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The perfect DATE


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Share it - Be it your fantasy or already had a perfect date .. Strictly about your gay dating experience (not about hook ups or seduction).. Any ideas of a perfect gay date in your perspectives

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 27, 2018

There is never a perfect date you realised it was perfect only after you reflect on it when it’s over. I am not much of a dating person, anyway when I was travelling solo to BKK I met a Israeli guy both of us decided to hang out around BKK for the next few days. We had a platonic relationship and we made a pact that we won’t keep in touch once we leave th city. It was amazing just going out with him to the bars discos and massage places and sharing our experiences. Ogling at hot hunks together and gossiping about how they would be in bed. The 4 days I spent with him was amazing. While we walked in and out of the gay districts in the patpong area a few of the guys even complemented that we make a great couple. Alas as decided we are not in touch but he will always be in my memory and our 4 days together looks surreal and a perfect date.

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Valentine84
Posted On Apr 27, 2018

@exotic1234 - nice.. But the last line is familiar to me .. Truth but surreal.. Guess 'Notting hill'.. ;)

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 27, 2018

Oh ok maybe Julia Roberts borrowed it from me 😉

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Valentine84
Posted On Apr 27, 2018

@exotic1234 - Guess u got carried too much with Julia Roberts. It's actually Hugh Grants dialogue. :p..

Back to the topic "Notting Hill" is a nice movie of a home movie night date ;)

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 27, 2018

Possible, am a huge Julia Roberts fan !!

Notting Hill - A nice movie but not my personal fav but it sure does suit the theme of your thread it’s all about a perfect date between the two lead actors from diverse backgrounds.

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279743
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

A perfect date is something which can be remembered down even after years.
Mine would be a nice candle light dinner in a get away and exotic location with nice soft music
Unwinding at my couch with some scented candles and watching a nice romantic flick (Netflix and chill :P)
Lying down watching the stars and talking anything under the starlit sky on a beach or a meadow

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Guru005
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

I have been lucky only with Hook up thus far. No short term or long term to date etc. But I do have a dream date. Look for the Brandon and Colby date night and follow up video on Andrew Chrisitan videos. Just love it. Date must be like that for me. :)

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

@Neel - Did you say EXOTIC location, then it has to be with me 😜

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Valentine84
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

@exotic - the thread about a perfect date . Guess somebody is making subtle invitations for a date ;) .. Lol

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

@valentine - Did it look subtle, I thought it was obvious.

On 2nd thoughts You can join in too we’d be the “awesome threesome” 😎😆 Almost Perfect from my eyes 👀

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Valentine84
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

@exotic - "unga boothaikku Nanga oorugaya" ? ..lol..

Fine .. I started this thread with a lot of anticipations about trips and romantic dates.. Unfortunately I am little disappointed.. While there there too many hook up stories it was a bit of a turn down for me as not many interesting dates..

I had some good dates in the past. My idea of a date is all 'D's

- Drive
- Dinner
- Drink (sometimes) or movie
- Dance (be it a dj or a nice private night)
- Diving into bed with inhibited ***.,

Fortunately my very first proper date had all of the above except for the drive since it was an accidental meet up in a place where my date partner and myself had checked in to different hotels. Atlast I moved in to his room.. We had this nice dinner and a mild drink... Can't forget the way we finished the pastry that night in the privacy of the room (I leave it to ur imagination) and that 'let yourself loosened' kind of a dance we both had and that *** sessions which where two back to back and an early morning quickie which made a complete date.. Still cherish that date of mine.,

Coming to my idea of a dream date, I have proposed a getaway to some resort to my bestie. The complete privacy and romance is something I crave for.. But we both are married and have our constraints of our respective families and so this dream date is a still a far fetched thought..

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Valentine84
Posted On Apr 28, 2018

Oops I meant to type 'uninhibited' *** but ended up wrongly.. Also 'how' became 'who' .. I hate this autocorrect feature .. At times it works crazy..

Guys post your dating experience or your expectations of a perfect date.

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263363
Posted On Apr 29, 2018

Perfect date
These two words bring back one particular moment n memory zooming back to the present. I will never forget that perfect date in my life. It was something magical that happened in my favourite destination.
This happened in 2008 during my stay in Malaysia, I was very active in PR trying to meet the right kind of a person whom I can call special. I met this guy a chef who worked in a five star resort in the beautiful island of langkawi my favourite destination. I lived just very near to this place. We were on chat for quiet sometime n most of our thoughts, ideals, choices n interests coincide. It was as if we were looking for the same thing. Being a sous chef he couldn't take off often n leave the island. And so I agreed to meet him at langkawi.
I reached langkawi n checked into a famous beach view chalet resort that had a private beach n great views at sunset. I called him to inform my arrival, we both were pretty excited. He had managed to take a day off from his boss to meet me. He was a Malaysian tamilian fair, 6.1', Good physique, great charm n smile on his face that shone bright brown eyes. He had a tattoo on his right shoulder of Shiva.
He met me that afternoon with a bouquet of white lilies n box of ferrero richer at the chalet door. It was magical when our eyes met for real. We hugged n gave a little peck.
We comfortable sat in front of the chalet on the beach n chatted for longtime n he reminded me he had made couple spa reservation at his hotel. We checked into Sheraton langkawi spa n had a romantic body rub together n shared the steam bath n Jacuzzi for a steamy session of enjoying viewing each other's bodies in nudity for first time. It was sensually enticing n stimulating seeing each other so close in a steamy setting n controlling not to touch each other. That spa session was wow......... n he promised there was more to come! As we checked out of the spa n got our selves comfortable in beach wear he blindfolded me n.drove me around the island n took me to a beach were sunsets exactly behind two small bullocks in the sea. My eyes met the beautiful sunset with sand n waves trickling thro my feet n sea breeze gently brushing my face n this guy standing besides me. Even I never impressed my wife so much. It was so romantic, he had arranged a candle night dinner in the beach with help of his chef friends. With great difficulty he put together a vegetarian course just for me using all tropical fruits n vegetables. No one had ever taken so much care n attention for me until then. I thought he was a total.stranger but he was beyond a soul mate.
We enjoyed the dinner with sparkling wine n waves trickling under our feet, we took.a stroll along the beach.until it became dark.
We headed back to our romantic little cabin by the beach where yet another surprise awaited me, the path to my cabin was strewn with flowers n candles lot until the door.I knew I was in for a sensual hot n romantic ride. Actually I should have planned something at least for him but didn't expect this kind of royal treatment n reception. So it was time for me to reciprocate my sensuality for him. The emotions just flowed magically over a romantic session that night filled loads of romantic kisses all over his body while he was losing his clothes one by one in the candle lit room. The heat inside worked wonders with sweat n nascent trickling down our bodies n it was the love lubricant rubbing against two bodies in passion. I blindfolded him n cuffed him to the bed n gave him a wild pleasure of kisses n love bites on places he loved the most. He craved to release him to feel my entire body as he pleased. After sometime I unleashed the love beast in him, he took over the role of a wild bottom, pushed me against the bed n poured some chocolate sauce all over n licking me crazy enough to *** during this foreplay, he was a wilder beast in make love to a top. He knew how to treat his man. I'm out of words to describe the most romantic night ever so far with a guy n wish that morning never came when he had to depart for his duty with a heavy heart, leaving me all nude in my bed recollection the previous days moments again n again. We met again three days in the evenings after his duty n had great island experience driving, water sports, having nude baths in the waterfalls. Wow I'm getting *** while sharing u this experience. If this is not the perfect date what else will be.

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bromance16
Posted On Apr 29, 2018

I've never had a gay date. My idea is coffee/Beer followed by candle-light Dinner, Long walk/Drive,
Sharing thoughts on mutual likes
Foreplay n Soft core fun

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twink4U
Posted On May 11, 2018

Meeting or getting picked up in a bar, clicking over drinks, nice conversations, must be followed by romantic bedroom action !!