Why are majority of gays in India bottoms?

As per my observation majority of gays in India like to be on the recieving end rather than being the giver. Is it because of low testosterone amongst Indian men in general or something else? Why do majority of Indian gays like to be bottoms?

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No Picture scotch *	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 could be that the male feels he has not enough size (mine just 1.5" without *** whatsoever) and hereditary submissiveness of colonialism
No Picture vforall	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 I understand your frustration but it is not only India , according to me its applicable all over the world
No Picture Pinkpanther2024	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 Totally wrong observation it doesnt belong to India/any country at all
No Picture Cute_Rowdy02	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 Have you taken a survey of gay community in india or any where else in the world to make such conclusions? There is a saying "everything looks yellow to the jaundiced eye". We just have a bias in our mind which makes us believe everyone around us are like us. Since you are obviously visibily very bottom, you think everyone around you are so. Or simply you are frustrated to not find any tops.
No Picture raju1987	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 I think this feeling itself of being gay make a boy or man think he is feminine and start becoming bottom i would say 60-70% bottoms and tops less but more straight boys becoming bisexual with time so ration should lead to 50-50
No Picture chubbybttm50	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 I think mostly all of them (us) are bisexual. And mostly they had a exposure to gay *** in their teens when some adult has had fun with them. so those experiences are already at the back of the mind of someone aggressive with them.
No Picture Womaninmanbody	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 @Cute_Rowdy02, like I said, as per my observation.......on this blog forums itself if you go through any cruising point submission and the comments under it, you can easily see that most of the comments are from bottoms. Maybe you got offended because you think being a bottom is bad and inferior to being a top. But my perspective was that two bottoms can't satisfy each other the way a top and bottom can satisfy each other. On every Facebook gay group post and even here most of the comments are from bottoms only. So that jaundice eye analogy doesn't hold true for me. Anybody can easily see that we have mostly bottoms around here. No offence to bottoms. Like you pointed out. I am visibly very bottom myself. But that's the point. If all become bottom then who the *** is going to pound me?
No Picture Nisha Chudwani	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 Being bottom or top depends solely on the choice as if there are bottom then there must be plenty of tops to screw them up to heaven 😍❤️
No Picture Cute_Rowdy02	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 @womaninmanbody Lol, I never judge and definitely don't consider bottoms inferior to tops but few bottoms have inherent slutty-ness in them. Probably they think being that way, acting desparate or feminine attracts so called top guys. So naturally they become over enthusiastic in such forums. It stems from plain stereotypes of the society. Also as a side note, in my experience I have seen hottest top guys like to *** manly or cute guys but not feminine or slutty. It's my observation.
No Picture SwitchVers	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 I was pure top but once I met a very big *** bottom guy. After *** him Idk what happened between us I can't stop holding his *** in my hand while stroking n staring. He might understood something, he suddenly in authoritarian voice told me to put in my ***. I did it like he is the top n m the bot. He *** my *** so roughly I forget that I am a top. N after he came in *** Ovfelt like something is change I really enjoyed being on my kness. So know I feel like I am vers that can top but big *** with dom behavior turns me a bot. Maybe because I discovered my feminine side needs a man too who can make me feel like a ***
No Picture skilledmate	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 I would doubt the statement. i v been searching in Mumbai for a btm massuese for the longest time and cannot find. the correct statement would be that most people are closeted bisexual or gay but cannot be open abt it cos of Indian society.
No Picture Jaket	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 Lol what nonsence...i totally feel opposite i feel there are more tops these days
No Picture Hairybongtop29	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 For me, its opposite. I have been looking for a proper slutty Bottom for a long time. But I think people are mostly frustrated in *** than actually have the desire to explore their own sexuality proudly.
No Picture Krish_12345	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 Nothing such. There are equal number of both.
No Picture WhiteUncle	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 I'm a foreigner bottom. I.love visiting India because there are more tops in India than elsewhere. Also the tops are hot and are happy to meet an uncle like me.
No Picture Womaninmanbody	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 Maybe because all tops are concentrated in Maharashtra and South India. I am from uttarpradesh noida. Only paid tops and scammers here.
No Picture Akash1433	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 Wrong statement pls. Not getting suitable bottom here. Either people are top or versatile
No Picture Edward75	Posted On Jun 5, 2024 You're correct a gay person is almost always a bottom. 99% of those who say top are straight guys who like satisfying their kinks with a gay person. Versatile guys are usually bi sexual. That's been my observation as a gay bottom. Dm to continue our correspondence
No Picture Prem69vishal	Posted On Jun 6, 2024 I my opinion there is nothing called top, bottom and vers... Based on the situation and the partner everybody switch...
No Picture Midhun_bot	Posted On Jun 6, 2024 I think bottoms should be happier because there are more demands for us. You see the prostitute culture has been vanished from many cities and men folks desperate of screwing now search for gay bottoms who'll more or less satisfy their man-ego and sexual needs just like the prostitutes. More over, call girls are expensive and may not agree for your sexual fancies such as oral *** and *** in the ***, and *** too - also there is a risk of police raids. And a bonus point for gay-top masters is that some cute gay bottoms will obediently act as their *** slaves obeying all their commands - which is not easy with woman *** workers. Considering these favorable points, it's not a surprise that decent gay bottoms are in high demand - a lot of people in the city life want them for sexual pleasure and satisfaction.
No Picture Midhun_bot	Posted On Jun 6, 2024 @Prem69vishal, As far as my gay bottom nature is concerned ( and there are many like me), your point is wrong because I can't even imagine doing *** with a gay bottom or even a versatile - Only a pure gay top, mentally and bodily powerful man, can turn me on and make me his submissive pleasure object ;-)
No Picture shashi199	Posted On Jun 6, 2024 Only @prem69vishal sounds right…hope people heard about nityanand case…or anyone who got caught and then taking support of their infertility/orientation/age/gender/race….everybody looks at everybody and admires beauty…how far you set the boundary is what matters. It’s just like food, cloth choices…you get everything, you can choose anything…as per your likeness and budget…here the budget of giving and taking. My personal opinion is just supply and demand…jk 😁
Dreamybott *	Posted On Jun 6, 2024 @midhun_bot that's bc u feel good being submissive/docile. There are infact many guys who switches their role once they found such situation or such partner. Until nd unless we don't try other roles we are just limiting ourselves to pre decided notions.
No Picture ritesh4u85	Posted On Jun 6, 2024 i think in my city most are tops its hard to find bottom here
Krishna0000	Posted On Jun 6, 2024 I am versatile, but I also like to be bottom don't know any good reason. I like tops to take charge on to me, although for me it painful to *** to gives me the feeling, can't explain it in words 😍🥰😇
No Picture Rishabh_1103	Posted On Jun 7, 2024 i don't think that might be true , there are many guys out there who are trying bottoming just to feel how females feel while *** , they want to experience the pleasure of getting a n a l . coming to the q in my city i've found only 1 bottom beside me and 100s of tops daily message me to bang me and for getting *** . tho i'm straight in public eye :)
No Picture Devbottom	Posted On Jun 7, 2024 Being a. Btm is a unnatural thing naturally we all r men. and Fuxk anyone. But if u want to do anything else it's bottom side. Being. Bottom.its ur. Famina side. I mean to say.... Sirf chhodne ke. bajaye.... Chudvake. bhi dekho. 😉😂🥰
No Picture Topintown	Posted On Jun 7, 2024 That's bs its mostly tops. Even crusing is easy for you'll like its hard to convince stright guy to *** a d but *** his is extremely easy
No Picture raju21 *	Posted On Jun 7, 2024 some teens who experienced *** as bottom and enjoyed the same become bottom. otherwise mostly people are bi sexual and want to enjoy they become versatile to have fun.
No Picture adicooliyo	Posted On Jun 7, 2024 i think this is pointless this is a question like, why majority of men in india or anywhere are straight lolz seriously its upto someone's personal sexual preference what they enjoy like doing in *** with their partner, some may stay that way, some may want to experiment and try different things, and some may stop doing it because they dont like it anymore, like in my 20s i fu*cked many men like a rough top (trust me i did not even *** d*ck or kissed many of them , welling kissing men here is a tricky part because of lack of oral hygiene and eating habits etc.. we need a separate topic to discuss that lolz ), now in my 30s i am trying to experiment being a vers, although so far i havent bottomed yet (may be its my hesitation of being it painful etc..) but yes now i like holding d*cks and *** them out it may stay that way or go away or i try to experiment something else, dont know again i am 100% sure the person who initiated this thread is a femme BOT (no offense man)
No Picture Vikkay_Bottom *	Posted On Jun 7, 2024 this is such a colonial minded thread ...why is there more bottom's in India ? very one sided , well its just cause the TOP's dont express themselves more , no other reason ....dear TOP's express your self more so such acquisitions are not bagged on you lol
No Picture Sourav123	Posted On Jun 8, 2024 My prospective is I have a great attraction toward girls, but i know my aukat. So i choose to have sxx with boys, obviously my first encounter was in school, and i was a victim of it but gradually i did the same, and now i am kind to addicted to sxx, so whenever, not whenever everytime i get hornny obviously by girls, i think of get a guy and make him my cuumduump, but its everyones thinking so sometime people need to go down on their knees to get some holes.
No Picture VarunQuick	Posted On Jun 8, 2024 I would to an extent say it's cuz of daddy issues, but yea
No Picture TheSecretDoctor	Posted On Jun 8, 2024 Coz they fascinate and wanted to be treated like a female (Wife/gf/ spouse).
No Picture Cute_Rowdy02	Posted On Jun 8, 2024 @Sourav124 So *** with boys is a cheap alternative to *** with girls for you? That's really pathetic and sad. If you are so attached to girls why don't you put some effort and *** a chick instead and spare the boy of embarrassment? Guys like you are a result of the guys like the author of this thread🙂
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Jun 9, 2024 @cute_rowdy02 This is very common in India. Girls are comparatively much harder to get than bottoms. You cant just show a girl some nudes and get them *** but it works easily with bottoms. So guys like @sourav124 use bottoms as alternative to girls. I personally dont see anything wrong with it. if a bottom doesnt like it, they can say no to meeting such guys.
No Picture theo_door	Posted On Jun 9, 2024 How many cities of India have you travelled boss? This is a very skewed and biased metric - there is no reliable population testing. Also what is the big deal about being a bottom? And how has testosterone got anything to do with it? Aur contraire higher testosterone levels break down into estradiol which is what causes the mood swings and the like which is attributable to femininity. In any case in teens and early twenties I was a rough top. As I mellowed I felt like I needed to explore another size of myself. That submissive side. There is a beauty about feeling dominated, and *** like an object. There is a beauty to being treated like you are loved. It is all about the satisfaction game.
No Picture Cute_Rowdy02	Posted On Jun 9, 2024 @oh_desi_guy there are no survey or metrics to prove that's normal to Indian society. That's bit racist to be honest. Secondly, even it's normal that does not mean it's right. If a bottom gets aroused by feeling that he is being treated as a cheap alternative and there is no real attraction than good for him, I don't judge. But the problem is this attitude of so called tops sets a wrong precedence of how the gay community is perceived. Like as if they are some cheap goods, always easy to get. Which is definitely not the reality because many of us have standards.
No Picture oh_desi_guy	Posted On Jun 10, 2024 @Cute_rowdy02 No offense dude but do you even know what racist means?? Yes, my conclusions are anecdotal but its based of a couple decades of experience. if "many" (which survey or metric did this conclusion come from btw since you are so hung up on it?) of you have such standards, guys like sourav124 and others like him would not be here looking for men to use as female substitutes.(and very successfully I may add from guys who I have talked to). If you truly have some data to refute my statement, feel free to post it.
No Picture indianvisitor31	Posted On Jun 10, 2024 According to my observations most Indians pretend to be top, but whenever they saw my big *** they wanted to taste and feel it and became bottom instantly.
No Picture Nikitalicious	Posted On Jun 12, 2024 I have dated over 30 guys, fr sure thr are lot of tops, prob they r not opened enough...
garyap	Posted On Jun 12, 2024 Nice to read this discussion about Indian bottoms/tops. I am a white top man and travel every year several times to India. I love Indian bottoms and even those who consider themselves as hung tops often wish to try the bottom role with me. It can be a hot ritual.
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Jun 13, 2024 Yes you are right my college senior roommates *** me they are bisexual but I am bottom for life. There is no away I can be happy with a girl also I don't get *** anymore I *** very thin wattery when ***. There are very few real top here those who meet are more interested in getting *** & rimmed then ***
No Picture pravin39 *	Posted On Jun 13, 2024 its not acceptable dear, may be some areas most of the boys bottoms its not mean that almost all Indians bottoms there is a huge amount of very hard *** tops also is there, some my be bisexuals,
No Picture Jeanebad *	Posted On Jun 14, 2024 It's just a perspective opinion I guess. Many bottoms tend to have feministic mindset, have fantasy to be treated as female, or even want to CD. And reasons could be incest incidents in childhood, or many. And almost all of them tend to be as bottoms or vers bot. I have not seen guys with feminine mindset as top. But trust me when I say that there are good number of tops out there too. There are tops who don't get girls and want to take that frustration on bots. Them then are tops are passionate lovers. There are versatile guys as well. Not to mention guys who identify themselves as side (no ***) too.
No Picture aditya_bottom_0	Posted On Jun 15, 2024 yes\
No Picture bananadreamz	Posted On Jun 16, 2024 Nice threat guys. I think the real reason is identity crisis. As a veratile btm, i have some insights. Most tops just pretend gay for free ***. And after a point they start seeing lot of shemale *** on telegram or websites. They start wondering how life is on the other side. then become bottoms. This happens only bcoz they are not clear of their orientation. Its a bold perspective i have told. comments are welcome
No Picture sarojar	Posted On Jun 16, 2024 i do agree with womaninmanbody those who don't just have look on guys online ninety percent of them are bottoms, if you are a matured bottom getting matured or elder top is really difficult here, that concludes the reality stated by the contributor of this thread.
No Picture Sourav123	Posted On Jun 17, 2024 @Cute_Rowdy02 If i would have think like you, i would not have came here in the first place. What is so attracted in the hairy men? I don't feel attracted towards them, i am hungry of sexx, i want some holes, i don't get girls so i am here. In gay sexx being it top, bottom, bisexual,blah blah both the persons expects pleasure from one another, because he has not get it from girl, or anything. And there are many gays doing it publically, so what if i being a straight wanted to hangout with some of them, what is the problem in it. People like me are increasing the numbers of tops (officially or inofficially). That's what the admin should be proud of. As the amount of sexx givers are increasing.
No Picture Rajivstud2	Posted On Jun 17, 2024 @cute_rowdy02 Guys who say they are straight but *** men with the excuse that since they could not get girls they *** men, are lying to themselves. They are gay or at the most bisexual. But Too ashamed to admit it. Hence like to pretend that they are straight. Ignore. I swipe left to anyone who says he is a pure top.
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