay feelings but just a respect and sympathy for him, so I also hugged him tightly to give him pleasure. He thought that I am ready to go ahead, so he grabbed my ***, pressed and told me to take out *** just to show him. I denied as I was not at all ready for that, then he grabbed my buttocks, I let him play with me with all clothes on me. I thought to give him pleasure of a woman, till that moment I had no plans of having gay *** with him as it didn't exist in my mind. Then he said he wants to *** me, I said no, he asked me to *** him, I said no. Then he got up to change his pent and wind-up a lungi around his waist. I got to see his underwear with a bulge of hard ***. I never told or even wished to see his ***. Actually I have a small *** of 4 inches. Now again he layed beside me and took me in his hug 🫂, by this time I was able to sense his tight hard *** against my small ***. After a while as he was talking and carresing my body he took out his *** and hold my palm on his ***. I felt a warm *** in my hand, I saw towards him, he requested me atleast play with my *** for some time as I was not cooperating with anything else, he said this will make him happy. So to please my Uncle (father's friend) I hold his ***, it was real big black ***. I started to stroke just to make him happy. After some time he asked me to come to bathroom and make him come, I went with him and pumped him from behind for some time till he came. But I never ever felt again to go to him, he used to invite me and asked me to do him favour, he said he wants to *** me, I denied and said it should not be done in real as it don't exist. After two years of thst, once I was watching *** videos of straight *** with a group of my classmates, the room was dark, the scene was a sexy lady with big boobs lifted her head up and the big white *** came out of her ***. Suddenly at that moment I felt like my *** was watering, a sudden desire aroused in me and a thought came that I would have been lucky if I had that *** in my ***. I was shocked by this feeling, I felt awkward to have this thought. I felt a guilty for that. I was afraid to talk to my friends. I went to public library, found a *** guide book, that mentioned that *** a male ***, making gay *** is totally normal. I was released by this and now I wanted a reliable partner to fulfill my desire to *** a *** and experience the feeling of getting ***. Now I went to that Uncle and told him that I want to experience everything in gay ***, I said openly that I want to *** and get ***. I told him that I am ready to obey whatever he says. We got a chance when I was alone, I invited him, I explored, learnt to *** his ***, then lubricated my *** and he *** me with great care and love in different positions, for nearly three hours we enjoyed and finally I *** him till he came in my ***. From that day I had fantasies to *** different sizes and shapes of *** and get ***. I am versatile but I *** less, only to clean holes. After that I have *** a lot of ***, swallowed a lot of sperms and got *** a lot. I have developed a desire to atleast *** a *** if *** is not possible. This is my experience in gay *** and I am happy to have it all.
No Picture Ytutuk *	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 I was curious about nudity, shame, reasons behind having shame or the need to hide breasts, *** and *** or ***. I asked my parents a lot of questions. But I hardly got answers because parents didn't think my age was right. Maybe I was perverted since childhood. I used to put my hands in my pants at night and play with my ***. I didn't even know that I was actually masturbating. I feel bollywood has played a huge role in shaping Indian sexual fantasies. I must have been 4 years old. I had seen a scene on tv in which a woman was being caressed by gundas against her will. She was scared and trying to run away but the gundas had held her wrists tightly over her head and were toucher her inappropriately. So I started imagining.y *** as a woman and my hands as those goons. Then I started molesting and *** my own *** thinking that my hands are goons and my *** is a hot damsel in distress. I remember all the *** scenes in bollywood or intimate scenes used to trigger sexual thoughts in my mind. I often used to fantasize about being a girl myself and getting *** by a man. Bollywood and *** shaped fantasy in my case.
No Picture warmfeel	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 *** is major reason for developing curiosity. also the fascination towards what we do'nt have. Most bots like big *** and hairy men. In my case it started with curiosity about feel of a big *** in *** and the taste of ***. also when i got to know that females who *** ***, really like doing it so i thought there must be some erotic feeling in enjoying with a mans body.
No Picture Twink_dom	Posted On Nov 24, 2024 Its just curiosity like any other subject and ***/internet is like a booster that enables it to experiment. When we study in school, some subjects are interesting and some are boring, kinks are like that too. I agree with @warmfeel and do not agree with @JPKing's "the utmost desire is good respectful ***" because you can explore many things without the scope or longing for ***.
No Picture SHANTANUnu	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 Its a really serious topics. I think *** is not only reason. Those r born not into internet era, they have also fantasy. I saw my own mama who was jerking by using casket, he must b feel, its women 's ***, which is now u found real *** shaped jerk mechine online. Non internet era there is so much child molestation incidents used to happen. Now the reality i facing, i liked to share with u all. Find so many guys whose mother is young widows, they approaching me, to have fun with their mothers, they can observe or later they wants to join into fun, i dont understand, how this fantasy arise in their mind. I understand in our life first man and woman is our parents. Another thing came into my mind that is master slave ***. Is there animal instinct in our mind and soul?
No Picture SHANTANUnu	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 Hi makeoffun, i liked to share true stories with u, which might b little similar, I was in *** tour at kurtallam, tamilnadu One guy ping me in gr apps from Bangalore, he is 45,happily married with four year son. He said to me, he never had m2m experience, den i asked why r u using this apps, he said that his colleague is openly gay, his colleague explained with full details of gay life hooks up blah blah. This Bangalore guy was impressed and curious abt gay ***, so he is looking for mature guy who can give proper real m2m fun. I feel, that person have gay instinct which was suppressed. Am i wrong thinker
No Picture Makeoffun	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 @SHANTANUnu yes.. Fantasy every man has.. Someone has sissy fantasy someone has femdom fantasy someone has gay bottom fantasy.. But all of them was strong men in real life and *** life.. Here some sites they try to explore their fantasy but people thinking they are *** and treat like that.. Someone also like too this also.. But fantasy going to real hand it could be lifetime moment of their *** life
No Picture MiBussy	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 @Shantanunu Yes, basically we are all animals.
No Picture Jeanebad	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 Dear, the fantasies like sadistic masochist pleasure, or lust with clothing, materials, etc are considered as Paraphilic disorder. But I think we shouldn't worry of it, since such fantasies offer us pleasure. Habit ko badalne ke badle usko enjoy karna hi theek hai.
TopGenX	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 Fantasies are essentially experiencing "things" in the location you least anticipate and with the individual you can't envision. In my view, this is a genuine foundation of any fantasy. For instance, having *** with a delivery guy in your house. It happens, but not for all. Thus, it becomes a part of someone's fantasy. Similarly, I have had encounters with unexpected individuals at unexpected locations under unexpected circumstances. And, yes, I have created my own version of fantasy for others. Let me know if I am making sense. :)
No Picture FunFreeVers	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 Fantasy has a impact of what we see near us but don't have daring to step forward to enjoy it. Like I have fantasy of *** doctors ***, show him my *** and while checking my hole he starts ***, but in real it's very difficult and is not possible for everyone. But then dreaming of that situation we *** and it becomes routine. Like I have fantasy of roaming naked in gay groups, enjoying touches and gay *** on beach, other is impossible fantasy of getting *** by A nice dog like German Shepherd with his *** in my hole for half an hour and he comes in interval, my whole *** filled with his ***. Fantasy gives us energy, enjoy them when there is a chance but don't hurt anyone for your fantasies.
No Picture Ara	Posted On Nov 25, 2024 Once I experienced dominance during ***, my partner noticed that I am enjoying it.. from then he is so dominant, I started enjoying it.. from then I wanted to explore more, but scared of it tooo. Only with right partner I wish to explore more on my fantasies. A small taste takes you to different level..
No Picture harendra	Posted On Nov 26, 2024 Started with watching ***, occasional lesbian & gay *** then friends together in swimming pool and then here iam
No Picture Sneha_crossy	Posted On Nov 26, 2024 Interesting topic. Well in my case, I was always into girls, not into men. Never even imagined. Once I heard the term shemale, as curious as a teen found videos and it was arousing and interesting. Slowly shemale became my category. It was going well then I joined discord channels and for a curiosity I joined a chanel. What I found was boys wasn't getting noticed. I turned my name into a gurly name and kept a seducing photo. Then I started chatting as a girl and from there I leaened so many new words such as sissy, femdom, humiliation, degradation. Then I watched these videos and seduced men in chats slowly I started telling all channels I'm sissy and I acted as one I watched sissy videos and I was becoming one. I started wearing my moms inners to send to men. Life went on, I shifted to ekm and was bored so I started searching for shemales and once with all my confidence I went it wss paid. She took my *** virginity. I *** her as a sissy would do in all the videos I saw. I then becameed the sissy ***. With growing curiosity from ohmojo, I visited kanoos cinema, went to the back seat. When old men kept carrssing my thighs and slowly giving me a hj Which made me *** and to return the favour my consciousness gave him a bj . We both enjoyed. Then I came more often. When bored, gives shemales money and gets ***... My live goes on...now looking for someone male to guide me to gay ***. I really enjoy having *** with shemales
No Picture Silverkok	Posted On Nov 27, 2024 Wow interesting topic. I'm a gay vers. My two friends Arjun, Pavan and I were alone in the class sitting on one bench. We were in 5th standard. Arjun was in the middle . He took out his erected *** from his half pant. Forced me to touch, but I refused. He scolded me so I touched his *** with my little finger tip and left the class. Then after few months I did the same thing that Arjun did with me as my first *** or play but I did with my she cousin. I was 12 she was 8. we were playing hide and seek together at some hidden place. I don't remember how we came close to each other. I took out my erected red *** and asked her to *** it. She didn't. I asked her at least touch it, she refused so I didn't do anything. And it was over. I left my primary school and joined high school tall bearded handsome boys of 10th standard were there unlike my 5th standard school where I was the senior most in age. When I reached puberty, I started missing Arjun. I went to his home but they had left that house by then. Fantasizing touching and holding Arjun's solid *** had become my long-lasting fantasy. I'm 55 yrs now but believe me I still miss my Arjun very much. Want to bring that day of 5th standard back in life so I can touch and *** Arjun's ***. Although due to Arjun I believe Ive become gay. Otherwise I already had enjoyed foreplay with my she cousin as a straight. But now I want to meet arjun once in my life at least once to touch and *** his ***. I know he must be a straight and by now he must also be an old man like me. His handsome face of 5th standard I still miss. I want to kiss his cheeks, bite his sexy lips and *** his ***. That's my unfulfilled fantasy of life which will never come true.
No Picture Himanshu77	Posted On Nov 27, 2024 @silverkok it's kinda like a same thing happen with me but the guy I now straight and have a GF
No Picture Love2	Posted On Nov 27, 2024 Sileroak, my story is similar, had crush on classmates when I was young. used to touch their ***, used to like their elder brothers whom I was finding very sexy. My heart is still stuck there only. I m your age but still like those young guys
No Picture R_K_UP25	Posted On Nov 27, 2024 Out of all the responses I think most of you have gone for *** as the major thing for internet era . One person was talking about non internet era , I think in that era there were *** stories in print form available with a lot of nude images as well Even I remember when I was about 10 years old I found a similar book in the scrap of one of my relatives ( at that time his age must be around 25) and I used see the images as well as read the story ( from there only I got into *** stories ) and reading these stories on the अन्तर्वासना and other websites makes me thinking and ultimately leading to fantacy So I think *** stories ( can be considered as another form of *** ) consumption also makes you to go into fantasy . Now one more thing exposure to any sort of sexual experience at early age is also a factor. This exposure may in complete form means you were totally involved in it or may you were just watching or touching the things . If you were involved in it definitely you become curious about the thing and started exploring for more and answers, more you explore more questions and more exploration And if you were not completely involved ( like one person mentioned about his friend from class 5) this makes the impact more powerful cause you have that feeling that I should've done this at that time and it make you think about if I have done that ...... This if is the starting of fantasy What is your views guys
No Picture R_K_UP25	Posted On Nov 27, 2024 Even I remember one of friend in 6th class showing his not so erected *** , I still remember that scene , I still see that boy ( a full grown man now ) and thinks about how his DIC K must have been now ( another example of fantasy ) Not only this I think reading *** story had such a impact on my mind that whenever I find myself in any such conditions which was mentioned in the story I start thinking about somewhat similar things in my mind . Let's take an example of an story in which a boy was seduced by a mature man when he was alone in the train compartment and things went to the full fledged action in the train toilet . This story plants a seed in the mind of a boy aging 18 that if in any journey he and some other male is alone in compartment he can start the things and let the things finished by then in the toilet .
No Picture Monty2024 *	Posted On Nov 28, 2024 Parth samanthan model & actor is my fantasy
No Picture Transkumari	Posted On Nov 28, 2024 Mujee lakro ko suu suu karte dekhna pasand he or Aisa lagata he ki suu suu ki dhar see khelu face pe muu me luu drink me mix karke peeu par only handsome boys ka suu suu
No Picture Ytutuk *	Posted On Nov 29, 2024 I want a man to shave my whole body and make me silky smooth skinned. Then *** me raw with his friends.
No Picture Daddysyoungboy	Posted On Dec 1, 2024 I'm a young bottom boy and I always have a fantasy of pleasing two mature daddy tops who will treat me like a girl. I want to meet them at their place and want to stay there whole night to please them. I get so *** just thinking about this... Me going to their place and sitting between both my daddies then going in the bedroom with both of them and watching them locking the bedroom door and closing the curtains, just wow. A whole night in the bedroom with both my daddies seems so heavenly.
No Picture Sub_Arpan	Posted On Dec 2, 2024 I always have fantasy of having two *** at once, I have the fantasy of pleasing them in any way possible
No Picture Sultanpurup007	Posted On Dec 3, 2024 Mujhe nhi lagta fantacy develop hone porns ka jada role h. Iske piche sabse bada reason h aaspaas ke log environment. General word me sangat ka asar. Mai apni story batata hu. Meri starting jab mujhe kuch samajh nhi aata tab humari ek relative ladki wo mera *** apni *** pe ragadwati thi mujhe nhi pata kya tha but mujhe bhi acha lagta tha . Rat me mera cousin brother jab sota mere pant ke andar hath dal chutad sahlata mai bhi kuch nhi kahta dhere hath lagane se ungli bhi fir *** satana fir ek andar andar dalne tak hua mujhe dard hua par age me bade hone ke karan sharm se oppose nhi kar paya. Ek baar bachpan me bagiche me khelte time ek admi jabardasti kiya fir socha logo mera hi majak banayenge chup rah gaya. Ek baar 100 rupye ka lalach ek admi ne diya usse karwa kyu usi time usse mujhe bahut kuch le sakta tha. Jab hostel gaya waha pe akela tha kuch samajh nhi aata tha baki kuch ladko ko dekha unki seniors bahut help karte the. Mai bhi seniors se najdikiya badhane laga uski support ka main reason tha *** mai ki karwane laga. Dosto ke sath kai baar *** pe discuss karta but *** ke liye koi ladki nhi milti isliye apas me karne laga. Itne sab ke bad khud use to ho gaya ab *** ke khud dhnudane cruising place dosto ke bich dating application etc. Vice versa maine bhi kai ladko ke sath kiya. Kai relative ke chote ladko ke sath, gaon ke ladko ke sath kheton me bhi kiya. Kisi ko lalach dekar kisi ke sath dosti me. Bus aise hi fantacy jagti h.
No Picture Mcs_579810	Posted On Dec 7, 2024 My fantasy may appears to be dirty and unreal But that is my fantasy
No Picture Shy_l0ver	Posted On Dec 7, 2024 Reason behind fantasy 😛 I have been watching *** from years and while watching i always wants to know how it feels to have several *** in *** & ***😉 Since today I am still wondering to know how it feels but unfortunately can't find any 😔
No Picture Ytutuk *	Posted On Dec 8, 2024 @Sneha_crossy wow your story is just like mine. I too was into women. But out of frustration of not getting anyone to notice my profile I first started chatting with random men as a girl and then slowly became a sissy myself.
No Picture Dev_22	Posted On Dec 8, 2024 May be it's just inbuilt ? In fifth class a friend put hands in my school short and touched my genitals i liked it , I did the same , that guy used to draw boobs on news paper models during our news paper reading time I used to encourage him , i guess we are all curious . I was so attention seeking all the time I recollect how elderly men in trains in 3 instances would praise me in my teens and all i liked it all , i didn't think it was gay , a random guy took my number and said he would visit my hostel as he stays close by. May be because of this attention seeking behavior , wanting to be appreciated and get love..... But i want it to change and not get involved into this stuff and stay with one partner.
No Picture Xyz_88	Posted On Dec 8, 2024 My experience, When i was in school around 8th standard, i was curious about actresses, I used to get good feeling watching hot actresses in news papers etc. I used to stay in host, so i know a muslim guy who is one year elder to me has a phone with him & he watches adult videos in mobile etc. So one day i couldnt control and asked him even I want to watch them. So one sunday when everyone was in hostel rooms he asked me to come to store room where no one will be there & showed me some trisha hot pics & other actress hot pics, i was too aroused thats a good feeling. We did like this for 2 or 3 times & next time when we were alone and watching he slowly touched my waist and chest & pressed it, i liked it & then he slowly kept my hands on his *** wowww i felt really good not sure why he had a nice thick *** at that time itself, then asked me to pump it & i obeyed. After this he used to come beside me during study hours and asked me to put my hands inside his pants & he used to put his hands inside my pants and press them, I used to like all of them. Later one day when i came to home i went to a*** cafe and started watching actual *** where girls *** *** lip kissing etc. I wanna try all of this with that guy and told him, so he took advantage of me and one night he after coming back to hostel he asked me to come to his bed which i went. Then he slowly pushed me towards his *** and asked me to taste it which i really loved and he kissed me lip to lip and we did romance whole night he *** my chest, *** my *** as well we did 69, its a heavnly feeling. We did like that 4 to 5 times. After that year i had to change school but i am missing that guy even now
No Picture Ytutuk *	Posted On Dec 9, 2024 Some indian uncle's and elder cousins have a habit of pulling your pants down to expose your *** in front of everyone. Nowadays these things are frowned upon but in early 2000s and late 90s these things were common. I had gotten my pants pulled down many times by uncles or elder cousins. Many times cousins used to punch my small soft cute *** and squeezed my balls too. They treated me like a little girl. They used to pick me up in their arms and caress my body or just play wrestling with me and rub their moustache all over my naked body. That got me submissive and ***.
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On Dec 12, 2024 Some reasons are shocking to hear
No Picture Bottombaby1369	Posted On Dec 20, 2024 Having a fantasy is just like craving for something you want to have badly Like anyone who want to have a hardcore fun in their relationship including pain and pleasure, they got curious about fantasy of submission and domination, Like getting used or wanna get used , it's a type of worship to their partner