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Has another male expressed interest in you?


Submitted by newbieforum Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

Research show at least one in ten men is gay. but I really doubt the number is this high.

So has anyone who you already know (family, relation, friends, colleague) ever expressed interest in you? have you had fun with close people?

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Bearguy
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

Yes. One of my friends from college did. He was very possessive about me and even confessed he was bi. Though he did the know much about me back then. I was very naive to understand and brushed it away. I feel bad for that now.

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Rahulsam
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

One in ten men is gay cannot be true. One in ten men would had some sort of fun with other males. In school amd college i had lip kiss with few guys. But they are straight may be bi. Had some mutual shagging with few guys who are not intersted in other intimate fun like smooch etc...

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ganram
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

The mutual or opposite *** is a natural one. Most of us were getting the first experience would be accidental and never pre planned. In female side they had sufficient infos from their mother and friends instead male side such infos never be easy and either those are manipulate are create tension due to their insufficient awareness! Moreover, most of us has many wrong infos about m2m but really this is acceptable in the point of medical too. But the doctors suggested to avoid *** *** & lips to lips kissing as most of the infections gateways are those only. Instead oral both should be clean before starts, and avoid three some etc. I got my 1st experience in my 13th age. I am a single still have limited very long term decent friends most are bottoms. They are *** my tool nicely and I *** their nipples and gently massage their beasts. The common thing in gay *** is mutual understandings, friendly behavior and never compel anyone to do things not like themselves.

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Love2
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

when I was in school and college, I remember few of my friends wanted to be close to me and would touch my thighs or butts in class. I remember in hostel one guy would always open his room door either in underwear or in towel when he already knew that I will be coming to his room for some work we had pre-planned. He would change his trouser while I used to be in his room. H also mentions once that anyone who will have *** with me will be very lucky (he meant females) as I look sexy as per him. Though I am average looking and not so sexy. One close friend in college would call me to his home to watch Blue films (***). I also stayed back at his place to give him company when his parents were away. Next morning on all occasions I observed that my underwear was wet and I had discharged . Now when I look back I realise that those guys were interested in me and I never understood.

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

1 in 10 gay - I think this might be higher in a country like India where the access to the opposite gender is limited.
The above stats probably does not include top men who usually do not identify themselves as gay. It also does not include bi s exuals. And then there are st8 men who prefer a good BJ irrespective of who gives it.
Men making passes at men is common across the world. While I was in college I used the DTC bus to commute and in a crowded bus once a while I would meet men who would rub you from behind and get a hard on. Back in those days I was not the expert I am today 😀 so I would end up getting embarrassed than excited.

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spicysouthern99
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

one of my senior colleague is very handsome with hairy body and designer stubble. i used to call him anna all the times. once he invited me to his place, when his wife went for delivery , we had good dinner and while sleeping , he comes very close to me and started touching my lips with his. then I opened my *** then game started .. we enjoyed a lot that full night ,twice ...

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Guru005
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

Well, I don't think my entries are qualified here, cos all guys whom I told or attempted to must be able to write. While I was too young at every school or college I used to search for soulmates and made one myself. It took a lot of time and maturity to understand that it could never be possible to find someone. So the bottom line is, I don't remember any one telling me about their interest, but I have expressed interest to many. Although while my high school 5 guys were sexually involved with each other and I each used to tell about another person who was interested in me. I never got a direct approach, I got laid with three of them.

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Ragu for fun
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

I think u r refering to Kindly’s scale which says only 1% is pure staright or pure bottom and the rest fall under a percentage...one in very 10 male would have fased some sort of gay situation in life....thats what its says....doesnt say that 1 in 10 are gay

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Ragu for fun
Posted On Apr 26, 2018

Sorry it’s Kinsey’s scale

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263363
Posted On Apr 29, 2018

Yes in 2008 the guy I met in Malaysia about whom I had shared in a " perfect date" thread proposed to me. He was head over heels towards me n I felt the same too. But I was already married n getting into another parallel relationship was impractical n impossible too. I didn't know if I could ever give in so much for this guy who loved me so much. If I had to commit I should give my 100% if not doesn't make sense. Hence with a heavy heart made him understand the complication n declined his proposal. I have never met another love or a person like him again. I wholeheartedly wanted him to have a dedicated person in his life who was better than me. That was the most beautiful relationship I had and a painful break up too. But I'm very happy he is settled in Australia with his life partner n both of them have adopted a girl baby. Living the life of their dreams, I still call them once in a while n will be meeting him mostly year end or next year.

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pv
Posted On Apr 30, 2018

"dress seller"
he shows me few jeans by touching first
then he completely pressed my thing with various coloured jeans..
finally he asked me to try a jean it in trial room. and had fun

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ganram
Posted On May 5, 2018

One in 10 may be high but never low. Everyone e are gay as my opinion. See most of us accidentally got our 1st experience in gay ***. After that our atmosphere, school n collage life and even our family if some one who alone due to unexpected situation like sudden death of their parents etc turn their life as a gay to come out of their loneliness. Moreover one taste 8n *** like top, bottom or versatile also their own taste n their mind settings n it never value their standard and if any one calibre those things are purely idiots. And tylhe taste on *** may also vary at any age. Some who are only as a bottom may be a top n.vice-versa. people who understands this concept never treat those people in an insulting manner

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Exotic1234
Posted On Nov 19, 2019

Two random incidences -
Incident 1 - I went with a colleague of mine for a movie at the PVR at VR Mall in Anna Nagar. I am not from that side of the city so my first time there. There were not too many people at the Que but there was a tamil hunk, great body, dark skin but nice moustache standing near the counter. I think he got an extra ticket and he wanted to sell it. He was in tracks. While buying the ticket he asked if I wanted an extra ticket to a tamil movie. I said no but he was standing so close that I could actually feel his manhood near my hands. May be not intentional but I know he had a huge meat down there. He started making more conversation and I started getting bolder and he did not object. Finally I had to get my ticket and leave coz i had a colleague waiting. We exchanged a smile when I left the counter. Later during the break I spot him at the popcorn counter and i asked if he managed to sell his ticket and he said no. I think he was wanting me to make some move and I was wanting him to give me more clues. However we went our ways. At night I was thinking maybe I should have taken the lead. Seducing straight guys or random unplanned encounters actually turn me ON much more than times when you know you are going to get ***.
Incident 2 - This happened at the Rest Room in Hotel Hyatt Regency in Mount Road. The separators do not really separate so you can basically see what you want to see. I was doing my business and in walks a super hot looking dude am not sure if he was a model or something but he was hot as a hell, about 6'2" tall, gym toned, sharp features (a better looking version of Rana Daggubatti) he was fair, hairy and I think he

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Exotic1234
Posted On Nov 19, 2019

Was from Middle East or Kashmir maybe. I was super curious and as I took a peek, I was the biggest *** I saw and I was thinking God has been kind to this hot looking guy in every department. The funny thing was he caught me looking at him. Most straight guys get a bit conscious but not this one. He took off his jeans button and the exposed his *** a bit more and was shaking it quite a bit. I realised he was teasing me, I still did not take any initiative as it was a hotel and I did not want to make a wrong move. Finally he packed himself and went over to the mirror. I went to the mirror too and we made eye contact. He started humming some tune slowly and smiled. I smiled and told him good day and left the place. As usual later that evening I was wondering if things could have been any different?

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sandynaveen
Posted On Feb 4, 2020

Instance 1: My school mate always calls me Darling, etc... v always share a very close bonding. He always refers to me as his lover , that too even before other guys and family too.
Its all sort of kidding each other and playing from childhood.

Im a hunting devil.

One night unfortunately v stayed alone together.
That's were problem started. I started seducing him , huging him badly at my peak.
He got totally irritated and scolded like anything & left. Advised never to do that again.

After few days , he started talking normal.
I thanked god

For my surprise, after a month all of sudden one day, while we are on playing ground all alone
He voluntarily started Fun with me and *** my *** in cricket ground.

After that wenever he s all alone, always fucks my ***.

Still our bond grows day by day.

Instance 2:
One of my office colleague, he s junior to me
He s young black guy with his own beauty of the age 24

He openely says that i look great, white fair, looks like this & that
He asks" y u born as Male. If ur born as female, though ur elder sure i would have loved you and married you".
He holds my hand and keep spending time around me always.

Even other few colleagues including female knows that
He has some crush on me. All use to moke him alot.

One awesome incident is
While for a team outing to movie,
He jus holded my hand throughout the movie
I felt a completeness and i donno how to Express

Since im a senior and he has great respect on me
I never approached for Fun.

Now v both shifted other companies,
He rarely ping , wen he remembers me.
That too mostly in night and wen he all alone.

As far as i guessed, he never got a lover. Else he wont have shared a such a initimate bonding with me




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Exotic1234
Posted On Feb 4, 2020

@sandynaveen - I can relate to your incident with the dark guy who seemed to have a crush on you, i used to work in Delhi and there were office cabs which used to take us and drop us. There was a Kashmiri guy in my team who used to be extremely physical always holding hands and
hugging me. We went to movies a few times and same reaction. He did mention a few times he had a GF. It used to be super confusing but in a few months I realised he was interested in girls more. I have no idea why he was so physical with me but that's what makes the human sexuality super confusing. If there was a social stigma I suspect a lot of people will cross lines atleast to experiment.