Embarassing moments - hurting rejections

Most of my hook-ups and dates end up well. Do get rejected but today was very embarrassing rejection i had at my hook-up date.

Connected to a guy on Grindr, exchanged pics. He was quite smart. He was very ho_rny, so we instantly decided to hook-up for a quickie. He came over and i asked him if he want to do it. He said yes. I dint sense any hesitance but noticed bit discomfort. My mistake, i should have asked him more. I started doing but just dint get hard. Surprising as he said he was damn hrny earlier. After 5 mins he said he was uncomfortable and he quickly pulled up his pants and rushed out. He blocked me as well. I wasn't jumpy, it was he who was eager to meet, he kept messaging me earlier for hook-up. Maybe he was very new in this and this wasn't exactly his perfect hook-up or date.

I found this very embarrassing. Then i realised that its been 1-2 years since i had hooked up with really hot guys. I am probably past the age threshold. I havent noticed i now look bit beyond the same age or tolerable category as those young super hot twinks. He kept calling me 'aap'.

Did you had any embarassing dates ?

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No Picture Avi14369 *	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 As a new in this i also feel discomfort to start things.... But actually want to feel fun
No Picture Kappu_k	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 Muje mere ek cousin ne reject kr diya tha Wo do bhai he mujhse kafi bade the dono. Bade bhai ke sath sote sote underwear me hath dala to usne kuch nhi bola tha or hilane diya Fir chote cousin ko ek rat sote sote pent ke upar se hath rkha to usne mere hath ko hta kyoki wo jag rha tha or dant diya Meri to bahut jor se fatne lgi thi us din se us se dar bhi lgne lga tha ke ye kisi ko bol na de. Ek or ne reject kiya tha wo mere fufaji ke mehman the (fufaji ke jijaji). Bahut sharmindgi hui thi unke sath try krne ke bad. Mere sath kisi ne kbhi mna nhi kiya to mujhe lga wo bhi man jayenge krne ke liye to mene unke sath sote sote rat me khelna shuru kar diya par wo nhi intrested the Agle din unhone mere fufaji ko bol diya ke me rat me kuchh harkat kr rha tha unke sath. Tab or jyada sharm aai.
No Picture Brownbiitch	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 I had once sent a message to an ohmojo user and told him that I wanted to get *** by him. He asked for my pic. I sent him my pic. Then he suddenly insulted my skin colour and blocked me. Why are Indians so crazy for white skin colour? Also didn't he see my ohmojo account display pictures? Was he so illiterate and gawar that he didn't see my display pic here on ohmojo itself? I felt very depressed. In India men and women both just want to get laid with Gori chamri.
No Picture Sandeephard	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 @Brownbiitch its post colonial hangover, most stupid Indians think being fair somehow makes people superior or having a certain eye shape makes people Nepali/Chinese. Gawar kahikey Brown is beautiful. And it's not just with white skin, I very clearly remember cricketer Hardik Pandya saying people think he is from the Caribbean and that he enjoys listening to such things. And I was like WTFuckkkkk bitch. If a famous Indian cricketer can't turn around and tell them that he's a proud Indian and Indian brown men can be cool too, then who will tell these other young Indians that we have to be proud of our skin. It's not like those stupid bleached Bollywood celebrities will.
No Picture vinit200345	Posted On Oct 6, 2024 It is only some Morons who believe in colour. But in the western country they love brown colour and never do judge u by ur colour
No Picture Rum Bun	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 i met a guy through friends. he came home with my friends. it was night stay at my place. we were all sleeping in the same room. he started undressing me and took the charge. im a bot and he fcuked me well. next day evening he called me and came home and we had a session. it was going on for few days. regular fcuk sessions made me emotional. when i tried to show affection, he stopped coming. that was embarrassing at that time.
No Picture turnip57	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 It was 7-8 years ago when I was around 23 y.o. I connected with a 27-28 yo top through grindr. We exchanged pics and decided to meet. Now, talking about him, he wasn't very handsome or anything but a regular looking guy with a lean body. I am also not very handsome but I have a good looking face (some say that I look better in person) and I had just turned from skinny to slim/toned a few years ago. Anyway, it was a weekday so my plan was to meet him at his place and then directly go to office from there. I got ready in formals and then went to his place. We talked for sometime and we both removed our pants too. I remember that he had a massive tool. Average girth but at least 8 inches long. I was still caressing it but when I asked him to move things further like oral or ***, he refused. When I asked why, he said that I was too slim for him and he is into guys heavier than me. While I respect everyone's preference but I don't know why he decided to meet me given I had already shared my pics with him and why did he even unzip after meeting if he wasn't interested. Lusting at his monstrous ***, I tried to insist a bit but he didn't budge. I can't exactly recall but I don't think he even allowed me to *** him. It was so embarrassing as well as frustrating. I had no choice so I left for the office.
No Picture Sjostin	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 @turnip57...very sad 😢 u could not get that massive boner despite u request..it happens sometimes bro..my suggestion would be never ever share pics via grinder (be it nudes or face or body pics)rather meet in person casual first then proceed..I do the same... because meeting actually is better than sending edited pics
No Picture Andy69luv	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 This incident happened couple of years back, I met this guy n Grindr , exchanged pics & since he is bot , exchanged *** pic also, he said he was home alone & gave me his location in Doopanahalli off 100 ft Road Indiranagar, the roads inside the gully was narrow, my car would not go in, kept it at a distance & had to walk & the ******* did not even walk out to help me locate the place. He kept on directing me on the phone & finally managed to locate his house. I went in , young chap in 20’s, he was lying on the bed, I went, I reached out to kiss him he refused instead asked me to lye down on bed, I did. He started undressing me, I said wait, he was in a hurry, I take time to get into the moods , required some fore play to start off plus my *** gets hard when I am with a guy only when it is getting a BJ. He tried to shake my *** twice & said sorry, please go. You are not my type. I said you *** it you will find what I meant. He said sorry not interested. I just wore my tracks & moved on, to each his fantasy but this was rude
No Picture Anirudhbottom	Posted On Oct 7, 2024 My experience was that once someone called me midnight at home he said he has room but when i reached home he said he has roommate so he still took me to toilet it was dirtier and forced me to fkk but his *** suddenly started Dripping he said you just leave On many occassion Guys will call me to a location said you are fake you are not my type and will straightly block me On few occasions they will meet at a place then will start excusing there is no place my brother is therr at hotel this that here & therr happened with me few times yesterday someone called me to hotel he said hello & then buy not into beard i was like did you not see my pictures on profile i left him in front of his hotel its terrible 😔 yr In some of hookups some guys easily *** and said leave leave or either call only for bj and I Unfortunately most guys i met didn't allowed to kiss me Sabka maal niklne ke baad sabka mood bilkul badal jaata
No Picture hotlund	Posted On Oct 8, 2024 I feel so bad now, have done this 2-3 times in my younger days. Actually for me also after cumming it's totally different.
No Picture CuddleBear	Posted On Oct 10, 2024 This happened in jan 2022. It was a Sunday n I was ***, so obviously I was online on grindr. I connected with a 40 y.o. we had mutual likes n he had place. So we decided to meet at his place! He stayed in interiors of ghodbunder road in Thane. Which was easily 15-20 kms from my home. I took almost more than an hour to reach his place. Even finding the building was a tedious task! When I reached his place, we started with casual chitchat! Usually after some chitchat, I make a move. E g. Take his hands in my hand, rubbing thighs or legs, stroking beard etc, a hug, or a peck on lips. but with him i didn't feel like doing so and waited for him to make move. We kept having boring unfruitful chats! But he was also not making any move! I went to use washroom, hoping I'd try something but he said sorry dude, I'm not getting that vibe from you! You're a good guy but I don't feel like doing anything with you! I replied as oh it's ok as I was feeling the same for him! We just hugged n I left! I didn't mind not getting any action, but I was furious that I had travelled all this much to and from his place to only here I don't get vibe from you! And to add fuel in fire I got traffic challan on return journey! It wasn't my day for sure! I have seen that guy's profile here around here as well! If he's able to see this, just want to say one thing, be clear with your wants and preferences in chats beforehand!
No Picture blowerthane	Posted On Oct 11, 2024 i had *** with a paid guy. not a good experience. he blackmailed me later. stopped for a while using social media.
No Picture Pixie	Posted On Oct 12, 2024 CuddleBear, It doesn't matter how good looking or handsome one might be, it's the chemistry that matters. Hence the famous saying in India, "Dil lagee gaddhi par tho pari kya cheez hai".
No Picture s_01	Posted On Oct 16, 2024 Rejections are the norm for me. On grindr I was blocked or rejected by 950 of the 1000 guys I chatted with over 7.years.
No Picture Sandeephard	Posted On Oct 16, 2024 Rejections are normal in our community. Most guys whether they are top or bottom or vers are absolute fkn DIVAS , superficial queens.🧜‍♂️💅💎
No Picture samik_bottom	Posted On Oct 29, 2024 So it was an embarrassing thing happened during covid days During covid i was using grindr app for finding someone for a f u n session and also had few successful ones so during those days i had hook*p with a T dad who was in his 50 so he told me to meet at his place and we had the session it was a good session after that we used to talk frequently but after few months he went offline and never came back online i texted him so much but he did not replyeven i went to that same place but he was shifted to some other place so i left the hope and started to chat with others after 3 years while i was pursing my master degree my friend has invited me to his for a Ganapathi festival so me and my college friends went there and when i entered the hall i saw the man with whom i have slept 3 year ago was present there and the embrassing thing was he was my friend dad i was so shocked and embrassed at same time i asked to my friend who is he he told he is his father i pretended not to react and we both smiled and i took his dad number and we r currently in touch with each other and had few session too and my friend does not know about us so i will kept the thing secret with his dad and wont tell to his son and wife i promised that all thank u for reading
No Picture sreepillai_alpy	Posted On Oct 29, 2024 So I had this neighbour who introduced me to the world of gay ***, he is one of the few who have *** me, He is 5 year elder to me and is of the same age as my brother. When we shifted place also he has stayed in touch with me and my family and have visited as a few times and all of them ended up with we being in bed together, similarly whenever I go back ( we relocated to a place 200km away), I used to book room in town and we used to meet. Then suddenly he ghosted me, No response to any of my messages and he acts as if I don't exist, It has hurt me a lot to see him do this and completely ignore me :-(
Raj_ex	Posted On Nov 7, 2024 Everyone has their own choice and they have right to accept or reject plz don't mind but a good person is bother