Top exploring his bottom side
Hi Friends, Recently came across a few guys and posts here talking about some guys who say are Top, but want to try getting ***! Many a times many bottoms told that many tops are not Pure Tops, they just open up according to the partner they get, if a sexy TOP available, they will spread up their legs... What you guys think and have experienced about it....Do each Gay/BI feel both sides of his body to be explored and enjoyed? Just like we say each person has 'Purush' and 'Prakruti' in his body and mind. Please share your thoughts and also, if you yourself or your friends have come across such phase in your life. Reply/Post a comment
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appyarpit | Posted On Apr 9, 2018
M pure top and yes sometimes i also feel the same, i also want to experience bottom side but things never go with flow as i expected and didnt tried it..
still with one of my bottom friend i tried to *** him for the first time but yes i also want to get *** once.. |
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Dockchick | Posted On Apr 10, 2018
I also sometimes feel like to get *** top in back, but didn't tried yet, i like to *** but need to try in *** |
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Prashant Jadhav | Posted On Apr 11, 2018
“Inside every man there is a potential woman and inside every woman resides a potential man.”
― John Maxwell Taylor, Eros Ascending: The Life-Transforming Power of Sacred Sexuality
As the above words say, we can correlate to the same to the commonly used concepts by straight men i.e. top and bottom. These are the two terminologies imposed on the Gay/Bi people wrt the position during *** intercourse. Todays generation have presumed that these are the only two categories as well. And so on the dating apps meant for such people they categorize themselves as top or bottom. But we should not forget that Gay/Bi relationship is far more vast then just these two categories. Just Google and you will find so many different ways to express your love and feelings which are far way from top or bottom. These ways also include non penetrative ways of satisfying each other thereby reducing the chances of spread of STD. Straight men again tried to poke their nose and tried to give the terminologies as MSM (Men who have *** with men) or Versatile. Anyways I am here to discus something else so dont go in these details. A Gay/Bi love is again far more vast than these two more terminologies. There is also a similar counterpart in females. The same battle happening at that end too. But thats not the topic here so we will limit ourselves to gay/bi relationship and their exploring themselves as Top or Bottom.
Tops are stereotyped as masculine, taking up the male tradition of putting their *** in things, while bottoms are regarded as more feminine. So I here take some liberty and would like to amend the above phrase to Inside every Top there is a potential Bottom and inside every Bottom resides a potential Top. I hope everyone will agree to this. With the assumption of feminism in men, is treated as insults and it comes with some kind of shame (or we can call it as guilt) in the society. As such many gay/bi men are already experiencing the shame (or guilt) of being gay/bi in this heterosexual dominated world. And if the feminine traits (bottom like activities) are seen prominently, the more shame (or guilt) occurs in these minds forcing themselves to call as Tops or even in some cases Pure Tops while they still have the hidden/ unexpressed feelings and likes of bottoms. So we cannot ignore that *** based shame (or guilt) decides the responses regarding their sexual interests and practices. But I am quite sure top also must be having the curiosity as how it feels being a bottom. And same vice versa for bottoms. Also many a times Men are more constrained by what their partner is willing to do. So they change their preferences based on their partners behavior.
I have personally experienced this once while chatting with a bottom. He agreed for me to *** him as he had accepted himself as a bottom. He also offered himself to *** my ***. I being versatile suggested to him about me *** his *** He quickly replied, Wow. Will u really *** me? That will be great. I also want to get the feelings how a Top feels when he is ***. I felt so pity for him. He had this unfulfilled desire in his mind. But he cannot express himself because he came across only Top men and so called Versatile Men too. He even mentioned though he met versatile men, they didnt *** him. So he is very excited to get the experience of being top (at least for some time). But my and his bad luck we couldnt manage for place till now.
I personally feel one should come out of the top and bottom concepts and enjoy versatility. It has been scientifically proven that Versatiles enjoy better psychological health. This is attributed to greater sexual sensation seeking, lower erotophobia (fear of ***) and greater comfort with a variety of roles and activities (Trevor Hart in the book Why Is the *** Shaped Like That? Chapter Gay Male *** Role Preferences Page no 191).
Here I want to quote an interesting study reported in 2003 issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior by anthropologist Mathew McIntyre. McIntyre had 44 gay male members of Harvard Universitys gay and lesbian alumni group mail him clear photocopies of their right hand along with a completed questionnaire on their occupations, sexual roles, and other measures of interest. This procedure allowed him to investigate possible correlations between such variables with the well-known 2D:4D effect." This effect refers to the finding that the greater the difference in length between the second and fourth digits of the human handparticularly the right handthe greater the presence of prenatal androgens during fetal development leading to subsequent masculinizing characteristics. Somewhat curiously, McIntyre discovered a small but statistically significant negative correlation between 2D:4D and sexual self-label. That is to say, at least in this small sample of gay Harvard alumni, those with the more masculinized 2D:4D profile (who labeled themselves as tops) were in fact more likely to report being on the receiving end of *** intercourse (bottom) and to demonstrate more feminine attitudes in general.
Hence I feel every top should at least become bottom for some time and bottom being given a chance to become top to enjoy greater sexual comforts and variety in roles. I am sure this will spice up their sexual life and make it more pleasurable rather than turning it monogamous. Werner Herzog has rightly said Every man should pull a boat over a mountain once in his life. |
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premdadar | Posted On Apr 17, 2018
mine is reverse case. i always been a bottom.not a hardcore bottom who easily gets *** but someone who loves *** *** a lot. as i found that many tops meet only those bottoms who get ***,i adopted myself to get *** with the help of lube and all.i m still not that comfortable with getting ***.
However,since few months i m getting desires like a top guy:rimming and *** ***. i even *** a bot and enjoyed the feeling of *** deep inside is ***.I am really enjoying this change of Preference. The desire of licking and spanking *** is more than desire of *** *** now. |
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bharatj | Posted On Jun 8, 2018
I am a top. But at times when I see a handsome manly guy I have been bottom just not to miss out to be in bed with a hunk. |
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greenguy12us | Posted On Jul 8, 2018
You know what straight guys miss. They miss the blowjobs. Indian women are more like spiritual and all, they don't give proper blow jobs. Forget about rim job. I have so many married boy friends and I am their secret mistress who gives nice BJ, rim job , and love their body. They also need pampering and I give them that. They love it. Some are regulars. They call me whenever they want that. They surrender to me and let me do whatever I want. They don't get that with Thier wives. Indian women are descent and I respect that but men need more. So for healthy relation between husband and wife, good *** is a must with all activities. In western countries , women do give prostate massage to husbands as they know it's a necessity. Its a prime spot and needs to be tickled , its ultimate pleasure spot. |
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Nikitesh11 | Posted On Mar 10, 2019
I have met many tops but some of them have a secret fantasy of experiencing bottom side. Have even *** a guy claiming himself as pure top in his profile and he loved it. |
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Manly_Top | Posted On Jun 10, 2019
When I was in relationship with a top guy, we had agreed never to do *** causewe both were tops. One day, we both were too drunk and he wanted to do ***, so after arguing with him, I agreed to get ***. Well, it was kinda painful experience and I had to ask him to stop in some seconds, which means, if I'm not bottom, then I'd certainly not enjoy getting ***. But yeah, being a manly top, I'd like to stay with manly guys doesn't matter if they're top, bot, or vers... It's just my choice! |
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letsfuck | Posted On Jun 10, 2019
If i could get a dime for every pure top i have *** i would be rich. And my staple diet is straight married men who bend like a pretzel waiting for me to get inside. |
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