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Submitted by Deepsukcer Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

Missed Connections

We come across a lot of guys right during the course of having fun, cruising, WhatsApp group, etc

I'm sure all of us had have some genuine guys to whom you can share a lot not only about sxe gay talk and all but also some genuine friendship.

Suddenly did any guys broke and disappear or behaved strangely after a while.

Let's talk n share... I have a few incidents...

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Deepsukcer
Posted On Dec 19, 2018

Here goes my story.

I was living in OMR. Chennaities know that there is a sizable techy guys reside in this area.

I was staying with my roommate. He is a lovely guy. He is neither gay nor I was interested in him.

We had lots of neighbors who are bachelors. I noticed a guy who does regular workouts on the terrace. I noticed. Made eye contacts. Smiled. Talked. We became good friends. It was around 2010 where WhatsApp was not big in that time. pr gaydia Chennai guys forum were rocking that time. So we used to exchange lots of DVD tamil English Hindi movies. I had lots of *** DVD but this guy is very private about it. he never asked me. I flirted with him. But I came to know that he is totally straight. One day he told me that he is getting a new roommate I was shattered cause I can't go to his room and flirt.

He introduced me to his roommate. He told him if you need any help you can ask him. I looked at the guy who was very normal looking guy. My roommate and him go home every weekend. So I had to spend my weekend with this guy. Unlike both of them we started watching sharing ***. He used to talk dirty in tamil about *** which aroused me. One day I touched his tool. He laughed and smiled hence *** him. Then he told me nobody *** him till now. I said I can *** whenever he wants.
We used to wait for weekend to *** pun intended.. We had hot sessions. I used to *** him for three four times.. I had facial throat *** kinky I had amazing time for almost a year.

Suddenly he started avoiding me. He never asked me to come to his room ever since. He hated me.

He changed room after that. I used to call. He asked me, why are you interested in ***, aren't you ashamed.

Till now I know his number by heart. But feeling hesitant to call him. I'm sure he would not like it as I had called him earlier.. His responses were not good.

I moved outta Chennai. Lost in touch..

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bromance16
Posted On Dec 20, 2018

This happened very recently to me. I Installed Grindr after a long time and found a guy with my wavelength. We chatted n found very compatible then met. He resembled my college bestie n he said I resemble his fav cousin. We almost had mutual admiration n chatted for 45 mins. We discovered more common things between us.

Again we planned to meet but I had to change my plan due to other appointment. So I had to tell lie which made me feel guilty as well. He seemed to be upset n didn't respond to my MSG's as he had thought that I went with some other guy for fun. But he is the first guy I met via the dating app. I went near to his office n apologized for the plan change at last time. He said that we have just met and not lovers/partners to ask apologies Again we met on the same day and chatted normally.
On the second meet I came to know that the name he told me is fake. But I didn't take it seriously as it is not necessary to tell everyy ails

After a couple of days when I sent msgs he didn't respond. I kept msging him and at one point he blocked me. I was totally confused. I couldn't digest since he's the first n only guy so far I've met via a dating app. So I created another profile with another name and sent him msg. He responded for that profile. I thought of sending a fake pic but sent my pic and told him that I created the other profile to contact him and ask the reason for blocking. He said that he is not convinced with my behaviour and the rapport we shared. He said it will not click. I said if he felt it wouldn't click between us he wouldn't have accepted for 2nd meeting which didn't happen unfortunately and he met me 2nd time too. He said there is no logic behind the 2nd meeting and added that he is not the only guy here, there are many more profiles. I was shattered and deleted the account.

I'm sure that he liked me at the first meeting. I'm not sure what made him to behave like that to block me. He will be the first n last guy

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male_fantasy
Posted On Dec 21, 2018

He wasn't much into you and was expecting just fun. Many times we talk to guys it may sound like we got a lot in common but in reality it's just we hear what we would to hear . That's it!!! Probably you weren't the one for him, he had choice's 😁!

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Sasmathu
Posted On Dec 22, 2018

@bromance16 I could clearly see what could have gone wrong- it is inquisitiveness and anxiousness. It happens. When we meet somebody of our wavelength and likes we immediately want to have a courtship (I dont mean *** here) without thinking about whether they are ready for it or not. First when you realized things are going your way you should have just taken a break and should have started afresh.

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Sasmathu
Posted On Dec 26, 2018

Guys this is might be quite interesting to most of you. Just a year ago this site was blooming with activity and i got to make few online friends through this portal. One guy who was very active with profile name gay___k was a eye candy. Even though he never showed his face he had a sexy body and didn't mind fluting his seminude pics in his profile. He was quite discrete and never shared his identify with anyone. But today unexpectedly I met him in a meeting. Even though I recognized he couldn't. But with 95% confidence I could say he was the same old gay-----p who has now deleted his profile. BTW he was damn hot. Ohhhh

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Deepsukcer
Posted On Dec 26, 2018

Gayspark

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Guru005
Posted On Dec 26, 2018

Gayspark was a Greek god of gay love for most of us.

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bromance16
Posted On Dec 27, 2018

@sasmathu, True I was so inquisitive n curious. Didn't wanna have fun with him but just wanna meet him often for a coffee. Even if I had fun with him it wouldn't have satisfied me as our conversations gave me more pleasure. As you said, I should have given a break.

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bromance16
Posted On Dec 27, 2018

Where did you meet gayspark. Been missing his posts for quite some time here.

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Iluv2cruise
Posted On Dec 28, 2018

Here is one such missed connection from my side...around 1.5 yrs back or so..i met this guy in gay app..we were chatting on and off but never met...finally got a chance to meet him jn his car when we went on drive in ecr...somehow i felt good vibe while spending time with him given both of us were at same age...married and getting that guilt feeling often thinking of family...we then met at my house for couple of fun sessions and few meetings in hia car where we just used to talk while on d drive...there was amazing connect...felt good friendship without ***...started talking general things until one day before diwali when he met with some unfortunate incident..he was looking for some fun near by his house and was trapped by group of cheaters...he ended up losing some money...he did share this news to me two days after the incident and he was getting calls from those guys...he had to give some.more.money and finally they stopped troubling him...my friend was totally shaken and he wanted to be out of this..from then on..there was gradual decrease in watsapp chat that we used to do and it is almost nil now...i wanted to respect his decision and did not disturb him as well...but always used to think tgat i hv lost one nice guy...hoping he is back...

Please.dont message me asking for details on the incident...

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Iluv2cruise
Posted On Dec 28, 2018

@ deepsucker...dont think it was awesome break for gayspark...he had mentioned in his profile that he went on break afer his dad passed away...that must have been terrible...

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sandynaveen
Posted On Apr 26, 2020

Once I went to market to buy vegetables. While parking vehicle noticed 2 cops sitting n vehicle nearby. Had a eye contact with one cop and left that place.
After 20 / 30 mins returned with full bag, saw that cop now sitting on my vehicle.
Requested him to move. It took few mins to place my bag and move vehicle.
He shouted at his senior standing at a distance, that he is going for tea break
Now turned to me and asked me to drop.
I purposely lifted him till tea shop, though he requested to drop inbetween.
He asked me to join for a tea. But i was little scared & left.
Later hurrily i kept my vegetables bag at home & again went to that tea shop nearer.
Pretended to stand in ATM quee jus opposite to that shop.
V had few convincing eye contact.
But both dont have guts for next step.

Wish i could got his number so that something can be happened n future.

Im sure v both intrested in each other.
Having with a cop s my longtime dream never happened

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LoveNfun147
Posted On Dec 7, 2020

I was once travelling from Madurai to Coimbatore. I saw one matured man in his 50s and asked him where i can find the bus to Coimbatore. He guided me and then after i got inside the bus and sat, he came up to me and smiled and said that i look beautiful. I smiled and said thanks. He said he likes me. I again blushed. He invited me to the toilet to pee together. I had to refuse as i was not comfortable with anything in the public places. And i had to leave as the bus started the journey.

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Premvishal
Posted On Feb 2, 2022

When I started using 1100 mobile, I got one chat friend called mani (uncle) from erode, used to chat very hot and introduced incest to me in chat ( I don't even have clue of what is incest and all that time) but the way he chat, I could not resist to reply, sure every night he makes my jatty wet but his chat) I missed that uncle.