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Techniques of Painless ***


Submitted by nicebutt_fly Location: All India (All India, India)

Please share the techniques of giving Painless *** fun. Do 's and Don'ts

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Simple123
Posted On Jul 3, 2023

Sometimes it's the personality of that person you like him so much that the hole opens for him automatically which then becomes painless to get ***. 😂😂😂

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Amigo1980
Posted On Jul 3, 2023

Use lube! Lots of lube ....
Only few guys use lube ... that's the problem!
Use LOTS OF LUBE. That's more fun for both, and less pain ...

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Maturesoft
Posted On Jul 4, 2023

Wat kinda of lube .can u name it.is it available in medical

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versbot40
Posted On Jul 4, 2023

Use Lox Jelly 2% for painless *** fun

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gunarockstar
Posted On Jul 4, 2023

For all of those suggesting Lidocaine/ Lox gels..pls be aware that those are local anaesthetics.. so ull feel numb in that area temporarily. But it might pain you severely once that anaesthetic wares off. To add, many would face the side affects of skin/ body irritations by using these. These are known side effects.
Also, what is the point of using it if u don't feel the pleasure because of the numbing gel??
I would say, please go for water/ silicone based lubricants for *** *** even though they are a little expensive than Lox. There are plenty flavors available in the market. Apply it yourself or ask your partner to take their sweet time to lube up your hole and both of you can feel the experience of *** ***.

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Simple123
Posted On Jul 5, 2023

@ananymous23 if you feel gels are expensive then try castor oil it's good for any cuts and brusses as well😜

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Lover84
Posted On Jul 5, 2023

Any kind of moisturizer in proper amount is perfect. I have used it while having a *** first time.. It was very less painful sexperiance.

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whateverdude
Posted On Jul 6, 2023

I have been using aloe vera gel for the last 15 years or so. Che@p, water-soluble, doesn't bre@k c0nd0m. DON'T use any oil! Lidocaine is fine for initial an@l $ex, I guess, but not for regular use. If you use it regularly, check if there is bl00d in your st00l after an@l $ex, as you might not realize if there is any internal in.jury because lidocaine is @nesthetic in nature.

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vishal_kumar
Posted On Jul 6, 2023

Agree with @whateverdude. In a pinch aloevera gel works really well. I have used it with couple of bottoms and they were happy with it and my condom was intact, so I was happy as well.
Just read the ingredients. Avoid ones which have glycerine (it weakens condom). Glycerine is a very unique solvent, which works for both oils and water (there is a whole science behind it to read, in case u enjoy geeking out like me).
Also avoid Lidocaine where possible. Pain works as an important protective mechanism. It is like going for a boxing match but u can't feel the punches. U won't know when to stop.

Commandment for tops
1. Lube, lube and lube. There is no such thing as too much lube. Be nice and keep condoms n lube handy for your bot. Just because it does not go in your ***, does not mean u can't buy and keep it. Be a sport.
2. Finger your bottom with lube. If you have nails then cut them before and put a condom or glove on your fingers to cover sharp nail edges.
3. One finger, two finger, then three (if he can take it)
4. Let him get used to your finger, before starting your finger Bharatnatyam over his prostate
5. Light spanking can work in relaxing the ***, by focusing the attention to other area (ask first)
6. When doing doggy, make sure he is arching his back down, not up

TIPS for bottoms
1. Carry your own lube and condoms. Try different ones and carry the ones u like. Just in case yours top does not have it, can't keep it on him, or is just plain stingy. At the end of the day, it is your ***, which will take a pounding.
2. DON'T BE A GREEDY SIZE QUEEN! Just because his *** is huge, doesn't mean u need to ride it, for bragging rights. Find your comfort zone and stick to that. If what u can do is 4-5 inches, don't jump to 7-8 inches, just because big *** is available
3. It is ok not being able to bottom or take huge ***. Take what u can and enjoy the process.
4. Practice, practice, practice.
It is not only up to top to make you comfortable with a big ***. You need to practice as well (dildo, cucumber in a condom, whatever. Just don't lose it in your ***). If u haven't *** in a while, don't just be a lazy bum and try to ride a big ***.
Just like any sports activity, WARM-UP is the key to avoid injury.
5. It is not about the length, it is about the girth.
6. If u want to graduate to bigger *** then use a DILDO. Practice for couple of weeks. Once you can take it like a champ, then only hunt for a big ***. Else you would be wasting your time and his, leading to frustration.

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vishal_kumar
Posted On Jul 6, 2023

Ps - Gels I use. Durex. But there are also better and more expensive ones available. However Durex works for me. Haven't received any complaints yet. Remember cost will play a role, as u would ideally use lube generously. Do what is sustainable.

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RAJESH_BOMB
Posted On Jul 7, 2023

Lox Jelly is simple one, easily available at any medical store and reduces pain being anesthetic also inexpensive

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vishal_kumar
Posted On Jul 8, 2023

@cm_tu - In my limited experience my condom did not break. However my experience is statistically insignificant. I understand that aloevera gel has other usages, then just lube hence easier to avoid questions (which is important for some people).
Hence istead of taking chances try to find a product which is close to 100% aloe gel. For example i found this one (on Healthkart) to be 99% aloe. 1% gel base, which I am assuming is some form of geling agent, disbursed in water.


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kumar_069
Posted On Jul 8, 2023

I am writing this from a TOP's perspective. I have *** my bottom many times but he has never felt pain, rather he has enjoyed it a lot.

First, in first, foreplay is the MUST. Lemme explain my ways. Before we meet, I make sure two things that my bot to clear the bowel very well and clean-shave the hole.

The action starts with passionate kissing and nipple *** which arouses him a lot. And meanwhile, I start rubbing his hole. The kiss and *** go on for 10-15 mins and during that time I take spit on my fingertips and apply around his hole and start rubbing. After some time, I will put gentle pressure to finger his hole, and he will moan softly but he will surely enjoy as I am eating his nipples along with. Now I start licking his entire body; ears, nipples, back, belly, lower back, neck, etc.

Then I jump to his *** and start blowing, this gives him comfort and pleasure, and then start tounge-linking his hole. While licking, I play with his *** as well. This makes his hole open and makes him ready to take.

Then it's his turn, he comes down and gives a very good blowjob and licks my entire body as well. Then we go for a 69, in this he sucks me and I rim him as bad as possible. Now his body and hole would welcome me to *** him. Then I put some gel on his hole and start fingering, till this time fingering would have been very smooth.

Then comes real play, I put gel on my ***, a good amount of saliva on his hole, and go into missionary. I start putting inside, initially, he might feel a bit of pain, but just in 2-3 mins, his hole would get properly open and I can start thrusting. Now he starts enjoying and we can switch positions to doggy or on the top. This gives both of us pleasure and satisfaction.

Suggestions for bottoms would be you have to finger yourself regularly, it will help your help to adapt to the situation faster. And before actions, clean your bowel and prefer to clear all hair around (this is by choice, you may keep it as well).

Hope, all the tops can relate and find this helpful to have pleasurable *** for both. Suggestions and comments and most welcome.

And yes, do ping me for a real meet. Be happy. ❤

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Wild_bottom_23
Posted On Jul 9, 2023

Very good topic. I have few suggestions

1. Ky jelly and Patanjali turmeric Gel : After douching (cleaning ur hole to remove all *** and making sure water runs clean) use Turmeric Gel to lube ur ring and *** cavity. Finger yourself to loosen your hole. Now take ky jelly and apply to your *** cavity and ring. Repeat the process of massage. Amount of jelly or gel can be depending upon the tightness of your hole. I use excess as it helps to slide *** smoothly inside

2. Fingering by tops: Very important ... either you finger when u *** him or tell him to finger you. Encourage use of KY Jelly while getting or doing fingering. But fingering process is must for tight ***

3. Get *** to ecstasy: Deeply breath in and breath out... relax urself and take cm by cm... tell ur top to initially go damn slow.... and wola, ur *** has relaxed and now u ready to get drilled by screaming out his name

4. Second round: When he is done with first round. Use the jelly and put butt plug in ur ***. This will keep your *** loose. Then enjoy second round and repeat this for further rounds. I use butt plug

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Savy
Posted On Jul 12, 2023

Bottoms,
1. Always use condoms and lube during ***.
- If your top is not okay with condoms, then say NO.
2. Train your hole.
- Buy a lube, apply it on your hole and some on your index finger. Start rubbing the opening for some time and then push it in.
3. Take time.
- *** can be immediate but painless *** is a progressive one. Train your hole with 1 finger for a day Or two, then increase the count until you can take 4 fingers.
4. Try it yourself.
- try inserting a didlo, carrot or cucumber into your hole. Start from smaller ones and increase the size gradually.
5. Follow preparation day etiquette.
- a day before the meet clean your hole using edema or hot water. Cut your nails. Shave the hair around your hole.
6. Take deep breaths.
- don't Overthink. Don't be afraid. Take a deep breath. Live the moment. Enjoy what's happening. You are being *** by a manly top. He's enjoying your body.
7. Get it under control.
- stop when you feel pain. Then start after sometime. If you can't take his *** say NO. Use an entire bottle of lube if you need to.
8. Explore positions.
- try different positions but don't continue if you feel pain or uncomfortable. Always ready to face your guy in the eyes while he is *** you. This will make it easier.
9. Don't take creampies.
- let your guy finish off during the *** or let him spray it on your body, face or nipples. Swallowing is upto you and the risk it involves.
10. Finish off.
- if you feel his *** hitting your prostate then jerk off and finish it off else wait for your partner to *** ans then finish it off before him or in the toilet.

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Purely_Top
Posted On Jul 13, 2023

There are *** dilator kits available online. They can help you train and make your man *** wide. They are cheap too, search for "*** dilator" on Flipkart/Amazon.

Use with lube!

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Me_Stiv
Posted On Jul 13, 2023

Just curious and not sure so asking - Does the *** of a man gets wide permanently with exeess penetration, in whatever ways like dildo, fucki*g or its like *** which comes to the actual shape and does not gets wider after penetration.

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Bob69
Posted On Jul 13, 2023

@Me_Stiv From my experience, the opening comes back to normal if you pause the *** activities for a while. I used to nearly fist when I did solo *** sessions regularly but currently it's not that wide.

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cm_tu_ulatra
Posted On Jul 14, 2023

@Me_Stiv - to some extent yes, it will become wider than someone who has not done anything beside you know passing stool. But you dont need to worry unless you are into extreme fisting and stuff.

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nikitacd
Posted On Jul 22, 2023

Why avoid pain? If it doesn't pain you will not enjoy. I got *** without any gel. Initially, it pains when *** enters but after few seconds, pain goes back sit and enjoyment comes front sit.

Remember no pain no gain.

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Sunpat
Posted On Jul 22, 2023

I also got *** without gel quite a few times. Top should be careful and while entering he should take care that *** is entering rightly and gently. Once *** goes inside more than half then it is only enjoyment, initially may be but pain. That pain and enjoyment both are worth with lovely Top and mutual chemistry. However applying some proper lubrication saliva would help.

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