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Submitted by Omi24 Location: Pune (Maharashtra, India)

Hello Guys, Today I joined this community because I can no longer hold myself back. I am a beginer and haven't tried anything yet. I am from Ahmednagar, which is a city near our Pune city. I visit Pune many times for exams. Lets come to the point, I think I might be bisexual and I want to try new things like ***. But I don't know how to start, where to find people and what precautions should I take etc. If you have any suggestions, feel free to tell me, so me and others like me can start this new journey.

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funover93
Posted On Feb 10, 2019

U Shud start with getting a nice blowjob and explore ahead... See what u like... Go with the flow... Don't go for *** directly...

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silverleaf_07
Posted On Feb 10, 2019

I wud recommend you to be with good friends....at the end....our friends are always our helping hand

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Boygod
Posted On Feb 11, 2019

Don't go for anals
Just start with some soft fun

Beware of Bad people before going ahead

Be safe first

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Virgin_Versat31
Posted On Feb 12, 2019

Yes, i m also new comer, please guide us in detail.

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lingraj
Posted On Feb 12, 2019

yes..try i slowly..explore.. u will find all kind of people.. take ur time.. and njoy. *** is not must with everyone..but if it clicks..dnt hesitate to go for it

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Abbey57
Posted On Feb 16, 2019

Everyone that is new hear must understand that there is a tremendous variety in the kind of people who are up for physical intimacy with the same ***. There is variety in age, needs, boldness, physical aspects and so on. Moreover, desires, wants and likes can and do change over time with experience or opportunity. So dont pre judge anyone or even yourself. That is not the point. But it is important to follow some basic common sense guidelines. Remember, adjectives like nice, handsome, hot, decent, class etc etc are just that - adjectives - and will mean different things to different people. So saying I want a nice guy or a handsome guy means little as no guy on the other side will say he is not nice or decent or handsome. That said, I will post separately what I think we need to be careful about.

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Abbey57
Posted On Feb 16, 2019

So here are the basic guidelines, from my observations about people and their behaviour:
1. Avoid publicizing telephone number and pictures on any site straightaway unless you have the confidence and the experience to handle what may come your way. However, contact number and picture may be shared individually once you are comfortable with the other guy through exchange of basic messages.
2. If you don’t know what you want and are just experimenting, say so frankly to the other guy
3. If you are going to a new place to be intimate with someone, look around the place for hidden cameras. Keep your mobile on silent mode on the table and ask your partner to do the same to avoid being filmed or disturbed.
4. Know properly what causes AIDS and be very careful about this. Mere touching or even mutual jerking, hugging etc will not cause AIDS. But any exchange of any fluid between two bodies carries the risk of the AIDS virus being transmitted. The fluid can be saliva, blood, semen, sweat or even tear drops. If the exchange is one way, like that when one guy releases semen in another guys anus, the receiver of semen is at risk. The “penetrator” guy may also be at risk if the receiver has AIDS virus and there is some exchange from receiver to “penetrator”, like a bleeding wound through which blood reaches the body of the “penetrator”
5. AIDS virus does not survive outside the body for more than say about 20 to 30 mins. Google about this and know the risks.
6. Also Google about other diseases that can be transmitted through physical contact or closeness like contagious diseases and STD’s
7. Be prepared to endure lot of pain and continued uneasiness for a few hours if someone is penetrating you for the first few times, even with any lubricant that may be used. Google for types of lubs. It is not prudent to go for this if you are new. Also, go for it only if you are sufficiently motivated and meet a “top” who is sure to be safe as well as decent enough to stop or go slow if you say so.
8. Don’t get into any financial transactions with other guys unless you are mentally prepared to lose the entire money. If you are going for paid ***, remember that what is on offer is usually less than what is advertised or claimed.
9. Never let a stranger in your home unless you have an alibi or can otherwise deal with a situation where the stranger returns to your home to harass you and demand money.
10. Do not hold any grouse or emotion against anyone, even if the experience with him is bad. Limit your emotional damage by forgetting about it and learn to move forward. Because it takes all kinds to make this world. What comes your way may be nasty but how you respond to a nasty experience will make a difference t o you. A calm, considered and a measured response will do you long term good. Often, the ideal response is just “no response” and moving on.

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Backfront
Posted On Mar 9, 2019

Think properly twice, thrice before enjoying. This is one way. Once tested you keep on finding new and new everytime. In simple language you will be addicted because your wings are open to fly to new.

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Bi4u
Posted On Jan 6, 2020

How can I start celibacy?
How will be a life without masturbation and ***.
Some people have achieved life without masturbation and ***, what do you think?

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boobi101
Posted On Jan 6, 2020

@bi4u google about prostrate cancer

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HeadsTailsAndHo
Posted On Jan 7, 2020

@Bi4u
There is nothing in *** u can START liking or STOP doing.
It is like there is no harm being asexual. As long as you body your mind stop craving for ***, there is no point in practicing celibacy.
Often we have so much ***, that when I get an offer (like people say can I bring a bot with me, we can do 3some, or like I want to loose my virginity to you, I will do anything for u just have *** with me), I don't feel jumping with joy, inspite of my age where number of prospects have already been reduced.
Again after 3 4 days, I start craving for ***.

So the moment you feel, that u don't want to hook on grindr, pr, blued, the moment you finish watching a *** clip of 1min in 5secs, and the moment you find that this change in your sexual life is persistent, u hv achieved celibacy.

Don't run behind it, it will automatically come.
Still because of your age and health, your body will respond sexually, like getting morning wood, having nightfalls, getting hardons randomly at odd time for no reasons.
That you can control, sort of, by having Satvik food, which keeps your मन-चित्त calm. Avoid Garlic, Onion, Masoor (pulses), Meat, Egg. Use A2 milk (milk of Desi Cow) rather milk of Buffalo. Use Sendha Namak (rock salt) rather regular salt.
Moving to Satvik food is not mandatory, but it will help your body to keep your harmon activities under control.

Besides all that, masturbation is not wrong, as long as it is done on need basis, on feel basis. If your heart don't feel doing it, don't do. But your body, if healthy, will certainly produce semen and once your buckets are full that will spill out. Be ready for that and accept it as natural process.

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Posted On Aug 27, 2022

OMI
It has been 3 years.. what have your started, how are doing, what has your exploration yielded.... we are so curious.
We need an update.