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Don't love men but love *** ***?


Submitted by headgiver Location: Kolkota (West Bengal, India)

Hi, I am .... Tanmay. I am 26 yr old. This yr I married my love of life whom i had committed to since last 8 yrs. I love her unconditionally and I would do anything for her. I want to spend my whole life caring her and being with her.

Little does anyone know that I have been *** *** since I was 11 yr old. 2 male cousins, numerous friends, classmates, online meeting to on spot hookups - i did all. I love *** ***. I dont see age, looks, figure - cause they dont matter to me.

Golden shower, rimjobs, throat ***, facial - all done. Even before i passed out high school, i had had blowbangs too.

But I do not check out men, I do not even fantasise about men. I don't like gay *** or even just a kiss. I have only been *** 3 times in my life and hated it by all means.

My only question is what am I? Am I bi? Am I gay? I really don't know.

P.S. Please try not to insult me or joke about me. I really want to discuss.

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munnabhai
Posted On Aug 30, 2018

Your love for women, especially your wife, seems real and emotional...but the fact is, your sexual orientation is more gay than Bi... As your sexual preference has been shaped from a very early age, as you have mentioned...but your responsibility towards your wife is governed more by the legal binding and her attachment towards you.
If you are given an option to choose between a *** and a woman's hole, ( who isn't your wife), we what will you choose ? Think from your heart...you will be answered about your orientation...

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Jonny0003
Posted On Sep 1, 2018

Buddy u r bisexual (bi) like me its very easy

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headgiver
Posted On Sep 10, 2018

Well, both your comments are important but i have one key question, why do i not love men then? I wnt wnt to kiss or hug thwm, dnt wnt naked men to look at or be *** by them?

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JAUPEE
Posted On Sep 15, 2018

It may be due to hard/painful *** during your early age, as you told that you have been *** few time.
It may be the main cause of not liking necked men etc.

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BH@2225
Posted On Oct 19, 2018

If you are equally active towards women..i mean your wife..then yu r not gat but u r bisexual..same situation to me...

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Arun1550
Posted On Oct 27, 2018

Bisexuality can have many expressions.... I have One variation called hetero romantic homosexual.... I like having *** with older men.. I am a bot... But when it comes to being in love or thinking of settling down.. I can't think of that with a guy... I just don't even check out men, I do see women... But only when I am turned on I fantasise about older men... And also.. No other type of man turns me on but mature guys only

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mojoxl
Posted On May 9, 2020

dude chill the f out. it is not necessary to put a label on everything. then only can u keep ur mind at peace. trust me. i'm the same like u. everything u said execpt for the *** part cuz i love getting ***. So this is the thing- u have a wide sexual spectrum which means u enjoy doing varied things to others and vice versa. u are obtaining pleasures that a women cannot give you- like *** a *** for u and getting *** for me. Simply put, u enjoy *** and get to fulfill ALL ur sexual desires and arent (read: should'nt) afftected by the various labels the society has come up with. And dont worry u probably will not turn gay if u keep on hooking up with men.

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Shu
Posted On Jun 2, 2021

Why worrying over such thing,you don't have to tell others what you are or not,just do what you feel right, *** is a wonderful thing ,so stop thinking and have fun till you can

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Raj7777
Posted On Jan 4, 2023

You are bisexual buddy.

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Boy_fun
Posted On Apr 15, 2023

Well we both are kinda same pinch. Even I am making out with boys when I was 10 years old (not s e x or blow job). Till date I have *** most of my school friends, seniors and juniors, one college mate, one family member (unfortunately never got an opportunity to *** one of my cousins, will definitely try to fullfill that), many dudes from Grinder, blued and tinder, many random buddies got from bus, train and street.

But the thing is till date I had 7 girlfriends, and numerous crush (even makes out with 2 of them, which I enjoyed much). Though I am single now, but I want to have a relationship with a girl only, I love men ***, but at the same time I love girl boo bs

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Chuckle
Posted On Nov 8, 2023

One doesn't have to be gay, heterosexual or bi-sexual; you are a SEXUAL person.
A SEXUAL person is a person who is not gender, race, age or color biased but have certain fetishes to certain object or activities of both genders.

Do I sound ridiculous here?

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Vinod_kumar
Posted On Nov 24, 2023

Same here.. i love *** ***, becoming a slave to a dominant, mature man but I don't emotionally connect with men.. i like to have *** with women and have emotional connection. I had stopped trying to label myself. I am happy the way i am..

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SHANTANUnu
Posted On Nov 25, 2023

Dr headgiver,
I dont know that whether my reply satisfy to u or not.
I always believe gays are good husband and caring dad.
Being a bisex (now widower from 23yrs), i have seen my straight friends conjugal life, they are frustrated by using same women or vice versa.
I think we bisex guys are lucky, we have dual feeds as mobile phone, so our personal naughty or *** life will be not monotonous.
I meet so many guys, they dont like kissing but they ***, another they dont *** but only loves ***.
My suggestion to u, enjoy ur life as u like