Always wondered is it all sexual between gay friends but there have been instances where despite being together even over years no sexual thoughts come n you get much closer to each other. I have been lucky enough to be on such non sexual trips with gay friends exploring so much around n yes some trips were fun oriented too. But those trips were not fun related but totally different exp and remains close to heart n soul. Love to hear about such experiences from your end too. I know these experience will be more inspiring about being gay
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Valentine84 | Posted On Jan 3, 2019
Always apprehensive with gay groups cos I had the worst ever experience in choosing to go to the gay courtrallam meet. But I was so very comfortable in recent trip to Hyderabad. Though I was the only Tamil guy in the crowd which was predominantly Telugu speaking and I knew only a few chat friends in the entire gang of 24 members, I never felt out of place.
It was an eclectic mix of crowd from doctors to engineers to professors to policemen. It was a fun filled day we spent in an amusement park and it was all fun just like in college trips. There was no *** but the gay friendly crowd was an excellent company where we could unapologetically pass comments, ogling at scantily clad men in the water park rides, bird watching :p.
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bromance16 | Posted On Jan 3, 2019
I haven't experienced so far... It would be nice if someone arranges a no-*** gay-friendly meet with the ppl of this forum.
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librasub | Posted On Jan 5, 2019
It would be great to go for such a trip |
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Gayspark | Posted On Jan 8, 2019
Just wanted to share one of my very few such guilt free trips. This happened with some of good friends almost 10 years ago in Guys4men site. It was organized by an IIT professor who connected with like minded friends and all of us decided to travel to varkala beach in Kerala. He had his ancestral property between thiruvananthapuram and varkala. It was a beautiful vintage property with almost 12 rooms and typical Kerala house amidst tranquil atmosphere.
Almost 15 guys from all over south agreed to join on trip. My friend and I also joined our journey from Chennai with a gang of 6 people by train. The train journey was filled with pleasant conversations about each other's passion n how we started stories. All of them were in respectable positions n careers while I just started my careers. It was an intellectual level. Had shared each other's home cooked dinners n went to sleep.
Morning we were welcomed others who had already reached varkala station n it was like meeting old buddies it was funny we were no strangers to each other. We all greeted each other in a way as if we had known for years. I lived those vibes n every one were so excited for a 3 day rejuvenation stress free holiday.
We were welcomed to our palatial vintage property surrounded by coconut tress n calm surroundings which now started getting noisy with our chats.
We all agreed to take turns to cook for each other it was fun, we took bath in their private lake behind the property swam n enjoyed for hours in there n grew super hungry n ate all that was cooked n hit our beds. At nights we listened to old melodies n music by campfire n he had arranged for some toddy n local cuisine.
It was same routine everyday oil baths, bathing, lazing around the property, walking into the farms, eating playing cards, arm wrestling, n the most fun part was playing strip poker, truth or dare in the nights. We almost saw every single person naked n walked around too but not even a single moment if lust or sexual tensions amongst us. It was purely making fun of each other, laughing at each other's jokes n what all silly kind of games one can think of. We even played hide n seek like children. Those 3 days we became small boys. We came in and met as strangers but when we left we knew each other so well. Even after all these years still we are in contact with each other atleast 60% of us. The most surprising part is there was an occasion of family meet too. That kind of meet never happened before I guess. That was kind of respect n understanding we had as a group which is quiet rare to happen.
Some of them were professors, Doctors, lawyers , musicians n artists. |
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madras man | Posted On Jan 8, 2019
@Gayspark... it was nice reading your experience on guilt free trip. It is indeed a rare occasion to get a group of that sort. Thanks for sharing! |
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Exotic1234 | Posted On Jan 8, 2019
@gayspark - I hope your stories are true this time ! I heard stuff about you and was disappointed. |
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Valentine84 | Posted On Jan 8, 2019
Not looking for hook ups (may be I could give in to temptations :p lol) .. But yes I am going to Bangkok and pattaya this Pongal.. I know it's last minute,, but happy to meet any Ohmojo guys ;) |
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Valentine84 | Posted On Jan 12, 2019
Guilt free trip - well this is more of a guilt free massage. I planned a trip extempore to thailand and landed here yesterday in wee hours. The visa fee exemption had more tourists pouring in and atlast i had to wait for 4 hours for my immigration. And another 2 hours to reach pattaya. With long standing hours in the queue and tired after my travel i didnt want to risk any gay cruising. I was walking from my hotel to the jomtien beach and found this place "THAI BLIND MASSAGE INSTITUTE" . In a place where every other building is a massage centre this one stands out. All the masseurs here are blind. But with so much precision is their massage. Don't expect anything erptic in this place. It's a genuine Thai massage place and by far the best i ever had all these years. I was given a loose fitting pyjamas and my masseur was an aged blind man. With such a relaxing massage i was completely rejuvenated. I never knew my body was so flexible cos he really made so acrobatic stuff while i didnt feel any pain. The very very good massage came to.an end (not happy ending) exactly in one hour.
Nothing sexual but sensual relaxing massage. Make sure you guys visit this place and please don't forget to.tip off the masseurs. |
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madras man | Posted On Jan 14, 2019
@valentine84 : You had gone to the best massage place. I had been there too and it is a fine and relaxing massage done by blind masseurs.
Enjoy your stay in thailand krab ;-) |
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Valentine84 | Posted On Jan 16, 2019
Guilt free trip.. hmm.. i woudn't say guilt free but yes i have always made friends in my G circle and this trip too seem to be fruitful.. Of all of you who have heard or visited "BABYLON BANGKOK" would be in in awe about it. Yes, it was a true gay paradise. I visited in on weekend and was completely impressed. For uzbeks to mautirius, from Latinos to Latvians, BABYLON BANGKOK is one place which any gay shouldn't miss.. it was my first time in Thaliand and my visit was truly an enthusiastic one..
From dry sauna to wet sauna, from open pool to open bathrooms, from jacuzzi to private dark rooms, the "BABYLON" is a must visit place for any gay men. Though i am not an active gay cruiser i was super impressed with this pLACE.. WOW.. thAT TOWEL free zone was something like a fantasy becoming reality.. from uzbekistan to Uganda, from India to indonesia, from France to Finland, this place had everyone from every part of the world.. it 's here whre i met an malaysian indian guy.. Though i met him in an exclusive holiday regime i was always happy about his wellbeing. i would say i had a good time. On the next day we ordered food oniine and was enjoying . it is thiswhere I found an indian malaysian .. he helped me with EASY MEANS for an easier transport wihin the city.. On the next day we visited a few sightseeing and i was super excited seeing a fellow indian as a cabin crew and complaining..
Though it was guy trip and alone i was more cautious than anything else... I hope that someday she would realise it as well.. |
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Valentine84 | Posted On Jan 17, 2019
Oops.. I was completely drunk when I posted the above.. When I read it seems so incoherent.. :).. Effects of alcohol I guess.. Piece of advice : Drink in moderation guys. LOL.. ;)
Actually in Babylon Bangkok I met a Malaysian Indian. I was all alone first when I entered Babylon and quite scared too. With so many dark lanes, he was the one who helped me find the wet sauna room. Once I entered the dark sauna room, my inhibitions were out while my temptations took an upper hand. Though I didn't try any unsafe *** ***, I was enjoying all my guilty pleasures and fantasies there.
When I was out from the place I saw the same person. As he was waiting for his taxi, we took some time for a chitchat. He told me about the must see places and easy means of commute. We promised to meet up for a lunch or dinner before I head back to India.
As promised we met for a dinner and drink. We had a drink in his hotel roof top. Took some photos which had a great view of the city. From the "temple of dawn" to the chaing mai river, it was a scenic beauty. He was also explaining me a little history about Thailand. Later we took a walk to an authentic Thai restaurant. We even passed by a Hindu "MAHA MARIAMMAN TEMPLE" in Bangkok. Here again he was explaining me, the traditional Thai cuisine and their signature dishes. It was a long nice chat over the dinner about gay life, touring and a few personal stuff too. We hugged and bid bye from the hotel exchanging our FB ids.
There was nothing sexual in the acquaintance we had. This was definitely a guilty free experience. |
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Gayspark | Posted On Jan 19, 2019
@ Valentine seems you had a great guilt free trip. One thing I love about such trips is to let go off our inhibitions and taking that quality time for ourselves in solitude. Sometimes being a solitary traveller has its own benefits on our personality.
Your experience reminding me of my times in KL and Trips to Thailand for my love of indulgence n enjoying nature n beaches as it is. |
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Pandi1980 | Posted On Feb 20, 2019
It's not a trip...For my higher education, I am out of Chennai now...But whenever I come to Chennai, I will meet a friend..We will go for movies,mall,metro rounds... sometimes for our personal works too... Nothing happened sexually between us...if I stay for 10 days,we both will meet 3 times minimum... Really it's a great feel..I don't know that how long it will continue but at present I feel happy to have this person in my life...
Miss u buddy @ gayspark |
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vinayms | Posted On May 15, 2019
Nice to read your experiences Valentine. And I was initially confused with that incoherent msg but ROFLed when I came to know why.
I've had quite a few solo trips as well. Thailand is one of the favourites. I stayed in Babylon too and had quite similar experience with an NRI from Australia. I met him at those open common bathrooms. We both were bathing nude next to each other and he winked. I instantly got hard on and he was smiling. We later met for lunch. No *** happened for he was with a committed partner and I was not keen but it was a lovely experience.
Adonis massage was nice too. You get to choose the guys and they'll be shirtless while choosing. But the best of all was Tawang. Never expected to see nudity when the show started. First time I had some hands free *** :-D |
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Vineeth69 | Posted On Feb 26, 2020
i always go for gay trips with my friends..recent one was to goa from bangalore.. every alternate month or atleast every quarter there are good gay trips organised from bangalore..usually on weekends..
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Kutti26 | Posted On Jan 7, 2022
Hi everyone , I also like to go out with gay friends , I like these trips , but i didn't get any chance before ,
Please anyone organizing or knowing about these type of gay trip please inform me |
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