This thread is for all guys who want to try being bottom. Request all experienced guys to give detailed explanation for first time bottoms. How to reduce the pain or make it pain free ? How should one bottom the first time without getting severe pain or bleeding ?
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JoeUK1978007 | Posted On Aug 13, 2019
I'm mostly into ladyboys, but the best advice is to get a but plug, and use it for a few weeks before you are *** for the first time. Also good *** play and prostrate massage (you need to relax completely. Sometimes *** size doesn't matter, but if it's a small *** for the first time it will be better and you can work your way up to bigger ***. Finally, and this is a must for your sake and your partner make sure you clean your arse out every time you receive *** - get a good *** douche bag.
I hope this helps |
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Lips4hugepoles | Posted On Aug 13, 2019
Some people swear by poppers |
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pawan_m | Posted On Aug 14, 2019
Hi all bottoms. First time it will be little painfull bcoz ur hole must be tight and it has to be loosen up. Tell top to first lubricate ur *** hole and slowly put finger in and out in *** hole. Let him make it little loose and tell him to massage ur tool also while doing so. Then slow slow let him insert ur *** first till tip. Then little further and so on but while this process let him massage ur tool at the same time.
U will also feel better and ur *** hole will loosen up slowly.
This is the way for the first bottom. And if ur *** hole is loose then after u will njoy ur *** too much like a girl or women does |
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Tender_hole | Posted On Aug 14, 2019
I was lucky I had a superb top who was experienced on handling a very tight hole like mine. He first douched me but completely cleaning my ***. Then he fingered me well first only 1 finger then 2 n then 3. All this slow with patience. Then he applied some gel/lub. Then he inserted. I was surprised n shocked to see that my super tight hole has taken his thick rod. Then he pumped me in missionary for 15 mins.
Also I seem to get again very tight even after a good ***. Every time it feels as if m a virgin. My top always say wow wat a tight hole u have. It never loosens up. Good for me n my top 😅 |
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JoeUK1978007 | Posted On Aug 14, 2019
Be very careful poppers, as far as viagra is concerned. The combination of both can lead to a cerebral hemorrhage -not the kind of experience you want when you lose your bottom virginity😊 Nevertheless, poppers are good to open you up the first time.
ps: on the subject ***, I would be happy to break someone in but I am only attracted fems CDs and t-girls who are shaved I've had a lot of experience and although my *** is 6.5 inches, I'm very slow and gentle. Hi me up |
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Lips4hugepoles | Posted On Aug 14, 2019
Pawan_m's advice is on the spot. I learnt that very late but it always reduces the pain. |
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bisxxdman | Posted On Aug 16, 2019
You can try the small bringals.wash it first with soap n water,dip it in coconut oil and then insert slowly |
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rishi_20004 | Posted On Aug 16, 2019
In my opinion instead of using brinjal one can try with a small size cucumber |
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bicurious_guy | Posted On Aug 17, 2019
You should meet a good experience top and mention your intentions , mutual understand how the *** should happen ..try an experienced old daddy tops they knw how to open your butt hole and give you the pleasure too |
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Akshay99 | Posted On Aug 18, 2019
Try first time with lots of KY jelly and with a cut ***.. *** needs to be very firm for easy slide...i lost mine to a muslim hunk thick and big....once he inserted it was heaven for 30 mins |
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venki4u | Posted On Aug 24, 2019
Never felt a cook and don't want to but some times it's OK to have dry humping or imitation *** if we like each other it's all depends wt aee u into cook or Man on top of you or you want to fell your own ***...
1 You want to explore your *** clean it take a lube and finger your self reach to your prostrate play and find out if you like it or not..
2 If u want a cook go for small vibrators with gel and condom over them control the speed and mode enjoy squeezeing them with your kegel muscles,,
3 if u want a man you can opt. For *** between thighs with lube ask for a dry humping while you are on your belly
4 if you really want to get ***.. Start wt washing.. Lubing wt xylocain hot romantic top not the wild face him look into his eyes while he rimms, fingers, and slowly inserts you always control depth with your hands on his hips add lube when required once your done go for hard wild big cooks. You take poppers and he can have viagra but never take both |
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raunchy indian | Posted On Aug 29, 2019
just clarifying- to be a 'bottom" doesn't necessarily mean *** *** since you asked “how to be a bottom first time.”. One can be a bottom and do only oral or other forms of body to body contact without receiving anally. |
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masterbot | Posted On Aug 29, 2019
@raunchy Sorry that's factually incorrect. Top = a person who penetrates bottom = someone who enjoys being penetrated. Versatile loves both.
People who indulge in body play are neither. The new word I have heard for them is ' side ' . They are not into *** ***.
But if you are not into *** *** you are neither. |
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Neeta | Posted On Aug 31, 2019
one of things I did was when I was having bath, I used soap to insert a finger. then after bath, while moisturising myself, I used the moisturizer to insert one finger, then slowly two fingers. I did this everyday. On my date, when I knew i wanted to be penetrated, I had my top use KY on his *** as well as have him use it on my hole first with one finger then with two. I tried doggy and wasnt successful, then I put a pillow under my ***, to raise my *** level and had the top go missionary. When his *** was near my hole, I tried to relax my *** muscle ( the natural.tendency for the muscles is to contract to shut the hole when a foreign object is near), so try to take deep breathes while letting it relax (almost like putting pressure when you pass stool). the Top was able to penetrate without any issues, but as soon as he was in, I asked hin to stay there without movong so that my *** muscles got adjusted ( the natural inclination of the top is to start going in and out as soon as it is in, but by letti g the *** stay in without motion helps the hole get adjusted).after that it was a smooth and blissful ride! |
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Samiraboiling | Posted On Aug 31, 2019
Ya @neeta well said... Everyone should do this exercise and u ll feel *** is the gift for us nd ll enjoy more thn any top.. U ll love that nice pain of muscle stretch when *** goes in out... U can take any size with this exercise... Any size means any.. I m eating every week one negro friend of mine he is fat *** with curve nd nice long.. It takes may be 1 minute to adjust nd everything but as soon he goes and start ... Whole night I feel wide open nd do again nd again |
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Lips4hugepoles | Posted On Aug 31, 2019
I've tried that method too. It does decrease the pain for few seconds but after sometime it starts again. I think in general, my body is very stiff and I have difficulty relaxing any muscles. Few people recommend trying poppers. |
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Outhouse | Posted On Sep 10, 2019
@Raunchy_Indian - You're wrong. Top/Bottom is only related to *** ***. |
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Tender_hole | Posted On Sep 10, 2019
@Outhouse no a bottom doesn’t not necessarily mean only getting fxcked. Even if the guy is not into Anals but if he is like the girl in the relation, meaning wants his man to hold him, Protect him, etc he’s also a bottom. N that doesn’t mean he needs to b girlish. For eg m btm. Love to have a guy to b my man in bed n otherwise. N m not at all girly. |
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masterbot | Posted On Sep 11, 2019
@tender sorry once again. That's incorrect. Top or Bottom only refers to *** ***.
Being feminine has got nothing to do with Top or Bottom. What you are talking about is Active or Passive.... And that has a whole lot of confusion by itself.
But the bottom line ( yes, I said it ) is that if you are not into *** *** then you just enjoy body play. You aren't either Top or Bottom. Just ( what the kids call it ) a SIDE... |
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Mg_123 | Posted On Sep 11, 2019
I agree with raunchy... and tender.... bottom concept can't be described in such small contours.. is a whole feeling |
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SRIKANTH_CH | Posted On Oct 16, 2019
you should be around till the time you are about to spill. breathe easy, spread your legs so that your hole is exposed. breath easy and take it in.
before you go for a ***, take the toilet spray and fill water into your hole and flush it out a couple of times. this will not only clean your hole but make it loose too. then arouse yourself till you are ready to come. stop before you come, sit on the ***, breath easy and take it in, it is genuine heaven once you start to enjoy it |
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Sidkam23 | Posted On Nov 7, 2019
Relaxing your hole is the key to perfect ***. Use plenty of lube of its your first time. Its better if the top is experienced.
My top helped me ease into it very nicely..Also missionary is better than doggy for the first time.
Once the top penetrates you let him be in you for some time,then slowly ease into strokes...its just heavenly.. letting someone the control of your arsehole and body is the best gift a bottom can give to his top..xoxo |
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Snowwhite | Posted On Dec 13, 2019
I tried *** *** many times with my bf but he wasn't able to penetrate I was feeling pain as he have a big thick *** pls suggest me with some lube |
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mastikhor | Posted On Feb 9, 2020
Fist time require an experienced Top.
the best is to take help of an experienced dady top.
There is no need to hurry..
45 Plus have more experience
more carefull
can control the penetration process.
Will be happy to help any first timer... the you enjoy your feelings of being bottom painlessly.
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mastikhor | Posted On Mar 2, 2020
HI Snowwhite
pls use KY jelly. it's a non oil.based natural washable lubricant. available in all medical store.
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Rajcute | Posted On Mar 6, 2020
I have a super tight hole. However ther r techniques of having a good analfun
1st u need to treat ur top as ur lover as someone whom u have to serve. U need to have to urge to satisfy him
My hole is very tight and after every time again it gets back to its original tightness. once inside the top really njoys my tightness to the fullest. Infact most of them feel it so good that thy ask me whether m a virgin and feel good that thy broke my seal 😅
Most of the tops finger u well bfr thy enter u. That helps a lot. Also if the top does a good rim to u it certainly helps. I go to ecstasy if a top rims me.
Also whilst getting banged if u moan scream then the top loves it. Make sounds of panting breathing heavy. Catch the bed sheet tight. With this sometimes my top goes really wild n rough and that Infact makes me in tears which some tops love.
I love the missionary position bcoz in that I can see my tops eyes with heavy lust that further charges him
Hope all this helps |
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ammy196 | Posted On Jul 3, 2020
I will suggest bottoms to take 1 glass of milk and 1 teaspoon ghee every night.
It will help to clean ur rectom and pass the potty smootly and u will feel empty |
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Kitty_CD | Posted On Dec 1, 2020
Hi everyone
Need urgent advice, Going to meet my first guy this weekend. And am not even able to insert one finger while taking bath. I am afraid, that it's going to pain like hell. Any suggestion to minimize or any workaround. |
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Uhugme21 | Posted On Dec 19, 2020
Hi, need an advice.
Can I use dildo in my *** and lubricanting it with saliva?
Also after playing with it can I *** that dildo?
Pls advice.
Sometimes I feel so *** that I like doing this nasty stuff.
Pls help. |
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Sandy2392 | Posted On Dec 30, 2020
Even this was my fantasy since young age , I tried many times to become but I was paining like hell so could not.
Guys try KY gel beleive me I tried first time with this lube without much pain |
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love4u515 | Posted On Mar 27, 2021
Hello friends. I oftenly use oil to lube my *** hole every third day n insert two fingers inside my hole.some time I use brinjals n candles lube with oil n play 8/10 mnt.But I don't have get *** before.last month I meet a top on grindr app.He was visitor.We chat n fix meeting in evening time in open forest side.He came in evening we went to forest side hug each other then he open his lowers n put my hand on his ***.wow what a hug *** that was.His *** was big 8"/3".I shake him n *** well till 10 mnt.After that he pull down my lower n make me doggy style.He wear condom lube with oil n try to insert I'm my hole his *** was big n my hole was tight.He tried 3/4 times but not success. At last he open condom n I *** him.we were sad. |
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brownd23 | Posted On Mar 9, 2022
love4u515 its the tops fault not yours. his *** needs to be erect and hard! only then he can put it in easily. if its even little limp he wont be able to put it in |
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Rohitdadaq | Posted On Mar 10, 2022
Get thinner vibrators and use it slowly ....then once u r confident go for a bigger one..ND increase the size slowly...it takes time to stretch ur hole....indian tops don't understand this at all...I'm vers ..and I learnt bottoming in brazil..where tops really care for their bots.....the tops have to be easy .....and ensure that their bot is comfortable...don't force or get forced.... |
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Rohitdadaq | Posted On Mar 10, 2022
Don't use brinjals /bottles please lol it is not hygienic and safe |
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