A thing I observe in the gay community is very poor tolerance to older gay men. The younger guys prefer younger men, the older guys prefer younger men which means a lot of older men get discriminated as no one wants to be with them. Everyone grows old but it is tougher if you are an older gay. Is my observation correct? Do older gay men (say 45+) feel isolated, discriminated and ignored within the gay community.
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Btm_no_place | Posted On Jun 22, 2022
I don't think that's the case..
My BF has a very huge fetish for OLD Guys.. and before we met he had *** many OLD men.. he loves Silver haired big belly daddies not the shabby ones.. but the groomed ones..
I literally had to fight with him over some *** daddy he *** after we met..
It's a real big problem for young guys to compete with daddies..
My BF is super hot, well off and also big dicked.. so no he isn't a sugar boy.. or sugar daddy..
And I'm a guy who prefer guys around my age.. like 28-34 is my safe range below that and above that is something I don't prefer..
Things have changed a lot recently, it's not the same it use to be earlier..
Just keep yourself well groomed, use a nice colonge/perfume and dress nicely.. there is no end for daddies to get babies of any age..
Love, Simon |
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Devbottom | Posted On Jun 27, 2022
Yes you are right @Rjkapur older tops are very good in bed with big or small tool. They are very understanding and cooperative. If u say don't do this way it's paining they stopped immediately and support you. |
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Samir76 | Posted On Jun 28, 2022
Yes, Its true that Old daddies are difficult to find. Especially fuckbuddies.
Some old men get emotionally attached or possesive.
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Kunalsaga | Posted On Jun 28, 2022
Yes old men are the best things that happened in my life so much pleasure which is beyond expectations. They treat bots really well satisfaction beyond imagination all that experience and lust in them can be explained in words one can only feel. They kee you warm and satisfied on bed all the time. |
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Sissybitch | Posted On Jun 28, 2022
During my teenage years, my cousin's father caught me red handed getting *** by his son. He told me to let him *** me as well as he was going to tell my parents about my sexual orientation otherwise. At first I was underestimating this old man's power. But later when he started *** me, it turned out that he *** even harder than his son. I later came to know that the cousin's father already knew about our relationship. It was all pre planned. Seeing how well he could ***, I did not mind at all. He told me that my big fat *** reminded him about his wife's big fat ***. He had lost his wife. Before her death, he used to *** her daily three to five times a day. Ever since her death, he was feeling lonely and was not able to control his urge to ***. He says that my chubby body is a lot juicier than the bodies of skinny prostitutes he fucks. I too prefer him over his son. He is very fit and muscular for his age. He was into weight lifting since his teenage time. That is why he completely makes me his sissy bitch on his bed and doesn't let me escape his grip at all. |
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patilboy | Posted On Jun 28, 2022
Matures and Older mens are the best. They play good role in sexual fantasy as well as a good guidance in real life. I have quite a few older friends who will be around 50's and so. I meet my friends quite often and sometimes it happens that we meet at a safe place and have good chit chat and spend the time without doing any fun. I feel, rather than only keeping sexual relations, older's like to keep friendship and wants someone to give them good company |
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SHANTANUnu | Posted On Jun 29, 2022
Thank you guys
I am 60 yrs old
I always try to b good with young guys
Now i am great full all uncle, maternal uncle, grand father, tauji, mosa, pufa those made good nephews for me😃
My msg to young and mature
1)young guys plz dont do vc without notice
2) mature guys plz do regular physical exercises for maintaing good physics and arouse ur energy
Tks again |
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Premse | Posted On Jun 28, 2023
True I've been with oldies and God they know how to enjoy the body and make you feel in heaven.. They actually make love rather than *** like these new gen tops with body and tool showoff their capacity to ***..
Anyone know any oldies here? |
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Sultanpurup007 | Posted On Jun 28, 2023
I always prefer old tops, there is a common thought that bottom only want pleasure. Young top only mean for *** they *** and get side. Dear bottom not need only *** they need love dedication. Older mature always make a great love with bottom they do body play. Yes they are also hard fucker. Some of old guys *** as harder that no young guy have that stamina but old guys love. My hardest *** happened with 65 yr old top with largest tool but one thing i mention the way he do I don't feel any type of pain during *** and after it. They know smooth way of ***. |
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Mitha_bottom | Posted On Jun 29, 2023
I prefer old man over young any day. I just can't feel for young guys, I lover older men. They are dominating and demanding and experienced. I don't know what observations made you feel old men are ignored because I only notice old tops hahaha |
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HydBtmCuck | Posted On Jun 29, 2023
I agree I once met a old guy who wanted his *** to be loved. I'm glad I met him *** his *** for long. Took his ***, *** (we went a bit kinky). He was so happy he kissed me with *** in his ***. Later, he tried *** my *** but it was flaccid already. |
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twinky_cd92 | Posted On Jul 1, 2023
I usually specifically look for older men. I LOVE older men a lot. I can’t sleep with guys younger than me. Older men are so sweet, they are kind, they are caring, *** is always more mutual. Plus I’m soooo weak for hairy older men with whitening hair. I LOVE older guys who are fat too.
I feel so safe and happy with an older guy. Usually there is some communication gap because of our age difference but honestly, every older guy I have been with have been my favourites. I like older guys from 35-60, beyond 60 it is difficult for some to have ***. But I have still spent time with them and they really know how to love me and please.
Don’t give up, as you can see in this thread many people love older men. We love you and want to love you! |
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Bicuriouside69 | Posted On Jul 1, 2023
When I was in college I used to fantasize older men a lot, none of those fantasies ever came true and now that I'm older myself I get requests from the younger guys calling me Daddy etc, oh the irony of life, it makes me laugh.
Sometimes I still fantasize older men but I don't know perhaps I'm somehow holding on to a fantasy that never came to be and probably would never be as far as I'm concerned since I feel afraid to really meet up with anyone in real lol
To all the youngsters out there I know exactly what you must feel or fantasize and to all the older, perhaps even married and exploring your Bisexuality guy's out there who go through something similar, I feel you all. G'day to all. |
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Verbtm * | Posted On Jul 1, 2023
I'm 63 from Chennai versatile bottom
My first experience
had in my 45 years
with 25 aged North Indian
After that I had met many youngster especially North Indians ( Delhi,Bombay, Ahmedabad & Goa, Bangalore etc)
who liked mostly older.
Now I have some young guys (26-35) in Chennai
But most of young guys are not interested in older men in Chennai
It's my experience
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Ruhanruhan | Posted On Jul 1, 2023
I have always been interested in old guys above 55..I *** first older guy in my 18 year...It was not only meeting but we fell in love of each other ...He was an lod bottom of 56 then and I *** him occasionally 5 to 8 times whenever it happens our meeting in hotel... He was a lovely man and by profession he was a doctor.. he changed my life..I still miss him a lot even after his death....
Now I need one another old daddy to *** everyday...I have a big and thick tool for daddies pleasure...
Though I am married but I want long relationship with daddy in another side secret relationship...I am only interested in old daddy |
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dramsheth | Posted On Jul 3, 2023
The fear most older men have is that young men want money.. 1st they say nothing and then the demand starts.. I have experienced it many time...
I like younger men but am very vary of them..
PS: Mumbai- Western line can message |
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slimshady893 | Posted On Jul 3, 2023
I'm 32 and my interest has always been oldies so far..
Met a few during my initial days into this and they have been good friends till now (i'm a vers top, have met vers and bot older men).
Some of them are really good ppl and some made me feel good till their fantasy was fulfilled with me. They later turned out to be completed different person like I would wonder if that was the same person/friend who i knew so for so long or who i valued.
All in all, I have enjoyed meeting sensible oldies, humours oldies are fun to be with and intellectuals make a great conversation (although I haven't found many).
So oldies, u rock \m/
Come on now, give me a kiss! :) |
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nicebutt_fly | Posted On Jul 4, 2023
Almost 15 years ago when I was teenager, I met a mature guy from Delhi when he visited hotel near Mumbai Airport. He got me waxed all over with Veet hair removal cream. He gave me sexy lingerie to wear and introduced me to crossdressing. He was very fond of me.
I was in touch with him for few years but since few years I lost the contact. I know his name and he was an Engineer from well known Institute. I don’t want to reveal his name. But still I miss him a lot. |
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ToBeFreeinLyf | Posted On Jul 12, 2023
My best times have all been with older men. Have always found them caring and sweet:) Very passionate in bed and they know how to make a bottom squeal in joy;) |
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Heisen | Posted On Aug 2, 2023
Let me share my recent experience with a old guy. I went for a bike ride yesterday from Kanakapura road towards kanakapura. After harohalli, I saw a road on the left which goes to Maralwadi. I tool the road and after few kilometres got confused. I saw an old man, around 50plus walking near the road. Stopped bile and asked him the route. When he spoke I felt he is girlish. So I continued the conversation and he spoke touching my thigh. I got the signal. I pressed my *** and he too pressed with a smile. I told him I want to pee. Got down from bike and started walking towards the field. He cane behind me and watching me peeing. My *** was hard due to excitement. He came near and held my *** and started praising the size. He told me to come to his home which is nearby. I parked bike there and started walking behind him. His small house was behind the field and there was no one around. Only one room oneside kitchen and another side there was a small bed. He asked me to come inside and then I saw his wife, a village lady. I was scared and wanted to go out. He told no problem and made me to sit in the room. One corner wife was sitting down and doing something with coconut shells. My mood went off. He gave me water and sat next to me and started touching. Cz of fear my *** was not errected . He told not to worry she wont see. He opened my zip and took out the *** and started stroking. And suddenly asked his wife to look at it. I jumped up and put the zip. He told his wife knows and she smiled. He stood on his knees and opens my zip and ***. Oh my god. I was confused. My *** got bigger and he took it out and asked me to *** him. He removed his lungi and spread his *** cheeks. I dont know, did not felt to *** as he was bit old also no condoms. I said I cant, the he asked me if I can *** his wife. He called her near me and asked her to ***. She was a dark lady and she put my *** in her ***. She gave me bj which was okay. He made her naked and asked me to *** her . She was very hairy and *** was not clean . I said I cant *** and made her to ***. She *** for some time and the he took over. He *** and I cummed in his ***. He drank the ***. He again started stroking my ***. He made his big and asked her to lick my ***. She reluctantly licked and he jerked my off and shot loan on her face. They asked me to stay but I wanted to escape from there. Hence told will visit some other day and came back. Still confused whether should go again or not. If any one travelling in that road can find him. He is easily identifiable with his girlish nature. |
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honey_bunny | Posted On Aug 2, 2023
Mature guys with thick mustache or beard are always my fav.... |
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Guy27bi | Posted On May 26, 2024
Older partners have experience in their side. It's always fun to meet them and have fun.
The prejudice on older men and their performance in bed is always hard on them. I heard younger men make jokes on forums, about older men taking Viagra or not able to maintain *** , but they fail to understand the age related issues that are unavoidable , which they are gonna face too in their OLDER age .
Sad to see OLDER men still struggling to find genuine hookups and having to try paid guys , getting cheated in that too.
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yesimgayndexcd6 | Posted On May 26, 2024
Older are the best recently abt 2months back ago met a person his age is 64 he is very active in bed nd very interested in foreplay nd orgy so v enjoyed both & v meet often for a break he is such a gem person |
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Moobs4U | Posted On May 28, 2024
I always prefer mature old men. They are always gentle, sensible and make you feel comfortable to the core.
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Guy27bi | Posted On Aug 24, 2024
Nice |
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Guy27bi | Posted On Aug 27, 2024
The dating and hookup world has changed and cruising places are a bit risky in some cities. There are lot of scams, blackmail happening in these places.
There are lot of guys who are into older mature men, but mature men lose out on these guys because of few things like not accepting their age, not being sure on what they need, not updating their profiles or empty profiles etc.
Few tips for older men.
Please accept your age, and the effects that come with age.
Be confident and don't be ashamed of your age or body .
Please give a small description of who you are and what you are looking for when texting someone .
If they don't reply or not interested, then move on
Be more open to change . Try other kinks, or try to meet people with similar likes.
Install Snapchat or telegram, Insta etc to communicate.
Be honest with your partner about your kinks and likes.
Always meet in a public place for the first time.
Avoid carrying cash or gold jewellery when you are alone.
Be polite and active when you are talking with your partner.
Don't spend too much money on your partners , or boast about your financial situation to impress the other guy. I have read lots of stories about older men being taken advantage of, used for money.
Book good rooms in reputed hotels , never bring strangers to your home.
Always use safety when having ***.
If you feel something might be wrong , get out of the room and leave the place.
Use your experience to be safe from blackmailing and scams.
Don't worry much on your performance, or erectile dysfunction or other issues, be confident and discuss this with your partner.
Be patient when searching for hookups, don't be desperate .
If you are a mature crossdresser CD , try to learn about make-up, wigs , dresses from YouTube . You can learn and practice from watching the videos.
If someone isn't replying or not interested then move on.
ALWAYS PRACTICE SAFE ***
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Youngformatue | Posted On Nov 19, 2024
When i was very young i was attracted towards a mature hairy uncle with a mustache but at that time i had no idea why
When I was in 10th standard then i got to know about grindr app so i have created my account and mentioned that i am a far complexion and good looking bottom and looking at a mature top uncle 50+ and posted my few pictures.
I started receiving many messages within a few hours and many were mature and old tops.
I came across a profile and his name was suneel singh and he messaged me and said that he is a 55 year old army retire widow man and he likes cute boys of my age and he liked me and wants to meet me.
He also sent his few pictures where i could see his tall and hairy body and he was a chubby and bear type man
This is what i was looking for so i replied to him and sent my pictures and then he messaged him and said i am a very beautiful and fair boy.
We exchanged numbers and started chatting and then he sent his nudes where i could see his thick and long *** with full of hairs and I felt horney seeing his ***.
I also shared my nudes pictures and he told me that he wants to *** me.
He called me and told me to come on sunday and he will pick me up from my place and take me to his flat which is empty.
I was nervous but excited too so i said Yes to him.
On that day i shaved myself and wore an oversized red t-shirt and jeans and sneakers and called him and he said he reached and waited for me on the main road.
I reached there and looked here and there then i got a call and it was him and he said that he saw him and crossed the road and came.
I saw a black scorpio there and inside a very manly mature uncle wearing sunglasses with a thick white mustache.
I crossed the road and he opened the and asked me to come inside and i closed the gate and sat in the front seat.
I was very nervous and shy in front of him and avoiding eye contact then while driving he told me that he had never met such a young and cute boy before and he liked me very much and put his one hand on my thigh and started rubbing his hand.
I was getting nervous because i had never met any man before like this and he understood and said that do not worry son i will do it slowly.
He kept on touching me and after 20 minutes he put my hand on his zip and i could feel his *** and then he asked me to unzip him and take his *** out.
I did that and his big *** came out and it was hard and thick then he asked me if i liked it and i smiled and said nothing.
We reached his flat in 1 hour and it was a half constructed building and he asked me to follow him and i had no other option but to go with him.
He took me in a room which had an old king size bed and mattress and it was not bad but okay okay.
Then he told me that he is a thekedaar and now because of the festival there is no one.
Then he asked me to remove the shoes and relax on the bed and himself went outside.
I was very nervous and my face turned pink in nervousness then after 10 minutes he came and brought cold drinks and chips for me.
Then he started talking to me about my study and hobbies and told me that i am very fair complexion boy and cute so i smiled then he stood up and removed his shirt and his pant and now he was only in the underwear and i was staring his hairy chest and erect *** then he asked me to come near him and remove your jeans and i did that i was wearing a colorful franchie and i was very slim and smooth so i could see his hungry eyes and smile and he started kissing me passionately and put his hands inside my hips and started pressing my hips and kissing me.
After few minutes and he asked me to *** his *** and i vake on my knees and removed his underwear and saw his big black *** and i kissed as he instructed and tried to *** but i could not take it inside completely as it was barely fitting then he asked me to lay down on bed and slapped on my butt then started licking my *** with his tongue and i got intoxicated and my eyes were in pleasure and i was moaning like a little hungry boy then he came close and lift me in his army and i crossed my legs around his weist and we were kissing passionately and he was trying to insert his finger inside but it was not going so he asked me to go to bed and he took out a lubricant from his bag and applied it on my *** and then after few minutes he was very easily could insert his two finger and then he asked me if i want to do this and i nodded my head in yes manner and then he asked me to lay down straight on the bed and lift my legs and put it on his shoulders and started inserting his *** and it was kinda pain i never ever felt and it was like by skin is cracked and i could feel the heat inside and he again tried and this time his entire *** went inside and my tears came in my eyes and i was saying no to him but he was trying to hold my hands as he was big enough to control me and then he waited a 1 minute and started moving his hips and *** me slowly and now i could feel his *** inside me and he started *** with full speed and i could only moan in pleasure and he then *** me in every position and we stayed there for 4-5 hours there and it was the first gay *** i can not forget. |
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