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How to come out of this Homosex thoughts


Submitted by KaranPune Location: Pune (Maharashtra, India)

Hi

This thread is for those who are getting into this day by day and also wants to come out of this.

What are you guys doing or just let this happen.

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RohanP
Posted On Nov 4, 2019

Try getting along with someone who has same kind of thoughts.

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Kkunal001
Posted On Nov 6, 2019

Dude .. Karan .. just accept yourself !
There is no happiness in trying to be someone you cannot be.

Your peace of mind is more important.
Ofcourse rest is an individual decision.

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MatureGuy
Posted On Nov 7, 2019

Having thoughts isn't bad, but it shouldn't affect your work or other relationships. Had the same issue years back. Just kept myself constructively occupied. Although I'm retired now and have loads of time I dont have these issues. The right person will come into your life and the unneccesary craving for *** will fade. Take care sweetheart🙂

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Partheban1989
Posted On Nov 8, 2019

Take 48 days challange
1. Don't visit *** sites, hook-up sites, stories
2. Uninstall all gay related apps from your mobile keep it clean, never install again
3. Delete all the videos in your mobile, never download again
4. Never touch your private part except for urination
5. Never think of lustrous relationship.
6. Have a plan to make new things, new routine like new game, new challenge
7. Spend your time with parents/ friend/ relation

I also want to try this, will check back you on 49th day

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vishaldev1
Posted On Nov 9, 2019

I think more than homosexual thoughts, what's troubling you is the some sort of compulsive behaviour of lusting. And if you want to to handle that I'd suggest a 12 step program. You can Google for Sexaholics Anonymous. You could Google them up and check out of it fits your bill. Their philosophy doesn't exactly acknowledge homosexuality, but might help you deal with any kind of compulsive behavior towards lust. I think it could help.

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CrazyCruiser
Posted On Apr 5, 2020

If you're seeking such kind of solutions on a website like ohmojo, you're battle is lost before your soldiers have started marching already! It's like looking for 'effective meditation techniques' on pornhub. Stupid!

Let's come to your point now: The more you want to come out of such thoughts, the more entrenched you're going to be in them. Let's understand and clarify one thing:

YOU. ARE. GAY.

Therefore you're gonna get such thoughts whether you like them or not. No amount of mind conditioning is going to help here. Because the more 'effort' you put behind doing this, the more these efforts will keep reminding you why are putting such efforts in the first place. Ergo, you will waste years of your life having unproductive thoughts instead of becoming a better person, mentally, intellectually or physically.

I would suggest, you explore some good cinema, books, articles and videos. You need to get out of your regressive thoughts more than what you think are 'bad homosexual thoughts'. I think that would help you more.

Please do not take Partheban's horrible advice. He seems to have come from Patanjali's board of dumbf*cks!