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Quality time - what does the term mean to you


Submitted by Pandi1980 Location: All India (All India, India)

Everyone will definitely enjoy some moments in our life.It may be silly to others.But,we enjoy doing those things.

What is meant by Quality time for you when u r alone /with G friends / with straight friends ?

We will like enjoy something when we r alone which will make us happy and we like to do something with our friends (g friends/ straight friends) which will make us to feel that this made our day

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Grabmeforfun
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

Good to be with G friends...
And especially our G friend bring another G friend in sudden and gift us for awesome threesome. Day will turn simply awesome

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263363
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

Quality time for me has many meanings!
1. Spending time with yourself first is the most important thing. How much ever may stress, troubles and worries be in this competitive world always give some quality time for yourself to feel that you are still alive, listening to your heart beat and an introspective visit is worth a million bucks. Experience the life within you.
2. Spending time in Solitude in a calm beach, or hill side or even at the comfort of your bedroom listening to your favourite melodies and totally cut off from the external world.
3. Next best is spending time with your loved ones family and friends (According to me i dont discriminate between regular and gay friends)
Quality time for me is singing my heart out, a cool shower, a good nice sleep, cooking for my loved ones all these things rejuvenates me instantly

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Rahulsam
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

I discover more about myself when i m with my friends. Its not jus gay friends for that matter. Even though i am married n spending time with my family, i go for long trips with my friends atleast every six months. This is really a quality time for me

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Pandi1980
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

I like to enjoy myself being alone and doing something.Many times I seek company to spend time with

Things which I like to do alone:

Walking on straight road (Best spot - from Cancer Institute to Anna Library, Inside IIT Madras,Guindy Industrial estate,etc..)

Listening to Illayaraja sir's Music when I feel sad or lonely

Having some healthy conversation with unknown persons while I travel (I don't take things into my mind )

Playing some puzzle games which is really tough to me

Talking over phone to my close friends once in a month or week

Like to travel a lot in bus or train whenever I feel bored without any proper destination (It happens frequently).I enjoy doing this.

Visiting temple when I feel that I am in mess,over joy,sorrow

Things which I like to do with my friends:

Long bike ride

Beach walk in night and sharing our things

Searching for best street foods

I don't know to cook :p ...Eating the dish
which my friend cooks for me ๐Ÿ˜Š

Roaming all the beautiful places with them so that I can get the memories of the person while I cross the same place alone.

Incase of G Friends, being in bed close to each other with warm hugs and talking some things which may not be relevant (we both know but we will enjoy ๐Ÿ˜‰).I don't like to dress up as soon as fun got over.I cherish the moment in bed which I explained.Either we had great fun or not, it doesn't matter.I love to do this. MY MOST LOVABLE QUALITY TIME

I differentiate regular and G friends in only one way,I think I can be myself to my G friends without hiding my feelings.Incase, A boy crosses the road while we walk on the road with our friend.If my friend is a Good friend, We can openly talk whatever we feel on seeing him to our G friend. We can't do the same with regular or straight friends.Other than this, both regular and G friends are same.

I feel my time to be quality in this way




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Valentine84
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

Quality time for me is both in my solitude or with company,

In solitude :
* A nice drive in bike on a winter night. Having something hot to drink when you stop. When I was a bachelor often I use to drive till the airport on odd timings at night when I couldn't fall asleep.
* A long drive in car with my fav playlist of songs being played.
* Grabbing an interesting book to read on a quite afternoon and ofcourse the siesta that follows
* Having a drink or two on a weekend evening while watching a happy ending movies in the privy if my bedroom and having a slow quite dinner. A mild intoxication, the quietness of the night and the 'feel good ' factor of a movie (I have no regrets in accepting that I watch fairy tales and animations mostly) and slowly retiring to bed to a good night sleep.

In company:
* Of course bike rides with a partner while humming our fav songs.
* A nice romantic dinner with a partner. It happened for me before marriage with my then crush and post marriage with my wife during honeymoon. It was set a natural resort with just an on - call waiter. I specifically chose the menu for her and that gentle night is still alive though my fate had it otherwise.
* A sensuous kiss and a cuddled sleep with your loved (that's matchless) more than any steamy ***.
* Times with my nephew. I saw him being born when I was a teenager, so it was this connect with him until all these years right from seeing him as a toddler to until this date now he is a teenager himself but I still we both play together and spend time together or even work on his school project whenever I visit my native.
* Of course time with my parents talking good old memories of childhood. Still leaning over the kitchen door while my mother cooks I keep talking incessantly of all stories(except my g escapades) on everything and anything.

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Marriedbi
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

According to my work schedule it's tough to get time in the recent past. Whenever I get time, I take a long drive in car with my favorite 80-90 songs being played , during late evening or early morning drive till pondicherry. Visiting manakular temple. I have worked for sometime in pondy,so have quite a few friends with whom I catch up in the beach and dinner in a restaurant.. Fun, laughter which makes me forget about all the stress i face.

Reading books in late nights when there is silence around me

After marriage, cooking and trying variety of dishes in the kitchen along with my wife and our most favorite romantic songs being played in the background.

With my straight friends visiting various malls, and discussing how we have turned from being a college guys to being matured enough to handle family and become responsible father's

With g friends, it's always unique feeling when u can be yourself, I don't have hold back about anyone, passers-by or the hero in the movie or what u feel in that moment being eroctic, while my friend drives nibbling is ears, hugging him from behind, holding hands and walking in the beach etc...

But the most important and wonderful time is when I spend with my partner, we both are really busy with work, irrespective of however much busy we spend atleast 30 minutes in watsapp talking/ chatting with each other, we don't have any specific topics..but still we enjoy messaging and talking to the other.. As people sweet nothing that I have felt a lot and cherish it always that's about quality time in my life

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Pandi1980
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

@ valentine84 - thanks for Ur comment my dear bro. Last but not least, which is proved by your last point.Talking with mother in kitchen, irrespective of how old we may grow ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

@ marriedbi - Thanks for your share.I too love to chat with my bestie in whatsapp.(Just 5 mins of texting will bring u an immense happiness which even cannot be attained by 2 hours of voice call - which I believe personally).On the whole, Hope u r having sweet time

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

I love the ME time so much I have always loved being with myself -
Solo Travelling to exotic locations; love it and making new friends while there is nice. I blog on travel. I submitted a few posts on my gay travel experiences even on this site.
Reading a book which I doing less of lately
Cooking - a great de-stress and eating out experimenting the top rated restaurants is something I enjoy at the same time I also trying out the street food. I also blog on food.
Gym - I don't enjoy but I like the feeling right after a good kick-*** workout. The additional attraction is all the hot cute looking guys who you meet there.
Movies & TV shows - I love watching selective Hollywood Hindi Tamil movies and yes I don't really need a company to go out for movies. I also love watching TV shows especially Ellen DeGeneres ; Criminal Minds Inspirational videos when I am in the mood.

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Exotic1234
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

One thing I terribly terribly miss is long chats with my mother over the phone and visiting her once in 6 months coz she passed away last year. No love is as unconditional as a mothers love no matter how old you get. That's a void that's going to take a long long time to fill and I do wish I could have spent more quality time with her despite all my professional commitments๐Ÿ˜ฅ

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Harshid
Posted On Apr 6, 2018

I wished to write comments on this thread since I saw this post..so many people contributed here ..I too contribute mine.
1. Travel long way in bus/train with my buddy(to whom I felt comfortable)..
2. Long bike ride - alone and with my buddy
3. Romance ( not meant ***) with my buddy
4. Spending time with kids (nephews and niece) - enjoyed mostly in that
5. Walk alone
6. Sit in window seat and travel in city bus (in Chennai specifically) .
7. Dancing in pubs(awesome feel)..I felt that moment as forget myself and live happily
8. Chit chat with like minded office buddies in ofz
9. Watching movies in theatre with my family and my buddies
10. Talk or chat with my close friends..( I don't differentiate orientation here)

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279743
Posted On Apr 7, 2018

Quality Time as per me would be a couple of things
I love my solitude and been a lone wolf since my teens. Mostly lying on my bed reading books,listening to music.
Love going to orchestras and theater(plays and musicals)
Cooking is my catharsis and I'm pretty good at it! My friends love it and many have asked me to open up my own restaurant( I'm a vegetarian )
Stargazing and astronomy. Would love going to the fields and beaches with my telescope.
Love long drives though I can't really drive.
Netflix and chill ( that's an euphimism of lets start with a movie and get into your pants :P )
I travel solo to most places. Mountains are my fav.
Temples ( Something I really miss in USA and its really close to my heart)
Hot tub and saunas
Catching up with friends and talking endlessly, a merry banter.
Making out with soft music and scented candles.
And of course Family



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Mahesh80
Posted On Apr 9, 2018

A very interesting topic!

Most of our external and internal pursuits are primarily to escape from our inner emptiness.
I love to spend a considerable time facing my inner emptiness at its face, while being in solitude. I completely cut off myself from the outside world, switch off all the gadgets, do not speak, read, listen or watch any programs. Initially it was like a hell, with practice it opened the doorways to a new fascinating dimension.
For me facing & remaining in my inner emptiness is quality time. It enhances our perception & our being; thereby enhances the quality of our doing as well. More one practices this, more our happiness doesnt depend on people outside, but on our own inner selves.
Regularly I visit natural spots & powerful energy spots, to recharge & rejuvenate myself.
I love those moments when i could clearly listen & enjoy the chirpings of birds & other sounds of nature.
I love those moments of solitude, where there is no doer, just doing alone remains.
I love those rare solitary moments when the silent whispers of the eternity is heard.
I love those rare moments of night when i wake up from the middle of my sleep to note down a new interesting insight that i got in my dream.
Even in my worldly activities i try as much as possible to do my works from that state of emptiness within.

Quality time with my friends & others:
I have interacted with thousands of people from different backgrounds, different stratas of the society & nationalities. Relationship is the mirror in which we can clearly see & understand ourselves & others as well. For me such interactions are quality time.

I love to spend some quality time with my friends & family. I love those meaningful conversations & those light hearted banters with them. I express my love for them through hugs.

Going for trekking with my friends is also my favourite hobby.

With my bestie,

Only rarely we meet hence love just being in each others presence.
I like long bike rides with him.
Love those mutual kisses.
Eating from same plate & feeding one another.
Love to lie down on each others lap & lovingly caress





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CherryBlossom
Posted On Apr 11, 2018

Quality time to me is making feel each other happy through company. Gifting,holding hands tight and walking together,cracking jokes and making other person forget worries

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intro_vert
Posted On Apr 11, 2018

This is a wonderful thread.
Quality time when I'm is a midnight train ride or a walk alone with my favourite songs playing. I really love Sunday mornings. I wake up earlier than usual, make myself a large cup of coffee and I binge watch science videos on YouTube ( huge nerd here)

With a partner, apart from ***, it's the post orgasm cuddles that I enjoy the most. To discuss ideas and dreams with a loved one is priceless!

With gay friends, it's just the usual...hanging out, eating, gossiping, teasing, harmless flirting etc.

With straight friends, I'm very professional by default. It's mostly because all of the straight friends I've had didn't share anything in common with me.