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Trivandrum Gay Meet Club


Submitted by rainman Location: Thiruvananthapuram (Kerala, India)

Hi all

As we all know there are no gay bars or pubs here where we can interact without the fear of being judged..

How about we create a club for our selves..with a regular meet-up schedule..

I am suggesting we organize a meet-up for 15 people or more bi-weekly or once in a month where we rent cottages or bungalows in different tourist destinations like Kovalam ponmudi etc and we ourselves pay on the cost basis..later we can appoint someone amongst ourselves to be the organizers as in look for places and take care of food arrangements.what say

We will look for such places where the stay and foodwouldnt cost more than 1500-2000

If people are interested I don't mind organising the first meet up maybe in Kovalam?? Thoughts..ideas?

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rainman
Posted On Aug 28, 2018

Hi I guess I should elaborate the idea

Hi all

This is an idea that cropped up in my head this afternoon and am sure at least a few of us must have thought of it at some point in time or the other..

It's a sad truth that we do not have gay bars or nightclubs here in Trivandrum or let's say Kerala where gay people can meet up and talk freely without the fear of being judged..

So why not we make a meet up group for only gay/bi men? It needn't only be about ***..more of a community where like minded people meet up in a closed group.. although initially it has to be a open group and maybe later one can join only through invites..we can cross that bridge when we get there..

If ohmojo could provide a platform which suits the requirement in the future that would be great..anyways

I am suggesting an overnight trip to kovalam/ any similar tourist destinations for a group of 15 people or so on the third Saturday of next month (september). The cost of the trip to be borne by the participants. I checked the cost at a 'nice' hotel which came upto 21000 for accommodation only which would translate to approx 1500 for accommodation per person. Food may be ordered on ala carte and paid on the spot (this is only to give you all an idea and not final)

We also have to discuss the rules and regulations to abide by including privacy concerns if any like no photographs to be taken or any other concerns which can be discussed and a standard protocol can be devised

The decorum of the group has to be maintained for which a moderator can be elected from amongst the group.

Before setting out for the trip we will have to meet once informally to discuss the nitty gritties.

Hope this sounds like a good plan, I want to list my email id here however that seems to be against the rules of the site.

So requesting you to write in comments regarding your concerns and ideas which could make this work.

Please note again that this is not a booty call that I am making but a place where men can actually meet and maybe feel attracted to another man and possibly try to woo them without the fear of being beaten up!!

Sounds like fun..it sure does to me..unfortunately such a place is non existent in Kerala as of now

Let's build a safe nurturing space for ourselves..as they say..by the people...for the people...from the people!! Cheers

Do write in comments..looking forward to it

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nishanth tvm
Posted On Aug 28, 2018

its a good idea..... being a top i want pure bottom. so arrange the guys in groups like top, bottom, bi... we have to sure that guys from different groups are there. if top/bottom/bi only then the plan will be ***...

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rainman
Posted On Aug 28, 2018

Good idea..5 each of top/not/vers would be perfect isn't it..mix of age also important I think

One more thing people who are in should put it down clearly in writing in comments..I'll be the first

38 bot definitely in πŸ˜„


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Aruntripadi TVM
Posted On Aug 29, 2018

yes really good. i am 38 bottom

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softguytvm
Posted On Aug 31, 2018

good idea and I am In . I am pure botom and i can provide some transport and some drinks if neeeded

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rainman
Posted On Sep 1, 2018

πŸ‘

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danny 2310
Posted On Sep 2, 2018

Thts a good idea...........meetup needs to be confidential..........by the way 26 top here

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Sreji
Posted On Sep 3, 2018

Am in ver

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sricbeguy
Posted On Sep 5, 2018

A nice initiative guys . I have tried it here in coimbatore but all skeptical if meeting like minded guys in public . My suggestion with too many fear and doubts with g/bi curious guys is that first 6 guys meet up familiarise amongst you then you can try to pitch in your friends or acquaintances into the group so no confusion. I used to host gay meet at my house earlier when family not around . What I faced issue was if one guy gets the attention of two it’s a confusion .a moderator and rules conditions should be clear . I always fantasise these Get together for a nude bath in swimming pool , cuckold , voyeur .
All the best Trivandrum guys

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28 menlooks men
Posted On Sep 9, 2018

I am also in...i am almost top and bi also i am from ernakulam.my age is 30

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rainman
Posted On Sep 9, 2018

Hey guys..till now 7 of us have shown interest..3 tops 3 bots and 1 vers..

We wait till 15 show interest and we announce the event..what say..

This being the first event we have to live with some planning goof ups..apologies in advance

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avan
Posted On Sep 15, 2018

I too like to join, I am 47 versatile

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rainman
Posted On Sep 15, 2018

πŸ‘ Maybe we would be able to announce in a week?

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Vishal Rajasekh
Posted On Sep 16, 2018

33 versatile/ mostly bottom
I am in too
But I would suggest we choose someone as a moderator/organiser among us before we make plans
And we need someone to scout the locations in advance so we wouldn't have any problems once we are there

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vaisakh
Posted On Sep 18, 2018

Nice idea

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mysticmoon
Posted On Sep 19, 2018

i am in . iam from tvm .25 year old versatile . please let me know also

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pappubglre
Posted On Sep 20, 2018

Count me in also.29 versatile here.i can be top and bottom

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Tvm Payyan
Posted On Sep 22, 2018

Hy guys am in too
Am 20 bottom in tvm but dont have a place

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Bangkissbangban
Posted On Sep 25, 2018

I wish , but i cant afford 1500 , student here

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Anpkk
Posted On Sep 26, 2018

I'm in.......Waiting for further updation.....
I'm anup bot boy

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Yadu
Posted On Sep 30, 2018

Am also intrestd please count me

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Tvm Payyan
Posted On Oct 3, 2018

Count me in too

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coolnfunboy
Posted On Oct 5, 2018

count me in too... i m 33 ver. no anals.

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Vishal Rajasekh
Posted On Oct 12, 2018

Only planning and nothing happening?

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Sreji
Posted On Apr 20, 2019

Is this plan droped

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Jithin41
Posted On May 10, 2019

Good Add me too

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friendlymale4u
Posted On May 16, 2019

Iam also in 35 bottom kochi

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Ilovesemen
Posted On May 20, 2019

Three years before when I was in Trivandrum we were conducting such gay parties... I have attended twice which was conducted in horizon hotel. In first party i think 13 people participated. Including me only 2 bottom was there and rest 11 were top only . We two adjusted and make satisfies all of them . In second time it was little dangerous. 9 top were there and only me as bottom . It took almost 12 hours to complete the task

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friendlymale4u
Posted On Jun 3, 2019

Where r u now. Iam also bottom can v start again. Iam really intersted if i get the men of my choice. They can use me like a bitch turn after turn Iam ready to satisfy the tops and versatiles.

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urban
Posted On Dec 8, 2019

Are these parties still happening. Top, Male, Uncut, Visiting in February and into group play.

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Nobody
Posted On Mar 21, 2022

I once attended a college gay party at horizon. Loads of twinks were there.

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Vinod1548
Posted On Mar 24, 2022

Can u arrange gay party at horizon

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Bottom_cd4u
Posted On Jun 10, 2022

@7inch_guy: where is this place share the address & route map if possible. Terms and conditions pls. Any entry fees.

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JayBiJee
Posted On Jul 27, 2022

A few likeminded people from amongst us can rent an AirBnB for 1 or 2 days and share costs.
Dont have to stay overnight, but can utilise the facilities - safe and away from prying eyes when booking hotel rooms, etc.
Anyone keen on this?