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Initiation in Gay *** backfired?


Submitted by Shriram Location: All India (All India, India)

Hi all.. we read so many, literally so many experiences, be it can, rapido, massage centres, in buses the last but one row. I don't know how much are fantasies and how many of them are facts. But seriously tell me, after reading them aren't we inspired? Motivated?? Tried to do the same??? Yeah.. there at that point.. did it backfire? Like did your prey or your lusty crush called the bus conductor and made a big drama or the cab driver or the rapido told you that you will be driven to police station? Or did the manager at the massage centre evicted you half way through the massage? Or some one knock your metro station loo doors when you were enjoying the ***?

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apostrophe_
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

One incident did happen with one of my friend. Around 2 years back in 2022, he had visited a cruising point in one of the loos in Pune and there were few others standing outside. He acted like if he wanted to pee and stood near the urinals. A guy came, stood nearby shaking his ***. My friend got the signal and he asked t or b. Just this much. And that other guy asked him to come outside and then created a ruckus. He was there with other guys as well. They all came together and started threatening my friend. They said, do you think I'm into this. How could you ask this to me. Let's go to the police station and created a big drama. At last, to settle things, those guys asked for money. Having no option he paid them some 30k and left immediately. My friend was literally traumatized after this incident and didn't step outside his house for around a week. These goons literally harass a lot 🤦

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shahshahaj22022
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Same incedent happened to me in 2011 at ahmedabad Jivraj Park Malav talav loo.

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Jeanebad
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

During my college days, I had a chubby friend, short in height. He used to bully slimmer taller me. It's fate or bad luck, I got him as roommate. I had habbit of wearing faux leather joggers with no undies in hostel those days. One day he happened to see me pee, and also saw my size. He actually had a small mushroom thick ***. He used to feel jealous or I don't know, but that triggered him badly. Iske baad, he started grabbing my ***, slapping my crotch, sometimes, he used to rub his *** to mine on my bed causing me to get hard and blast my *** inside joggers. I felt that like he was gay. I started to like these stuffs, and one day he did same thing to me in the empty library. I happened to smooch him, he didn't liked it, and started slapping me. Next time on bed, when slept over me again, I kissed him and in return got solid thrashing. He became too aggressive. Iss incident ke baad, anytime he got ***, he stopped doing such stuff and only masturbated, and became too abusive towards me. Don't know if he felt guilty or didn't like to kiss. But he did turned me into a gay.

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Jeanebad
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Him initiating, uske baad mera kissing, uske baad wali thrashing I used to get happened several times actually. Seems like I was a toy for him to ***, and when i smooched him, it made him feel guilty. He loved to rub his *** to mine over my leather joggers. Since I didn't wear any undies and obviously he too, we could easily feel each other and mutually ***. Due to his short size, he was unable to do handjob.
Despite knowing his anger I still used kiss him, hoping he will kiss me back, badle me bahut gandi maar padti thi. Still am not able to understand if he was gay or not.

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Midhun_bot
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Being a soft gay bottom, initiation failing never occurred with me as gay tops always took the initiative to seduce me during my youth days. Of course I didn't give consent to many of them, but my rejections were through humble and sheepish reactions, so it was not an embarrassment to those who really wanted to subdue me.

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RachitRai
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

It happened with a known one of mine.
He went to abhinav kala vidhlaya loo, back in late 2000s, while I waited outside. He had given his wallet and phone to me. It was around 10. After a while he came running outside with a torn t shirt. We just ran towards my bike and escaped. Have lost touch with him now.

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Norn
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Guys this is like asking more of your suggestions.
My co-worker at my workplace. He is married. He used to jokes around saying
"I'll *** you" or
"Jaan se mardunga",
"I have a big tool" and all those stuff.
I also joke back at him saying I have big tool too but obviously I have a small one.
One day we were in the washroom urinating. He said I don't only *** *** I can *** *** too and I smiled back at him. I don't want to let him know about my sexuality. Because I know for sure that though he jokes around he is straight. He just thirsty for holes.

He is a big bulky manly guy. Just looking at him would make you hard.

I fantasize about him at night and jerk off myself at night. Just recently he asked me If I have gay friends and I said no. But inside I was like Common man I'm here I'll be all over you 🤩. If I'm open to him I know he's gonna *** me and we might have regular sexual relation. But I worry if he will keep his *** shut. I'm a discreet guy and don't wanna expose my orientation to other co-workers.

So far my intention is not to spark any fire cos no one knows what will backfire.
And my question is should I try him? Will he be trustworthy enough to maintain discreet relation?

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Venkat69
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Exactly, this is my main concern.

All these stories are like so fantasizing and very tempting

But I feel hookups with strangers comes with a risk

I am relying on Grindr or these portal, lets see

Til now I haven't met any one

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BigHoover
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

@Norn My guess is this guy wants to you to confirm your sexual preferences. Though he is already has an inkling that you are gay. As to whether you should reveal or lead him on depends on whether he is trustworthy in his behaviour or whether he is the kind who likes to take down people in public. If he is the sort who likes to boast and make fun of others in public then you should be more than just careful. Coz such people would do anything just to make fun of others and demean gay oriented guys.

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Norn
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Thanks @BigHoover. I appreciate your suggestion buddy 👍.

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Amaannloves
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

My advice is don't go blindly
Observe the person and surrounding
Don't reaveal yourself at work area.its not good.
Be careful while visiting any cruising spot.

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Str8lover *
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Guys never reveal your identity at work place as a gay if ur discreet. I’m soft spoken and due to which smart guys immediately rectify my identity and had indirectly approached me.. but we only become fun for them. If u find someone from gay app at work place than only go ahead.

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Berries_Cute
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

So i have Got many Such experience, So this one was a Major one, It was back in 2015 when i was out for my regular cruise at DAhisar west station Loo, it was around 8.30 in evening the there was a Guy who was quite hunky and was Giving me hints to get inside the loo, i went crazy and Went close to Him and And bus that was It, he said, Idhar yehi karne aata hai, bus that was the last think he said i was about to run but two others came running and caught me , they were police in Casual clothes i was Trapped i was taken to the Dahisar east station and One police wala guy was Giving me Dhamki, he took my phone, first Demanded 50k and then settled on 30k I dis had that much money then but then i arranged it from friend.

later in i got to know that the etire thing was a Trap by these police mens, and that Guy who was trapped me was part of the game . it was a Worse experience for me .

post that Now i have become extremely cautious and Whenever i go for cruising i safeguard myself now ....

for me 30k was a big amount as I wasn't even earning then, Above that the police wala use to keep harrassing me as He had my nos, once he even asked me to blow him, but such a bastard He was , i still Remember him, he told me once to come down to the same loo as he needed a ***, but then i told him yes and later no i blocked his Nos. he kept waiting there and then left.
after that and The Gang even found me on facebook through my mobile nos, i had to chnage my nos and shut down my that Facebook id also.


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adicooliyo
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

@Norn i am in the same situation at the work place, but difference is we both do not talk, but whenever we see each other we exchange looks, we have not even said hi to each other
also, idk why would you worry about being out by your colleague who clearly flirts with you openly, and which straight guy will talk about gays and fuc*king guys *** etc.., he is NOT straight get that, he is either a discreet GAY himself or Bi, so my suggestion would be to take your time, observe him for somemore time, may be start going out, outside your office time, to see who he looks at the most and whats his reaction etc.. you know what i mean

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BigHoover
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

@ Norn .. The most important thing is that if he really wants it he will make the first move. Let him make the first move and take the step. You need not make the first move in any case. Just give him mixed signals. So that he remains in the loop and finally trips himself if that is what he wants. This way you should be completely safe.

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Drew_Nashvelle
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Hi....Everyone.

I am telling u guys about the real incident which happened in front of my eyes, There is a huge Bus Stop at Thane West near Station. There is one big loo, inside that Bus depot. I had to go to Vasai so i was waiting there for the Bus.
Some 2-3 men were beating and dragging a college going guy and abusing him badly all they were coming from men washroom (what i heard, all they were saying like - sala gandu idhar ye sab karne aata hai and lot of abuses). All people were just watching that tamasha but no one came for help of that boy. I dont know where they took that guy but i felt pity for him.

My advice to everyone- Please maintain your dignity and standard. Do not throw yourself sexually on anyone random & Do not go for cruising by risking your life and prestige, details about such cruising spots are easily available on internet and can be exposed to local goons and constables. Such people can take your advantage.

Gay men are usually observed as *** hungry pigs by the large section of society. Many straight men will start maintaining distance from you once you tell them truth.

I read in one of the above post, cops took bribe from the guy who was cruising.
If in future any such situation arise to u and cops are asking u for money, U too threaten them that you will record the actions in camera and complain about them too DGP of the state or SP or police commissioner.
and will also file the RTI against the complaint. Recording police work is not crime its a lawful act.

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Salman472
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Same thing happened with me in one of the old area... One of rhe guy chatted on Facebook showed his *** pic n called me to his place.. Fist he took me to one open ground there his friends we're already there... When I sat in one of the place with him other guys came near and started abusing and beating me... They were threatening me to take to police station as on of the guys bike was having police written on it.. They took my mobile and cash..please don't trust anyone very easily..

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Goldspot
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

Yes, I was expelled from my job. I used to be too tense most of the time due to my homosexuality. In the office, among the friends, everywhere. My boss very humbly asked me the reason of the tense and fearful face he noticed in me. I was already overwhelmed by my sentiments. I didn't know he would return to me with a harsh response, I told him my entire story. That day he didn't say anything. But when I returned home, I was soo worried about the secret I disclosed first time in my life to the one whom I reporting to in my job, that I was a homosexual.
Next day when I took my tea from the tea room, passed by my Boss's cabin saying him a hello, he asked me to sit down with a flat face. I felt as if my heart jumped into my ***. My boss was ready to record my voice in his walkman (the cassette recorder) with a cassette in it. He repeated the same question, but I had noticed that he might be doing something wrong with me. I didn't respond him properly to his queries and with very slow voice. He was repeating my words coz my voice was not that clear to be recorded into his recorder. Once we finished, he said today is your last day. And you will be paid all your indemnities, please submit a resignation letter coz we don't want to hurt your career. So please resign. It was an expected bomb over me but not that so instantly.

My boss had discussed my matter with his boss. They both didn't want to spoil the office environment due to my homosexuality. My boss and my senior started to see me with eyes of hatred as long as I was around them. It was some 30 years ago. I had lost my trust in all people then onwards. I wanted to commit suicide. But in the newspaper I saw an ad asking people to visit them once before acting upon any suicidal thoughts. His name was Mr. George, their office was in Kamla Nagar near Tankbund. I visited them. Nr. George, God bless him, hewas too sympathetic. Asked me to disclose my homosexuality to my family. I was already tense. I didn't agree for it. Then he advised me to see a psychiatrist, but not to go for suicide. He gave me a contact of a very young lady psychiatrist, Dr. Sujata Patil. She was practicing in CDR hospital that time sutuated on Tilak road. Dr. Sujata Patil after some sessions made me agree to proceednfor marriage. Suicidal thoughts were gine then. I got married to a cute lady. It took more than a month to get into sexual relationship with my wife. She was also luckily very cooperative and had not known much about post marital affairs as earlier unmarried girls would be. It benefitted me. I could successfully penetrated after a month. We lived happily for 4 months togy. The. I had to move to abroad for a new job to Saudi Arabia. I went there but until I could bring my family to Saudi Arabia, I had relations with one of my colleagues from Delhi. He was also newly married. We were taking to our wives on phones but at night we were sleeping together. We both brouyour families same time and lived happily rest of the life as long as we worked in the same company. Now I'm 55 years, live with family. And have a boyfriend too. Thank God I'm happy from my life now.

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Hairyfatchubman
Posted On Aug 1, 2024

@norn dont let ur cat out of the bag ... wait n watch ... i had a colleague too ...who was a fitness freak and he used to look @ men and say to me " look at that guys chest " its so sexy ...i thought he was into men ... i was his best buddy ..used to hang out together for movies , lunches ..i was his pick n drop free driver ..i gradually fell in love with him ...even he understood my love for him ... he once humiliated me asking me why do u love me so much ..why dont u love some girl ... "tumhara ladkiyo ke dekh ke khada nahi hotha kyaa".. ..i told him im gay ... and i love him ... later my company got shut... due to financial loss... but this fellow already leaked my sexuality to all our mutual friends ... all my mutual friends started avoiding me ... i lost all my buddies ....i dont regret of losing those friends but i regret for loving that *** hole . So be very careful in your work place .. these guys change colors better than chameleons .

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bottfun
Posted On Aug 2, 2024

Lol, we all feel *** and love *** and always think with our *** but try to have control over these temptations. In our country there is no acceptance if you do openly or you reveal to straights so better not try when you are not sure.

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Norn
Posted On Aug 2, 2024

Thank you so much guys for your suggestions🙏🙏 .

Like @Hqairyfatchubman said these people change their colours faster and better than chameleons. I'm pausing my thoughts on advancing towards him.

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sanjay6787
Posted On Aug 3, 2024

@Norn,here is how u can confirm, find a friend who you can trust, use him and make him behave in a way that your colleague will approach him, if your colleague accepts him, you can confirm else no. But choose a friend who doesnt mind being called out or who is open or who is moving to another place soon so that there wont be any risk associated with him incase your colleague shouts

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C_hatan
Posted On Aug 4, 2024

@norn Under no circumstance, dont even hint anything about your sexuality. Work place is a worst place for such things. Everyone is out there to take advantage of anything they get in their hands. You are looking for love, what f the other one is looking for money and growth? He will use you to his advantage and you would be left in lurch. You have gay apps like blued now called Walla. Download it and meet people with similar interests. Try to find love in our community, not outside. 20-30 years ago people had no option so they used to cruise in public places and take risks at work places. Now, with so much social media, you really dont have to do this. I understand that real is always better than virtual, but your self esteem is also equally important. Protect it

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Youngguy123
Posted On Aug 4, 2024

@norn sorry for harsh words, but there's difference between being *** in a play and being one in actual life. Please don't let anyone to make use of your body in this way. If he's giving hints, he should come out by clearly saying that he has interest in bottom men, and that he is a gay top. As simple as that. There's no such thing as "straight man who fucks any hole". If he voluntarily sleeps with men, in whatever position, especially after having success with women, he can't be straight. He's bi if he really had experience with women, or just gay narcissist who's trying to enhance his sexual appeal as a top while lying about experiences with females. I have many straight friends but rarely do they boast about things they do in private. And just think if you give up to him anyways. Person who likes to boast so much will definitely spread the word, and if he doesn't, he will look at you as a second grade man who will be at his feet whenever he needs.Do u want that life? Do u want to see his demeaning looks in your daily meetings and work? Besides if something goes wrong between you in work related matters he can threaten you.
I would rather suggest gathering self respect and firmly tell him not to bring any vulgar topics in conversation.

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Rahul xv
Posted On Aug 5, 2024

Never try anything directly to anyone. Always to start with little conversation related to *** and then move slowly. I made my childhood friend to *** with me.

First i have sharing *** videos with him and then later we started watching together. Then started talking about *** size while watching ***.

Then I have asked him his size jokingly he didnt tell so I also did not insist. Later it continued we were watching *** videos for so many days and squeezing my c

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Rahul xv
Posted On Aug 5, 2024

Never try anything directly to anyone. Always to start with little conversation related to *** and then move slowly. I made my childhood friend to *** with me.

First i have sharing *** videos with him and then later we started watching together. Then started talking about *** size while watching ***.

Then I have asked him his size jokingly he didnt tell so I also did not insist. Later it continued we were watching *** videos for so many days and squeez my *** on top of my pants and he did not mind.

Later one day when we were talking general things, i taken my *** out and asked if it's big enough. He said yes and he also taken out his *** and shown me and I was surprised.

After that day whenever me meet we talk about *** and i used to *** infront of him while my parents watching tv in other room but door open. It was nice experience.

After few days, when no one was there at home, i called him and we masturbated together, I was full nude and he was half naked. It was mutual masturbation. He has better tool than me.

One day he came and then we went terrace for normal conversation, he was so excited he taken out and started jerking openly. I had to stop him.

Now whenever we meet we talk about *** and i masturbates infront of him.

Many of you might be thinking it's fake story but I have pics and videos for the same, available online.

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Chubbynave
Posted On Aug 5, 2024

I wouldn't say it as backfire, back during my college yrs I got a room mate for a year. It was a slow process. We wer slowly got attracted towards each other.. slow touching and small peeking and one fine night after 2 months we had passionate *** (if you guys are interested, I can say how one thing led to another as experience).. it was not seduction. We both wer interested.. we continuously had *** almost everyday. Then we faced personal family issues. We stopped having *** for few days. Few days later wen I tried to initiate he pushed me forcely. I didn't know wat to do. I got up n sat on chair watching something in computer. He suddenly got up came to me n started shouting. Don't ever come near me n stuffs like that. I was confused. All of a sudden he slapped me. I didn't know how to react. He left the room. I was tearing a little. I was avoiding him for a few days. Then I had to vacate the hostel for internship. I had to stay for two more nights. The night before he initiated the ***. I couldn't say no. We both had really long *** that night. Morning I woke up early and I left jus a bye. After that he changed his number and I couldn't contact him. Few yrs back I saw him in some other city. We saw him n talked for few mins n left. Didn't get his number.

Again it was not backfire,but that felt like to be shared.

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Chubbtm75
Posted On Aug 5, 2024

I want to say a few words about my experience with my colleague
He is a handsome guy with good body and me being a bottom used to get attracted to guys who is so sexy and will bow down or let my guard down even though if they are slightly interested in talking or if they praise me. I fell for him and I became a driver to him for pick up and drop and used to obey his orders in ofc or outside .I was sexually attracted to him . He is a narcissist who likes to get served and being praised all the time. Me used to feed his narcissism and became addicted to him.(He is straight).
Later to come out of this *** I took transfer and came out of this but couldn't forget him. He was sad for only fifteen minutes after me getting transfer and later started looking for other prey. Me without knowing about him used to call him and still feel the same like I was with him after my transfer also..but he on the other hand already moved on . He was like a best friend to me when I was with him in the same office..later he completely avoided me. Out of this frustration and desperation to get him I opened up to him that I am gay and I like him. He was not at all thought like that ABT me and later I realised that I did a mistake . To come out of his thoughts and desperation I even took hypnotism sessions to forget him later I resigned my job and still feel guilty that I opened up ABT me to him..So I request no one to tell about ur feelings to anyone without knowing his interests..

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JustBluue
Posted On Aug 7, 2024

Back in my college days an incident happened with me. Till 2nd year of my college I had no incounter with any male. I wasn't know about any dating site.i was staying on 4th floor in 1bhk .
At front of my building 2 guys were staying the same floor. They were around 28-30.
I use to study in balcony and they also roaming in balcony.. usually in evening and night. One of them(viraj -imagery name) used to wear short and t shirt and another (nitin) mostly in shorts only.
I was in curious phase of my life so sometime specially when they are not watching me I used to watch them. Nitin noticed me few times. One day nitin was alone in balcony and he saw me with books so he asked general questions like what course r u doing ..which semester...which college..what subjects do u like...which one is not easy to understand etc etc. I got to know that they both were doing PhD in same field that I was studing . during the conversation I told that I have issue in a perticular subject so he said I can teach u.. I said ok. Next day he said me to come with books. I went at his flat. He cleared my doubts and gave easy tips to understand few topics. This is how we got connected. I started to visit his flat on regular basis..viraj also started to share tips in between and I got little confidant in terms of stalking them. We use to shake hand so I can feel their warmness.. sometimes goodbuy hug (obviously very little one from side only). One day nitin was not there on flat and I reached there for discussing assignment topics . Viraj was alone I shaked hand with viraj and asked about nitin but holded my hand tightly and said he went to his home city. I didn't say anything and kept feeling his hand. He said I can help u in assignment. I said thank u ,that will be nice. He was in shorts only so I was trying to see his manhood inbetween.
He noticed and said r u interested in it ? I didn't say anything but he touched his d!ck and said I know what do u watch regularly....he put his hand on my solder and said - c'mon yer..don't be shy and pressed my solder in seductive way. I said viraj bheiya I m not that kind of person, might be u noticed something wrong. But he insisted and asked me to touch his d!ck. I holded,it was hard, almost 6" and thick. He asked me to shake it. I didn't say anything and started shaking....he removed his shorts and became full n*de.. I started shaking it with feel.. I was playing with balls as well....after few minutes of shaking he got ***. Few drops were on my head bcz of force.. he cleaned himself and cleaned myself. After that we finished my assignment. Everything was smooth and normal.
After weekend nitin came I said HI from balcony he replied in nutral way. Later they both stopped talking me and that was shocking for me. I never get any help from them.

Might be viraj has said something wrong about me to nitin. I never got chance to talk them. I never know what happened then suddenly. This is how that shaking backfired on me. I lost two good teachers in a single moment.

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Crazyformature
Posted On Aug 8, 2024

This topic is very interesting and good to be alert.
It once happen to me too. Back in 2001 I was in Delhi. Very new to this things. One day I came to know that near isbt delhi there is a park where a statue of Maharana Pratap riding a hose. Could not remember much. It was in the evening I met a guy when I was walking there so we decide to have some fun n sit below the status n were enjoying oral. Sudden we hear some noise so came out. N from nowhere two guys came n caught us n started asking many questions . I tried to run away from them but I was caught again. They turned out to be police personal. They brought me out on the main road n we were sitting on a waiting set. The police personal Start asking many dirty questions and he want money to set me free. Since I don't have money they took me inside again. They forced me to *** their ***. First I was afraid but after some time I started *** their *** . I *** both the ***. They tried to *** me but I resisted since I was new. So at last they set me free after I *** both the ***.

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Drew_Nashvelle
Posted On Aug 8, 2024

there was one incident happened to me. It was during my Junior college days. We had one handsome teacher he was so yummy & Muscular & Beefy, looked a bit like Ryan Bones, he was married & in his mid 30s,i am sure many gay guys wd have approached him before me. Sometimes our gaydar gives us wrong predictions. He always used to give me that killer smile, One day he winked at me, I got wrong hint. He had those sparky eyes and sexy smile and that killer looks, OMG. One day i gathered my courage decided to seduce him. I found the opportunity to meet him alone, i approached him through doubts, i brushed my hands 2-3 times over his chest, showing it was accidental touch. He just scolded me to behave properly. He scared me he will report my actions to principal & parents, but nothing such happened. He got clue i am asking doubts & touching him purposely. His wife would be really lucky to have him. He was damn sexy man. If u are here & want to keep our *** session secret, i am always ready to give u the best pleasure you deserve.

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Drew_Nashvelle
Posted On Aug 8, 2024

I was in love with him but that was mostly physical attraction.

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Drew_Nashvelle
Posted On Aug 8, 2024

i dont know why i am writing this, But i missed him suddenly.
Anyway this is my last post. Soon will be deleting my account from ohmojo.
These dating app didnt met my expectations. I could not find one perfect guy who is interested in relationship.

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random_gay
Posted On Aug 10, 2024

Intresting thread. I had one encounter that I couldn't forget for all the wrong reason. I was surfing through the Grindr and found a guy in his mid or late thirties, a proclaimed straight top. We had chat and then he invited me to his place which was few hundreds meter away from my place, so I agreed. Also he had that muscular body, I presume he might be in armed force or similar field, requiring extensive workout.
Anyways, his map location were not much accurate and I didn't had his number, so after little walk back and forth I managed to reach his building, an old small building. I entered in the compound and was surrounded by people of building who were strolling around and giving me strange look. I took stairs and went inside and since the building was old, some of the flat door were open and they were looking at me. After reaching 2nd floor, he stopped responding, he askend d me to come to 3rd floor but I mistakenly considered 2nd floor as 3rd and returned from there.
As I went down couple of uncles surrounded me asking questions, kon hai tu? Yaha kya kar Raha hai? Kis se milna hai?etc.
It was a discreet grindr date by a married top, how am I supposed to say his details and also he was much older than me. At first I got really scared as he was not responding and now these people. So I said I came here to collect something from my friends uncle as he was older guy and I didn't had any details about him.
Then they started asking about the details and I replied his flat number and floor which were correct and he was on rent. But they insisted me to call him to come down otherwise they are calling police. I was real scared now. Then I pulled trick of calling my own number and showed them that he is not picking the calls. I kept calling repeatedly for their assurance and firmly said chor lagta hu kya? Itna hai toh why you guys don't keep a watchman at gate. I showed them my id card which was of nearby locations and said ab woh nahi call utha raha toh me kya karu? Me toh janta bhi nahi unko...mere friend ne bola jakar lene isliye aaya me. Then another old couple came from outside they heard all the stories and sided with me. And because of their I intervention I could leave the building. At this point to prove my innocence I said woh jab tak neeche nahi aate, I won't leave. You guys stay here and wait along. And they left me alone.

I kept messaging this freak top who was actually looking at things through his window and didn't come to my help despite me asking him to come down. Yet when things settled I entered in the building after an hour and he *** me in his bed. He was using some *** injection before the ***. I didn't like that also he didn't kiss or bodyplay. After leaving his flat and his building I blocked him.

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Shriram
Posted On Aug 10, 2024

@random_gay u dared to go back again and got fcuked after all this !! 🥺🥺🥺 God!

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Kutiya_Bottom
Posted On Aug 10, 2024

i will share my backfiring story too, due to much sexual experience i became more & more confident in turning so called straight people into gay or bi. I decided to try my luck. There was my classmate friend who was so hot, gym toned body, perfect smile i was always drooling over him. He was maharashtrian & had that manly scent which was making me mad over him, i decided it will be now or never he was alone in cafeteria outside my college. he was alone so i joined him. i tried to seduce him by talking about his looks and accessories he wear and staring at his bulge. I became so lusty that time i badly wanted his *** in my ***, i was eager to get *** by him. so after then i started following him towards mulund station. I initiated some indirect gay conversations and some double meaning approach. He was still not showing any interest. But silly me i said it directly i will give u the best blowjob and u will enjoy *** my *** & ***, dont think too much lets go & ***. He immediately grabbed my collar and said (Bhosadike aainda mere aankhon ke samne aana bhi nahi aur mujhe milna nahi varna jinda gaad dunga, mereko ye gay log bilkul nahi pasand, mar kyu nahi jate tumlog, tumlogo ko aur kuch nahi dikhta *** aur *** k alawa) I apologized him for my behavior and told him to forget and not discuss abt this to anyone. He spared me for that time and didnt told to anyone about the incident. I really thought about this situation he is right we only spread all this nuisance, we are just so much craving for *** we dont even think much about relations, self-respect, consequences, expecting real love is nearly impossible in gay life.

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PrinceofPersia
Posted On Aug 10, 2024

@kutiya bottom - It is also possible your friend knew what you wanted. Everyone has a radar and can guess. I suspect he was secretly gay or bi but in total denial of his sexuality or came from a family or culture where they drilled some *** about being gay. I have seen only closeted gays who have bottled their emotions and are in total denial and feel frustrated become super aggressive. Most st8 people just tell st8 but don't get aggressive.

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Bottomchubby75
Posted On Aug 11, 2024

@PrinceofPersia how can u suspect he is secretly gay? Just am asking how to find out others are secretly gay?
There are many who are very straight and interested in only girls and doesnot understand the idea of how guys likes guys. They feel we are out of the box and it's disgusting. I think we should not consider every secretly gay. I think many are so much interested in *** (lust)that they actually proceed with guys just to have fun of ***. But there are also many who are asexual or doesnot have interest in guys. Then only this backfiring happens.

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random_gay
Posted On Aug 12, 2024

@shriram I gave him benefit of doubt. He was married and on rent and a total stranger. He couldn't have revealed his identity and also he had those *** muscles.🫠
After I left the compound, he messaged me again to scold me why I didn't directly go to 3rd floor and was talking to other people in first place. Point for my mistake again, I returned from 2nd floor earlier assuming it was 3rd floor and it was the guy on 2nd floor that started the chaos.
Further I insisted him to come down, which he actually did but I wasn't there. I had left and he waited. And again my home is just few hundred metres away so I came back but he wasn't there again. He asked me to come straight in room as all of them who were walking around had left and I was *** 🤤.
Ugh, so many reasons said me...Ja simran ja ...jeele apni jindagi...!! Although the *** was amazing, he wasn't the kinda guy I would meet again. So I blocked him.

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Brownbiitch
Posted On Aug 12, 2024

Once while travelling in a train due to office work I had gotten *** seeing a guy. We both understood each other and started talking about random stuff with each other. Soon we went towards to coach's gate to get some privacy. It was ten at night. People had eaten their dinner and were getting ready to sleep. We kept waiting for lights to go off so that we can enter a washroom together. Soon when we saw that people weren't coming towards the washroom anymore, we quickly entered the washroom together and bolted the gate from inside and started frisking each other. Out hands started exploring each other's bodies and special spots. Soon my pants were down and tshirt was up exposing my ***, *** and nipples. We were both having fun. He was *** my nipples and I was giving him a nice handjob. And then immediately we heard a knock on the washroom door. Some body was outside and was banging our door. We both kept quiet and thought maybe whoever it was will get tired and go for the next washroom but this person kept knocking on our door only. Ten minutes later people gathered outside the door of washroom that we were in. We realised that people think either someone has died inside or maybe something wrong is being done inside. Then we heard a loud voice which said that he had basically seen the two of us getting inside together and was intentionally doing this to get us caught. At this point we both just put our clothes back on and opened the door. People were standing outside with angry faces and were very disgusted by us. They wanted to beat us. They started taunting us by making derogatory remarks about us and our sexuality. They even made a video of us coming out of washroom together. We kept quiet and just went opposite ways towards the end of the train. People followed us. But gave up after a few coaches. We were lucky that we didn't get arrested or rpf wasn't called.

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Str8lover *
Posted On Aug 12, 2024

@Brownbiitch I really wonder why this straight people are behind community people.. you guys were doing things secretly inside the washroom and still they want to get into it.. WTF

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Brownbiitch
Posted On Aug 12, 2024

@Str8lover now that I think about it maybe it was a tough lesson. We were basically using public property for our selfish personal pleasure. What if all other washrooms were genuinely occupied and someone had to use washroom for attending nature's call. Holding *** and *** in against will is very traumatic. Had it been a genuine case of someone waiting for letting *** or *** out then we would have caused him or her extreme discomfort. I never go for public fun from that night onwards. I always go to a hotel room or my guy's place because I don't have my own place.

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Str8lover *
Posted On Aug 13, 2024

@Brownbiitch yes, your absolutely right.. but I commented in context were you mentioned mentioned that guy saw u two going together inside and so he started disturbing you. And also they recorded.. someone who is not strong enough might get tromatized with such behaviour.

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Naands
Posted On Aug 21, 2024

There was this one time when I was too *** and was chatting with a guy from Grindr. I went to the location he had sent me. It was only after reaching near the location he sent me the building and flat number. When I saw the register of the building's watchman there was an entry for someone else for the same flat an hour ago. The guy blocked me on Grindr as soon as I entered the building. When I went to the flat there was someone else who answered the door and he said said that sometime ago someone else too wrongly showed up at his house. Some people are just disgusting and take advantage of gays.

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samira
Posted On Aug 21, 2024

Naands its actually ..a trick of these disgusting people I also faced and later found ..they call you like this then they see u like if u are at guard place so by balcony though mumbai doesn't hav balconies but yet from somewhere he seen or in lift or whereever ...thn if he thinks all click so ok he ll meeet u in between and thn say let's go other house ..in this way u won't understand that what house he is in etc to hide their adresss also and know how r u ...

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vanshraj
Posted On Aug 29, 2024

This is a story of a man I met through Grindr in Delhi. this man had a different picture sent and he came to my hotel where I was staying, he asked me for room number and I gave him that. Upon knocking i opened the door and I didnt know who this guy was - he was like me hi hoon, i was like nahi aap kaun ho? And then he screamed top of his voice ' saale bhadwe tune tho massage ke liye bulaya ab natak kar raha hai' he pushed me hard and took his phone out and called his friends on video call and said 'dekh naya murga' i kept hiding my face, he screamed - saala *** marwana hai paisa nahi dena hai? bulaoo sabko - i said sir, please sir math kariye *** dijiye! then he said 'aise kaise' his *** was full with guthkha - he took all my valuables and went away. :( I was left with no penny in a new city. I was crying out loud and then when i was leaving hotel the watchman was a nice man and he said sir woh aadmi bahut bura hai bahuto ke saath aisa karta hai - hum usey ghusney nahi dete par woh kaise bhi karke chale jaata hai

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BodyPlayAmberna
Posted On Aug 29, 2024

Sad to hear that. Thanks for sharing your experience. It's better we should opt for spa for massage

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Jiga
Posted On Aug 29, 2024

@vanshraj

Why didn't u approach police?
& never meet anyone at your hotel or home.. always meet outside first and then take them home....

Guys... why all of you are so desperate and take risk ?

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vanshraj
Posted On Aug 29, 2024

Amberna, I never called anyone for massage.
Jiga - it wasnt desperateness it was trust, he made a video call too and it was the guy who i saw in the pic who was talking to me.

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vanshraj
Posted On Aug 29, 2024

approaching police? In a new city like Delhi? Its tough. I still remember, once I was walking on the janpath road in the night just a day before indepedence day the police man stopped me and said where are you going, I said I am taking a walk and he said peeche mood, he scanned me i was in tight pants with bubble butt, he said peeche kya hai i said kuch nahi, he started checking my pockets at back trying to caress my *** and then he said raat ko ghumna mana hai.

He called other police little far away i was still standing the same way they both spoke something and laughed and said abhi yaah se ja warna chalna hoga saath me. It was scary and he kept staring me till i didnt go out of sight.


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