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Submitted by newbieforum Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

When u had crush on ur friend or colleague and attempted to seduce him, did u ever fail? share ur failed but unforgettable experience please.

i will start first: a few years ago i went to visit a colleague classmate whom i had big crush on. i stayed with him for a few nights. he picked me up from station and drove me to his house. he had other roommates, but each had a separate bedroom. he told i could stay in his room and share a bed with him. i got so happy, expecting some kind of intimacy. however next he took out a second blanket and said i should use a separate blanket. so i got immediately unhappy because he did not wish to share one blanket with me. while sleeping, i tried to touch his body, but he noticed it and always moved away.

the next morning, we woke up late. it was a week day, so he had to go to job. his housemates had already left home, but but somehow he decided to go to work late on that day. he got up from bed and locked himself in one housemate's room, leaving me alone in his bed. i felt a little disappointed. after some time, he returned to his room, took a shower, got ready, and left for work. i was still staying in his room for the rest of day. suddenly i smelled something special. from the smell traces, i located his changed jatti in a corner and found half-fresh wet *** on it. then i realised he must had gone to his roommate's room for a ***. what an interesting discovery.

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Sasmathu
Posted On Apr 11, 2018

I had a huge crush on my classmate at 10th std. In 11th std, since we took different groups we went to different classes. But for some reason he became very close to me only in 11th std. We spent afternoon hours together chatting about so many things. He was at his peek of his feeling and talked so much about ***. He infact invented a imaginary girl character and always spoke to me about her. Even though i knew pretty well it was an imaginary character which he is describing i acted as though i believed it- which he enjoyed. As we talked we hugged each other, holded hands etc. Of course now they call it bromance which was not known at that time. Once i decided to seduce him and have fun (remember those where days where fb, PR, grindr etc where not available). We literally had to be predatory to get the prey and during the process sometimes we used to get hurt very badly. One day, when my parents left for tirupathi, i invited him to stay with me for night. We decided to watch blue flim videos (no CDs or DVDs- those where VCP or VCR times) for the night. He came around 8 but didnt brought any videos- i was bit disappointed. Then we had food and i asked him to sleep with me in the bed. He refused and went to sleep in the floor in a mat. And I did a very foolish thing at that time. Out of desperation, i moved to his mat and laid down near him. He became very suspicious and asked me why i was not sleeping in the bed. I gave him some lame excuse and continued sleeping with him. In the mid night, thinking that he is fast asleep, i tried to touch his ***, as if i am doing it unintentionally in sleep. He suddenly caught my hand and asked " why is it i am touching his ***?" I was shocked to the core and was pretty much embarrassed. I moved back to my bed and tried sleeping. In the morning, I could see him getting up and getting dressed up to leave. I couldnt see his face, so pretended as if i am sleeping. He left without even informing me. To my shock, after he left, i realized he had actually stolen few of my video records and a foreign organizer (my uncle's gift), maybe as a punishment to my act. That was the last day of our friendship.

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Guru005
Posted On Apr 11, 2018

At college we had a lot of mallus. I was trying to hit as many and got so many. But one failed. His tall and handsome, fair and muscular build was something I always craved. He did everything to avoid. After years later I was trying to talk over WhatsApp and he insisted I tell him things Frankly. He told me, spit it out, and I told him I wanted to *** him badly. He told me I could have given him a cue back in college and we could have had very good times. Although I tried, he only did things that made me feel I'll never get him. For instance, once he was topless, I called him over to my room, he dressed up before coming down. So I never knew he'll show interest too, but after college, we were sexting and sharing nudes, he had a monster one and I really regret missing it. We planned few times, but it never happened. Once he found a young college girl and he had abundance of *** with her so he maintained a distance. Later he was in need of money, and I was not willing to give him as I know he's very bad in paying back. He told me he'll come to meet me for *** so I can pay him what he wanted, that's when I decided I must never turn back to him. Dream guy, donkey's ***, what to do, it's distant dream now.

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santVel
Posted On Apr 15, 2018

I just talk very openly about *** at funniest way. So generally guys prefer talking to me personal things and they won't take wrong as they feel I am very genuine. So I tried some str8 guys in my college life, even though they denied they did not get angry and still in touch with me.

- When I joined college newly 2 guys (they are already friends in school) always ask me to sit in middle of them and epothum enai konji kite irupanga. From that one guy started coming to our house daily for studying. One day I was *** and started rubbing my *** against him. Initially he resisted then he started hand shaking me. So I opened his but it did not erect. He told he is not m2m *** and thats why. I tried few times later also but same thing. Then I stopped moving with him. He is married having children and we are now family friends.

- While sleeping in my friend's room ( I know he is str8), I started moving in the night and it was rock hard. So I thought though he is straight he is enjoying. When my movement increased he woke up and denied. Next day he cleared me he is not into m2m. Even he is my family friend now.

- We watched pron movie and slept in our seniors home. Same thing when I moved in the I felt the rock hard for him. One of the best *** I have seen my life. I played that night with his *** lot. But he did not cumed and told he is not into m2m when he woke up. He actually having *** with a middle age and their relation ship went for years. But he helped me to get his gay classmates (in his class bunch guys openly do this during group study). In fact we use to have *** in his room but he will be watching tv in hall. I lost touch with 3 of my seniors but they are just FB friends for me.

- There is one mallu in our class room (cute soft type), guys use to tell that seniors enjoy with him. When I tried him he denied, but when I forced him he became nude infront of me. Somehow after seeing nude I did not want to proceed with him. But I doubt he is not str8.

Some how I had gud encounters with str8 guys after that also while staying in room for job. All are polite and maintained good/normal relation ship even after the incidents. I hardly seen 100% resistance towards m2m *** from any type of guys. Guys gives importance to character.

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ashish7890
Posted On Apr 19, 2018

Hi all,
I have many many experiences to share and tot will share one of them which happened to me 3 years ago. I have other incidents too but lazy to type all at once.

1. I had a very very close friend who was a model his name was sam ( not his actual name ) who did some small fashion shows and adds. Apparently, we both were working together in the same organization for almost 5 years. Almost 2-3 times i used to get him over drunk, get him sloshed and i used have my part of fun by touching his D*** kissing all over his body, smooching and so on... Lucky me all the 3 times things went well and next day this guy used to ask i just had 3 pegs and y was i so high!!. well, One of the weekends our friend invited us t Blore for a holiday for 4 days. We both traveled to Blore, met our friend and went out for drinks the same day we landed. As usual i tot this time too i am going to use the same funda by making large drink, mixing drinks ( mix vodka and whisky , mixing tequila etc ) But this time i failed :( .

 This is what happened : we hired a auto and went home, my blore friend said he will sleep on the floor and asked sam and me to sleep on the bed I as usual pretended as if i was high and so did sam.... after an hour,  sam started to snore and  i tot its my time to have fun, no sooner i put ma hand in his t shirt and kissed his neck he just gave me one push from the cot and asked what the F am i doing?? i had to act as if i am drunk and said arrea yar i tot it was a chick.. he started abusing ( maa, behen ) took his pillow and went n  slept on the floor.

The very next day when we woke it was almost 9.00am, sam said i wann leave to HYD immediately and said he is booking the ticket, my blore friend asked what happened all of a sudden?? u guys were gonna stay for 4 days!! he just gave an excuse saying i am not feeling well and should leave.. he asked me if i am coming and if he shud book ticket for me too.. 'i said but y are u doing all this?? he took me out and said "u don't know what happened last night?? i said nope i don't.. what happened last night?? he was like ok "i know what u were going to do and u know it but you are just acting as if u don't know anything"!! well, what ever said and done. "I booked my ticket and the bus is at 7.00 pm from majestic and i am going to my cousin place and see you at the bus stand. Its up to you, if want to come or no"..
I did book my ticket and go because i didn't want to make it evident. when sam left to his cousin place, ma blore friend asked me.. "what happen to sam and why he says he want to go back ??.. I said i have no idea.. then ma blore friend said, BTW, i must share this with you " last night sam had only one peg though we mixed 5 pegs for each. i asked when did this happen? he said each time i went to washroom. He dropped the drink twice and once he deliberately threw it saying he is feeling high and once he changed the glass with him .... I had no words to say.. I reached the bus stand and called him he didn't answer and sent me a message that he is already in the bus in the front seat and asked me to sit where ever i am. We didn't even say a bye nor communicated in office. with in 2 months he left the organization. And that's the end of the story
I don't regret loosing this guy, because i spent like thousands of rupees for him for his frikin lavish life ( buying clothes to food to perfumes to saloons ) so jo be hua acche k lea hua ;) ;) ..
 

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Sasmathu
Posted On Apr 19, 2018

@ashish7890 I can very much understand what you had to undergo. Yes sometimes some with respect to some relationships we need to let it go. That gives us peace. Most times straight guys can accept gay friends provided they dont hit upon them. But most straight guys would accept promiscuous gays when they hit on them. Just my experience. In my case even though i was very successful in seducing several straight guys and having fun with them in most cases the relationship eventually died.

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prayag_bottom
Posted On Feb 14, 2019

One of my college friends and I were placed in the same company. As the unit was located in Manesar we had to relocate. We rented a place where we started living together. There was only one room so we had to share one mattress to sleep. At first everything was normal.
He was very handsome tall and well built. His hairy chest and body added to his masculine look. His musky aroma always intoxicated me. Before that I didn't know what love is and how it felt like to love someone.
I hadn't spoken to him how I felt about him. Although he knew I had feelings for him. Sometimes he would see me staring at the outline of his disk from his underwear and wink ( He wore very tight briefs). I often would strip in front of me and flaunt. I knew he liked me checking him out while he changed in front of me. Sometimes I thought he was giving clear signs that he was also interested.
One evening after we came back from work we lied on bed. He was topless. I decided to make my move and I cuddled up near him. My face was on his muscular hairy chest. I was smelling the fragrance of his skin. Then someone knocked the door. Our friends had arrived and were inviting us to hangout with them. We dressed and went out.
We returned after dinner and went straight to bed. After few minutes he was sleeping (I thought he was pretending) I touched his disk which was already semi hard. I held it for a while as it grew hard in my hand. When he was fully hard I started jerking him off. At first I was slow, but some 5 minutes later I was doing it very fast( i was sure he was awake). Few minutes later he came and i licked all of it.
When he woke up next morning we didn't talk about what happened the last night. Days went by. Meanwhile my feelings for him had grown stronger, I was in love. About a month later, we were in similar situation. He was asleep. He was facing in the opposite direction.( I knew he was awake and is pretending) When i came close to him he faced upwards. I put my hand over his brief. He was semi hard. I took it out and started licking. I was impressed by the taste. It was better than I had imagined. Slowly I was *** the whole disk. Now it was fully hard. He put his hand on my hair and was caressing. I was now deepthroating him and I could hear him moan. But after sometime he pushed me away and appeared angry. I don't know why.
From the next morning he stopped talking to me. He would avoid me at work and would stay at his friends' place after work. He came home late and sometimes slept at a friend's house.
Whenever I tried to talk to him he would get angry and made me feel guilty of what I did. Even though he was in it as much I was.
I was emotionally heartbroken and it took me a long time to get over it.

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Exotic1234
Posted On Feb 14, 2019

@prayag bottom - It's such a sad thing to happen based on your story I realised the toughest thing is not being gay but it's being able to come to terms and accept your sexuality. I think your friend could not accept the fact that he was succumbing to your moves. He was probably raised in an orthodox family where *** is seen as a dirty thing and M2M *** as dirty, abnormal and unnatural. He was not confident/comfortable with his own sexuality and hence chose to stay away from you. Millions and millions of Indian men go thru this dilemma. With the 377 out of the window I see a very small change in the people's attitude however there is a long way to go. The more such stories I read the more convinced I become of the fact that Sexuality is a spectrum and there are many shades of grey between the black and white. There is a very small % of pure straight or pure gay. A lot us just fall between the spectrum.

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GunaRavi
Posted On Mar 14, 2022

My cousin stayed with us for around two years before his marriage. He used to wear only shorts, and mostly it shows his hardon with bulge. We talk about *** a lot in general, and when i happened to sleep with him few days, thought of trying him. One night, after one hour in bed, i thought he slept, and touched his semi erected rod, as soon as I touch it grown big and i never had seen such a big one.. few mins i was rubbing him, and tried to lower his shorts and inserted hands inside his jatti, my bad he woke up, and scolded me, went to sleep in floor. Morning I was not able to face him, and that was the last day we spoke as cousins. He told he didn't expect this behaviour from me, and totally avoided me. I lost a good relationship and it took a long time to come out of his thoughts. I was thinking that he will be with me forever as my well wisher, but this act made me to lose him..:( so think twice before you try to seduce someone close to you..

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bharathi
Posted On Mar 27, 2023

Let me share one of my unsuccessful story this year. Im doing my college final year and I have a friend who is studying in the my college. He used to pickup and drop me sometimes since my home is located in between my college and his home. 5 months back i visited his home for a first time. It is just an casual meet and I asked him where is your family, he said dad and mom went to an marraige function and brother has gone to gym. my frnd looks very average so i dont think anything about his brother like how he looks etc etc. my friend brought me to his brother room and played some songs in sound system. He shared his brother Wi-Fi password and I was downloading some movies. Asked about his brother he said his brother working in IT and doing work from home for the past 2 years. His brother room is arranged in such a way big desk with laptop and monitors and nice light settings. After an hour his brother has arrived and he entered in the room with full of sweat he is literally wet. Damn hot he is I could take my eyes from him. Such a hot guy. I could see his body shape since he is fully wet. He smiled and asked about me. My friend introduced me and I said hello bro, he also replied back. I still watching him. He removed his t shirt first and asked his brother to on the AC. He is standing and texting to someone in his mobile. I’m still watching his bare body, he is so hot he is having flat chest and flat stomach and looks like athelete. After sometime he started getting ready to take bath. I still watching him silently by watching my mobile. He removed his shorts and underwear and tied the towel. I could see his bulge through his white towel. he is having big banana because his bulge is very big. He went to bathroom and came after 15 mins. I still trying to scan his whole body, as soon as he came he wore and trunk type underwear and searching some thing in his wardrobe and now he is in his underwear, his underwear is kind of too fit. I got erected when watching him in underwear. His *** and his bulge man I got my precum. He wore and shorts and sleeveless and left the room the eat. He came back after half an hour and sat in an chair and texting to someone. I started making conversations to his brother like to get a job in IT what to do etc etc. he is very jovial and making fun of his brother and I too joined. When I’m leaving asked his number and insta id, gave request in front of him since his is a private account. After reaching home watched his pic and highlights in insta and imaging his body I masterbated. After that everyday started remembering his brother and sharing some reels to his brother, he is very active in insta and he put workout pics as story almost everyday. I used to say bro u look great and hot etc etc. he just send me laughing smiley. I used to ask workout tips and food tips to make some conversations. I thought of going his gym but it is far and can’t go in morning as I need to go to college. I started visiting my frnd home often. One day I went to his home when my friend is not there. I know my friend gone out and knowing that I went to his house. His brother was there and he said my friend is not there. I said I know but wanted to download new movies since Wi-Fi is there. He said come and Download as much as u can. I went to his room and sat in a chair and started the downlods. He said he is tired and going to sleep when I finish asked to inform him and go. He wore only shorts and lying in his bed and played some songs and he started sleeping. I’m watching his bare body and scanning whether he is having bulge. I litterally wanted to remove his shorts and *** his 🍌. I was thinking like what to do and how to sit in the bed rather sitting in the chair. He is kind of in half sleep as he is changing the songs often. I asked him bro can I get some water as I’m so thirsty he went and brought some snacks too. I said no but he insisted me to have. I got an idea I said some of his insta pic and told that this pic is vera level bro he said which pic I went near to his bed and sat and started showing some of his pics and told bro this is super and when u took etc etc. now I’m near to him and he is sleeping as one sided and his face is facing my side. I moved myself near to his *** area slowly. I’m silent since he is started sleeping. I’m trying to leaning myself towards his *** area to rest my body but I’m so feared to do that. Finally convinced myself and rest my body to his *** area little bit and moving me slightly as it touched his ***. He turned to started sleeping in normal position (facing ceiling) saw his *** area and it is bulged and it is an normal bulge could see his *** shape. I wanna touch barely but ☹️☹️☹️. As I don’t have that much courage was sitting simply. After sometime he got a call and woke up. He asked how long I will be there as he wants to go out. I said alimony finished bro and left the day. After that many times I tried to make a move ans still waiting for a chance but nothing is happening. He is such a hot and nice guy looks damn cute. Wanna *** him badly. Tried through insta fake id but no luck. Still don’t know how to make a move ☹️☹️ I think I never get him