Cheating in Gay Relationships

Have you ever fallen in love with someone who cheated you later? If yes share your story...

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No Picture Kappu_k	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 Sab cheater he 😂😂😂😂 Agar koi top he or usko koi dusra beautiful bottom mil jaye to wo cheating kar leta he Koi bottom he or uska agar mota or lamba l*nd mile to din me char bar cheating kar skta he. To is post the end yhi ho jata he. Faltu me dala ye post jisme bhi dala Is topic ki jarurat hi nhi thi yha likhne ki.
No Picture Chubchub07	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 Haha. Absolutely true @Kappu_k
No Picture raju21	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 yanha ham sab fun ke liye sathi dhudhte hai. man mil gaya to maze karte hai kuchh samay ke liye ghar basane ke liye nahi.
No Picture Brownbiitch	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 Most men are gay because of desperation rather than actual deep emotional feelings towards men. Like others have stated above my response, there is no sense of commitment amongst gays. It's free for all. Some times I really wish men had a real *** as well. We wouldn't have needed women at all. Men understand needs of other men. But obviously it's impossible and a dream.
No Picture Fun_loving	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 I agree... Have known a guy for many years now and thought he was faithful to me and I was his special person.. I recently discovered that he has many more special people in his life.. have been *** every chubby guy behind my back.. I curse the day I met this motherfucker lodu....
No Picture PattyNatty89	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 its a very big and serious topic to discuss. From my experience, I can say that you don't like the person who loves you and who you loves, doesn't like you. We keep high expectations. We do not understand each other. Sometimes we hate each other. There is a concept called top and bottom. Yes, I agree it is important when it comes to *** but is that the only thing we should be looking when we talk about relationship? emotions, care, love doesn't mean anything? IF we think about only ***, yes there will be cheating involved because we will get bored with that person at some point. We need to ask ourselves before getting into this relationship. There are bunch of reels which shows two guys in a relationship. There is a song playing in that reel. Very cute couple and everyone thinks yaar mujhe bhi esa chahiye koi. you can see comments, its flooded with this kind of statements. By seeing these reels we desperately starts looking for partner. We find someone and in a hurry we PROPOSE (this is a big joke) and we START relationship. We love everything about that person in the start but as time passes, we get bored and start looking for new match. This is how we cheat. What went wrong? emotionsless, feelingless relationship. Failed. At one point of age, we would not get matched. I have 2 gay old friends who are regreting now. They are alone. They are looking for someone special but not getting any. This gay culture is new for everyone. I think my generation is the first generation who is saying NO to marriage (mostly). I am 34. We, as a gay people really need to start taking this seriously.
No Picture WohGayLadka	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 I don’t want to comment on morals but from *** POV - I was in a relationship with a guy but was having a lot of fights. He used to not *** me when he’s angry. I was *** n drunk. So called a guy over to *** me. He returned home unexpectedly and saw us. He got angry at me but asked the top to continue He abused me for the kind of cheating whore I am. Pissed in my *** when the guy was *** me and *** my *** Abused me so much. Slapped me and fingered my hole when it was being *** by other guy. He made him *** on my hole and used it as lube to hate *** me. I thought we were done but no. A lot was coming my way
No Picture Desidesirex	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 First show me gays in relationship or married in India. Not saying they never existed they exists. Those guys you never gonna find in site likes these. In gay relationship there slient love exist .. I have seen guys those are married both of them but in deep love with each other they pretend as best friends but in deep love.
No Picture Cheerful	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 I was in a relationship for a decade and due to family situation we got separated. Now he is my good friend and above that he is in another relationship and I'm happy for him.
No Picture Andy69luv	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 My office is on St Marks Road Banaglore, I met a cute guy on Grindr who was like a Dream come true boy to me , he said he was doing Diploma in a College Near Buy & also working as Front office in a hospital near by. He is from upcountry & so was staying alone in Bangalore. He said he was working & studying same time as he did not want to bother others including his parents for his basic needs. Appreciated his dedication, his Grindr profile said into daddies & older. We were regularly chatting & after 3 months or so once he said casually while chatting that he was lazy to go out for Dinner & asked me to get some groceries on Zepto, which I did, that weekend he calls me up at 10.45 in the night saying he had been for a movie in Garuda Mall & needs to get back to his Room and wanted me to book a Cab, I said you are alone why cab, take a Rapido bike taxi or Auto, as cabs are costly he said he would want to travel back by cab only which I did. Then slowly the asking kept on increasing suddenly he wanted to eat KFC, MacD, Biriyani, he will go to malls & other paces & ask me to transfer money. Once he wanted to buy some beauty product on Amazon, he wanted to try it out for the 1st time, I said take a smaller qty if its ok then buy the bigger one , he said for 1500 Rupees you are acting like a Kanzoos Its nothing compared to your salary, if you sincerely love me I want it, I said I will book online, he said he wanted money as he will but it himself & I transferred money. He was staying with a work mate so his room was never free, when ever my room was free I call him he gives excuses. Once while he was riding behind me in the bike when I reached out to feel him, he shouted saying it is public place. I helped him locate a 1 RK so thought we can have our private moments after that. Finally when I brought up the topic of *** to him, he said how dare you think I that will have *** with you, have you seen yourself in the mirror etc, I was hurt & kept the distance with him. After a month or so he message me saying, I feel like having to sleep with you in my arms, that time I was going strong with a Guy from Josephs College & we both had taken a top nude pic & so I shared with him in see once option on whatsaap & said sorry I am with that guy. He replied how do guys feel you interesting , they might be blind, I asked then why did you ask me to come & sleep with you, he bluntly replied that’s when oldies like you will come running & spend money out of lust on youngsters. This is one of the few instances of cheating my young boys that I have encountered in my life .
No Picture Rum Bun	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 @andy69luv very sad. there are milking morons. the moment they start demanding things, it is better to leave them.
No Picture Bot_1985	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 Gays are promiscuous for the sole reason that *** is easily available and there is no emotional baggage or societal norms.
No Picture XXLMale	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 @andy69luv I agree I have gone through this a lot of times
No Picture raju1987	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 Andy69luv i think u might have learned a lesson how people make fun of someone's emotions. To be Frank there is nothing like relationship and if u do match with someone of ur age and status. It's all lust and all are fraud and have intentions of getting money for sleeping. That's a reality
mash077	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 Turning 47 this wednesday. Have had my share of youngs, love, lust, greed, i mean you name it. Only thing that remained constant, no expectations and priority to self. Yes i will buy you that lovely expensive watch but ME FIRST!!! Nothing wrong there. We are still men, we do tend to get bored easily and quick. Just now a young hottie asked if i can go and get him, just said NO. Thats the key, learn to say No. Oh and I do have a partner, I just make sure he knows every hook up I get into. He does the same. Cheers!!
No Picture Vishal_T	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 I am hesitant to share my story but I will still do. I was in a relationship with a straight guy. Unbelievable, right? But true. He was the one to tell me that he feels different with me. He would treat me very gently, unlike his behaviour with other men. With them he was a very rough village boy. He was absolutely straight, and I vouch for that. I on the other hand, enjoyed his attention because of my sexuality. Slowly, he somehow proposed to me, while still being straight and often telling me about his fantasies with girls. I ignored his reality of being straight and continued to pamper myself by believing that he loved me unconditionally. He told me that he considered me as a girl and that's why he had sexual feelings for me. While we were in our honeymoon period, which lasted about 2 years, with regular love, care, lovemaking sessions, travelling, I thought I had a perfect life. Until one day, when he told me that he cheated me by sleeping with a girl while I was out of station for work. My life shattered. I thought everything was over. He told me that he did it 8 times with her in 3 days. I decided to move on with a lot of crying, but he stopped me and promised me that he would never repeat it. By that time, I was also so emotionally dependent on him that I just couldn't go away, so I stayed. Thankfully, he remained loyal for 3 years till the time his parents forced him into marriage. Then reality hit me that I would never be able to find true love again. We are on talking terms now because it was very hard for him as well. He still tells me that he loves me, but also admits that he has responsibilities towards his family. I have also accepted this truth. One question that haunts me always is why he proposed to me in the first place. Why did he say that he feels different in my presence when he was straight? If only he had not kindled love in me, I might have had good and bad experience but not so painful ones, perhaps. But I am also grateful for all the love he showered on me and treated me like his woman. Anyway, sorry for the long tale.
No Picture EROTICHRIS	Posted On Oct 8, 2024 see gay is a deviation from any normalcy... so don't expect loyalty or anything.... homos are defined by their sheer unfaithful nature and dont care attitude... i expect my fuckers to throw me out and forget about me the moment they ***.... no strings attached and all holes attacked..... that should be the gay way
No Picture ilovemature	Posted On Oct 8, 2024 Right but the question was about cheating in "relationships"...by relationship I mea where there is some said commitments between couples just like regular boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. It was not about *** flings but about actual relationships...
No Picture Youngguy123	Posted On Oct 8, 2024 I don't know if this was cheating or not but here you go. I found this guy on grindr in 2021. He was very eager to meet me, just casually and he kept following me multiple times. So one day I met. He was handsome, well spoken and had general worldview that matched with mine but was 28, 6-7 years older than me. So I asked your family must be pressurizing you for marriage, to which he said yes but he has no interest in girls. In any case he will have to marry for his parents' wishes. I was like okay but I was already falling for him. We met casually couple of times and would chat on whatsapp for whole day. It was little about *** and more about actual bonding, which is why I liked him, but feelings just went on going stronger. After month I proposed him. He was very genuine in his response, saying that you already know my family situation and within one year i may get married. But we can think on it, I will either try to avoid marriage or be in secret relation with you even after. I was happy and said yes. However after 1 year he said he will no more be able to avoid marriage. His parents won't budge. And while he had promised about secret relationship, he really wouldn't be able to be with 2 people at once, and it would be wrong to cheat a girl who would come with him after leaving her house. But he wants to remain friends with me. I said I can understand it but I wouldn't be able to remain "just friend" with you, seeing you getting married having family etc from distance, it will hurt me alot and it will be complicated. So either he can take couple of days to think about it or we can part ways. For last few months he also had been giving some excuses about ***. That he is impotent uska khada nhi hota n all and these things would make me anxious because almost all times it was he who would initiate *** chats and talk about how *** he is.(we never actually had ***, because he lived far away in Badlapur. He would come to mumbai for work but i never had place. He used to have place but only option to go there was trains and trains were not opened for all general public yet. he could come here because he worked in railways itself) . So finally we broke up, I carried on my own, he on his. I forgot about him because I was sure he got married and that he will not cheat his wife. But after 3 years, in Jan 2024 I got text from him on grindr. I was surprised he was STILL using app. I asked him whether he was married. He said no. Surprised again. He asked me for friendship to which I said no again. He then said it is fine but whether we can have at least hook up like we never met before. Again surprised because he had said uska mood hi nhi hota. I said I can't do anything with you, after which he blocked me. For few days I had very weird feeling. I could never understand him really. What he wanted from me, why is he still unmarried, why was he talking bs about impotence, and why he wanted to hook up with me after breaking up. I don't even know whether he was lying or just didn't have any clue about what to do
No Picture Avi14369	Posted On Oct 8, 2024 I am ok with cheting... If any top want to enjoy with many bottom with me... I dont mind
No Picture Funinfinite	Posted On Oct 9, 2024 कोई भी हो हमसफ़र राशिद न हो ख़ुश इस क़दर अबके लोगों में वफ़ा है कम ज़रा आहिस्ता चल...
No Picture Lalumba	Posted On Oct 12, 2024 I am in relationship since 2011. I cheat my bf many times. Still he is with me. Sometimes we do threesom with other guy. If we think *** is just a phisical activity . Physical satisfaction, then there is no issue to have *** with other. My bf and me love eachother.
No Picture Youngguy123	Posted On Oct 12, 2024 @Lalumba it's not cheating if both partners are knowing and accepting *** outside their relationship. You are just in open relationship. Cheating is when people agree to be monogamous and have *** behind someone's back while claiming they are loyal
No Picture BICURIOUSMAN	Posted On Oct 12, 2024 I had a long relationship with my cousin..but it was a purely physical one...Strangely he was in a relationship with a girl, when we started having ***.. To both of us it was a purely physical thing..although we had a deep love and respect with each other. Now he is married and has a kid.. they stay in Bangalore. but whenever he is town we have ***... recently he confessed to me over phone that he has a serious feelings for me.. and wont ever leave me....He was drunk at that time.... I am still very friendly with him and his family. The whole thing is very simple as long as we treat the whole realtionship as friendship with benefits.. but it turns super complicated as soon as we say "love"
No Picture Jinalcd	Posted On Oct 12, 2024 So let me tell you how i became girly with this relationship.. So he was a married guy i met online. He was 35 and i was 22 at that time. We started chatting and then voice call and i sent him my cd photos he liked me a lot. Then we started video chat and i show him my self in CD dresses. He was very caring and very genuine to me. No abuse nothing just decent love as he was mature. He married to desi wife so his wife is very simple simple dressing and never *** *** and already had 2 kids so not much interested in *** with him. On other side he is very *** in *** likes hot type of girls and all. So finally we decided to met and we met at hotel first and he loved *** with me i *** him and fully satisfied him. Now it became routine for us. He also introduced me as his friend's nephew came to his city new. So i went to his house as a boy and met his family too. We had *** many times at his house on his bed when his wife was not there. We made love a lot. He *** me many times at many different places. He bought me many bra panty nighty saree make up jewellery too. We went to different places for 2 3 days stays too and he *** me all day in hotels. I kinda depended on him emotionally. But one day his wife found out my photos in cd *** him and some other too. She went to her mother house didn't say anything to anyone and told him that she want divorce. So he went to her convinced her because his whole life his kids and all. To which his wife said choose between two. And even without talking to me he just blocked me and stop all contact. After some days i went to his house and he and his wife was there. His wife abused me a lot and slapped me for doing all this to his husband. I looked to him but he said just leave and never come back to his life again. I was in depression for like 6 months cried a lot and then move on by starting random hookups. After almost 1.5 years he approached me from different number and called and said sorry and he missing me and let's secretly continue sexual relationship for that i said just leave and blocked. 2 years passed i moved on by all this random hookup but in deep down it still hurt me a lot. I know it was my fault too as i affair with married man but he just used me physically and mentally too. So yes CD can not get love in real.
No Picture Gowtham999999	Posted On Oct 13, 2024 I had an experience where it was not cheating, but ruling and blackmailing me all the time. As a btm, I tried to withstand him, but later phone calls/meetups ended in fights often. Always ask non-sense questions and starts a fight with my answer. Only restricted time phone calls and messages, if I forget and sleep for some time, I have to make 10000 sorry, to speak with me, telling all his non-sense loves stories with me not letting me to speak, just telling "HMMMM" for 3 hrs of a phone call. if I didn't pick up the phone, that's it, he would be animal. if i say i am out for a work, he used to track my num, or putting endless phone calls again. Finally, one question made to broke the relationship. "Who is important in life? parents, career, or me". I said Career, that's it, he became an animal, and shouted over a call for 30 mins, and blocked me. That's it all over. This made me depressed for some months and came out of it and concentrated on my career alone.
No Picture Ramulovesdamu	Posted On Oct 14, 2024 @JinalCd firstly sorry for this question , You know already he married and he has two children's and his family then why you guys took photos and videos ??
No Picture Andy69luv	Posted On Oct 14, 2024 Approximately 6 Months back when I was in a Restaurant in St Marks Road, there was this youngster who was staring at me & giving a smile I also returned the smile, he was with friends & I also was with friends so it was just the exchange of smiles for some time. I just took a Paper Napkin from the table wrote my mobile number on it & walked past this boys chair & dropped it next to him like accidently. I went to wash room & came back the paper on the floor was missing. Later that night I got a call from an unknown number true called said Sagar, I answered the phone it was the boy from the Restaurant. He said he liked my smile so was looking at me & smiling etc, we spoke for a long time. He had come to Bangalore as part of a group of students from a college in UP & they had come for a Training program & were going back the next day. After going back after 2 days I just messaged him on WhatsApp to see if all was well he replied the next day. But then slowly the calls & WhatsApp messages became regular. Every night we used to chat for long hours. Two months back he said he wants to do Mtech in Bangalore and asked me suggestions of colleges where he can do it. I sorted out lots of colleges & finally we zeroed in on 2 colleges. I enquired the admission process and sorted out things. He did not want to stay in a PG nor in College Hostel, he wanted a Single room House close to college. I said once after admission would look into that. He came to Bangalore, he had some friends from his Village staying in Kengeri he went there stayed with them for a week then we went to New Horizon college together got the admission. After admission we decided to look for room for him that’s when he said one of his Seniors in College is staying in Marathally says there is a room in his building for rent. Went met the land Lord negotiated the advance & rent & fixed on the rent house . he said he will go back to Kengeri to his friends house and will return in 2 days time and we can go out looking for basic house hold items like Beds & buckets etc for him. That night he sent me a whatsapp message saying that he was going through a bad time some issues with his GF , so wanted not to be disturbed for 2 days & would message after that, I agreed & after 2 days when I sent him message on whatsapp I noticed that he has blocked me, I checked Insta & LinkedIn I have been blocked there as well. I waited for 2 more days, same scenario. Sent him a SMS message it got delivered. No reply , next day sent him another SMS, this time my number has been blocked & messaged not delivered .
No Picture darkrain	Posted On Oct 14, 2024 Yes we should be cautious. He was probably aware of the gay scene and wanted you to be his local butler and help him get sorted in. He probably was a bi just trying to game the system. We should always be careful before we go all in either a lesson
No Picture humki *	Posted On Oct 14, 2024 @And69luv his is really terrible that we are being used and the ones using is also among us. This is what erodes trust within the community. I'm sure swindlers are present everywhere, but a very closed community like us is far greater affected because this cannot even be shared openly. I thank the @iluvmature for starting this thread.
No Picture Andy69luv	Posted On Oct 14, 2024 Thanks guys... there was no gay or bi vibes between us.. we never hugged max we shook hands... but i.felt a closeness to him dont know the trust factor