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How is gay life for married guys?


Submitted by Ĺolypop01 Location: Pune (Maharashtra, India)

I saw many guys are married and have gay life. How you manage it?

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sgpune
Posted On Sep 23, 2019

Not easy to manage. Marriage is a virtual jail.

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Sandesh_top_pun
Posted On Sep 23, 2019

In my society few months back a couple shifted to my neighborhood he was around 25 and we had only hi bye conversation in the lift one weekend I was just going through PR and showed a profile near 20m I curiosity message and to my surprise it was him then always met when his wife is out ..now his wife is pregnant and she is at her parents home we do fun at Least twice a week...it's really great ..but I have fantasy of threesome with married couple let's see where it goes if anyone here want to do threesome please inbox me

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Ĺolypop01
Posted On Sep 24, 2019

I met one married guy. He was military person. He was bisexual. Met through grinder. I asked him if he likes his *** life. He said over time if he gets bored with wife he needs excitement... So try with boys .. he gets excited with boys a lot .. great body and passionate in bed. But he had constraints of going out.

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RahulBottomPune
Posted On Sep 24, 2019

It doesn't matter if u r married or not, but the problem is most of people don't have place for this. And many of them are just doing hi hello and basic chat and never meet up. So it's frustrating !!

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easyguy
Posted On Sep 24, 2019

Yes that is the truth..but please understand that a married man needs to manage his body needs as well as his family. He needs to strike a balance. I jus look at it as another controlled addiction like cigarettes or alcohol.


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Ĺolypop01
Posted On Sep 25, 2019

Yes place and nightouts may get difficult

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top1820
Posted On Sep 25, 2019

Recently I met a bottom. We didn't do anything but it was a casual meet .. he was sad because his parents were forcing him to get married.. he was so scared of future.. he was so frustrated that finally when we were ending the topic he was like" I'll make my wife share the same *** what I'll have "
I was like why you getting married if you so much frustrated. Why waste ur life and someone else's life .. u facing so many problems think of her what will she go through if she is decent n good.
Watching *** people think cuckold is common n easy.. but in real it's hard.
I my self had a fantasy of meeting a cuckold couple but never found one 😝

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ppattygay
Posted On Sep 26, 2019

I have met couple of gay married bottoms. None of them expressed a desire of threesome. Although it sounds appealing, if a woman is ready for it I have no objections. But forcing a woman to have relations with another guy is wrong. Why the *** do you get married if you are gay.

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Ĺolypop01
Posted On Sep 27, 2019

I had $ex with guy who was married and while having $ex he was getting msgs from wife. In middle he used to reach out for phone which was turn off.
. About cuckold fantasy have never heard of anybody having it.

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dn38
Posted On Oct 4, 2019

I've a friend who's married... Father of two.. And is also in a secret relationship with another married man.
The best part about this... 10 years..still strong.. They didn't allow either of their hectic lives or their personal problems to take a toll on their relationship. Nor destroy their marriage.

Point being... If two people really do care for each other.. They will go to any lengths to make sure nothing or no one gets hurt in the process. They will find time for each other and make it work. It's not a one way traffic. They need each other when things go wrong.


It's hard to discover relationships like this... At first everything will be confusing and Frustrating. The hardest part is to let it unfold...let it mature.. Personally i feel that's the biggest litmas test.
Nowadays complaining about trivial things will eventually tarnish a relationship...its exhausting. That's exactly why there are fallouts...especially when ego comes into play.

These two dealt with it maturely and they're happy.

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Pune2016
Posted On Oct 7, 2019

Actually Gay and Bi sexual are the different sexual orientation
So some will manage some not.

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Deepluv
Posted On Jun 6, 2020

As a married man, you have to manage your dual sexual life, you have to be active on bed at home, in my case, it all started 2 years back, i started watching shemale bisexual ***, after being bored by normal ***, after several months it became, habit to me, to watch it. When you watch something like that, you become, curious about it, and want to feel it, I too wanted to feel someone body, I started visiting cruising spots,one day I met a guy near pune station loo, while he was urinating, I was trying to see his tool, he noticed that, and he approached me, it was my first experience. After which it became habit, n I regularly started visiting cruising spots, I never get attracted by seeing someone, it's just that I want to feel his piece in my ***, nothing beyond that,i want to *** his *** n got *** by him,I don't attracted to a men but their piece only whats this, does anyone have same thing likes me, being a top want to feel another piece only in ***

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Deepluv
Posted On Jun 6, 2020

Any married guy, who has same problem which I have, I am married guy who enjoys *** his wife,but also like to *** another's piece equally not beyond that, I enjoy getting *** and also enjoy *** ***, my attachment is only his piece,I can't my straight, since I enjoy *** men, and *** them, can't say myself versatile, since I don't get penetrated neither I like it, I am a top who likes only piece nothing beyond that.i am confuse.

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Dombot26
Posted On Apr 29, 2022

Many think it's straightforward with married guys but it isn't true , they want to explore more and try different things .
And you know it's safer to meet married guys as they go an extra mile to be anonymous and don't think on spending for safeties and good rooms.
Yes their number one concern is safety and anonymity , but most of the married guys are caring ( one's that I have met ) and try to spoil you. Sometimes it's not so easy for them to go with the flow in the bedroom but once they do , they are too good .
There's always an end to a relationship or a causal hookup with a married guy,so enjoy all the time with them.

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manu4u
Posted On Jul 26, 2022

The life is difficult for Married Guys....As he loves enjoying M2M, but he cannot let go his married life also, One soul trapped into dual life..
Hamesha Darr laga rehta hai, Society pressure, Gharwalo ko pata chal jayega etc.

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Rahulw22
Posted On Sep 1, 2022

I used to have se-x with married mens back then in pune.
Whn I had se-x with a married men i loved it.. As they are more into frottinng and foreplay and enjoy su:cking my boobs n treat me as wife.. So I was enjoying se:x with married men.
First time I had se:x with a married man his wife was on pregnant n went to her home for delivery. He invited me for sleepover n before that he took me out for a dinner date. He was nice guy. (We had met in grindr or pr) once home we had a nice talk. He told it has been years since he is being with a boy again.. He installed app b'coz he was going to be home alone for 3 months.
We had nice se:x he was so loving my chubby smooth body n was praising n lick:kin n sukkin. No ***.
After se:x he got call from his wife. I was in his arm n he was talking. I was moving my hands on his chest n body n listening their talk n all I felt like m his affair.. He was also running his fingers in my head while talking.. I groppe his di:ck again n he was hard again he continued talking his wife.. I started jerking him off again he signaled wait wait.. I didn't not stop n smiled.. And teased him more.. Got on him n started foreplay It was giving me kick that he s talking to her n n using him n doing all this.. I suckedd his nipples n armpits n all.. Gave him nice body to body rub n he was talking while closing eyes n he then asked her to call back n cut call n immediately grabbed me n completeed se:x and was playing wit me.. He was to call her agin n i said do it if u want third round... He then skipped but cuddle me n played with my boobs n assss n dikk n spent all night half asleep n playing with each other n in morning whn I woke up he was already had bath n was getting ready.. I pulled him n hugg n kiss n said good bye n I left home... Still so fresh memory

After that we never met again.. But I did had se:x with other married men.. They treated me well.
One of them was madly in love with me.. Was not asking for relationship but yeh always used to call after se:x date but some how i always met once to every married men I dated.. Unintentionally I was loosing intrest after first se:x
I used to feel guilty also being involved in the cheating.. And I stopped b'coz of the guilt only when I was beneath a man who was enjoying me like there is no tomorrow i saw note from his wife on cubbord saying "I love you and miss you" I felt bad somehow
I then stopped.. Just personal thinking not anything against them.. Its okay I understand body has needs.

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RangerVinay
Posted On Feb 1, 2024

Not easy to manage, not easy to find similar interest people.